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falcon01:
My gift as you call it is no girl cheats on me. I don't know how I do it but she wakes up everyday seeing me as a catch, everyday is an adventure and it never gets boring with me it's always as if she's yet to know me, she can't give another guy attention because she feels she's still trying to get my attention. When you seek me i Care too much and show so much love but don't give a Bleep if you don't call or text me. It ends because at the end of the day they feel I'm too good for them, and after break up when they move on they ain't never getting a guy like me. Not because I'm a hot cake or something but I set the bar so fucking high Only few guys can reach 😁 and sometimes I feel sad I can't keep a girl 🥲 but maybe some days I'll get it right. I believe.

You are amazing guy.

fyzaila:
Hmmmm why haven't you asked yourself why will all these ladies be cheating on you?

There is no need of asking myself because I'm married now.

I am not writing this to show that I'm perfect or super man, I'm only creating this thread just to catch cruise.
I'm straight forward guy, I don't double date whenever I'm with any lady, so i have this gift, whenever I'm dating a lady and if she is cheating I will surely find out within short period of time and everything will be revealed to me. The following are the ways I get my information, it is either through intuition, spirituality or technology.
I created a thread about 5 years ago about a lady that cheated on me then .

Apart from this lady I narrated her story above I dated another lady that cheated on me and I got to know. It happened that I was having a nap in one afternoon day like that, I saw her in a brief vision cheating with different men and a voice was telling me is this your wife? I didn't tell her because I was just waiting for perfect moment to do so. But on one fateful day, she messaged me that something is troubling her mind and she must tell me. She now began to confess that she cheated on me with a guy bla bla, I paused I told her I knew she was cheating all these while and the guy is more than one. She queried me that how did I know, she eventually said the guy is two, my people that was how the relationship ended.
The question I'm asking now is that has any guy or a lady cheated on you before and how did you know?

ebijimi7:
Good day guys
I made the worst mistake of my life and I think it's affecting me now
I have a girlfriend I dated for 4 years before we had issue she was 22 years and I was 25 so she doesn't listen to me she kept communicating with her ex although it got me angry and I broke up with her while her friend got married to that her ex she begged me to come back I refused until 2 years after I decided to listen to her then I found out she had dated many guys close to 10 guys why I was with just 1 girl until I started having issues with her so I decided to question her because I disvirgined her and she doesn't like a protected sex after interrogation I discovered she had 1 abortion and I try to man up and accept the fact that it cannot be changed so once in awhile it gets into my head but the one that got into my head recently I collected her phone to help her repair it then that was how I came across the chat with one of her ex that got her pregnant all the nude they shared how they zucked each other and how she went ahead to abort the baby and she was still asking the guy if he wanted the baby and how the baby would have been a year old although she said she no longer communicate with the ex and I discovered she has blocked him and was telling the guy to stay clear that she is married now.
This got me angry and furious although she told me she had abortion but not full information of what happened then I called her to challenge her then she said I'm always using her past to hurt her because I kept saying it and the mother was there and she heard everything and the mother got angry that I disappointed her because she wasn't expecting such from me the mother never knew she did abortion until the convo I had with her then the mother was mad at me that she never expected such from me and the mother is a churchy type of person so she got angry ad said if not for my mother that died she would have blocked me from calling she and her daughter I felt bad that I messed up everything and tht ishoud not have said what I said and she said I should return her daughter's phone and everything belonging to her daughter including her things in my place and since that yesterday I've been begging the mother and it's now looking like she doesn't want me to talk to her daughter any more and I plan to marry her very soon I'm 29 and I don't know where to start from I have been down because I love the girl she made a statement that I felt bad for she said why does nobody loves me I felt broken it's been 24 hours now I've not heard from my gf im sticker in between moving on or wait if anything can be done......

The only mistake you made was to accept her back. Never forgive a cheating woman except you are already married to her. The lady is already damaged, pls break up with her and never look back.

childofdoom1:
Hmm some sicknesses and the fear of impending death can bring anyone to his or her knees (no matter the person's stature, wealth or influence)

I had planned to go for HIV test before month end. I googled that the virus becomes potent after about 30 days of contracting it. So by 30th of this month I will run the test.

