This is very disrespectful from saido mane,how dare you embarrass your coach like that,no one is bigger than the team,try this with Alex Ferguson then your career with the team is over, every player must learn to accept the coach decision whether it favours you or not.
Spark2: Dear Nairaland, I am in a state of dilemma now. Choosing between going for masters and pursuing my passion of studying medicine is quite difficult for me.
I studied chemistry Education, graduated well, served and I'm now teaching. I am barely two years into the profession and I am already tired of it. I feel I deserve a career not just a work. A career in medicine for me is something that I belive will make me happy. it's something I can do even if I'm not paid for....I'm 25 years and I feel I have no time again.
I hope to go pick up a JAMB form this week to pursue my passion and happiness. I will not want to make any mistake here. So I believe hearing from people who have been in this shoe will guide me.
Have you been in this situation? Did you pursue your passion? Please share your story, age at which this decision was taken and how it has impacted your life.
This will go a long way in guiding me through this critical decision.
Thank you
I think you should follow your passion because that's where you will find true fulfillment,it may be destiny calling,so long you have the funds and energy you should go for it.
Phcmayor: I greet everyone here I need food that I can eat to gain weight am weighing 40 something at the age of 23.
Please help me I look like 18 years and can't proudly stand with my mates cus of my body size
Which food and drinks can i take
Thanks
My guy I can relate because I was once there but this is what I called inferiority complex that is doing you, you have to have carriage and something upstead, focus on becoming something important in your life and don't let anyone look down on you cause of your size. If you want to put on weight there is nothing wrong with it but not because of pressure or trying to impress others because adding weight won't make you any better.
Hashabiah: Israel has just started fighting a war they cannot win. The best solution is to broker peace because Muslims are more suicidal than any other religious group out there
What is this idiot saying,I know you are a terrorist, you think Israel is Nigeria abi that pamper terrorist, Palestine are paupet before Israel, Israel will wipe them from the face of planet Earth. nonsense Islamic people.
So long as they are terrorist group, Israel should wipe them from the face of the Earth, this is how Nigeria supposed finish Boko Haram but their leader is in power deceiving themselves.
Newsmic: Olakunle Churchill: Everything I Have Ever Lost Has Been Replaced With Something Better
Actress Tonto Dikeh's ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill took to his Instagram handle to reveal that he is living a better life presently, IgbereTV reports.
Churchill who is now married to actress Rosy Meurer stated on his Instastories that everything he has lost has been replaced with something better.
He has come again,that's how you were gushing over Tonto Dike until it crashes,why can he keep his life private,then tomorrow we hear a different story and he will come with another motivational quote to fool people.
raker300: 2015 was a consternation year for mostly people living east.
Atmosphere of prejudice, threats and downright disengagement of the easterners hung around the igbos.
Most people threaten the igbos with being obsolete, some made jokes the East would be abandoned for worst.
The led to statements like “politically insignificant, 5 percenters, wailers etc” being tossed around once “Eastern Nigeria” is mentioned.
Well, I would like to present the progress of eastern nigerian states, starting with ebonyi has faired since then.
So this is your definition of progress in six years,why are we mediocre in our thinking, you snap few roads and some few buildings and street light and you say it is progress,and there are lack of jobs,show us the rural settlement let's see the progress, inadequate electricity, poor educational system, insecurity nothing to write home about, workers being owe salaries and you say this is progress
Odewaleadesoye: Sincerely speaking, I have nothing against the pastors or the men of God but truth be told.
Her daughter and husband lives outside Nigeria, wears expensive materials and they might not even be going to church regularly over there.
The same pastors will collect huge amount of money from the hustlers and most are living in poverty.
Nigerians be wise.
Anyways, congratulations Ma And Sir
Which truth be told,why are you guys always complaining of tithe and offerings,it's it not scriptural I don't understand, nobody is forcing you to give, allow those who want to give to do in peace, most of these pastors when they had nothing at the beginning nobody complain now God has blessed them for their sacrifice and faithfulness you guys are wailing. Keep wailing why they keep increasing and there is nothing any complainers can do about it, pastors should be begging abi .
Useless Palestines always messing with Israel then they start wailing when Israel retaliate,if they misbehave Israel should wipe them from the face of the Earth, useless Palestines.
envoymedia: Daddy Freeze To Church Members: The Church Should Be People's 'Plan B'; Save Your Tithe To Fund Your 'Plan B'
Daddy Freeze has advised church members to start saving their tithes and offerings towards funding their own "plan B" since the tithe they pay to their pastors is being used to fund their pastor's "plan B", IgbereTV reports.
