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strangest: The fact that she is confined to a house does not mean that she doesn't have access to good medical treatment... Taking her to a decent health facility doesn't mean that she won't be confined to a house... Yaba Left occupants are they not confined to a house?

Nonsensical logic here. It's people like you just like Clara's brother that will take money and turn a blind eye to the truth. Chauvinistic hypocrite!

It' just really sad that some people can justify the act of the governor. It really sad that at this day and age, we are still a chauvinistic country. It doesn't end at chauvinism, but illegal confinement and emotional abuse all because the other party has the money and power to do whatever he chooses to and go scot free.

Yeah she married him. I'm sure if she had an inkling to what her future would be like, she wouldn't marry him. Since she's realized her mistake and in the process now knows that money isn't everything, she should be allowed to go in peace. All these is enough to drive someone insane.

The man is just a split image of obasanjo. paternity can never be denied if it comes to it.

Wish them both a happy married life.

Raymondenyi: No naaa!!! Y u dey talk likkke say guy never toast u b4! Sometimes U myt just wanna woo a lady, n u feel their normal 1st time "I don't care" is routine n U myt continue!!!
If I were to be her! I would hv just keppt mmute n say nothing to him, I wnt even look @ him!... That act alone will mek him quite! N stop ... Instead of trying to embarras a sharpppp guy in public....

Hope U re not like dat oh!

Why do some guys feel like persistence is the key that gets the lady? My respects goes to any guy that walks out with his head held high if he asks a girl out and the girl says no. The more you pester the more irritating it becomes to the girl.

Qsscruz: That's the problem with our girls.. U won chop come see food dy form..

The guy just met me there.

Ijawboi: So today, 8th of November 2013, I cari one of my bbm contacts go out, as we reach d eatery (mr biggs), I com ask dis manchi say make she order. Nai dis girl order fried rice, chicken and salad. As dem put d food 4 tray give am, dis girl lick her finger, touch d salad, com say make dem go warm am, say e 2 cold. Na so my new tecno phone drop 4 my hand, i bend down pick am, d waitress com ask her again wetin she talk, d bitch repeated it. * can you please put the salad in the microwave, its too cold*. I swear i come dey pray make dem com rob d place at dat moment, I no fit talk. The waitress com beg her say make she manage am say d microwave don blow, d local girl 1 com start to create scene, na i ask d doorguy where dem bathroom dey, I find way sneak out, enter my car, reach house, block and delete the girl for bbm.

Shame wan kill me..

Lol! You nor notice say nah local babe all these while wey una dey chat?

My friend's boyfriend owned a bar, so I and my friend sometimes hung out around there. One day, I was sitting alone in the bar when some dude came up to me and started toasting me and I told him point blank I wasn't interested. In front of people at the bar he just blurted

"You're not even fine sef and you are forming"
It really got to me. I had to walk out of there fast.

Truth is, anywhere you look for dirt, you'll find it. Many people who the minister blocked their lootery of Nigeria are desperately looking for dirt on this woman to get her out of the way for them to continue their thievery.

Funny all they could find were cars which an agency under her ministry purchased. This just means to me that this woman is as clean as a whistle.

Try harder enemies of Nigeria! This woman isn't going anywhere!!!

This is really impressive! Na small small, we will surely get there.



One love nigeria!!!

People must indeed be blind if they can't see that all these is a SETUP. Someone somewhere wants this woman out of the way. This is not normal anymore. the attack, the allegations e.t.c!!!

We as citizens of this country should sometimes learn to think for ourselves. Someone comes up with allegations, and the next thing we are calling for a person's head. A wise person should always look at both side of the coin before making a decision.

This was what happened to that Amigos/ wonderland owner. I knew something smelt fishy with that sudden allegations of terrorism. Hezebollah my A**! It didn't take me a while to figure out that the guy stepped on the wrong toe and got himself destroyed. Where did our supposed investigation lead to. Every thing just ended just like that. Now wonderland the best amusement park in abuja is shut down and so also is amigos supermarket.

Or are we talking about the allegation Okonjo Iweala got for being a tribalist? How they almost ruined her career? Or is it Barth Nnaji?

Let's be people that think for ourselves before joining any bandwagon.

Give us the full details.

Who scammed you?

How much were you scammed of?

All these pictorials are not giving a clear picture.

2. We've even slept on the same bed.

screenagerjoe: buh u said u7 spent d whole day talkin what else u want again . do am as before

Lol! True! You can rehash all those things you spent all day talking to her about. You can stretch it as far as it could go.

Nope! Not a word from either of them. She kept accusing me of 'doing it' when I didn't know what doing it was! Very paranoid! My mum.
Well, everything I know now I knew through books and experience. Everything!

Hmm.

I really don't get it when guys become so vain, they need the approval of others. Isn't it like a woman thing?

If you hook up with every guy you have a first date with (whether or not a relationship later occurs) wouldn't that make you a sl.ut or something?

Naturally, if you sleep with a guy on the first date, he assumes that's what you do with every other guy, and no matter how awesome you are, he'll never take you seriously.

Nah. Infact I'll like to end up with a direct opposite. My Dad is very un-romantic man and one of those people who believe showing affection is a sign of weakness.

He sent this to me at the same time frame he was telling her how much he wanted to be with her.

Monicasque: sister i know u are hurting and i am greatful to all the ppl who r showing u supprt but i am going to talk to you woman to woman and i want to be honest with you and tell you my heart. I know i will probarbly offend a lot of ppl here and they will insult me but i am just gona say it anyway. take it or lv it its your choice.

