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red roses: can u trust ur best frnd either male or female

n why will u trust he or she

mine betrayed me n i dont know why

Mma4luv: Hello nairalander's,i am married and i ve' little girl of a year and four months.My husband met me through my best friend whom is somehow related with my husband,though far relation,the relationship b/w the families were very cordial.After i got married to my husband,my best friend was staying with us until my husband developed a hatred on her,he was able to keep quiet until i was about to put to bed then he told my best friend that it's high time she left the house cos the house will not contain her any longer and the girl left.One day my husband told me to reduce my relationship with her and that got me annoyed cos i wonder how my husband will select my friends for me even my best friend i knew before him,because of my reaction,my husband then said i should quit the relationship.I told the girl about it and we maintained our relationship but i stopped calling her in my hubby's presence and she stopped comming to my house but my husband was never satisfied with that.As a result of this,the relationship between my husband and my best friends family went sour.To cut the story short,yesterday my husband told me that i will have to chose between him and my best friend and i told him that i chose my best friend since he has no reason what so ever to quit me and my best friend,i told him instead of quiting my best friend,i will quit my marriage cos if i allow him,he may soon stop me from all my friends.He then told me angrily that i can go on with the relationship that there is no problem.My husband's reason is that i respect the girl more than him and the girl's philosophy about life and marriage is tottaly different from mine.pls do i have the right to say no in this kind of issue since i know the girl cannot influence me in any way,cos she would have influenced my life over the years i knew her before i met him.Pls advice me

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Here is a lady who needs help as she is having marital issues.

My name is Tola, I live in Abuja, I have been married for over 6 years with two beautiful kids. My husband before we got married was the best thing ever, flawless, generous to a fault, God fearing, trust worthy and anything a woman would desire. But just into marriage, the lid fell from my eyes I have been deceived and have lived with all his excesses for 6 years now and it is just too late to back out now.

When we got married I began to see his true color, there was no friday he stayed at home he partied out and came back the next day by noon, I can't remember when last I had a date night or and outing with my husband since our honey moon, he Performs his duty regularly, provides enough up keep for the family, provides for the children, sponsor vacations abroad for I and the children excluding himself. He has a heightened sex drive.

I try my best and give it to him anytime he desires it. But it doesn't stop him from cheating on me; he even does it in the open. Other husbands take their wives out for wedding ceremonies; he takes his concubines in place of me in the open even in front of my friends. He has turned me into a house wife and baby making machine and a laughing stock amongst my friends.

The funny thing is that he is a worker in church, he is a Christian. On Sunday, he spends the entire day in church, but asides Sundays, he is a pagan, he sleeps with anythingin skirts, I have cried my eyes out, he flirts with my friends, and he even has them as contact via BBM. Anytime he comes back from business trips, I see packs of condoms in his brief case and his shirt smells of feminine perfumes. The worst still is that he has FOOLS as friends, I cry out every day, I pray and fast but for the past six years it only gets worse.

He and his group of friends (married men)have a BBM group called "RELOADED" where they organise weekend get aways. Organise the latest chick to lay in cheap hotels, plan get together, where they have numerous vulnerable chicks to Bleep, party all night with their concubines, organize random bbm group with many university chicks (married men for that matter)they hook up with this girls, giving silly excuse that they are travelling for business trips.

One of his friends a senior manager in a company on the island recently travelled to kenya with one of his concubines and posts pictures of them having a sex rump, I see this through the bbm group der organised, my husband has no remourse, he lives his fone open and knows I go through it but he doesn't care.

My sister it might sound unbelievable, but many things are happening via social media, twitter, facebook were they hook up with chicks, as old as this men are, they organise private boat cruise trips with a maximum of 12 girls so dat they are surplus. They lodge on a private beach and Bleep the living day light out of them. Unilag, lasu and osu babes.

The worst has happened. I just got discharged from the hospital, I contacted STD via my husband and he feels no remorse. I have had it, I am tired, I want out, this is too much, I need a divorce. Ladun what do I do? I need comments from your blog readers. I cannot take this anymore, my husband bringing diseases to the home. If I suggest he uses a condom on me, he would beat me and accuse me of cheating on him. This men cannot get their eyes off anything in skirts. I noticed his chat with my neighbours daughter, I can’t confront her, he Is sleeping with her and recently took her clubbing.

