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No 5 ehn.... lol, I don't even pray thst for anybody. Especially people with heavy flow..
I'll just be depressed

Otutu1:
Rich like only the rich nowadays

Amd is this a problem?

Twaci:
Nothing do Eniola. She mustn't be in a gown to fit in, her outfit is okay.

I thought so too.
And really, I don't see anything wrong with Dj cuppy's outfit. It's just normal and simple.
Dj Nana too is ok naw.. it wasn't a fashion show. People tend to equal decency with "no fashion sense" these day

Number 5 is the actual and to some extent the only reason I can see.

DangotePikin:
the cute sons of our dear vc

And you had to quote everything

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Dear Parents/Guardians,

The exams are over and school is almost out for the 2016 academic year.

Your children will bring reports home this week. I know you are all really anxious for your child to do well.

What's the meaning of "doing well?"

Please do remember, amongst the children who sat for the exams, is an Artist, who doesn't need to understand Maths.

There's an Entrepreneur, who doesn't care about History or English literature.

There's a Musician, whose Chemistry marks won't matter.

There's a Sportsperson, whose physical fitness is more important than Physics.

If your child does get top marks then great. But, if he or she doesn't, please don't take away their self- confidence and dignity from them.

Tell them it's ok, it was just an exam. They are cut out for much bigger things in life.

Tell them, no matter what they score, you love them and will not judge them.

Please do this and if you do, watch your children conquer the world. One exam or a 90% marks won't take away their dreams and talent.

And please do not think that doctors and engineers are the only happy people in the world.

Be happy for them when they come home with those reports this week. Encourage them to do better. Motivate those who were not successful. There's beauty in going back and giving it another shot. Don't judge them. They expect of you, their mother, their father, most of all to understand and to still believe in them.

Failing a grade can never make your children failures. Their destinies lie locked up in far greater things.

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Jokerman:
lol... I can give you two beauties here...

Amokeme

Lemme blush small

LARRYDKING:
Wonderful

The school vacated on the 3rd of Dec, and is to resume on the 8 of January.
The session ends on the 6th of may 2017

smksean:
ending of april

Is actually may.. 1st week in may

smksean:
i guess ur talking about just public universities because im a covenant uni student and we finished first semester dec 4 second semester starts jan 7

Ended 3rd to resume 8 of jan

Mtchw

samuelson06:
The publicity may be to encourage others do same and not necessarily showing off. I know how much I have been inspired by seeing stuff like this. Definitely am not against it.

Exactly! God bless you.
The same people that criticize and call it publicity stunt are the same people that will insult those doing theirs in secrecy saying they don't help people.

Derawiz:
What the pastor has done is very good but I'm always of the opinion that if one truly wants to be blessed by such actions,he should do stuffs like this in secrecy and not as an act of fame or as publicity stunt and sadly,many of the big men of God fall victim of this small mistake

Any "publicity stunt" that blesses or helps the life of a disadvantaged is highly welcomed!

maltina:
I only have one question.................HOW DID THIS MAKE FRONT PAGE!!!!!?

Its painful to see stuff like this on the home page. More like the home page is now a joke.

I don't understand... is your room no not suppose to be on your portal immediately after the sch fee is paid? Are they bringing mattress from home too?? Hanahn.. I'm confused.

They should not come and arrest you for me o... I cannot cry

RETIREDMUMU:
**THAT SHE WILL STILL CHEAT ON YOU AND U [b]STILL SERVES AS ATM**[/b]


GAL ARE UNPREDICTABLE

Talking from experience?

Number 1 is just stupid and annoying

Davash222:
And the circle keeps going.

Rich getting married to the Rich.

is there a problem with this?

gypsey:
Business transaction, Rich people marrying Rich people. Fuvking cretins!

Why do people have a problem with this I really don't understand!

baby124:
This groom knows it's not love. She would not have married him without the money. An Iranian Lol. He better hope his mother leaves enough to provide her the life she thinks she is coming into. No son of mine better marry any woman based on my wealth. I go even tell the girl say na scam.

Her father is also a very rich man, so it's same class wedding...
So don't worry about the bold

greenermodels:
and yet you wonder why celebrity marriages don't last? ibb son,obj son ...

That's an individual problem that has nothing to do with same class marriage.
Low class marriages crash too, we just don't hear of them..

Chudichu:
This is another example of the lies nollywood told us.. A princess can't marry a poor man. Rich marry and row with the rich,birds of the same feather flock together. Hehehehe

That's how it's meant to be

Lol,

Kiady16:
Baba if person carry First Class for LASU na genius ooooo. FMS 13/14 no First Class in that faculty, not that we aren't brilliant and intelligent but we get hard drills.

Your lecturers are just sadist and wicked

Hanhan, how can you kill people you want votes from
Then who will now vote? This politicians sef he should look for another thing to say mbok

Beautiful

So, I've been wanting to address the recent drama that happened between the president of Nigeria and his wife, but didn't have time when it was still a hot topic. However, I do have some time now.


