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We didn' t vote for him in Akure south because some of us rejected his money and voted for candidate of our choice. Only God can save us in Nigeria because the election was marred with massive vote buying. Dibo ko sebe

Pweetiedude:
I just got married a few weeks ago. From my conviction, marriage hasn’t been what I pictured it to be. Though, it was a long distance relationship before we eventually got married. We’ve known each other for a long time because we both attended same high school but I was ahead of her with two classes. She left when she was in SS 1 while I graduated in the year 2009. Our path crossed around year 2012 and we kickstarted a relationship. The relationship was on and off because we broke up twice and later reconciled. It was actually my fault back then because I wasn’t fully committed to the relationship. Fast forward to the year 2018, we got serious with the relationship, though a distant one. It was actually due to my relocation from Lagos to my hometown for greener pastures. She graduated and completed her service in the year 2019. During the course of the completion of her service, she asked me if I’m willing to wife her or not. I was kinda scared that very moment, I had to divert the topic. I dialogued with my immediate elder sibling and he told me to take the bold step that every marriage comes with it own blessing. I spoke with her dad and mum, likewise she too. We eventually tied the knot few weeks ago. I later discovered our perspectives are totally different which is a turn off for me. I, personally relish my privacy so much which I’ve been deprived of, just to mention few. Even to the issue of lovemaking because I ain’t the type that’s into sex. We practiced no sex before marriage, which was due to the insistence of my wife that she’s a virgin and a celibate. My wife wants us to be having sex at every interval, which I didn’t succumbed. These above mentioned have been causing rift and issue in our young marriage. What are the steps I and my wife can take to enjoy and have a long lasting union?

My brother, you are not ready for marriage, necessary adjustment has to be made when it comes to marriage.

Aketi will not win this election, everything is working against him.

porthouse7:
I pity Liverpool, arsenal with beat dem like say dem tif something for alaba market

How market oga Ade?

Aketi cannot win this election, it is obvious except they rig it

Albertone:
Let me be honest with you.

Looking at how money,money dominates your list,any potential suitor will assume you are only interested in his money and not love.

It is a good thing to want a rich man,but there are somethings money can't solve.Example,Temperamental issues,trust issues,cheating,unreligiousness,smoking and drinking alcohol,sex addict,violence!
These things can easily be hidden till you both marry.So emphasis on money can bring you a rich guy with unimaginable flaws.Because he will have this notion "Afterall,I will be spending on her so I can do whatever I want!"

Your best bet is marry an old divorced man or an old widower.Better still,marry those rich alhajis with 12 wives.
But it is best you marry a guy you will grow together with!





NB:I want to believe your post is strictly for cruise and fun

God bless you

Zzor:
Please,i need a serious man to marry latest by December and these are the qualities I want in my man 1:He must be very religious,,2:He must be a virgin that has never been involved in any form of sexual act,,3:He must be between 30-40yrs of age but an elderly man is highly welcomed if he's a serious billionaire,,4:He must not be a first son (preferably last in the family) except he's a Heir to an empire ,,5:He must not be a medical doctor,,6:Short men(1yard people)should mind their business,,7:If you stay abroad please mind your business,i rejected studying there myself,,8:You must be a very clean person,,9:You must not be a smoker,you must not drink or do drugs,,10:You must be very rich,im rich already,so you must be richer than me e.g if I'm a billionaire,you must be a trillionaire.

You are just seeking for attention and truly if you are serious, then you are not ready for marriage.

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos. I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family. Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos. Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy. Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage. Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

Yes, she is up to sth, send a DM to me let's have a private chat

Christardor:
Please I want to ask, his he truly a Scammer?

Can we talk, maybe on a dead thread.

He's a scammer, I don't want to talk much because I will be banned again

This guy is a fraudster, my people do not send any money to him

APCHaram:
The current Biastard head of the NDDC is testimony of why Igbos should never be trusted with public positions

That albino was stranded in China during the Wuhan outbreak . He was there attending a WHO and Bill Gates' sponsored pandemic response in another city in China.