Daddy Freeze stated this on his Instagram handle while reacting to Pastor Paul Adefarasin's advice to his members to have an alternative plan to leave the country due to insecurity.
Daddy Freeze stateed that the scriptures clearly instructs shepherds to lay down their life for their sheep. He said the church today isn't doing that, instead "in time of war, they remind you that you're on your own and advise you to sort yourself out with a plan B."
This fool is trying to stay relevant, insecurity everywhere and daddy freeze has never made any contribution but once it's church issue the hypocrite will show face
diplomat058: I am not comfortable with the black mourning outfits. If the guy is gone into the heavens, why mourn? I suppose that's a relief that calls for church celebration. Let's practice what we preach. May the Lord comfort his loved ones to bear this untimely departure.
What are you not comfortable with,a young man in his 40s died and you are saying why they are mourning him, even the Bible say mourn with those who need to be mourn,we know he has gone to heaven but dieing young is never God's will for children.
Shugabanqasa: Go an double your hustle useless animal. Did killings started today? Talking about killins like it had never happen before
You and your useless parent who failed to give you home training are already death. Agent of doom See how you pouring your frustration because of the little you are getting from you paymasters to spread lies and propaganda Go and get a life My faith thought me to talk good or remain silent.
Haha, foolish idiot which Faith,see him mouth like Faith,if your parents give you home training you won't come here to spill garbage,I don't have your time I have better things to think about .
Shugabanqasa: You better go double your hustle so that one day u can become a president or presidents media aide and stop hating.
You calling someones father who may be more successful than your father a pathetic liar
It is your father that he is better than not my mine,if you are a buharist that's your cup of tea, useless idiot,how much has Garba Shehu paid you to side with him and his Fulani master, you better face your front and it is you that need to double your hustle not me,I tell you say I dey suffer, useless animal.people are being killed everyday and you expect us to keep quiet and not say anything, don't worry your family will be next to be kidnapped or gruesomely killed then you will know what people are going through in this incompetent government.
[quote author=Joromi1 post=35536335]I've been wondering.....most women have this NO SEX ON FIRST DATE motto like it's the only criterion to ascertaining feminine decency. They say it gives the guy the impression that you're too cheap and he would definitely dump you easy.
But to me, it's not true. You can play the hard-to-get for a year and still get jilted. So, ladies, allow your mood determine for you. If you have to bang that guy, bang him! And who knows, it might result to true love and marriage.
Or what do you think, guys? [/q Allow which mood,it's only a prostitute that will have sex with someone on first meeting, don't you know what they call self control, rubbish write-up
Believe Garba Shehu at your own peril,this guy is such a pathetic liar and will do everything to defend his master.thats what he is paid for, once you criticize his master they lay false allegations against you
I want to believe almost all of us has read or heard about how a young girl of 14yrs old has been defiled by a popular actor. Whether *the story is true or not*, can we parents learn One or two more lessons from this pathetic story.
Firstly, We must acknowledge the fact that there are Pedophile in our society.
What is Pedophilia? Pedophiliaalternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.
The case mentioned above is *not the first but it can be the last if we all stand up to our responsibilities as Parents, and understand what a child is.
A child is a gift from God and He expect us as earthly guardians to take proper care of each and every one of them.
One of our major duty is to keep them away from this psychiatric patients called pedophile. May God help us all Below are children care tips
CHILD MOLESTATION!
Child Molestation is also known as child sexual abuse. It is a secret crime involving a range of indecent sexual activities between an adult and a child.
According to the National Violence Against Children Survey, it established that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience sexual violence before the age of 18 in one way or the other.
TYPES OF MOLESTATION: -Defilement -Rape -Fingering -Making a child watch pornography -Exposing the genital to kids -Indecent touching -handling etc
WHO COULD ABUSE YOUR CHILD? ANYBODY Studies show that over 95% of sexually abused children are abused by persons known or close to the child or the child's family.
ABUSERS ARE MOSTLY NOT STRANGERS. They are right there in your house, co-tenants, family members, lesson teachers, neighbours. Their friends in school, hostel, classmates,class/school teachers, cousins, uncles, nephew, niece, fathers, step fathers, grand fathers, imams, Arabic teachers, choir masters, pastors, confidants, security guard, maids, family /school drivers, After school teachers, teachers, mummy's friend, daddy's friend, caregivers, strangers........ the list can go on. Please, do not ask if any of the above is possible because, there is no case of any of the above that has not happened.
