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What does Gender Based Violence mean?

KaluwisxPRO:
Gender based Violence

pathetic men everywhere

if this is true, how much is the Nigerien government contributing to this project?

jarawa:
https://dailytrust.com/untold-story-of-nigeria-niger-republic-rail-line

They don see us finish

Waste of resources.

Before i answer please the bolded, i should tell you the correct reason for what exactly?

theFilmtric:
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nonsense
Tell me the correct reason now
Nonsense and rubbish

theFilmtricsay

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theFilmtric:
its all the question of official language
Assuming Nigeria was a 2,3,4 language country
It would be the same
Nigeria is just too diverse
That causes us to lean too heavily on English
Those I cancelled have their language as their official language
While India has just 23 languages
Nigeria has 543 only 250 are recognized

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crackhaus:
People tend to forget that a lot of the laws in these countries were handpicked and fine-tuned from biblical laws.

Humans on our own, left to our own predilections, and without a higher authority to fear/succumb to, will actually behave like animals without restraint.

That's a fact.

Gbam!

crackhaus:
I myself have experienced how hard they struggle to pronounce my surname, but I thoroughly enjoy watching/listening to them trying.

They must learn it by force, I nor dey change am.

If they can pronounce "schwarzenegger" they can pronounce your surname.

Na just to feel among, you no sabi Nigerians again?

Silentgroper:
Y spotify cum dey freak us.. Dem dey do giveaway?

Silentgroper:
Isnt audiomack nd boomplay no different from spotify

Na the same thing

We already have audiomack, Deezer, boomplay, apple music

Which website did you buy the product from China?

NEROSKY:
This is a personal experience, I thought it would be nice I share with you guys.

I bought a product in China via DHL, it took around 4 to 5 days to arrive In Nigeria, Bought something that same time from Jumia, it took 7 or so days to get to me, and kept wondering why should something sold within Nigeria in this jet age take so much time to arrive, I even called to ask why and they kept to their national anthem "sorry for inconveniences" . Now an item I bought from Konga 3 days ago arrived today, I was like this is how is supposed to be. Jumia has been annoying and they have refused to improve - been shopping from Jumia & konga since 2015 or so.

share ur experience.

God bless you.

JVGG3RNAVT:
Why is violence the only language blacks understand? Nigeria can be restructured peacefully and it's' the right thing to do. Nigeria will never develop with the current method . It will never develop without doing the right thing .

It has been my observation that many Nigerians lack common sense and Africans lack diplomacy in solving issues. The only language they seem to understand is violence, which always result in more damages in the long run than the right thing that should have been done in the first place. These constant crisis after another often erases tangible progress made and keeps the society going in circles and back to square one .

It's obvious that Fulani herdsmen method are a menace to any progressive and orderly society yet many Nigerians who support Buhari see nothing wrong with such primitive method of doing things . They also oppose regional security and regional autonomy which is obviously the right thing to do. . Does the USA,CANADA,AUSTRALIA,SINGAPORE that Nigerians love so much have herdsmen on the roads?
Another example of lack of logical reasoning by most Nigerians who claim to be patriotic even to their own detriment is the fact that they are blind to root causes of things and pertinent issues that needs to be addressed. Such individuals mock or even oppose any attempts by any perceived marginalized group at bringing the issues up. For example It is factual that Nigeria is a fictitious colonial entity consisting of ethnic nations which were forcefully merged by colonial powers just 6 decades ago for selfish gains , yet many acclaimed patriotic Nigerians fail to reason with such fact in order to understand the roots cause of the social and political predicaments bedeviling Nigeria today. Such individuals blindly advocate American style civic nationalism when in fact that's like comparing apples and oranges.

Individuals who are blindly patriotic to a fictitious entity like Nigeria must first understand that Africa is an ethnic continent rooted in Tribal heritage like Europe and Asia,unlike the US,Canada and Australia. And so it's illogical to forcefully extinguish such heritage in bid to foster a fictitious nomenclature. The more diplomatic and progressive thing to do is simply a political restructure based on this reality .

If you look at Europe you can see evolution from all the petty wars and squabbles of the past into thriving and progressive societies . small countries like Monaco ,Luxembourg and Liechtenstein have their Independence without any interference. landlocked countries like Switzerland are still connected to sea by diplomacy. and there's cooperation and understanding that everyone has something to offer, instead of false sense of pride or supremacy.
The fact is the entire Nigeria or even West Africa can be a confederation if Africans evolve to this point of understanding the need for freedom and independence. Igboland can be an independent country or region and can also be connected to the ocean by river port or freight train from the coastal areas . Calabar can be an independent city state nation ,that is if Akwa ibom and Calabar do not desire to merge as one . The entire west Africa can be a cooperative and progressive confederation as long as every group who desires are granted their autonomy. For now it's just a shame that the only language blacks understand is violence. And with that. the society will keep going in circles.

Look, in theory it might look like divorce favours the person with less money, but reality is different.

What Kanye should be praying for is that Kim is not a greedy vindictive person. Because if she is forget all these things you are saying, she would ruin him financially at least.

