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Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 10:45pm On Dec 28, 2021
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Bola146(f): 10:45pm On Dec 28, 2021
If you wish to buy her a new phone, do it but don't tag it or put your mind in it that she must be yours grin cheesy she might disappoint or continue, just know that.

NB quote me if you can finish it angry sad

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:47pm On Dec 28, 2021
When she go use am send Nudes give her Ex, Don't Cry ooo.. sad cheesy cheesy

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by betcliq: 10:48pm On Dec 28, 2021
Op , you're mumu man. It won't end well
grin

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Amotolongbo(f): 10:48pm On Dec 28, 2021
How are you sure she really lost the phone and not just a gimmick on you?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Ocholu: 10:53pm On Dec 28, 2021
Let me be real with you OP;

Na person wey go hurry buy her phone now, go begin de shift her pants. Don't come and open another thread soliciting for help if you fail to do the needful.

PS: Avoid redpillers here; they're bitter because ladies always reject them.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Blakjewelry(m): 10:56pm On Dec 28, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?
If you can afford the phone without affecting your pocket do it, and don't do because you are expecting anything from her.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 10:57pm On Dec 28, 2021
Amotolongbo:
How are you sure she really lost the phone and not just a gimmick on you?

I've called the number it was going before then switched off till now..
She called me with her sister's phone and was begging me to check my house if it's there she left it, but I knew the phone was gone because sango ota guys no get joy..any smehsmeh your things don go and she be all this ajebutter smh

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by SankaraSo: 10:58pm On Dec 28, 2021
You are not smart

Your mother wore Arsenal Jersey and Wrapper to church on Christmas day.

But you want to buy phone of N60,000 for a girl who adds NO value to your life.

Be gathering ancestral curses, you hear!

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by everythinggirly(f): 11:05pm On Dec 28, 2021
Do you love her?
Maybe you may need to marry her first before too much spending.

Blakjewelry:

If you can afford the phone without affecting your pocket do it, and don't do because you are expecting anything from her.
This is why ladies should work. How can he not expect something in return when she is expecting something from him? Are they related by blood that he'll be Father Christmas? Dating doesn't turn a boyfriend to a father figure to foot all responsibilities mbok.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Whazar(m): 11:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
We go hear the retrieval news for front page soon

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by TicketGreen: 11:20pm On Dec 28, 2021
It depends oh how rich you are

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Agricmoney(m): 11:21pm On Dec 28, 2021
Never part away what you can't leave or forget


Anyway, Agriculture is life.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 11:22pm On Dec 28, 2021
TicketGreen:
It depends oh how rich you are
Lol infact I'm rich, Amen!!!
I just feel like anything to do to help her condition this time

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 11:24pm On Dec 28, 2021
everythinggirly:
Do you love her?
Maybe marry her.

Yea, but she's not done with school yet.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by SportsHD: 11:27pm On Dec 28, 2021
grin
Is she the one here?
https://www.nairaland.com/6809001/becoming-simp-being-friendzoned

You gave this one your second phone. This new banny had her phone stolen. What's it with you and girls with no phones?

Ain't my money, so you can buy her a phone if you want.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 11:32pm On Dec 28, 2021
SportsHD:
grin
Is she the one here?
https://www.nairaland.com/6809001/becoming-simp-being-friendzoned

You gave this one your second phone. This new banny had her phone stolen. What's it with you and girls with no phones?

Ain't my money, so you can buy her a phone if you want.

Lol...I tire sef
I don't even have shishi to buy phone grin cheesy
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by KingDash: 11:40pm On Dec 28, 2021
Mumu man... carry that money go flex your guys.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by biafraisdead(m): 11:58pm On Dec 28, 2021
dboY1123:


I've called the number it was going before then switched off till now..
She called me with her sister's phone and was begging me to check my house if it's there she left it, but I knew the phone was gone because sango ota guys no get joy..any smehsmeh your things don go and she be all this ajebutter smh
I hear u, ajebutter indeed.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dontrulee: 12:00am On Dec 29, 2021
The phone wey you go buy for her, she will use to cheat on you.
grin grin

If you're well to do, you can buy a phone for her. She may love you for that but just know that the love of a lady depends on various circumstances

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Brunosamel(m): 1:14am On Dec 29, 2021
The least you can do is buy her a nokia touch since you have money to spend on someone who has zero desire for you, you shouldn't expect a damn thing from her too. put that phone money into crypto and it might make you a millionaire in 5 years, maybe in 5 years time she won't be your type of woman. shun oneitis and embrace plate spinning that's how you you discover that no woman is really special...

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by anthonyuncle(m): 3:16am On Dec 29, 2021
if you can do away with the money for the phone, then go ahead to get it for her.

but don't expect her to say yes to you because you got her a phone.

be ready to be called a mugu.
also be ready to be her next guy.
angry
anything can happen.

but please and please,
i we don't want you to come here tomorrow and disturb our peace with posts like girl left me after all i did for her or girl refused me because i didn't get her a phone angry

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Nobody: 4:00am On Dec 29, 2021
She told you she is not ready for a relationship and you want to buy her a phone.Na so you go buy her phone finish come dey plan to collect am back when you see her with another guy for one corner.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:11am On Dec 29, 2021
cheesy
Op,you no just wise cheesy

Well, Vinnie2000 don already tell you nothing but the truth...So it's left for you to heed to him or we'll always be here waiting for your return to come and create a new thread on how you caught your Banny sending Real porn videos of herself to her ex grin

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Harrykn: 6:13am On Dec 29, 2021
As long as you won’t come here and tell us how she used to phone to do tinder and hookup

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by okoroemeka(m): 6:28am On Dec 29, 2021
Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;

Na person wey go hurry buy her phone now, go begin de shift her pants.
yes I agree 100%,but be sure that the money you will use to buy the phone is money you can afford to lose,just get her a phone and forget about that,it will even be your advantage to be communicating with her with it.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Double0h7(f): 6:36am On Dec 29, 2021
This is how stupid you guys are...

The girl said she doesn't want a relationship with YOU but you heard "try harder and convince me."
So you spend your money, invest your emotions, waste your energy and when you finally understand that she doesn't want a relationship with YOU, you come online and attack all women.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Newyorkitis(m): 6:36am On Dec 29, 2021
It is your cash, do what pleases you with it provided it is not illegal.... However, your conscience will judge you if any of your family member has a need for a phone which you have not fulfilled.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by makavellidon: 6:38am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?
you said the banny na all ds ajebutter let her buy the phone herself with her own money, if d banny scam no complain o

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by benqo01(m): 6:38am On Dec 29, 2021
Dont be foolish man,i dont know why some of una no dey get sense......go find better thing do with that money oh mumu u think say u b d only one....no carry this pattern enter next year

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Powerbandoo(f): 6:39am On Dec 29, 2021
Infact she will dissapoint you, do a favour you not regret when she is through with you

I dont know why guys are like this, just to impress a babe, if she will leave you, she will leave no matter what you do for me,
You have been seeing news like this, yet we know won get sense

See i am not discouraging, just do something you not regret later on

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 6:41am On Dec 29, 2021
Double0h7:
This is how stupid you guys are...

The girl said she doesn't want a relationship with YOU but you heard "try harder and convince me."
So you spend your money, invest your emotions, waste your energy and when you finally understand that she doesn't want a relationship with YOU, you come online and attack all women.


Are you a girl or a guy?

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