It is almost 95 percent sure that I have caught the virus. With the conspicuous symptoms my body has displaced these past few days, only a five percent miracle can save me.

During my carefree time with Oloshos, I became restless. I fvcked raw with not less than four Oloshos. I sucked their mammalian glands, I exchanged saliva with one and then sucked down there of one of them (I know what you are thinking. I am disgusting).

It's outlandish that in a quest for pleasure, we use our money to buy problems for ourselves (gamblers, womanisers, drug addicts etc)

My greatest fear is the stigma that comes with the disease. I don't mind antiretroviral drugs for the years I will have left. My paranoia is, how will the doctor and pharmacist in NHIS react when my test results are out. They know me from the bank I work. How will the agency that employed me also act? I am entitled to free drugs which the bank will foot. But is my job safe when they see I will use it for antiretroviral drugs. I can't afford paying to visit private hospitals

This will likely be my last thread on nairaland with any of my monikers

The truth is that you don't have HIV, your mind maybe playing games on you. I will advise you that you go for the test now, do not wait till the end of the month, you can repeat it after 3 months,if it comes out positive, do not kill yourself over it, go for the treatment.
I'm a heath worker, the treatment of HIV is free in most government hospital and your identity will not be disclosed to anybody, if anybody violate this law, you have the right to sue that person and the person will rot in jail.

Absolute11:
Please help! Feeling suicidal over this!
I just read a topic on fp about one guy with rashes between his legs and I have exactly same symptoms...I was scared to come out here but having wasted money by going to various hospitals I don't even know what to do again...results says I have staph aureus and it's become resistant to drugs each time I take...I fear I could be impotent as the test results says I have 0 motility

Apart from the rashes in your genital, does it spreads to any other part of the body. What are the other symptoms apart from the rashes?
Because rash might look the same but different infection. The guy you described at the front page look like tinea cruris ( Jock itch).
Pls take things easy, staph aureus can still be treated.

My guy what you are suffering from is tinea cruris ( Jock itch), is very stubborn fungal infections which may take months before is cleared. Ketoconazole may not be able to clear it, get itraconazole or Terbinafine and use it till the infection clears from your body. Also add Nizoral shampoo and Whitfield's onitment. The infection is fungal infection not bacteria infection ( staph aureus) as some people are speculating. Pls go to hospital for proper medical check up.

HolyMakanaki:
Hello
I'm having issues with Eczema on my skin and I have tried lots of medications
Can any one pls recommend me any cream or tube that can clear my skin off this ?
I'm really Disturbed

*sorry the the headline

Buy itraconazole one daily for 30 days and nizoral or selenium shampoo. You can. Contact me for any question.

ahnie:
I m addicted to carbonated drinks and it's beginning to sound weird and I can hardly do without taking like 3 a day in every meal I take.

It's like there's a force propelling me to always take carbonated drinks.

Pls how do I get rid of such unhealthy habits?

3 per day. Diabetes mellitus is loading, try and stop it by all means. Is a deadly addiction that will kill you.

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Why are you derailing my thread guys?

Dele and Shayo (not real names) have been married for a few years. Shayo is a housewife, taking care of the kids, while Dele goes to work every day. Dele came back from work one fine evening, expecting to get “something light” from his wife after dinner, only for her to say “Dele I have already masturbated a few hours ago, so I am not really in the mood right now”.

This was the fifth time Shayo was telling him this in three weeks, so obviously, she had replaced “Dele” with her “fingers,” using her newly purchased vibrator hidden away somewhere in the house. Dele was so angry at being deprived of his right. Being a Christian, he didn’t believe in cheating on his wife, and he didn’t want to be put in that situation so he wanted her to stop using that “evil” vibrator right away. Out of fear, she threw it away, but couldn’t overcome the urge soon and started using her fingers to please herself, Dele couldn’t take it anymore when he discovered and that was the beginning to the end.

