₦airaland Forum

Lol, the devil is playing a fast one on your destiny
Better cut all distractions and re-love her. But how do you give someone you are not yet married to your kidney

No fuel tank ke

Where are the pictures of the beautiful girls?

Margy:
In Kano, everytphing is possible ..

I swear!

KingEbukasBlog:
lol . If he wants it , he should come and collect it

we all know that will never happen

Waiting for the time covenant university will dash Don jazzy a doctorate too

Youngpo413:
is that possible with a Nigerian lady?

if you are from Nigeria, good, then let me assume you have female relatives. You can ask them, and pick your own personal judgment from there.
Ladies that keep sayimg men are cheats and all that, I have brothers and good friends who are not. So I won't bla,e them because they picked their judgment from personal experience.

hyperflex:
Why do women go at their own so easily? Is it some self-insecurities or what? That's she's living a life u don't dare live or that ur own life is nobody's biz cuz ur a nobody?? Live and let live but nooo in Nigeria its live and let die. So what if she bleached! Na today pple dey bleach. Black people don't dey bleach before them born this our generation so what?? Its annoying when pple look @ other peoples' lives and forget their own is worse. To forget ur own pain you give others sadness so they can be like you! Just take a gun n shoot them since their life dey vex u. There is a special place in hell for those who bring others down.

the bold is so correct.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]I hope you'll say the same for celebs who smoke, drink, party and spend their money on expensive things.

[b]You people don't remember we have more important issues when you criticize those ones for living their lives the way the chose to.

But now this one concerns you, so you defend. I hope you don't bleach too? Just asking.[/color][/b]

easy with the generalising thingy. I personally don't criticise them. If smoking is what any adult want for his/her life. Then that's their business. Drink yur life to death. It's yur problem. Not mine. As long as I am not directly affected by it...., they should do what ever they want.

Yieldings:
I agree. Nice write-up, op.

thank you

Stephrocks:
[b]Black ladies need to come out and speak against bleaching [/b]to help future generations. See lupita nyongo and akon they are very proud of how black they are and people praise the everyday.

Besides if they want to bleach let them consult dencia that lady na real bleaching expert you won't see any mistake from bleaching on her body.

like we don't have more pressing issues. People need to learn it's their choice and life. If you choose to destroy your skin, ehn happy birthday to you then. We have celebs that don't bleach. They are not kids, they do what they feel is right for them. Let them enjoy it. People just like to induce headaches for themselves

Maybe just sperm

What's happening with her brows

sabiguy:
If I never shine congo, then what's the essence of dating and calling ourselves bf/gf...?

Must a relationship be about sex How about helping eachother grow mentally or career wise?

They are all fine. Especially the last picture

Gender equality means different thing to different people expecially here in Nigeria. Now, let me point out that, the HOME and work place are Two different entity entirely.people mix these two things up when ever they hear "gender equality" and this is one of the problems.
I don't support gender equality(a man being equal to a woman in the home setting) no I don't, I'm not a man, and I can never be one. A Queen has her duties, and place in the kingdom. And in that Kingdom, the role of a king and a queen are not the same, even though the common interest is to make the kingdom progress. So in the HOME setting, it's a big NO for gender equality.

Now, the WORK environment; I think the right words to use here should be "equal opportunity" irrespective of the gender.
When in the working environment, everyone should be Objective and not subjective. Man is the head of HIS HOME not someone's WORKING ENVIRONMENT. whoever is qualified for a job shoild be given. Look at it like this, a man and a woman are both aiming to be a professor, the woman has her Bcs, Msc and a PHd, while the man has just Bcs. Should I now consider the man's application because he is a MAN? NO! It doesn't work that way. There are protocols to be followed, the work environment is not like the home which has alrdy been programmed.
In the work environment, you are not made the head simply because you are a man. No, go and head your Home and spare the working environment. If you feel you are too big to be under a woman's supervision then simply resign, and work on improving your CV to be higher than the female boss. And if she happens to be the owner of the establishment, then resign and open yours if it's easy.
The thing is the family as one of the social institutions we have to me is the strongest. Because the family has a way of molding the minds of its members. You can't grow up in a house where we have the mother totally depending on her husband for every little thing and think the children won't follow suit. It takes a whole lot of personal decision to break out of whatever family induction a child receives.

What I'm saying is this, you don't get things handed over to you because of your gender. the blending of nature with gender is what we call EQUITY! And if there is anything for the female gender to even fight for it should be "equity" and there is a law that protects that, so really I don't think we have any struggle as regards "gender equality" because most of the flag flyers don't even know what it entails.
If you can't handle the success of a woman then please, don't call yourself a MAN, the word MAN is a strong hold, don't rubbish it because of your insecurities and low self esteem.

skywalker240:
Then u misunderstood the drill.....



