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ursullalinda:
Hmmmm......No......i guess I'm an ambivert......Can socialise.......hardly go out unless it's very necessary......but can be in doors for a month and be ok with it.

i see. I am an introvert; love being indoors and keeping to myself. I get easily bored of social gathering and i hate to admit it, i'm a little shy in public. But i have recently decided to become more extroverted, meet new people and socialize more. Do you happen to have any tips that might help me achieve that easily?

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Romanoff:
A born again Christian doesn't need deliverance as long as they are in right standing with God and their repentance is genuine and they didn't go back to their vomit.

The blood of Jesus cleanses and delivers.

Hi Romanoff. Perhaps you should first consider the meaning, essence and significance of "deliverance" and then see if there could be any circumstance that would warrant a "born again" christian needing deliverance. How was church today?

Dtruthspeaker:
Yes and True and All Creators in Discharge of this Duty, Specify and Instruct how the creation should be properly utilised Safely and Eternally through their "Instruction Manual" going as Far as Providing Scheduled and Periodic Maintenance with Them.

Thus, Creators have Discharged this Duty and Obligations.

Therefore, the Burden of Obligation has been Completely and Absolutely Transferred to the creation who has the Duty to Work Within Designated Limits As Specified by the creator while going for Periodic and Scheduled Maintenance As Specified by the Creator, if they want to last Forever!

@ the underlined statement, it seems you are contradicting yourself.
perhaps you should use the existence and survival of a specific creation to explain your idea more clearly and logical (i prefer that you use a non-human creation for this, a goat or a palm tree for example)

ursullalinda:
Wen I no even dey face book......social media life no be for mua.

are you an introvert?

Dtruthspeaker:
Not possible!

Every creation requires maintenance at a certain point or period of time in the course of its life, else It Must Pack Up And Die And Can not Continue Eternally!

in that case, it is the duty and responsibility of the creator to carry out maintenance operations on his/her/its creation at the appropriate time. And also, whatever fault the creation develops should be blamed ENTIRELY on the creator.

2elliot:
Have you found out if those animals are going against their natural orders or not? Do those animals have intercourse at a very young immature age? If sex is just sex, why don't they have sex just however they want, why is their a pattern? Why do some animals wait till a certain period of time to have sex? why is heat period defined? Why are certain unique behaviours observed around animal sex?

it's like you've never witnessed an adult cockerel chasing after a rather young chick or a very young he-goat attempting to have sex with its mother.
besides, the other animals simply lack the intellectual capacity to think and come up with creative and innovative ways of having sex that's different from the "natural order". As humans, we have the advantage of doing that.

Juliearth:
Oh, how interesting! Would you like us to put that to test? Like you having carnal knowledge of a woman with spirit husband. Let's see how that would pan out.

which one is spirit husband? Abeg a no geh time for such superstitious rubbish jor.
but on a second thought, if you are the woman with the spirit husband, make we fix time and venue for me to come and have your carnal (and even anal) knowledge. Nothing go do me. Na you go just geh belle.

Mitch99:
Okay. I see why you compare yourself to lesser animals because you walk around without cloths as well and don’t know you’re right from wrong. Just minding my business wiseone

the only special thing about humans is our intellect (which has enabled us to do a whole lot of amazing as well as ridiculous things). In other areas, you are essentially just like the other animals: you are born, you feed, you grow, you have sex (for pleasure or to reproduce) and eventually you die - just like an ant, a chicken, a goat or a monkey does.
be humble and don't see yourself to be that special, because you are not!

Dtruthspeaker:
No creation can survive without its Creator!

What if the creation is created with the ability and capacity to "survive" without (the intervention of) the creator?

All i know is that religion is man-made.

Rehdasignature1:
STRICTLY BASED ON BELIEF (B.O.B).
WHATEVER YOU TIE YOUR HEART TO BECOMES WHAT YOU BECOME. I FEEL IT'S STILL ONE OF OUR OF AFRICAN WAYS.

However, whatever you "tie your heart to" will not change the OBJECTIVE reality; it will only change your SUBJECTIVE perception of reality.

Juliearth:
You mean do people inherit good luck from fornication and adultery? Is it possible to attract good luck from sin?

in your post i previously quoted, you simply said people inherit (the appropriate word is incur) bad luck through sex. You didn't make it clear you were talking about immoral sex (fornication or adultery).
but the truth really is that regardless of the kind of sex you engage in, you don't incur any sort of luck (bad or good). The idea that there is something spiritual about sex is superstitious and unfounded.