Hence, to tackle the topic: "My wife belongs to my kitchen, my living room and the other room", It will be of great value to start by giving simplified definitions of a woman, as well as, a wife.

Thus, a WOMAN is a supernatural being, in a human form, characterized by dimensional attributes, which include: a multiple personality, hidden and obvious powers, clothed with the soft covering of nature, (T.E, 2016).

While, a wife is a divinely appointed mate, who is DISCRETE with her family; a HOME KEEPER/BUILDER, a SUPPORTER, HELPER, and is SEXUALLY FAITHFUL to her husband. She is the care-taker to her nuclear family and, also, the HEART of her HOME, (T.E, 2016). Consequently, Being a care-taker leaves you incharge of your territory. You are in charge of your nuclear family members (husband and children).

Having established the two definitions above, it is very key to note that: a woman and a wife are not the sam
e in meaning (well, for this writeup). Now! Don't give me that look of "what the hell is she talking about?" well, yes! They are not same in meaning. Although, you are first a woman before you become a wife, it doesn't make them the same in meaning, at all! Some women can't handle or embrace "role play" and, if you cannot, you definitely can't function as a wife. To that end, they are best being just women. This is not to opine that, I'm exalting one over the other, not at all, one just comes with more responsibilities.

Certainly, a wife is the combination of both definitions ( I hope you now understand why I said they are not the same?). Being a care-taker leaves you incharge of your territory; you are in charge of your nuclear family members. Evidently, being a wife is more than just saying the traditional "I DO" to a man..., it goes beyond that. The problem these days is that: intending wives do not fully understand the total package of being a wife.

The PRIMARY responsibility of a wife is her husband (I'm not going to say children because you met your husband first before any child comes along), hence, he is your primary responsibility. You are his "home". You are to nurture him, cook for him (the kitchen), be his companion (the living room), and give him your body (the other room). These are your primary responsibilities as a wife and not a woman. You are a home builder, you should make the household welcoming. You are the heart of the home! Embrace it! The heart pumps blood to every part of the body including the HEAD (the husband). If the heart stops working, the head dies!

It is also worth noting that, the role of a wife is not demeaning, at all. The only reason the female gender see it as demeaning is because we often mix what is expected of a woman and a wife together. As a wife, you are only a wife to your husband, but, to every other man, you are just a woman. So anyone who is not your husband shouldn't expect you to play the WIFE role to them.

To clear the issue on ground, I personally don't see anything wrong with what the president said. He said, "MY WIFE belongs to MY kitchen, MY living room and the other room", he didn't say ALL women. He was taking about HIS wife. In essence, I don't understand why it was a big issue (probably because politics is involved), else really, I don't see anything wrong with what he said. To us, Aisha Buhari is just a woman, but to President Buhari, she is HIS WIFE and not just a woman.

Now, to the wives who saw it as being offensive, please answer these questions:
"Who is in charge of your kitchen?";
"Who is incharge of keeping your husband's company?";
"Who is he suppose to have sex with?".


Also, to the married men who were opposing what the president said ( I'd like to believe your case was born out of political sentiments), but, let me also ask you:
"Do you expect your female colleague to be incharge of your kitchen?";
"To keep you company when you are resting at home from a long day at work?";
"Or is your female colleagues responsible for warming your bed?".
Endeavor to answer these questions objectively and educate yourselves on the truth.

Now, let us be very clear, being a wife doesn't stop you from being a woman. You are a wife to your husband alone; not a wife to every man around you.
Please, to the Wives and intending wives, EMBRACE your role. It is not demeaning. In fact, it is very -far from that; it is a duty to take pride in discharging but, not all women can handle it. So, be proud of yourselves. Do not let anyone make you feel less. Do not have the mindset of competing with your husband; your home is not your office where you may have to compete with your male colleagues.

A wife and a husband both have different roles to play, just as this Quote says:
"I'm a Queen, I don't have to struggle with a kings crown.
Let him enjoy his glory while I blossom in mine. We are both made to compliment eachother"
So, embrace yours with grace.

Lastly, being a wife does not limit you in anyway. It does not stop you from achieving your set goals as a WOMAN, it does not stop you from imparting your generation. Being a wife does not stop you from doing exploits, as a WOMAN.
Remember, you are a WIFE to your husband alone but a WOMAN to the world. The expectations are different.

Cc seun Lalasticlala
Source: http://tobiezekiel..com.ng/2016/11/wife-duties-kitchen-living-room-and.html

niceprof:
The last time i checked she was dashed an oil well.I hate it when people who stumbled on wealth [b]make other hard working folks seem less human.[/b]There is no self made great man anywhere,any great man you see today,is a man who was greatly helped by God through other men.

How did she do this?

She was really pale...., just look at her palms