CAUSES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE Parental negligence, carelessness, nonchalant attitude. It is as bad as No one can be trusted. We have a child presently carrying a baby that belongs to her father.
OTHER CAUSES: Absentee parents. Parents who do not observe. When the kids are not informed..... What you watch with your kids. Indecent dressing by our children.
WHERE CAN YOUR CHILD BE SEXUALLY ABUSED? ✓On your bed ✓Right under your nose, under your roof ✓In the school environment - class, toilet etc ✓Hostel ✓Parties ✓In their room (siblings) ✓Deserted/Abandoned places ✓ When you are distracted etc.
Perpetrators look for opportunities. 5mins is enough to cause a life long damage.
HOW DO PAEDOPHILES GET THE VICTIMS? 1.Grooming 2.Baits a. Emotional bait b. Gift bait c. Financial bait d. Familiarity & Respect bait. 3. Child grooming Befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse. -Wikipedia- Gaining the trust of a minor with the intention of having sex relationship with them.
HOW TO IDENTIFY A POSSIBLE ABUSER: A. Always trying to be around your child or vice versa B. Child feels uncomfortable when he/she sights the abuser or when the abuser is around. C. Easily and conveniently accept to care for your child while you are away. D. Can be hard on the child especially if the child is rejecting his moves.
If any of the above is observed, please, shine your eyes. Or sometimes, your child might feel uncomfortable/rejecting to go to the person when you send him or her Or even go for holiday.
Sexual abuse happens among siblings, set rules, separate their rooms, separate their beds. We had a case of twins having sex with each other. When they were asked, they said: we see mum and dad do same.
Why should we be that careless? Because of the carelessness of both parents, their innocent minds were polluted and their lives were destroyed.
WHAT A PERPETRATOR SAYS TO A CHILD WILLING TO SPEAK OUT: •I will kill you •You will die •Your mummy will hate you •Your mummy will beat you •Your mummy will blame you. •Your mummy and your daddy will die. •He could cut the child, lick the blood and say: "this is a blood covenant between us, the day you tell is the day you die."
Teach your child The SRR action.
S - Shout/scream R - Run R - Report
POSSIBLE SIGNS THAT YOUR CHILD HAS BEEN ABUSED: ✓Isolation ✓Aggressiveness ✓Anxiety/Fear ✓Difficulty in walking ✓Sudden drop in academic performance ✓Poor social interaction and so on.
OTHERS ✓Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
Their dressing is important, dress to cover them please. Teach them privacy. They must knock and seek permission before they enter your room. It is wrong to bath them together irrespective of sex.
PLEASE NOTE! children never lie about abuse If your child tells you someone is trying to mess with him or her.... Please believe the child and respond appropriately.
EFFECT OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE -The abused child could become a serial abuser -Depression -Suicidal thoughts -Stigma -Guilt -Lifelong psychological trauma -Aggression -Withdrawn -Infected with STDs Etc
THE BOYS More often than not,we pay more attention to the girls than the boys. With my years of experience, boys are mostly victims of anal sex but because we do not pay attention. For them, healing is a terrible process.
WATCH OVER YOUR BOYS Something might just be happening and you perceive not. Do not be a hard mum. Strike a balance between love and discipline. Give your children Sex Education proportional to their age. A child of age 2 or even less is due for Sex Education. Tell them what nobody must do with their body. Tell them to speak out. In the house, everyone must respect one another's privacy.
Child molestation is real, it is more painful if it happens under your very nose. Please bond more with our Jewels, we want to receive them back to school bigger and better than they left. Above all, pray for them always. The child molesters will not go near them but we must play our part
Thank you all.
Keep staying safe.
Wow,what a beautiful and inspiring write-up, everything you said is on point and very correct, have learnt somethings in addition to what I know.
kenzysmith: I don't see how jousha can defeat fury they shouldn't even compete on a normal day if wilder and fury are of the same size wilder we murder him, Tyson have an advantage here he is on a league of is own talk about height, speed, confidence , even jousha will be happy with a draw here . Tyson is a beast forget Nigerian patriotism I will be shock if jousha last for 12 rounds.
Oga what are you saying,if you don't have anything better to say keep quiet, Joshua is also on a league on his own, for someone to hold three heavyweight belt for long does that look like a light weight fighter to you, forget all this ranting fury is making,one thing about Aj is that he does his talking on the ring,yes fury is a beast but Aj is also a lion and you can see his records,he has brought down tough opponents and Tyson is no different.
