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the issue here is not pastors getting married or not, the main problem is that most persons that call themselves men of God are failures and due to pride, they refuse to go learn a genuine way of earning.
it is this pride that makes them claim to be called by God and they go ahead to open mushroom churches, hoping that one day, one big man will come, they will (psychologically) prophesy, what they prophesied will come to pass, and the man will reward them with cash and gifts.
most of the so called prophesies you hear from them are mere acts of psychology.
why is it that whenever you visit any of these churches for the first time, the (so called) man of God there will claim to have a prophesy for you.

some of them even approach the ladies(they got married to) claiming that it is by divine unction that they should get married.

people should be careful.
no be everyone of them wey God call.
some dey use their hand flash God.

i no say make girls no marry pastors o, but stay away from people that are too proud to go learn/get a genuine source of income.

it's obvious your mum just have natural hatred (without reasons) for the girl.
unless your mum gives you genuine reasons why that girl isn't good for you, leave her(your mum) to her hatred.

i love the way you tackled the issue, but don't let it get to your head.
keep her away from your parents house - cause it isn't your house.
tell your babe to take her mind away from the issue and focus on yourselves.

parents shouldn't be the ones to decide who their kids should marry

as for your elder brother... make i stop here

better left unsaid

guilty as charged

because of how much?

dat9jaguy:
Hmmm... So all through these your sicknesses, with their big names, you still dey nack so tey you get belle.

me self bin dey wonder o

SpiritLifeNG:
Uncle Simpson. u never jam

i laugh

this post is so immature

how many cultists do you know on nairaland

let me come and be going

married men?

it begins with bachelorhood

get yourself a place of your own.

as for your father, his behavior is the effect of alcohol abuse

you don enter am.

a liar na punishment

if you can do away with the money for the phone, then go ahead to get it for her.

but don't expect her to say yes to you because you got her a phone.

be ready to be called a mugu.
also be ready to be her next guy.

anything can happen.

but please and please,
i we don't want you to come here tomorrow and disturb our peace with posts like girl left me after all i did for her or girl refused me because i didn't get her a phone

wow!

it's obvious you are yet to have breakfast

Antell95:
Increase! But, you sound like a counselor? Are you sure it isn't signs of depression?

this isn't depression at all.

you are encountering increase in one important area of your life.

what you need to do is (once in a while) take some time off, go to somewhere to chill, enjoy yourself, visit friends around, family members and relatives.

give yourself routine breaks

women are born naturally intelligent.
but they allow distractions and lose focus while growing up and that's when men outsmart them

what be this

Antell95:
Minus the flirting part

it is included.

let us run a check.

how has your finances been since you stopped those lifestyles?
increase or decrease?

mtchew!

you came here to celebrate your loss

e don reach like this?

reset to default settings like flirting is a good way of life?

you are becoming matured.
accept it.

are you married?

can you endure for the 2 years he asked of you?

if you can't, then leave now

the scales just fell off your eyes

if you don't want to write yours - it's fine.

allow those that want to write theirs to write.
even if they keep to it for just 2 months, it's their business.

so you think say you don grow pass the age wey them dey send message ba?

to live and let live

stop covering up for him.

the next time your dad asks about him, tell him how frequent he comes to the house. don't reveal the story of the girl to your dad

bobolaga:
But you can have sex with those types of people and dump them, think before you do is better do before you think, is like you know how liquid was formed inside coconut.

dating comes with lots of learning and activities - sex involved.
during the course of dating, you get to know someone very well. it is your acquisition of these knowledge that'll help you decide if you should go ahead and marry the person or not.

yes, a lot of persons date for just sex and pleasures.
but if you are dating for the reason of bonding, and you notice things that you can't accommodate and the other person is unwilling to work on them or change from them,it is important to end that relationship.

now, the way relationship ends is what makes some people use the word dump

FalseProphet1:
9 Don't marry a girl with a high body count.

10. Don't marry a stingy girl


11 Don't marry a girl who acts cold towards your family.


12. Don't marry a girl that cheated on you with her ex or male friend.


This I have seen.

guy,
oil dey your head.

but it also applies to guys

try to relax,

discuss business opportunities with some (enlightened)men and put it in prayer.

this your situation is really hard