1- You did a lot for him > i hope you were not doing all that thinking you were buying his love or loyalty because that can never be bought for real. The person might pretend but will never really mean it in his heart. = so i hope u did all you did out of the goodness of your heart without expecting much in return

2- You checked his phone and u found shit > I always avoid going through ppl's phones because i am scared of what i might find out. I know that even if your man might cheat, others might be clever enough to hide it and delete those chats and if he is foolish enough to lv them on his phone then i make a choice not to go through anyone's phone coz blv me honey u will always get some bad results > NB: I am not saying its good to cheat and i am not saying partners should not be honest with each other, i am just saying if u dig u will find the worms , if u dont wana find them just dont dig

3 - He told his ex how he wanted her back > baby other man like having something on the side. I know its bad but i have noticed most guys would lie and say they are single only for the other woman to be disapointed in the end and in your case since u r not married to him , either one of u can be the other woman and he might actually end up marrying someone very far who u and the other girl dont even know. I understand u love him but does he really belong to u? i know u invested so much into him but baby the man aint your huby , he just a boyfriend who can go tomorrow. even if he was your husband he would still disapoint u

4- He is a looser > u mentioned how he uses ppl. i think its in his blood and unless he grows up, he gon make somebody a louzy husband someday

5- Count your blessing > its good that u found out. The question is do u still want him or not. It takes a lot to build a successful marriage and now yours is even just a relationship. I have seen so many woman stay in marriages even if the husbands r shit and i know so many who have self love and who would never tolarate such shit in their marriages. Whether u want this man or not its upto u coz its obvious he just flows with the air. The nice thing is u already know what u r getting yourself into should u choose to forgive his stupid ass or u will wana move on and get a better man but baby i just wana make u aware that men are not GOD and they can always change. So even if u decide to move on just know that the grass isn't always greener on the other side and know that each an every and i mean each an every union has its own ups and downs your part is to just establish wat u want in life and know how u will handle every situation and since this guy is clearly a looser i would say as much as u can expect shit in future relations just make sure u choose a responsible man in your life n not 1 who clearly is useless. If he was mine, one can always be Lenient somtimes when it comes to cheating especially in marriage but if the man has no ambition, a user, looser and a nobody i dont know but i would not want my kids to have such a dad

Everything I did was from the goodness of my heart. I used to always tell him that anytime he becomes unhappy in the relationship, he should let me know so we'll break up amicably. I always tell him i never want to end up wasting my time with someone as I wouldn't want to spend years in a relationship that's not going anywhere. That he should never out of loyalty stay in the relationship if his heart is somewhere else. That he doesn't owe me.
I've been in some bad relationships over the years so I'm now very cautious of what I'm getting myself into. So I like to spell out everything. He assured me that he really really loves me and is actually scared I'll leave him when someone better comes along and I assured him that I'll never do that.

I met him at a time when he was starting up an entrepreneurial NGO. I admired his drive, his passion and seriousness. The whole thing went south because of lack of funds and support from people and family.

I like to read his chats. To see what he's up to. And he reads mine freely. His chats with her in the past were fairly innocent. When I asked to read his chats and he adamantly refused, I knew I had to see what he was hiding. When he was distracted with other things, I took it and read.

^^^ perhaps.

[quote author=190-the-clown][color=RED]katty perry - ROAR [/color][/quote]I can't get why all these are so funny to you.

Dyt: Dats d best u can be for yourself babe
Hang out
Have fun
Movies/drinks/party/dance
I bet before u know it
He will b history
*snaps fingers, hits assss and snaps fingers again*

Actually out with friends presently. He's already an old story. Life is beautiful, and intend to have full value. Thanks a lot babe! Coming out here to vent wasn't such a bad idea. I feel so much better. Ready to take on the world.

Dyt: Amya
Tell me u feeling better bits by bits

I am actually. Thanks to all your kind words out here. He's the bad guy in the story and I'm the good guy.

chineloSA: Eeeeew nana, I am so sorry.

Look at it from a brighter side, could be God was protecting you from something huge that this looser was gonna expose you to. Could be God is trying to push you to best things he has planned for you. He knows that you may have never left the looser, thereby delaying "YOUR BLESSING''.

Anyways, not to worry, AUNTY KARMA will surely deal with him, trust me, I always trust her to sort my enemies out.

Sad you time waisted will never come back, but the experience gained is invaluable. This will surely make you a better person and a good man is coming your way.

Thank you so much! Appreciate your kind words.

[quote author=D-Explorer]Oh dear Amya, just what i was secretly wishing to happen. . .i think i don't have to share you again. Huh? [/quote]Lol!

fluid26: Madam, it is obvious your lover was a story teller. A very good one at that. Little wonder his friends sent him packing without hesitation, they saw right through his lies and manipulative strategy. Tell him to go into script writing or something, he will fare better there.

Apparently, you did not understand the 'oil' question. What I meant was: he told you that story (and probably a few more similar stories) to hypnotize you to believe in him and his barren ambitions. Anyway, I will not dwell on that. Take cue from recent events and learn to make better decisions.

Cheers.

Thanks

[quote author=ms_pee]Love, such a waste of time and emotions.

Just pick yourself up and move on, be strong dear, you are a warrior. *hugs*[/quote]*hugs* thank you so much!