Tyson fury and his mouth is too much,underating Joshua as if he is a premature boxer, when he lost he will start giving silly excuses,AJ should defeat him and keep his mouth shut for good
udoji2021: Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.
I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.
I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.
Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.
First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.
One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.
Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.
pls advice me
Not all that glitters are gold, you didn't pray before choosing a life partner God would have reveal her dark side to you,some people are chameleon so we must be very careful,
It's a waste of time because their oga at the top will still free them and allow them to continue with his evil agenda, infact they may even arrest the security men who arrest his boys and laid false allegations on them.
Arresting Yahoo boys but can't arrest Fulani herdsmen that are killing and causing all kinds of atrocities in the country, they should focus their energy on the insecurities more than this rubbish they are showing us.
rotimioluwamuyi: I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her..... How can I handle this matter?
My bro,see the earlier the better, you are the head of the family, talk to your wife to caution her on the way she dress,she is there to seduce you,if your wife is not taking it serious, you talk to her yourself else it will just be a matter of time before what you are avoiding will happen and that will put you in a very difficult position.
Richochett: You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.
Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house
Allow her to enter the house.
You are very stupid for taking side with the girl, you well at all,so the guy should be doing houseboy for her abi,na your type be that,do you know what it means to put somebody inside house free of charge yet she is being ungrateful
seunmsg: Madam rest, Omojuwa don cast you. We all know you’re very angry because Buhari refused to give you a political appointment despite repeated lobbies from Obasanjo. Nobody is buying your bullocks again.
Does that lady looks like someone that is hungry to you
Whiteangel1234: Operatives of the Nigeria Police Force and their counterparts from the Nigerian Army and DSS in a joint operation, in the early hours of today 24th April, 2021 stormed the operational headquarters of Insurgents (IPOB Militias) in Awomama Village Oru East LGA of Imo State.
The Insurgents are responsible for the attack on the Imo State Police Headquarters and the headquarters of the Nigerian Correctional Service on 5th April, 2021. They have also carried out series of calculated, violent attacks on security personnel and formations in the south east and south south of the country.
As the security forces approached the base of the insurgents, they came under rapid fire from the group. In a bold and clinical response, the joint security forces fought back gallantly.
The Forces eventually neutralized the overall commander of the insurgents in the Southeast popularly known as Ikonso Commander and six (6) other armed fighters of the insurgent group. Commander Ikonso is known as the Vice President designate as well as the coordinator of all the militia operations of the group.
He was the mastermind and coordinator of the attack on the Imo Police Headquarters and several other attacks on security and military personnel and facilities.
The operation is part of deliberate effort by the Police and other security forces to quel the activities of insurgents in Imo State and other States of the South East and South South region of the country.
After the fierce gun battle, the security team recovered the remains of Ikonso Commander and the six (6) of his fighters. Several sophisticated weapons including six(6) AK47 rifles, hundreds of ammunition of different caliber and lots of charms including bullet Proof charms were recovered from the insurgents.
At the time of filing this report, three policemen and one army officer are receiving treatment having sustained serious bullet injuries during exchange of gunfire with the insurgents.
I don't support murder but if it was the Fulani that kill the hunter they won't find them and arrest them as they have done, even our security personnel are bias to the core, Fulanis are killing farmers every now and then and not one have been prosecuted that have seen, they carry firearms freely and the police and the government are not saying anything reasonable about it, only God can help us in this country.
Lovethaa: There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion ....
What you did was absolutely wrong and evil, everyone deserves a second chance in life and do you know how many girls that your friend have slept with before now,we should stop condemning people and acting all saint, even Jesus will not act the way you act,am not supporting promiscuous lifestyle but since your friend never complained anything bad about the girl and it wasn't like the girl was cheating presently on the guy so I see no reason bringing up such issues to destroy their relationship,ok now that you have scattered their relationship what have you gain, infact all those her curses will follow you, you are evil,if the girl in question was your sister will you do what you did.
The truth is that not every Nigerian who's in india is being mal-treated..As a matter of fact, I've a friend who's currently schooling in India..He never for once complain of this kind thing to me..
A Nigerian who's being mal-treated up-there in india must be into either fraudulent activities, drugs or other criminal activities..Make we comot sentiment small and talk truth..
Nigerians,we too dey form victims all the time.. Meanwhile,our names no dey ever comot from any story like tortoise
Leave that matter, Indians are heavy racist,go and do your research
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alternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.
