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FamilyRe: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by antidisestablis: 8:06pm On May 20, 2020
The foundation of your relationship is faulty, no matter the feeling I have for any lady if she says she is in relationship, I back off immediately because I wouldn't want to destroy the work of my fellow guy. Karma is bitch, that's what you are experiencing for now..
My only advice is that never give up God can still reverse the irreversible, you too can be raking millions in the nearest future, move closer to God and work very hard, your tomorrow is bright.
PoliticsRe: 82 Ghost Workers Got N48.2 Million Ondo Car Loan In 2018 – Audit Report by antidisestablis: 7:55am On May 20, 2020
Civil servants are the most corrupt people on earth. I have been applying for this loan for the past 6 years I wasn't given because I didn't know someone that knows someone that can help me.
That same year, someone i know applied and was approved just within one week. There is no hope for this country.
RomanceRe: My Encounter With A Highly Intelligent Girl. by antidisestablis: 9:48pm On May 18, 2020
Randy100:
It was a hot afternoon of saturday 21st december 2019, I was sweating profusely like a christmas he-goat. I was busy minding my business and walking on the pedestrial side when I saw a small girl who I later got to know to be 19 years. She was carrying a school bag at her back and also a sack full of book on the hand, I could see she was struggling. As a man with good heart, I decided to help a little sister. I offered my help and I can bet my left balls that she was pleased as she smiled back and agreed without reluctancy. She was beautiful though slim with no nyash and a tiny breast that you could mistaken as a big pimple. I didn't mind, I was only interested in one thing to chop and clean mouth. I collected the sack from her hand with ease, showing no weakness. We started matching to where she will enter keke that is going to her direction. When we reached where she will enter keke, I asked for her number and she said, I should call my own instead that she is going to call me. I called my number, but I noticed she was not writing it down any where. I asked her why, she told me that the number is already stored in her brain. I doubted it and asked her to call it. With the speed of light she vomited the number for me. I was so impressed. She promised to call me but she refused to tell me when.

I have always been in control when I am involve with any lady, but this one, I was the one anxious waiting for her to call me. After waiting for the whole of december, I gave up and stopped expecting. On friday, 3rd january 2020, she called to wish me happy new year. I was so excited, and still I don't know why I was excited. I called her back in the evening to ask her if she will be free on sunday, that I want to take her out. She agreed and we fixed 4pm at genesis located in leventis at Enugu.

Having dated so many girls, I know how girls think, so I am always ahead of them. Thinking I was dealing with a random girl, by 4pm I started coming out from my house when she called that she is already there. I lied that I was helping an accident victim that I will soon be there. I arrived 30 minutes late and apologized which I have never done because I am always earlier. It has been the other way round, the girls apologizing. We went inside and sat comfortably talking. I got to know she is in second year studying electrical engineering at UNN. All my life, I have never met a girl as highly intelligent as her. She was so versatile in every aspect. We discussed politics and I got to know that her favourite tv show is journalist hangout. We talked football, her analysis of why she thinks Messi is better than Ronaldo was top notch. She countered every of my defense of Ronald intelligently. I was perplexed and shocked. We ordered for their useless fried rice and drinks and ate. She brought out 1k and gave to me. She said I should use it and support whatever I am paying. She even paid more than half of what we ate.