This story is the same or slightly different with many other experiences of couples in various homes. Some partners accept it because they feel it’s much better than “adultery”, while some see it as a slap on the face. The interesting part is men rarely talk about it amongst themselves. Women are more open in discussing it with each other, while couples don’t even want to mention it at all. Really interesting, isn’t it?

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Couples should be open about their sexual wants and desires, as well as their dislikes. 85 % of men and 45 % of women who live with their spouses are said to have masturbated. Vibrators, sex machines, intimacy gadgets and even sex dolls are steadily replacing human contact and encouraging masturbation addiction. Many people would argue that this is more common with men, than women, well that is not our debate for today, but on how it affects both genders and its aftermath in a relationship. Masturbation is derived from the Latin word “manstuprare,” meaning “to defile one’s self by hand”.

Many couples I have counselled or spoken to say that masturbation is a very uncomfortable topic to broach. Imagine walking in on your partner masturbating? So many questions will be running through your head at once. Apart from immediately casting and binding the devil, there are several thoughts that rush through your mind, number one being who or what is my partner thinking about while at it? Some couples may wonder if masturbation can ruin their relationship. Other couples don’t even want to discuss it.

Masturbation often carries a stigma. Some religious, cultural and spiritual traditions associate masturbation with immorality or sin.

But the truth is masturbation can become an addiction which can cause harm to your relationship with several signals stated below.

When you get to a point where you inflict self-injury on yourself due to this habit, it can lead to other challenges in your relationship.

If your spouse uses masturbation to cope when they are under stress, especially when work pressure increases and next step is to quickly get a private place to “handle” themselves, then this is a big issue because apart from leading your partner to other stress management behaviour it can quickly escalate into a big problem, imagine having to get to the toilet anytime you are under duress.

This can create a feeling of rejection if one’s partner finds solace in masturbating rather than sexually connecting with their partner. If your partner finds it very easy to replace physical contact with you, even when you are available.

We operate in a religious environment. The weight of guilt that presents itself with this act, especially in connection to our religious and spiritual beliefs (if you have any) will lead to secrecy or in some cases creating and maintaining a double life around your sexual lifestyle.

One of the criteria for addictive behaviour is the frequency of the act, sometimes partners who want to stop and are unable to do so, sometimes unconsciously increase after trying to make effort to stop due to the helpless feeling it gives.

Putting religion or cultural beliefs aside, it is an unhealthy habit with emphasis on the word habit, not only as an individual but for couples. Masturbation is very common among adults, yet it remains a challenging and uncomfortable topic

It causes a feeling of inadequacy, especially when the partner discovers about it, they tend to blame themselves, assuming that their spouse or partner is bored or unhappy with them. Masturbation is a problem that interferes with day-to-day life, especially when it is used to substitute real intimacy with another person.

Your partner may feel that his or her partner has been keeping secrets. What couples should understand is that couples have different viewpoints. People who masturbate may do so in different amounts. There is nothing like an acceptable number or not an acceptable number. where we can establish you have a problem with masturbation is when you can’t achieve orgasm with your partner through intercourse, the best is to seek help from a therapist. They can work with you and your partner to iron out major concerns affecting your relationship, or smaller issues you are struggling with.

So many couples if they can be a sincere struggle with masturbation. It all depends on if you feel you should tell your spouse that you masturbate. But you shouldn’t allow the feeling of inadequacy overtake you if you discover your partner masturbates, as long as you can maintain a healthy relationship where both individuals communicate effectively to understand each other and know exactly when to come in. Adult individuals are entitled to their own thoughts, even what our society might deem repugnant. Basically what should be your priority which is my major rule for relationships is that all your sex, including fantasies, should be with each other.

Is it possible to stop masturbation, especially when it is affecting your relationship? I would say yes! Definitely, you can stop it.

Instead of trying to restrict your partner’s behaviour for instance because restriction with words like “you must stop this habit at once’ will only aggravate issues. It is a matter of discipline and acceptance to try and stop, once there is a will there is away. If you desire to help your partner to stop, then the best method is to

Talk to them about the habit.
Find out what triggers it (for instance work pressure).
Ask them how you can help them stop it.
Give mental and moral support; don’t make them feel ashamed.
Try to turn their attention to something else, so that they get to use their time constructively.
Do it slowly, change cannot happen overnight.
Know when to seek professional help.
Learning to stop masturbating is a process and this process takes time. To overcome this behaviour you’ve practised for months and sometimes even years, you personally need several coping strategies in order to save your relationship and cause less damage to show them you really want to stop.