He went there to be indoctrinated on Bill Gates' plans to force a vaccine solution .

He was handsomely paid and still is being paid by Bill Gates' to continue the lock down and to frustrate any other conventional remedy chief of which Hydrochloriquine.

The Biastard is just pushing fake test and case results to justify a lockdown.

He is also blocking proven treatment for the virus.

At the NCDC isolation centers there is hardly any patient and treatment is non existing.

Another Biastard in the form of Ngozi is pushing the financial aide (bribe) and vaccine solution.

It is time these Biastards are fenced off and given their Lesotho.

Just pray that non of your family are infected with covid-19. More than 7 of our staffs are currently in isolation center. Covid-19 is real

It might be because she really love you or maybe you are financially stable and she is not ready to lose you that's the reason she apologized to you.
Another thing is that she may has psychological problems. Some ladies are wired like that, they just like maltreatment.
OP, I want to make a passionate appeal to you, never lay your hand on her again.

ignis:
N100,000 is not enough to start a profitable business which won't require your attention.
Keep saving guy....
When it reaches N500,000 let me know.

Which profitable business someone can start with 500k?

Cashalhaji:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year now, it's a distance relationship (badagry-abeokuta), though I have my job and she's an Entrepreneur with about five start up businesses. She's a baby mama and also school. The most fascinating thing about her is that she's very very brilliant and smart. So full of ideas, humble and even cheap to maintain, not the so demanding ( though I never fail in all my manly Responsibilities). She always acknowledge it to my face and behind me that man like me is so so scare. So she's ready to marry me ASAP once am ready.

I also want to marry her and can't even wait, but my twin problem with her are:

1, she's was a coded runs girl in the past and that lifestyles is stil in her. So no matter how much/ or what i do, once she's Hot or just feel like catching fun she will just chat up any guy she likes from her contact, seduce him & bed him.
2.. because she's been hurt in the past by a cheating baby daddy and because she has married men she also cheats with and did know all the tactics in d game, she constantly post it and keep telling girls that men are born cheater and he if didn't cheat now will Cheat as soon as he's rich.

No, she never show any traces of her cheating lifestyle to any one, not even to those she cheats with. To some she pretent to be a starving deserted housewife, to others she pretent to be a lonely, hustling singly mother with no boyfriend or mind to love again. So with her humility and hard-working ( truly she is) everyone believes her and love her too. Plus she's dark and pretty.

I used to love and so trust her too, until late last year when she said for the third time, that we should quit d relationship but later apologise. So I felt something is fishy And i had to tap her phone then I got my shocker.

Funny enough she's so very jeolous though she trust me (atleast for now)

At first I told some councellors (with proof) and they advice me to leave her that she won't stop cheating.

I found it hard to leave her yet because
I still don't have anyone else and am still so obsessed with her brilliance, maturity, humility, hard-working, sense of humour, tolerance, and more of her rare charisma. Just last week we landed an online business that can fetch use about 100k monthly as partners. I believe our partnership as couple can land us greater things in future , we have excellent communication and crave for Entrepreneurship and creative .. so match in many ways ... Sex, social, religion, education, ethnic and all wer'e just so very compatible

THE WORSE NOW IS I start losing my libido to her, why ?

1.. the last time she visited while with me she was chatting one of her sugar daddy and another new (Nigerian) bf in Spain, She sent a naughty pic I snapped her to d guy and that made me lost interest quickly, could not even touch her again till she return.
2.. last Friday she chatted me she was Hot, so I agreed she should come tomorrow Tuesday, but I know she will be up to something, so I quickly went to tap her chat. I realized she sent a semi nude pics she sent to me to about 3 other people, and she's chatting one of her ex telling him she's lonely and Hot because it's cold , so that asked her to come visiting this Thursday. Then yesterday evening her phone was off and when she on it .. I saw she was chatting her Spain bf that she's drunk. .. then I knew she went out with someone yesterday. So someone yesterday, me tomorrow , ex fixed for Thursday, damn .. !!!

