₦airaland Forum

Cubalabloo:
Although he is flanked with capable brains, he is still a failure!

How oga? He has done far better than most governors in other states despite the security challenges borno is facing.

Privatepart00:
Praising a Governor for using public funds to do what he’s elected for?

What of those that did nothing with the public funds at their disposal?

airminem:


Put your hands up people, it's time to hail Rivers state government for good use of public funds!

This is beautiful

Cypress042:
Premarital sex comes with terrible repercussions indeed I want to know more about that which repercussion you talking about?

HIV/AIDS is one of them

HonNL:
SOURCE

I believe the guy is trying to set ekweremadu and his wife up, i believe he knew what he was going there to do, he is just trying to take advantage of the situation. He is becoming afraid of the process that's my thought on this matter. I doubt if he was deceive or force

KiNg0G:
I lived with my father's brother for a long time. he didn't work one day, all he does in the morning was to wash his mouth, have his bath then have his meal, awaiting his wife to come back from her trade in the market.. Then off she went to prepare another meal.. Staying With them was hell for me because sometimes there was hardly food in the house but my uncle hardly cares about that, it is either he is in one joint with his friends on a sunny day or he is at home listening to radio stations. His wife was the provider and never for once did she insult him...

This same character has gotten into me deeply, I can't help myself. I can't do thing's for myself.

My girlfriend cohabiting with me is the one providing almost everything we need all I do is to give her my G-15 in the evening. I'm always at home 24/7. She's never complained, I love it, for me to get a job and be answering Sir sir to people, I can't.

Stay fresh, bath, eat and sleep is the order of the day.

Few women are like this,
just the other day she asked me to come pay her bride price before the year ends, I asked her where would I see the money... baby girl told me not worry that something huge is coming..

I love this freedom, but sometimes I get a mixed feelings of been a liability, ants feeding on sugars. Anyway I'm enjoying myself quite well.

The real thing is my masculinity as the head of the house still intact.

You are under a generational curse for your information..you think you are enjoying lazy he goat. You are not even ashamed, you are proud that a woman is feeding your lazy ass.

seborrhic:
Inasmuch as the police have done a marvelous job arresting the corrupt police officers,I find the lady's story to be emblemished to possibly justify why she patted with ₦320k.
That Nigerian policemen,as corrupt as they are,would intimidate and extort a Nigerian LADY with a mere accusation of possession of weed,I find extremely difficult to believe and don't believe.
Nigerian policemen are quite circumspect of even extorting ladies with proven,serious criminal acts,talkless of mere accusation of weed.
Even a man found in possession of weed,not even mere accusation or planted,would hardly part with that huge sum
There is more to this story the lady is not saying,I can bet anything.

There is nothing more to this story, this story is very true,it's because you have not encounter some corrupt and evil Nigeria policemen that's why you are saying such. I can guarantee you that they planted the weed in her bag to set her up. My advice is this, when you give police your bag to search, make sure you are vigilant else they will plant incriminating evidence on you and if you deny they will say you are calling them liars, have seen this first-hand so I know what am saying.

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

I think your girlfriend is jobless and lazy that's the main issue here, there are students who have taken advantage of this ASUU strike by learning a skill or getting a job. How can she be pressuring you to quit your job because she wants you to spend more time with her, though it's important to create more time for her and your family which is important but the way she is going about it is totally wrong. We all know that getting a good job in Nigeria is not easy, so it's better you have a better alternative in the future and setting up a business is not a bad idea but bro don't go and quit because of one silly girl else you will regret your actions in no distant time.

OgunLaakaye:
Peter Obi will never do such!

He will rather go meet with Naira Marley for free.

But he is a billionaire

osato45:
have a talk with your kids and let them understand why things are the way they are.