Keeping a full schedule will cut down on the opportunities you have for masturbation. Find activities that are self-soothing, engaging, or exciting. I personally recommend joining a gym, start running or jogging, exert yourself physically.

You will also need a healthy diet for your body, caring for yourself may reduce urges or provide motivation to resist. It can also provide a new focus for your energy and efforts. You also need to be accountable to someone you trust, if you can find a support group. That would be excellent and the right path to recovery. It can also help you develop new behaviour. You need to limit your lone time, wear extra clothes at night to cover everywhere as much as possible, make it difficult for the temptation to be successful. Stop everything that triggers the urge, like porn, sex magazines and so on, and most of all, be patient with yourself while healing yourself. Good luck!

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ladywealth:
Good evening my NL guys.
I just met a guy last month ending, we exchanged numbers and started chatting. He asked me out.. I really enjoyed chatting with him, just him alone. so few days after, he invited me to his house. I declined but I noticed that he stopped chatting with me.
Few days after, he asked about my genotype without even greeting me. I counter questioned him and he attacked me, claiming that he is not happy with me. i replied that 'I don't care'.
The next thing I received was rains of insults. Saying that I insulted him. I admitted and we settled it.
for the short times I've known him, I could see the kind of qualities I want in a man. But the problem he has and that he attested to is verbal abuse...
I noticed that anytime he invites me to his house and I declined, it always piss him off and he stops talking to me.
I decided not to visit him because it's not safe for me.
he argue over little things on chat, he talks to me like I'm a baby ( he is 33 and I'm 22). he is domineering... I'm just confused on the decision to date him considering all these flaws. I am suspicious of him being violent.
thanks

Red flag, a man that verbally abused you will beat one day.

mainkendo:

All states affected by the protest should be on curfew. It is possible that foreign bodies are influencing this riot.for those of you that think Nigeria can survive revolution. I want you to think again. What plan do the revolutionalist have to put in place. The protesters are just reacting to causes, and not actually planning anything. It will only spell regret. People will be like , had I known I would have done this or that. What the president is seeing , you guys can't fathom. People are thinking that when a protest last for one month, That the UN will interfer. Who told you guys that. Hong Kong protested for several months and UN never interfered. This protest is fuelled by a lot of propaganda and as such makes the true sponsor sophistated with global network. The thought of anonymous hackers comes to mind. Unraveling the sponsors of those hackers would lead to unraveling this I'll fated act that is about to affect Nigeria.
For those that will be quoting me. If Nigeria deteriorates in this crisis it is experiencing. Do you all think Nigeria will be different from somalia or Libya?
When the choas completely takes place, those that would benefit from it would completely take over.. This people might be controlled by someone who ochestrated these game plan being felt. Returning to normalcy from the choas is very difficult.

Oga ade, Nigeria is already hell on earth, keep this shit to yourself, nobody is sponsoring this protest, Nigerians are tired of being slaves in their own land.

360degreess:
I knew it will lead to that. After SARS was disbanded, I said the protest should be stopped and we should wait to see what they govt will do afterwards. But some frustrated people on nairaland were attacking me. Miscreants are attacking and frustrating innocent citizens on the streets, raping women, stealing from people shops etc all in the name of protest. . But some cowards are supporting them.
Now that the govt wants to deploy soldiers, I challenge all the noise makers on nairaland to go and protest. Let's see if they will come back and type nonsense..

You are the coward not the protesters.

BabaIbo:
And you think the other parties didn't spend?
It is a matter of who spent most.
I am happy he won because I know what you guys can do in term of disturbing non-indigenes if Eyi defeated him.

I don't know if other party spend money, all i know is that APC spent 7 to 10k to buy vote.
Let me shock you, i'm not an indigene of ondo, so you got the concluding part wrong.