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WHITELIGHTER:
He went to pick beans there abi....

lets not act as if the woman is a log of wood...

lol

ask yourself this question as a guy.... "what kind of intimate stuff does somebody else's girlfriend send me?"
then now imagine what your gf could be sending (pics. chats etc)

i snooped on a married woman's phone sometimes ago. what i saw ehn

husband went away for five years?! walahi i wont blame anyone here.

i think you should just tell him whats up and agree with whatever decision he takes, no matter ho harsh.

temiitayo:
Let’s talk

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AmazonTopaz:
I like this method your family adopted

Yeahh.
I'm gonna be adopting it too.

Mutaultope:
Am a Yoruba man and my wife is from Urhrobo tribe .


I give them the yoruba names , she gives them their Urhrobo names

GBAM

Very silly!

We've all got three names in my house.
Mom's tribe, dad's tribe and English name

this girl needs attention. she might be depressed

We are having the worse squad in those 39 years. No winger, no creative midfielders.

Teams have simply gotten Arteta's tactics.

Teams have simply stopped the usual high pressing that usually leave them exposed at the back after some quick passes.

Teams now sit back and stay tight, knowing that we don't have the kind of players that can break teams down. No players who can comfortably beat one or two players.
Pepe is also a space merchant. He's useless without much space to exploit.

I know we'll be fine in the next one to two years sha. When we get rid of the deadwoods, we can then bring in players in the mould of Gabriel and partey.

E be like say Fear dey catch the useless buhari.
I'll like to know who are the likely service chiefs after these ones. I mean the next highest ranked officers.

Netanya:
Congratulations seyi . I like the way he keeps his marriage from social media .

more kudos to the wife for this. Na she I credit

Well, he's expected to know better at the level he is, otherwise, spraying the naira note still remains a normal thing in this present day Nigeria.

But if taken to court, would he be sentenced? I personally don't think so coz I'm not sure if anyone has ever been convicted of that offence. Hence he can argue that against the persecutors.

I remember this guy!


Opuya, like that....!

banmee:
That's my point. When you go into marriage with expectations get ready to be disappointed. What you care about may not necessarily be what your spouse cares about. For example, i care about all the expectations you listed except the bolded. I don't believe in god but my wife does. Never stepped in a church in 20 years but one time and that was when we got married. I only did that because of her. See? Compromise. She wasn't dumb enough to throw me away because i did not meet one of her expectations. Couples need to understand that they will always be flawed in each others eyes.

God fearing has very little to do with how frequent you are in church, but more about the level of your moral standards.
And your wife is cool with you because she was "understanding" enough to compromise (meaning she wasnt selfish).

lemme tell you my recent experience.
i was dating a girl coz i saw that she was clearly the type that wouldn't cheat. But this same girl throughout the 6months i was without a job coz of the pandemic never deemed it fit to spare me 200 naira (she's an essential worker who was getting paid all through the while). I loved her and she knew it, but nothing would make me settle with such a selfish person.

banmee:
There is none. Trust me. It's just like saying there is a perfect best friend. Which your spouse is by the way. As much as i love my spouse we still go through ups and down.

marriage is beyond just "loving" a person.
There are certain attitudes i cant live with regardless of how much i "love" a person.


Remove ego and selfishness and see how many marriages would start working.
A person who is understanding, selfless, caring, genuinely loving and God fearing can hardly do any wrong.

khingTony:
There is no perfect marriage

this sentence is part of what has gotten people into marital debacle.
In the name of "there is no perfect marriage", people simply ignore some ugly traits during courtship or dating, thinking they can manage and cope with it, only for those devilish character to even grow bigger as time goes on.

I strongly believe there can be a perfect marriage, Yeah i do. and I dont care if i have to go through 20 breakups before i find that perfect one.
marriage is sweet when you find an understanding, selfless, Loving and God fearing human, and thats provided you arent the bad type yourself.

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Shanklee:
You are acting like as a kid. If she didn't say anything now, people like you will say that she's pretending. Now that she said something, you're trying to insult her for doing so.

I was expecting this sort of response but I swear, I didn't mean to insult or demean her. There was just no way I could react without mentioning her. But trust me, I had zero intention to insult her.

Jesslove:
I thought it was amazing at the time because I had nothing to compare it to. In actuality it was pretty mediocre

Now I understand why guys keep asking fellow guys to marry a virgin

shamsin6300:
wtf
So malaria can make one go crazy like this?

Yeah. Malaria can be that dangerous. That's why the Westerners dread it so much.
Malaria wey too tey for bodi fit affect person brain sef.
Zika virus na from certain specie of malaria, and it literarily renders the brain useless right from the womb.

You can show her Love without dating and sexualizing it. Most importantly, Na only God fit reason this kind matter. So my concern is if you have the emotional and spiritual strength to fight this her battle with her

Cun, Drama and Ego

I move with lightning speed.

donprinyo:
E vote is the solution

We're not ready yet

flokii:
Glorified secondary school.

Pay such huge amout to learn nothing and obtain printed paper certificate. Reason they dash all of them first class and 2:1 while they go outside to fumble.
How many of their church members can even afford this??

You no just get sense.
Na your children I pity, hopefully you go don change this your mentality when you get money and pikins.

yrex01:
As a youth and you still support pdp or apc irrespective of ur tribe n religion, you ain't diff from boko haram. As in una fada

Na the Wahala of our young generation be this. Zeal without knowledge.

Even buhari had to join hands with people he so much hated just so he could get enough numbers to finally become president. The thing require sense

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I mean Husband’s sister and wife[/color]

Oh... You gan, them suppose nack you tray for head.

And some people were telling me that a 190k island job "no be am"

mtcheeeeew!

OP, you should state the nature of the job if you want any serious advice.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, can sisters-in-law really be friends or are they just showing each other fake love... Guys what do you think?[/color]

You mean wife's sister and husband's sister ba?

I'm not married so I don't know.
But na women dey always get this kind wahalla