She can prevent him from seeing his children
She can claim he abused her and put a restraining order on him

Thats western divorce laws for you. They believe women over a men. If you dont believe me ask Johnny Depp

chinchonglee:
Lol! U see why i say Nigerians doesn't knw a dime abt US divorce laws... Child support is a most, there are many laws guiding alimony...

When Carey and Nick Divorced.. both properties were combined and split between them, so nick was the winner cos he was the poorer of the pair by a long distance.
However he was still ordered to pay child support to carey.
In American law whether u are a man or woman, the poorer pair tends to gain alot...
But in this case of KK and KW, the KW networth is $1.26Bn while KK is $780m. The margin is not much, although KW will be losing but not much as Nigerians portray it to be.

Do you know that Kim can claim that Kanye is a bad father without evidence, and force him to pay alimony and child support?

Look, in theory it might look like divorce favours the person with less money, but reality is different.

What Kanye should be praying for is that Kim is not a greedy vindictive person. Because if she is forget all these things you are saying, she would ruin him financially at least.

She can prevent him from seeing his children
She can claim he abused her and put a restraining order on him

Thats western divorce laws for you. They believe women over a men. If you dont believe me ask Johnny Depp

samsard:
Divorce laws favor the partner with less money, which is usually women. Women have also paid huge divorce settlements and support money to less fortunate spouses.
I repeat, Kim Kardashian is not poor. The idea that Kanye will be ruined by this divorce is ridiculous. Since she is the mother of the only kids he is known to have, whatever he gives up will eventually be his kid's. They must also have prenuptials considering they were both wealthy when they got married.

Mariah Carey's divorce was an exception.

Do you know that Kim can claim that Kanye is a bad father without evidence, and force him to pay alimony and child support?

chinchonglee:
It doesn't work like that...
What abt mariah carey's divorce.

Am not a fan of his shitty music that is filled with f*ck,f*ck and f*ck. I jst noticed that Nigerians dnt knw anything abt divorce laws...

Lol. it is a well known fact that divorce laws favour women in the west. Are you a Kanye west fan?

chinchonglee:
Most of us dnt knw how American divorce law work so i think we shuld jst shut up and stop assuming

Lol, don't get too excited yet. Prenups can tossed out in court. Western divorce were made to favour women

bibiking7:





Not splitting nothing. Kanye got prenuptial. Reminds me of the song Gold digger by Kanye. "Holla we want prenup, we want prenup, yeah......
If you don't want to split your stuff, opt for a prenup before marriage. Kanye signed a prenuptial agreement.

Do you know that prenups can tossed out in court?

A305:
They had prenup so, Kanye's finance is safe.

You dont know about the gynocentrism that has taken over the west. Whether she is poor or not, the divorce can potentially ruin Kanye. Unless she decides not to ask for what for she is entitled to.
Divorce laws in the west favour women, that is a fact.

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samsard:
You're bloody ignorant. Kim Kardashian is NOT POOR by any standards.

Me too

Yippeedaniel:
Me na virgin i go marry. I no fit marry public things and come dey proud of am..

Maybe he is referring to how much Kanye has to pay Kim. American divorce laws favour women

chinchonglee:
How is Kanye's life abt to be ruined
because a woman left him?

Maybe its you that would marry oloshos and hook up girls. There are too many virgins in this country all looking for men to marry them.

Piboy:
Only people that got married in the 90s and before then are lucky. The rest, na olosho and hook-up girls una go marry.


FTC
I dedicate this one to LONGPREEK aka satanpriest aka chubbyasian Mah correct gee . All of us go make am.

Asin eh. Although i know its a payment gateway similar to voguepay or GTpay or PayU. Its people that normally do international transactions that use such.
I personally just use my card to pay, there is always option for debit card, so i don't see the use of paystack and the likes.

geendi:
like seriously what is this paystack all about

Well said!

yorubarere:
Going through the thread this evening. It is no doubt that this wonderful thread is under attack by alien bodies that are strangers to the tenets of redpill.

These people may fall into these categories:

1. Bluepilled men (male feminists)

2. Some married men or people in long term relationship that can't accept the facts that they have been fooled all along. (Denial mode).

3. Blackpillers. I think the guy causing the major problems is a pseu-blackpiller. I called him false blackpiller cos his actions are caused by induced pains from his previous relationships. If given the chance, he will still crawl under a woman's legs and simp away.

That aside, I mostly find myself going against the idealists cos they are not in touch with realities. They always find means to rationalize absurdities.

One of them made a post about elevating women and not putting eyes into their finances. And in-turn, these women will appreciate and do the unthinkable for you. (He just rationalized loyalty without analyzing the subject involved).

Lemme make an example as a realist.

A vegetarian or animal right activist who is an idealists assumes that because he doesn't eat meat or support animals brutality, he may survive in the wild with lions

Since he doesn't eat meat, one should rationalize that the pride of lions would sense that and free him. Well, he will realize his foolishness when been torn apart by beasts. Same beasts he campaigned vigorously to protect.