I came back, lost in thought about her, I was so impressed. I picked up my phone and texted her "God bless your father for raising a great daughter like you. Good night." I have been doubting if truly she is a girl, or if I have a Bobrisky situation here. Just like Thomas in the bible, who said "I won't beleive untill I put my hand inside that hole."
Unbelievable, most Nigerian ladies lack that trait, pls take good care of that lady and don't disappoint her. Well, I don't think this story is true sha.
BusinessRe: ⚡⭐Make Money with Shopify Dropshipping Free Complete Step By Step Training Cours by antidisestablis: 12:55am On May 17, 2020
Thanks for the info OP. What is the minimum capital needed in dropshipping?
BusinessRe: ⚡⭐Make Money with Shopify Dropshipping Free Complete Step By Step Training Cours by antidisestablis: 12:50am On May 17, 2020
Following.
RomanceRe: What Skill Can I Learn That I Won't Regret In The Future. by antidisestablis: 12:00am On May 17, 2020
Danielkupiejo:
I am a 24 years old young man, I am planning to learn a skill that I won't regret in the future.
Nigeria is hard for graduates, I just want to help myself now that I am still young so I can achieve some certain things before I clock 30.
I wish to be a millionaire and I do not want to just sit down without doing nothing, I want to start somewhere. Some guys are into fraud, and yes I know their are still some legit guys out there making it legitimately.
Pls if their is any skill that i can learn that would make me a millionare in the nearest future pls feel free to contribute in the comment section. I would like you to help this broke guy, all I want is to be rich and I want to become rich through the right means. If theirs anything I can learn that would make me a bit okay pls feel free to let me know. I will appreciate your contributions thanks and God bless you.
I will advise you to equip yourself with IT skills (programming, web design, graphics design etc) and become a freelancer.You will not regret it.
RomanceRe: How I Discovered My Girlfriend Has Been Cheating: Pics Included by antidisestablis:
Ningen:
Dating for 3 years...
Are you guys “studying” for a degree?

Imagine submitting your resume to the same company everyday for 3years... Wouldn't you try other options?? Don't waste time with someone you intend to marry or they'll be forced to move.
Do not support immorality, whether he proposed or not, a girl that will cheat will cheat, instead of cheating, if the girl finds out that the guy is not serious, she can leave the relationship. I pray that your partner will cheat on you one day and know how it feels.
HealthRe: If You Want A Healthier Heart, You Should Start Eating These Food Items by antidisestablis(op): 3:22pm On May 15, 2020
Enoch07:
where I'm from, we eat what is available
You can decide to change it.
HealthIf You Want A Healthier Heart, You Should Start Eating These Food Items by antidisestablis(op): 3:03pm On May 15, 2020
Heart disease can be prevented if you eat the right food in the right way. The superfoods you will find on this list will help boost the health of your cardiovascular system among many other benefits! They can be sourced in a natural way as well. Studies say that you can prevent issues like obesity, diabetes, and clogged arteries with a healthier diet. Check out these items that will give your heart the boost it needs.

Oranges

Don’t you think oranges are the best thirst-quenchers ever? Aside from that, they offer plenty of vitamin C, fiber, pectin, potassium, and nutrients. They will flush out sodium, neutralize dangerous proteins, and reduce blood pressure. This way, you can ward off heart failure and heart scar tissue development.

Kale

Kale is one of the best things you can eat if you want to improve your heart health. It will keep your heart healthy and prevent the onset of heart disease. After all, the leafy green has fiber, antioxidants, and omega-3 fatty acids. People like them a lot because they are low in both fat and calories as well.

Garlic

Garlic has earned a reputation for its ability to repel vampires. Aside from that, it tastes great and offers nutrients for your heart. You should know that it can keep your blood vessels healthy, prevent arterial plaque, and lower the level of enzymes in the body. It is available in pill form for your convenience.

Red Wine

Can you believe that red wine will actually prevent cholesterol buildup and boost your HDL levels? It also has antioxidants that will ward off blood clots by keeping blood vessels flexible. Coronary heart disease does not stand a chance if you drink red wine in moderation!

Chocolate

We all love chocolate, so it is great to hear that it can prevent heart disease, stroke, and other heart problems. It will bring down blood pressure, prevent hypertension, lower blood pressure levels, and boost blood vessel flexibility as well.

Sardines

Sardines are great if you want to add omega-3 fatty acids to your diet! This is the good type of fat because it will lower your triglyceride levels and boost your HDL levels. It will also prevent inflammation!