Chebs212:
But many have found true love through social media,.

how did u come to this conclusion? You don do research?

ursullalinda:
Hahaha......as in eh.......My own worse pass

mine is the "worstest". Have no twitter or instagram account. I simply don't see the need for it.

pocohantas:
Leave am. When marriage sweet, na to dey do marriage counseling. If e crash, e go turn philosopher or red piller.

I wish they the best.

The mods are so mischievous. Why add “newly married”?

isn't he newly married? I guess you're the one being mischievous in your thought.

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doggedfighter:
Over thirty mentions all saying balderdash using religion or village hearsay .

Many saying I am on a mission. Hahahahahahaha

Why's difficult for Nairalanders to believe a woman can think like I do.
Beats me !
And it hurts.
palmshots, maybe you will tell me why.

Good morning !

a typical african/nigerian woman is weak in rigorous logical thinking and is therefore easily enslaved by many unfounded and ridiculous religious and superstitious beliefs. You, on the other hand, seem to have "doggedly fought" for your mental emancipation. Congratulations!

Juliearth:
That of the pastor may be a fable. Not that he is a liar, but such stories (fables) are told to drive home a lesson....And yes, people (both gender) inherit bad luck through sex.

in that case, do people also INHERIT good luck through sex?

Smitharo:
Hmmm.. so wots ur suggestion?

the solution is simple really. We just need two basic things: stable electricity and availability of charging stations for electric cars all around the country.

Smitharo:
Lol.. den na to ship d car wit special power bank enta naija oo if nt it's useless oo.

unfortunately, it doesn't seem feasible that a 'power bank' can be made for the VERY HUGE and powerful batteries that electric cars use.

kaludestiny10:
With the invent of electric cars, what is going to be the faith of our automobile mechanics?

they need to upgrade themselves to mechatronics or electromechanics. Actually, a more important question you should ask is: what is going to be the fate of a country like nigeria whose economy is greatly dependent on the export of crude oil?

Smitharo:
Na to carry generator join body travel oo to avoid story dat touch.

using a generator to charge an ELECTRIC car would be a fulish solution; you will in effect be doing the exact thing the innovation of electric car is meant to stop (the use of fossil fuel)

sapphiere:
Why are you saying so?

because of your "the future is female" slogan. Such a feministic orientation will most probably make you disrespectful to your husband, and that will cause problems in your marriage.
mind you, i'm only speculating.

Romanoff:
Well, me I will always present it from the Christian angle. If you are not fornicating and you are dating for marriage, there's nothing wrong with getting to know other people.

The moment you've decided this is the person I'd like to marry, that's when courtship starts.

I see relationship as friendship. You can't court someone you're not friends with, abi?

I love this your answer; it's brilliant! I'm convinced you must have really learned a lot to have this kind of intelligent opinion. More importantly, I feel I can have sensible and gainful discussions with you on relationship (and marital) matters. I will be chatting you up from time to time. Thanks for your time and bye for now.

Romanoff:
No. Relationship isn't the same as marital matter.

As per sharing what I've learned, it's on a case by case basis.

I guess for now we should just agree to disagree on our difference about whether or not relationship should be regarded as a marital matter (na very trivial matter anyway). I'm sure there are more important and perhaps interesting issues we can argue about.
So here is the first "case" i need your knowledge on:
Should a guy or lady be in more than one relationships at a time? what are the pros and/or cons of doing so?

Romanoff:
Thank God I've learned enough and I'm hoping to learn more.

And marital matters are not the topic here but relationship.

Technically, relationship can still be classified as a marital matter.
About you learning enough, do you mind sharing some of your knowledge with me then (i'm serious)?

LadySarah:
It shoukd be strictly for Citizens.

then it will not be an INTERNATIONAL COMPETITION it is intended to be. But there is a sport we're almost the best at internationally in nigeria too: it called CORRUPTION

Romanoff:
My dear na from experience and poor choices of mine, friends and people around me, na him I use wise up o.

Believe you me, you can never "wise up" enough when it comes to marital matters. The sorts of issues that can crop up during relationship or in marriage are manifold and dynamic!

sapphiere:
I celebrate with them and I pray for everybody believing God for a life partner, (using myself as a point of contact). I degree this year is our year IJN Amen.

Pardon my assumption, but u don't seem like someone who will make a good wife.

orohbiro:
I use to think is anfield theatre.

it's actually "amphitheater". Look it up in your dico.