To the poster that said if you are good to your women, they will be good to you in turn, I must say you are living in ur head. Several stories and researches have proven that women not only are ungrateful to men who treats them right, they go to the extent of ridiculing them to the entertainment of others. She will punish you for bin nice!

Lemme give you example of a recent incident.

https://www.nairaland.com/6397102/woman-seeks-divorce-after-25

The link above, the woman is tired of the man for being too nice to her. Same man gives her approximately $7k per month as personal spending. I am sure if there is a means to kill the man after that court judgment that asked her to stay put with him, she will do that. The man's sins was being too nice.... He is the proverbial vegetarian that expects lions to spare him in the wild.

For those blue and purple pilled men that sees life through justice and fairness. I must tell you as well that there is no justice anywhere. For someone to gain, some have to be lose. For you to get profits on your goods, you will sell it above the actual price u bought it! People are always losing and gaining... Life is not fair and the game is not nice. Those feminists seeking freedom from the manists are not doing it for freedom, they are doing it for power to oppress men (that is why they are busy shouting "women is the future". They don't follow the equality they preached)..... A perfect example of this is the Western worlds.

Life is a jungle. It is survival of the fittest and and only the strongest and smartest survives to pass on their gene in the gene pool to the next generations.



I drop pen.



NOTE: I am not inferring that all vegetarians and animal right activists are idealist.

Bonfires nko?

Rossnitti:
They're in freezing temperatures with no heating. Big difference.

God bless you

Skepticus:
You see, the main advice on this thread is for men to place their needs first. It varies from men to men. In between these individualistic needs, there are nuances. The Red Pill is not a one-drug cures all for every man as our individual experiences are different (I remember Martinez39s correcting a guy who had expressed risky optimism about the red pill). The offshoots off it like PUA/GAMING, MGTOW, Traditional Conservativeness are not entirely perfect either. Believing it will help you solve all your individual challenges in an unguided optimism is a recipe for failure, and confusion in the future if life comes as it always does with the unexpected.

Regardless, in the recent arguments, some ideas that have no basis in the red pill and reality for men is the idea of Gender Equality. I have no problem with men working in so-called feminine fields if it puts bread on their table nor men deciding to work strictly within male spaces. All to his own. The only thing is that both genders are not equal physically, mentally. What is expected of both is also not the same. Societies where so called "Gender Equality have been brandished are not even 50% equal if you look at it closely. Both genders can not adequately achieve this equality without upsetting the balance of nature. It's just a feel-good term of modern society to pander to women, often at the expense of men. They have their strengths and weakness that complement each other for the human species to go on.


I have my own philosophical leaning within this movement, but throughout the thread when some folks try to argue out their philosophical leanings as the best over others, I try to place out both issues and expose their cons and pros for everyone to see. One can't also deny that people have their subjective interpretation of what they think as the red pill and beyond it.

That said, arguments like this will always arise but all must be done with decorum with issues tackled objectively. The endless emotional-laden back-and-forths with caution flying out of the window was unnecessary. We can disagree with each other as far as the points that is being argued upon, is one that is relevant or discussed within the manosphere.

I also saw some folks using the arguments to insult the red pill but still go ahead to nod and agree with the same set of people they express opinions that agree with theirs. Pick a struggle and if you think the red pill folks regardless of where they lean, are despicable, I'll advise you to avoid the thread. No one is recruiting here like cult groups do. You either find it or it finds you. Pick what is valuable to you and discard the rest. Regardless of your hate against the people on this thread or whatever is being shared that offends your blue-pilled conditioning, this thread is low-key saving a lot of lives of men both active and silent readers.

you are one persistent man. i like that.

SeriouslySense:
why not, its your choice, but what about the implications of such, if everyone did same.

Nawa oh. All because I said it's my choice

SeriouslySense:
There is nothing wrong with showing how you suffered, but when people turn suffering into a competition, then who will think about improving so suffering is not normal, if its normal for the people, then they should not think about improvements, or leaving the country, since there is much suffering to enjoy and be proud about.

Other people suffer, but they don't celebrate it or hang it over their neck, they celebrate the ability to be creative, to learn, to change and to prevent others from suffering such.

Its only un-intelligent people that think everyone has to suffer, because they lack the intelligence to change suffering or to adapt, such that they can tamper it, like how ones tampers metal or molten metal or how one adapts cotton to fabrics, and from fabrics to beautiful cloths.

Celebrate only the suffering that changes and makes things better, not perpetual suffering.

Many have suffered more than anyone here is proud to suffer, but they do not dwell on it, and that others who suffered less than them should keep suffering or mock others.

its my choice to show it, besides, I don't see it as suffering, it's your choice to hide your own suffering.

SeriouslySense:
Please stop showing how proud you are of suffering, why she should suffer such because your leaders are irresponsible, does not mean others should suffer same thing.

I saw a tweet of a white woman complaining they have not had light for 30hrs.
Ordinary 30hrs. We that sometimes we don't see light for 2 weeks nko.