Lentils

Lentils offer a lot of health benefits. Research shows that you can prevent your heart disease and stroke risk if you eat a diet rich in legumes. Lentils have a lot of potassium, magnesium, and protein. They will keep your cholesterol, blood pressure, and blood vessel plaque in check.

https://banixforum.com/2020/05/15/if-you-want-a-healthier-heart-you-should-start-eating-these-food-items/

RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by antidisestablis: 10:32pm On May 13, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!
My guy I need to see you. I just need to dash you hot slap to restore your brain to default setting.
"Kwotinue giving her money your reward is in heaven.
The truth is that there is nothing anybody can say here, you will still give her money. Your reward is in heaven. "Kwotinue"!
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Deletes Chat On Facebook After Conversation by antidisestablis: 4:58pm On May 08, 2020
MichealKin50:
My Fiancée Does This. What Does It Mean?

Good day all.

The lockdown has brought my fiancée and I more closer. She spends most of her time now in my place than hers. While staying with me, I one day carried her phone to make call I discovered she doesn't put password on her phone.

Just few days ago while she was sleeping, I used her phone to Google something online and something pushed me to open her Facebook app. When I open, I realized she deletes chats after conversation. I was looking for the messages I do sent her on Facebook and could not find any.

I can't figure out what this means.
Though, I don't always advise people to do this, but in this case you need evidence. Why can't you use simple app to get her WhatsApp conversation
HealthRe: I Am Intersex/hermaphrodite. We Exist. Learn! by antidisestablis: 10:34am On May 07, 2020
Yeah, this information will help a lot. God bless u.
RomanceRe: Should I Continue The Relationship Or Let Her Go? by antidisestablis: 12:56am On May 01, 2020
My guy you have been dating yourself all these while. A girl is cheating on you and you can't do anything about it. The lady is not for you pls japa
RomanceRe: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by antidisestablis: 9:21pm On Apr 30, 2020
Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.
What advice do you still want ?you can't eat your cake and have it. He was hoping to have you as his girlfriend since you told him you are single when you got close to each other since that cannot happen he has to jappa.
I think you are looking for someone you want to friendzone, pls leave the guy alone and concentrate on your relationship . Cheers.
RomanceRe: uu by antidisestablis: 8:03pm On Apr 30, 2020
Godoverevery:
Good evening guys.
Am typing D's with a heavy heart.....is about my uncle marital life and am thinking of doing what my mum other siblings suggested
My uncle got married in 2013....he is my mum brother (last child) my mum is the first child...he was brought to my mum in lagos at age 9 and infact most people think he is my mum first child....he lived all is life with us... primary, secondary,uni my parent were responsible for that.
when he wanted to get marry in 2013 my mum actually suggested a low key wedding while they give the rest of the fund to him to boost is ACC.....my mum sis said were she went to pray they told her they mustn't do an elaborate wedding but he insisted is wife to be parent said since she is the only girl so it must be a big wedding.... my grandparents beg my mum to just do it for there sake to celebrate them(my parents actually paid 70% of the wedding expenses) the to bride to be just started working so he didn't have much yet...he was 33yrs.
my mum siblings (they are five) insisted the lady must be pregnant before the wedding takes place but mum due to D's sprikoko things (mfm member) picked against it....u no this believe of baby born out of wedlock is not good spiritually.
Now since February 2013 till now no child...she had two miscarriage in between....they have done several test in the past which says both are ok....but they did one just recently and they were told in lay man language the wife has a weak womb (that she might have done abortion before) she denied ever doing such.
Now my mum siblings are using style to blame her and are threaten to kick the lady out.....my mum is the only one fighting for her even my grandma is supporting the move.

Right now in my head am thinking of going this route of my fiancee getting pregnant before our wedding takes place (I no my parent will kick against it but I don't care).... but my fiancee actually confessed before we started dating dat she once did an abortion in her 200lv and it was pills she used....Nobody is holy so I don't have any issh with that but with my uncle marriage issh am worried.