ANY MAN WHO TRULY LOVES U WONT WANT TO SEE UR DOWNFALL,,.WEAKLING OR WHATEVER.

And I already know about the caps lock, and that's why I said they are weakling. You are either a real man or a weakling. There is no "whatever" in between

skywalker240:
Now i understand


U ARE DRIVING @ SUCESS, AND UR MAN GETS JEALOUS U ARE SUCESSFUL RIGHT?

jealous or tries to pull you down because of his esteem issues

I was within that area when it happened. I just thank God. But no tanker was offloading fuel na.. The fire started from the ground. This kin eye witness sef

MisterGrace:
With wify, maybe not so bad. But with friends, so so bad to share with friends. As a matter of fact, a so called friend of mine who happens to be my colleague in the office is trying everything to paint me bad or maybe have me sacked simply because of 30K difference in our monthly take home pay.

I have over 5 years experience before I joined the Organization and he's got only 7 months experience. Once he found out how much I was going get as monthly take home pay, he became so jealous that he stopped talking to me, he won't even wait on me for us to catch the bus together anymore.

He's all out to tarnish my image.

I don't know the satisfaction he will get if I loss the job.

But he will surely fail.

he is not your FRIEND he is just your colleague learn to know the difference

enairaprof:
Many atimes we unknowingly affect others response to us. When you tell a family member your salary, you may become the Father Christmas or have your money being planned by them. Sometimes, when we tell our friends they may get jealous or have a feeling of inferiority/superiority complex. So, I ask will you share your salary information with your family/friends? What are your reasons for your decisions?

no big deal, depends on the kind of people you have around you.

ItsMeAboki:
How many state governments can afford to fly their secondary school kids or officials by air on state assignments, in fact pls list the states who sponsored their students to that competition in Lagos by air.






It sometimes pays to think before jumping to conclusion.
Government was intervening only to assist because corpses decompose quickly especially in this heat than live beings.
Secondly, Muslims need to bury their dead as soon as possible, without any fuss or delay; hence the urgency to airlift them back home for burial.
Shey you understand?

Are yu kidding me or are my eyes playing tricks on me abi what did I just read?
Are you justifying this And did you just say "government was intervening to assist" were the student not going to represent the STATE? The government should be fully responsible for them!
Anyways, is not the government I blame, is the parents.

nigeriancritic1:
They couldn't afford to fly them to Lagos but they could afford to fly their dead bodies. Governance with compassion is what we need.

my thoughts exactly. How can students travel by road all the way to lagos to represent the state (A whole state ) I wouldn't allow my child if I were to be any of the students parent. This is just annoying!

That way there is less drama. Conversations are not misunderstood. And it makes life easy

gabinogem:
Ur post is filled with hate while covering it up with "weakling men & religious sentiments".

My advice, change ur ideology about life, it will do much good.

hate?? Are you kidding me?
Lol, where do people reason from Anyways, your opinion, air it as you please.. you are entitled to it

firstking01:
Are you an atheist or what??,,,you are ronald4life i supposed??

he obviously is, reason why I didn't bother explaining further

skywalker240:
But it is possible to wish they were..




Cos clearly, even if she is ready to,. no sane man will be willing to put up with such.

And pls stop viewing most men as weakling when u dont really know his true potentials.

what potentials? My defination of weakling is not a broke guy sir. A man can have all the money in the world and still be a weakling. Read the post carefully you will understand my definition of a weakling

KingEbukasBlog:
... u home ?

since since naw... no time

gabinogem:
based on ur write up, is it a crime for a strong woman to support or encourage a weakling? And if I may ask, what's ur definition of a "weakling" man?

read the post again, you will get my defination

ronald4ever:
You sure reserve the permission to write what you feel just like I also have the right to air my opinion.

I made no categorisation. I'm saying that your message would have been more logical without the evangelical imbuing and religious coloration. What's the correlation between a strong-willed, independent and goal driven woman with God this and God that in your message?

ok

ronald4ever:
You were being sagacious and lucid until you deviated from deductive reasoning to pious and evangelism. Your message would have been more grounded had you not given it religious coloration. I fail to see the nexus between being a strong independent woman and the zealous preaching of your message.

it is my write up and I think I'm permitted to write what I feel and not what ronald4ever expects you did the categorising not me

gabinogem:
I laugh in swahili while perceiving a broken heart.

you know, every post doesn't have to relate to the OP's personal life. Sometimes, you write things to inspire and encourage people.. you don't have to experience a thing directly to inspire someone (tho experiencing it directly is a plus as it gives you the opportunity to know exactly how whoever might be in the situation you are talking about feels).
So while I thank God for your "perceiving ability" I think you should channel it unto positivity

halfricanadian:
If you want to love me first love God
Nice write up op

thank you