In terms of sharing, you can get a second mattress or foam possibly 2 by 6 type and place in the room where the kids are to stay, let the eldest occupy the bigger foam and the youngest takes the smaller foam which would be placed on the floor

Or better still get a wooden bunk bed of 3 by 6 that would make one person stay up and the other stay down

I think this is the best solution for now for the both of them. I don't buy the idea of you and your son taking one room and your wife and daughter sharing the other, it's totally wrong. A man and his wife should always sleep together and have time for each other.

eddynaira125:
Anybody that advice this OP to mind his business is a big fool



All those advising people to mind their business are having an affair with married people.

You too correct

MaxInDHouse:
The highlighted said it all!

Jesus was invited to participate in politics by the overall master in politics, but there's one thing he demanded from Jesus {Luke 4:6-7} do you notice what Satan (the ruler of the world) asked in return? John 14:30; 1John 5:19
Well the Bible is not just a story book Sir, it's meant to enlighten us about sacred secrets of things that befell unwise people in ancient times! 1Corinthians 10:6, 11
Whoever participate in politics anywhere on this planet is serving Satan, that's why Jesus said he came to expose all the secret of the devil for his own disciples, politicians themselves often confess that politics is a dirty game which means it's not meant for sheep but goats.
So it's not for Jesus' disciples to participate in the works of the devil: POLITICS!

You are not serious at all, you are just confusing people by taking scriptures out of context. Daniel was a politician and served as a senator under four different King in Babylon and he was not corrupt.. take note that Babylon was very corrupt but Daniel was faithful and blameless. Politics is not meant for some certain people, infact God expect christains who by destiny are called to politics to go there and change it for good and not leave it in the hands of these evil and corrupt men.
This is where the church has been missing it for a long time,they think involving in politics is a sin and worldly. How can you change a system if you don't get involved.

buygala:
Divine intervention as how biko?

Same "Divine intervention" that is yet to deal with Boko Haram, or those murdering Kaduna Christians, or those who butchered and burnt Deborah Samuel?


These Pastors' utterances make Christianity look like a huge joke.. Instead of am to collect his "thank you" envelope from Mr Governor and keep moving, e dey go talk the one wey dem go take insult am

You are a big fool, is there any country that's not facing challenges one way or the other. Even Israel in the Bible also faces security and economic challenges in the days of old but God delivered them and God who is Faithful and all powerful will deliver and rescue Nigeria from the claws of wicked and evil men. The best a prophet can do is to declare the word of God and pray for the people as daddy Adeboye has done and trust God for peace.

Grinch41:
Abeg rest.What is their speaking out going to do?

You should be out there protesting with other christians down South instead of waiting for them to speak for you.

Oh what is their speaking out going to do abi na, I think you are very silly. But if it was a case against pastors and churches their speaking out will do something. When Fatoyinbo was accused of raping all of them was on social media campaigning and prostesting.

It's just occurred to me that no celebrity have spoken out about the gruesome killing of Deborah Yakubu who was killed by those menace all in the name of a stupid religion called Islam. I could recalled vividly well how all of them came out in one voice against pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA when he was accused of rape and how the likes of Daddy freeze is always quick in attacking men of God about tithing and offerings and calling them scam and all sorts of names.
Now here we are with such a situation and none have spoken out against such barbaric act but if it was something that has to do with a pastor or the church I know by now all of them would have been out raining abuses and insults on the church and pastors.

cnnamoko:
Too bad. If everyone chooses humanity and shun religion, I strongly believe the world would be a much better place.

It's beyond religion, you will never see christains behaving like these so called Muslim folks that are animals in human form. Islam is like cancer

udatso:
You are very uncivil. Maybe you are related to this tenant cos you behave like him.

By the way, in a sane country, you won't wait untill your rent expires before Renewal. I think it's people like you that are part of the reason Nigeria is this bad and lawless. If you owe, you pay up. No one cares if you have to sleep under the bridge to raise the money. Business isn't run with emotions.

Lastly, a landlord doesn't need a reason to give you a quit notice. If a landlord doesn't like you, he can give you quit notice, if you like take it to any court available in this country, you won't win. Go and build your house and maintain your useless self entitlement.