So guys am asking please is this a YES/NO route to move?
I just want to implore you to do the right thing, don't impregnate her before the wedding. whether you impregnate her before the wedding challenge can still come in any form. I have heard case of couple which the lady got pregnant before marriage and the baby later died it took them several years before they gave birth to another baby. I can only advise you to be prayerful and do proper investigation on your fiancee before you tie the knot. Happy marriage life in advance.
RomanceRe: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by antidisestablis: 12:39am On Apr 29, 2020
Udoskybest:
I know this is a very wrong time to trouble y'all with my personal issues seeing we're all troubled by the persistent rise in figures of persons with or suspected to have contracted the novel Covid 19. But this issue is really of pressing concern to me and I'll appreciate your sincere contribution(s).

I love my girl so much and have gone extra miles for her. I'm in my mid 20s, comfortable but not rich. My girl is still a student in a nursing college and we reside in same state though she still stays with her parents...

She is too demanding and arrogant when there's a little delay in delivery of her never ending demand. Recently she demanded that I sub for her but my account was on red alert. I wanted to share her data from mine, MTN no gree. I explained to her and even sent her screenshot of the failed transaction only for her to call me by my name (which was unusual) and rained insults on me. I love her and wish to walk her down the aisle but I'm confused now.
What should I do??
Red flag! pls run for your life don't marry that girl.That's my two cents
RomanceRe: Hear My Story, And Learn From It! by antidisestablis: 9:54pm On Apr 28, 2020
ogoloray:
My name is Raymond, and I'm sharing this story, not to attract sympathy, but so that young men can learn from it...

I was in my final year at the university when I met Anita. She on the other hand was a fresher, we met at a campus event, and I immediately took a liking to her, not only because she was beautiful, but also because she came across as intelligent, and we also seemed to have a lot in common, as she was from a broken home just like me, with an unconcerned father...

We developed a fondness of each other, which quickly spiralled into a romantic relationship. It didn't take very long to fall deeply in live with her, even though my friends kicked against it because I was about leaving the school. I ignored their warnings, because Anita was humble, caring, and very well mannered. This was a combination you hardly find with beautiful girls in my school.

To cut long story short, I went for nysc in katsina, and we became miles apart from each other. We managed to keep the relationship alive, and promised each other that distance will not be a barrier, because we felt really committed to each other. I got a job at a microfinance bank in katsina after service, so I had to stay back as I felt it was a good opportunity to begin life and start my journey of independence, but then Anita lost her mom who was her pillar, and only real form of support.

The loss was so devastating for her that she started contemplating leaving school since graduation was still far away. But I wasn't having any of that, I promised I would support her and we'll pull through together.

So as you can imagine, I started squeezing out monthly allowances for her out of my meagre 42 thousand naira salary, but it still wasn't enough because there were times when she would need to buy academic materials and other things. The financial burden became so bad that I had to lie to my mom at one point, that I misplaced bank money and I was facing arrest, and she sent me 180,000 to settle the debt, money of which I used to settle Anita's rent, and part of school fees.

I had really missed her, and finally the chance came for me to see my girl, my mothers family wanted to share a landed property, so she wanted me to appear with her at the meeting. I didn't tell Anita about this cause I wanted to surprise her...

Upon arriving delta state, I made a quick stop at our university, and my first surprise came after I discovered she wasn't living at the location I thought I had sent money for, but this didn't really bother me cause I felt she might have moved for some important reason.

Finally I got her address from one of her neighbours, and I saw my Anita with heavy pregnancy, and it looked like she would be due for delivery at any time soon. For a moment I couldn't breathe, my heart was pounding so fast, and I was worried I might fall down. The worst part is that she was living with another male student. She sounded very normal, and asked me when I got back. I turned around to leave immediately with my bread I carried.

It was on my way home I started to realize why she never posted any pictures on social media, and always felt uncomfortable with video calls that always lasted a few seconds.

I felt sad not because of the support I gave her but the betrayal really hurt me. My mom noticed something was wrong with me, so I told her everything. She smiled and told me its how life can be, surprisingly she laughed hard when I told her what I really used her 180k for.

