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ask her the business she will like to venture into. try to know her reasons for her selection.
on your own, look around your environment and research on the businesses that are profitable.
relate your findings to your wife.
together, you guys should agree on the business.

then, do the funding yourself.
please don't give her any cash o.
do all the payments yourself.

when the business is set, you can give her a spare cash like 500k

it's simple:
1. be clean.
2. be intelligent.
3. dress smart.
4. keep a good name(identity).
5. have self control.
6. maintain a modest lifestyle.
7. do not fall for everything.
8. have a legit source of income.

these principles will get people attracted to you wherever you are

finally!
a true prophecy

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Oxfordgrade:
no sir, I thought that was the right thing to do, at least by Nigerian standard before getting a job

you thought?
now you know

Zonefree:
How many women are serious with their lives?

omo

you subscribed to bribery

Johnchrix:
She lied about her age. I'm certain she's above 20

did she tell you she's 15 before or after the outing?

she is not yet serious with her life

everyone around him should leave him.
anything that is of value should be taken away from him.

you took a 15yrs old girl to a guest house?

do you like your life?

wait o,
1. her t fare consumes her salary even before month end.
2. during the period of the quarrel, you weren't giving her money for her own upkeep.

how did she get the money she used to rent the apartment in the barracks

you just have to accept one truth: your wife is emotional gone from you and your kids.

she didn't consider even the kids when renting the apartment.
there is obviously another man (or men) in her life and you are appearing as the barier to her fantasies with others.
please, don't push her to quit her job. this cannot stop her from cheating if she wants to - it will even increase, and you might not even be aware.
and if she quits, she will be on your neck for even matches. her demands will escalate. the day you won't be able to provide, you will see her. she will blame you for all her misfortunes.

allow her continue her job.
she is following a good career path that'll favour the family - especially your kids.
let her relocate to the barracks, the kids should live with you and your mum.
it is a greater danger if they stay with your wife away from you cause they will notice her promiscuous character and become worse.

no matter the force or actions you take, she will only change if she wants to.
give your wife, the free role she's asking for. if she's reasonable, she will opt for a responsible life.
if not, she alone will suffer the consequences.

Sixfeetbelle:
Are you a monk that you're not after sex with a woman?

are you a casanova that you are only after sex with a woman?

sageb:
Tony umez , the number one Nollywood Simp back then.
At a time, Nollywood had loverboys like Ramsey Noah, Pat Attah, RMD, Chidi Mokeme,etc Tony Umez played the role of a foolish lover in many films.

The real definition of "Why do fools fall in love?".
Doooorling, Doooorling.

he's surrounded by ladies everywhere he goes.
he's the natural talent for the role

no wonder he plays the woman wrapper roles perfectly.

mr doorling

Eyinju112:
Hahaha, everyone with their new year resolution

don't mind him

Sixfeetbelle:
Because that's what every man is after.

Let's not lie to ourselves this new year, please

that's what you are after.
speak for yourself this new year, please.

don't let men pressure you to disaster, God is still God

they even tried self.
they gave you till 2024 to park out and you are complaining?

hmm.

try Lagos landlords

collect the voice note,
go there with some persons - ask these persons to secretly stay outside,
collect the food or whatever they offer you,
call in the people you took to her place,
force her and her daughter to swallow whatever they offered you.

you need to expose and take them out because if poisoning you today doesn't work, they'll look for another way/ time to take you out.

1. stick to God and continue praying. God's time is the best - and it is coming soon.
2. stop patronizing people that say they are selling one or two items that can liberate you.
3. focus on yourself small. you seem to have overburden yourself with doing things for your siblings.
4. (if you are unmarried) please be very careful with the person you will choose to date. one thing that can scatter your mental health right now is if you choose to date someone that'll give you headaches.
if you are currently in a relationship, please reevaluate it right now.

szepasszony:
You know,

like seriously,
your one sided myopic view is very hmm.
like you read the post and this is the best you could come up with?
my God!

I no dey like this kind thing

if you also want a good man, be a good lady.

are you aware that what you are promoting here is illegal?

with the trends you are creating these days, your confusion is getting me confused.

in a space of how many days:
1. you are alone with your aunt in the village
2. your father threw you and your family out of his house - you said your wife and kids are at your neighbor's place
3. your wife poured hot water on your father.
from where?
how?
did she boil the water at your friend's place and came to help your father fight harmattan?
or what?

please what is the problem here?
let us know in time cause there are limited bed spaces in yaba left and ikorodu

or

nice one.
I love the way you talked about ladies bringing more to the table other than sex in the relationship.
I feel ashamed when a lady is approached and the first thing she says is " I want a relationship without sex" - in 2023?! this comment implies that she has rated sex as the most important/ highest thing she can offer or what you are after.
it's funny how lots of ladies feel that that's what every man is after. this results to most ladies not working on themselves to improve themselves in other areas of life. many are not even observant towards the state of mind of the man. some are so emotionless. they feel that if he decides to leave, there are a thousand and one men out there lusting after their bodies.
yes, sex is enjoyable.
sex is part of the deal, but it's for both parties.
there is more to a relationship than d!cks and puss!es

LittleBigDick:
How's it important?

the world has evolved, social media is a great part of it, so you too should evolve with it

it is not by force, but it is important