I think you are the most uncivil person not me, in a sane country no landlord just wake up and evict a tenant because he doesn't like the tenant, and besides if you are evicting someone the court order is to give such person six months to look for somewhere.
Besides am a human that care and have conscious unlike heartless and wicked people like you and that landlady that think because you build one house you think you are God and can do what you like to your tenant.
You are the kind of person that will want to control the life of your tenant because they are living in your house. Rubbish

princeemmma:
Recently I heard my daughter saying "Zazoo zeh" she is not up to 2years though. Am that kind of person that always caution myself and watch the kind of music I listen at home, but she did not learn the word at home, am sure she might have heard it somewhere in her mom shop, because my wife shop is located somewhere very rough, a lot of children in the environment. But my wife does not see this as a big deal. She always told me that she can't stop the little girl from playing with other children in the hood and that's true. That day when I heard her say that word, I called her to myself and told her not to say the word again that it's not good saying such word, she nodded in approval.

Two days ago I heard her saying this common words "Eni pe". I felt really bad, because I don't want my daughter to learn those bad words, but my wife feel am overreacting.

Am I overreacting truly? How do I stop my daughter from saying such words?

Please help a friend

You are not overreacting,the earlier you correct her the better, if it means dissociating from those friends from influencing her you better do it fast. Children pick things very fast so be wise, you are the father.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
We human created God and his fellow imaginary creature..we also have the right to dish him in the waste bin where he belongs..

I want you to challenge your imaginary creature and think outside the box..

The fool says in his heart, there is no God and I think that's what you are exhibiting.

torqque7:
Funny enough the irony of this whole thing is that it is people like YOU who are the problem of Nigeria. You are talking about in developed countries things like these can't happen,of course because mechanisms have been put in place to ensure you pay your rent. Have you ever heard someone owed rent and wasn't evicted in the so called developed countries you talk about? Countries that ensure that you pay all your bills or get cut off the services.

Mind you the guy has never failed to pay once his rent expires, he has never owe the landlady in question more than a month, even in develope country they give tenant some little time to pay their rent, it's everywhere not only in Nigeria. From the OP statement we can clearly see that the landlady is just being wicked and oppressive that's all I see.

AdeniyiA:
Quick advice, make sure you always read with understanding.

Someone once said if you want to hide anything from an African, put it into a writing

Don't mind the idiot, didn't bother to read before typing rubbish.

ttobizz:
I suspect you're op's landlady

Exactly, that guy is just as useless like the landlady

Mooh247:




Over entitlement mentality on someone else property

You have 12 whole month to look for your next year rent and you claim you don't have it as at expiration of your rent

You felt too busy to attend meetings in the house you reside, meeting regarding welfare of the house which is part of your core responsibility as a tenant

Your fiancee had a quarel with the owner of the property

You cursed the caretaker of the property

You better start looking for a new place because highest you can get is 3 month from the reciept of the first notice


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Na God go punish you for this rubbish when you type since you don't know how to read, if you have nothing meaningful to say just shut up, what do you mean by entitlement mentality, so as a tenant you expect him to be licking her landlady shoes abi, you think in a sane country where the law is working fine this kind of landlady can't get away with this, it's because we are in Nigeria a corrupt country that's why you think a landlord will just wake up one morning and served quit notice.
If I may ask, what kind of meeting are they holding. I think people like you are part of the reason Nigeria is this bad and lawless

jaxxy:
Dillian went in and was throwing no punches nor keeping his guard up. These shorter guys need to learn how Mike Tyson beat taller guys or better yet watch better boxers like otto wallin.

That guy punished Fury bt fury won by points.

U can't be Shorter, with a shorter reach and yet be slower. How are u gonna hit the taller guy.


Fury is good bt not that good. Dillian did rubbish, way worse than wilder.

Mike Tyson still remain the best ever boxer after Mohammed Ali, Tyson will chew Tyson fury during his time like a meat. Anyway congrats to Tyson Fury, got to admit he is superb.