I'm much better now, but not yet fully recovered, I still have trust issues, and wonder if I can be committed to anyone again. So that my story people. Bye for now!
Sorry for what you have been through, most ladies out there are not loyal, similar thing has happened to me, which I posted on this forum.
Once again sorry for what happened, a very loving and loyal lady is on your way.
HealthRe: Nigeria Is Sitting On A Keg Of Gun Powder. by antidisestablis(op): 11:46am On Apr 26, 2020
Fawazzz:
My concern is the northern part of Nigeria. The level of poverty, illiteracy , coupled with the fact they have pathetic numbers of doctors and a very weak health system makes the region a potential epicentre in Africa.

I suggest the military comes out because the lockdown is not effective in some parts of Lagos and other states. People are moving the virus at a worrisome rate
Yes, you are correct, people are just dying like a fowl in Kano and the govt is doing nothing about it
HealthRe: Nigeria Is Sitting On A Keg Of Gun Powder. by antidisestablis(op): 3:39am On Apr 25, 2020
@ Staphylococcus
The effect of the explosion will be so disastrous, if covid-19 should hit us the way it did to US, Italy and the likes, we cannot survive it, anyway is God that has been helping us not the effort of this government.
HealthNigeria Is Sitting On A Keg Of Gun Powder. by antidisestablis(op): 2:41am On Apr 25, 2020
I told someone few weeks ago that covid-19 will wreck havoc in Nigeria because our government is not ready to fight this deadly plague, her reply was that we reject in Jesus name. As you can see from the situation of things now, only God can save us because our government is not prepared to fight this scourge.
I work in one of the reputable government hospital in my state in south west in Nigeria, the state government did not provide any covid-19 test kits that can be used for emergency purpose if there is any need to refer to infectious center, I was even told that there is no test kits in our state that the few cases that was detected the sample was sent to neighboring state, can you see how bad the situation of things in Nigeria.
I just want to implore anyone reading this to take necessary precautions because covid-19 is real and deadly and there are many asymptomatic people moving around.
All we can pray for is divine intervention because the confirm cases will reach ten thousands or more in few days time. Thanks for reading
FamilyRe: I'm Worried About My Son's Behaviour. Is He Normal? by antidisestablis: 3:01pm On Apr 24, 2020
jess2019:
Although it's not allowed here but I've moved from smacking to beating now but no change in his behaviour. I fear this boy will put me into trouble one day or grow up to hate me. I'm thinking of sending him to naija for one school semester but hubby refused.
I think you should try and persuade your hubby to send him to Nigeria, so that serious discipline can be instilled in him. The boy isn't going to change except you act fast.
HealthRe: BREAKING: Nigeria Reports 108 New COVID-19 Cases, Total Infections Now 981 by antidisestablis: 12:18am On Apr 24, 2020
BIAFRAisBURIED:
Nigeria on Thursday recorded 108 new cases of the novel coronavirus, bringing the country’s total infections to 981, according to the Nigeria Centre for Disease Control (NCDC).

According to the NCDC, 78 of the new infections were recorded in Lagos, 14 in FCT, and 5 in Ogun state.

The country’s total deaths from the virus now stand at 31 while 197 have recovered.