Ladun please tell me what this girls have that I do not have, is their vagina gold plated or what. I am living in misery, I wish I we're single, I wish I cud cheat on him but am a firm believer in the word. I wish I could turn back the hands of time and dodge meeting him. Please Help!!!

Sijo01: Apprehending them wont be a difficult task...... The Bank should be inform about it, deposite some cash into the side account and wait for them to make the debit. Chikina!

Eebrahym: [b]Things To Do with Your Girlfriend with No Money

The things to do with your girlfriend when you have no money, are the moments of your life that you will cherish forever, because you won't be thinking too much about what is spent over what. Read on,

Romantic Things to Do With Your Girlfriend
Climb up the nearest hill and watch the sunset together
Pluck a rose from a garden and give it to her
Make a promise to her
Whisper 'I love you' thousand times in her ear as the day progresses
Sing her a song
Take her out on a drive and stop at a place you haven't seen before
Give her a whole body massage
Go for a walk, holding hands on road you've never been before
Hold her hands, stare into her eyes and kiss her
Cook a romantic dinner for her
Tell her about your dream last night
Play games between the sheets (if you know what I mean!)
Tell her you want to be her prince Charming, if she's is your Cinderella
Cuddle up and watch a chick flick together
Solve crosswords together
Make some hot chocolate and sip it watching the rain
If it's snowing, make a snowman
Stargaze all night and dedicate every star to her with a reason
Cuddle up and sleep


Free Things to Do with Your Girlfriend
Go and visit a free museum together
Wash the car together (this one can get real dirty!)
Play video games and let her win
Women are cleanliness freaks. So, help your girl clean her closet
Go to a mall with her, and try out clothes, just for the heck of it
Have a hot steamy shower together
Invent a game and keep changing its rules as you go on playing it
Read your favorite comic or a book together
Workout together, by cycling, trekking, running and jogging
Painting an abstract picture by drawing a line at a time, is a free thing to do
[s]Tell her a secret about you that you haven't told anyone[/s]
Pick up a pillow fight with her, but remember girls are delicate. So, handle with care
Learn some dance moves and teach them to her

Fun Things To Do With Your Girlfriend at Home
Hitchhike a ride with your girl to a place you haven't been before
Bring out the junk and make a ring for her
Play a sport like basketball or football in your backyard
Plan a party for a day when you'll have money
Devise ingenious ways of earning money
Stroll in a public garden
Get out all your old photo albums and show them to her
Cook a romantic meal together
Go to a drive-in movie theater
Organize your garage with your girlfriend's help. Women, love putting everything in place!
Plant some pots and plants in your garden
Seduce your girlfriend with some excellent pre-intimacy tricks
Tell her a really exiting story
Enact a play together for your friends and family[/b]


see ya later,

Kelskelly: Na wah o. I'm sure this article came from Americans. They just can't stand the fact that the world's greatest sprinter is not American. First Carl Lewis said his own, now this. When Mariod Jones was on top, there was never an article. When maurice Greene who always looked to be high on steriods was on top, no one said anything. I've lost my respect for American athletes.

kola oloye: Don't tell me that you believed this story.

Kelvinj: [b]
Letter To Nigerian Ladies

Dear ladies, Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age it's simply because you are looking for a perfect man. Something might be wrong with you. Now, check your propaganda

Magazine tells you that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70million African men OR there is something wrong with one African Woman? You Ladies certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if u re always hanging out with your so call girlfriends every night at a beer palour or bar waiting for a guy to buy you a drink & take you home afterwards. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday & Saturday night does not exactly make you look like a marriage material. You want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe & dress responsibly not like a mad person.

When a man comes to you, smile & be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of ur kind of man. Ladies, stop coming to relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad & all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect! You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter, Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of the Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you?

Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. Wat’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man? Do u want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your BMW X6, GUCCI sunglasses covering your swollen eyes and u look out of d window and see a happy couple in a keke napep holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage.

Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him, e no dey work again joor! Ur perfect man is out there, believe, work ƞ pray and you will get him.

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