Nuelzi:
What exactly does this gender want?

Sorry to say this but if what you wrote up there is true then permit me to say that you don't really know what you want

- you pointed out these qualities that most men lack yet you don't want to hold onto him.

E be like say e get niqqa wey you dey eye somewhere na why you wan dropout

Nobody should quote me....na my mind I talk,I no stone person

You have said exactly what's in my mind, she is eyeing or already seeing someone.

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

I think there is something you are not telling us, probably you are eyeing someone else because if this is just his issue as you stated here, I think you are the problem not him, besides you sound as if you have never offended him for once.

Onahi95:
Oga I'm not fighting anybody, so I should just fold my hands while someone threatens me with death, I just want to report him to the police and get him to sign an undertaking and get a restraining order that's all. Should I wait till he attacks me

Ask that guy man o

Onahi95:
My plan is to lay a complaint to the police first but I want to get hard evidence, unfortunately the girl recently started using an iPhone so she was finding it difficult to locate the record option while he made the threats, she got him to call on another phone but he suddenly became calm. He has a history of threatening and scaring off any guy that çomes close to the girl, one of the reasons she left him. I've been waiting for him to call me like he does to others but he haven't so far.

My guy you don't need any hard evidence, go to the police and lodge complaint ASAP, with the chat on her WhatsApp that's enough evidence to show the police, the earlier the better.

[quote author= post=112148461].......This and many others.

The good ol' days when men were boys.
And women were girls.
And virginity was sweet


Those are realy the good old days!
Oga Kasim,
Agba Awo himself [/quote]These are the kind of books our kids should read, really inspirational and has so much moral values in them

Easyincome24:
This book right here made our childhood days awesome.

Teachers then ensured we commit it to memory even if one couldn't pronounce or identify each word for word.

As I try to reminisce about this book. I could aptly see how our culture was portrayed in the book usually a one in a million for primary three pupils.

Our education standard was still something to reckon with back then.

Try to read between the lines, you will understand that a family is a unit that is very important in a community.

If a home fails to bring up their children uprightly, it's sure that the society will be wrecked.

Try to revisit all these books used way back in the 80's and 90's you will understand why values should be taught from homes before expecting teachers and government to emulate same.

My love for this book and the characters knows no bounds.

Share your experience Nairalanders.

Wow, this book was too notch, can't forget

dboY1123:
I have been on/off from my work(shop) for 2weeks now, I have this new worker who is a Muslim and I am a Christian, of course, I am not against her religion or anything, I still grant her the permission to attend mosque every Friday afternoon and I always try to be at shop by 2pm, or get someone to replace her..

Today I came to shop and the first thing I noticed was that she allowed one Alfa that I know very well, into the shop(she knows it is not allowed), my mind told me they were both reciting the Quran before I came in.

Secondly, she told me that she needs to pray (in the shop) that I should excuse her while I had to leave there and go outside..This has never been happening for 3 months she's been here..

Even myself being a Christian, I pray before coming to shop/work.

I wanted to tell her to stop praying in the shop because it is not a praying ground or mosque, should I go ahead?

I am not against her religion whatsoever, even she reads the Quran quietly in the shop and there's no issue about that.

Oga what do you think you are doing, this is the Issue when you give some people certain privilege, an employee asking his employer to leave his own shop because she wants to pray, Kai my guy you Bleep up, very soon they will turn your shop to mosque, can a Christian sister try this act with a Muslim boss. You better tell her to stop such nonsense in your shop.
NB am not against her religion or telling you to stop her from going to the mosque but she should not do such in your shop period.

Michelle70:
Rubbish.
A church that u will meet for help and they will tell u to bring letter from ur district pastor.

Meaning if u are not from that church, no help for u.

God bless prophet TB Joshua, he was the only one close to what Christianity should feel like

Why will you go and be seeking help from another man's church, don't you have your church. I think that's the right thing to do because many scammers are looking to take advantage of such generosity