https://www.channelstv.com/2020/04/23/breaking-nigeria-reports-108-new-covid-19-cases-total-infections-now-981/
This serious
HealthRe: 86 New Cases Of COVID-19 Reported, Total 627, 170 Discharged, 21 Za Deaths by antidisestablis: 1:19am On Apr 20, 2020
sexymoma:
You see my problem in this country is even the news casters, those ones that claim to be educated will coviniently pronounce the figures.
Now every evening you inform us about those that has been discharged... At night you'll give us another figures of those tested positive..
So all those SAN, celebrities, politicians, professors in Nigeria can't question FG about real numbers of those infected..
Substract those discharged from 627
That is 470 - those that died 21
That 436
Total: 436
That is why they keep fooling us, we won't ask questions, we'll just sit there, permit me to say 90 percent of our so called celeb are just too dull.walai I dey boil...
You need to be informed! That's the standard way of reporting covid-19 cases, what NCDC need to add in their report is the number of active case which is 436 at present also they need to add who are critically ill.
RomanceRe: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by antidisestablis: 11:54pm On Apr 19, 2020
Giwoni:
Good day NLanders
I'm a medical student, and gf( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her . Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents. Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket, It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day ( for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.
In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.
I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life , but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022(which supposed to be 2021but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled ( this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, ( I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.
thanks
I just want to ask you a question. All the money you are given to this lady where did you get it from?
Leave the lady alone, her mind is made up she can never marry you.
HealthRe: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by antidisestablis: 10:05pm On Apr 15, 2020
jelel6:
This are the kind of insensitive and thoughtless people who go about saying or typing things faster than their brains could process the difference between night and day when they see it.

What kind of human boldly writes something as idiotic as "Sickle cell And HIV sufferers are living corpses?"

Such a stupid statement.

What's the truth according to you? If in your wrapped mind HIV persons have themselves to blame, what about those suffering from Sickle Cell disease? Did they chose their parents?
What truth do you have to tell these set of people whose only crime was that their parents probably didn't make the best choices and nature gave them unfavorable genes?

Even men and women who are chaste till marriage will eventually have unprotected sex with themselves. And if one partner becomes unfaithful afterwards, the other is just as prone to STIs as every one having unprotected sex for procreation. People still get infected despite knowing only one sexual partner even in marriage. You see how your narrow outlook and statement accuse even those with the best of behaviors?

Think. Think. Think. Before you write or say anything, THINK. You don't have to say anything Everytime. Silence sometimes is a thin line foolish people cross as soon as they speak.

Peace
God bless you for this reply.
RomanceRe: How Much Will It Cost To Conduct A DNA Test? I Can't Believe What I Saw by antidisestablis: 10:25am On Apr 15, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Ladies divorce any man that ask for DNA if you can trust him enough to open your legs for him then why can't he give the same trust to you huh This is why i stylishly ask any person I'm dating on his opinion about DNA if accept it I'll just break up with him
It shows you are not going to be a faithful partner, faithfulness is not in your dictionary.
Christianity EtcRe: My Church, First Baptist Abuja Shared Rice And 10,000 Cash To Ease Lockdown by antidisestablis: 10:42am On Apr 05, 2020
tyeenigga:
What My Church Distributed To Ease Lock Down

My church just sent 10,000 cash coupled with half bag of Rice to ease the lock down during covid-19. First Baptist Church Garki, Abuja has done well.
That's lovely, we have known FBC Garki Abuja to lead by example. I'm proud to be a Baptist.
RomanceRe: Will She Ever Forgive Me: Please Help by antidisestablis: 6:03pm On Apr 04, 2020
futuregovernor:
I am scared,if I loose her then I will commit suicide. She is my everything, Ladies,please advice me. How can I get her back. Will she forgive me
Stop deceiving yourself, she is not your everything if you really love and respect her, you will not cheat on her. I don't think she can forgive you, even if she forgive you the pain will be there. for life because she caught you red-handed.
RomanceRe: Packaging!!!! by antidisestablis: 1:39pm On Mar 24, 2020
If packaging attracts man to you, they will only chop and go, dress neat and smell good, it may not be expensive dress. The only thing that can make a man to stay with you is good character and your submissiveness.
RomanceRe: I Love Him But Just Dont Want Sex Now by antidisestablis: 9:59pm On Mar 01, 2020
blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?
Real men do not pressurize ladies for sex. pls try and forget him, forget about what the world maybe saying, no sex before marriage is the best.
Never give your body to man who hasn't paid you bride price.This is my 50cents.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs West Ham (3 - 2) - On 24th February 2020 by antidisestablis: 12:23am On Feb 25, 2020
rolams:
It shall never be well with MTN Nigeria. What a poor network! Can't even enjoy the match!!
I was thinking is only me. Very useless network.

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