I called her today that I couldn't see her tomorrow again that I will be busy. Also made up my mind not to sleep with her again. But her prowess and brilliance and traits. Is rare to find , so am still scared of losing her. What do u advice pls. MATURED RESPONSE ONLY PLS.

meanwhile I once tried to caution her. I started by complaining about her phone being in flight mode and lied I also got infection. But she immediately threatened a quit. So then we settled.... But now am rather ready for the quit because I don't see her changing... She rather feel so smart and that will last until d day I will open book for am.

Don't marry her because she will continue her coded runs When you are married. A cheating wife will surely kill her husband one day.

mimimile93:
Good day my Nairalander family. I hope you all are fine. Sorry to bother you all. There's something giving me sleepless nights lately.

Firstly, I vowed never to have anything to do with women after the setbacks I had in the past.
Somehow, I fell in the arms of a woman again. This time around a good woman.
She loves me more than I love her. She has being my backbone lately.
She really helped me a lot. She was always there for me when I was arrested. She is the first woman ever to spend money on me since I started dating.
She value everything I give her no matter how little it is. I bought her a wristwatch on her birthday and the wristwatch is less expensive compare to the wristwatch she use. But I was surprised she abandoned her expensive wristwatch and started wearing the one I bought for her.
This girl has done more than enough for me. When the pandemic was severe, I stayed in her apartment all through and she took care of feeding and all.
We plan getting married. But here is my concern.

Her family!
Her family hates blacks and they have no reason to like a black person.
I only visited her family twice and the way they welcomed me wasn't really good.
I once talked with her younger sister and asked her if she would marry a black man. She said never. That even if the black man is richer than Bill Gates she will not marry.
Her sister hardly reply my chats on Line App.
This my girl loves me but my problem is her family.

Friends I am very confused.
Note: The current work I am doing now I got it via this my girl. She is everything a man needs. She bought me a car last year.

Go ahead and marry her she is a good girl, such girl are difficult to find. My only advise for you is that be faithful to her, don't let her down. Though, family is very important in every relationship, don't worry for now, they might change later.

Casandra25:
I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

Are you married to him? If the answer is no then, something must be very wrong with you (I'm sorry for being so harsh).

ChybuzzDD:
Are you a medical professional??
Don't give false assurances about what you don't know.
Neither acyclovir nor livolin has any action against the hepatitis b virus.

The only true information you gave is the one concerning hepatitis b immunoglobulin, which can prevent transmission.
What your sister had could be hepatitis c, which is curable, or acute hepatitis b, which could spontaneously resolve in some immunoe-competent people. Once one tests positive for chronic hepatitis b, it is usually for life, unless a miracle happens.

If you know the number of medical doctors hepatitis b has kept out of work from the middle eastern countries(where one can't work if he tests positive), you won't be giving this simple, falsily reassuring information. Such doctors are always returned back to Nigeria. You think they can't afford ordinary Acyclovir or livolin?
Goal of treatment so far is not cure, but to decrease the viral loads, halt progression, and prevent/reduce chronic liver disease and cancer.

Acyclovir and other anti-viral agent are widely used in the treatment of hepatitis B, however the goal of the treatment is to reduce the viral load and prevent liver damage just like you said above. Though, Hepatitis B is deadly but it can be managed when you go to the right place. So you are very wrong if you say acyclovir doesn't have any effect on hepatitis B. I'm not giving any false assurance, I'm only try to tell him not to panic.
Like my sister's case, I said it that I don't know the type of hepatitis she had then, all I know was that she was very sick with yellow eyes but she was treated for the acute infection and she kept having appointment with the consultant for two years before she stopped the treatment.

LegitDeals247:
Do u have idea how much for d bolded drug and what's d function of it cuz I only knw about livolin.
Thanks

Is an antiviral agent, it reduces the viral load and halt or prevent liver damage.

The combination of acyclovir and livolin will take care of her condition perfectly there is no cause for alarm. Make sure she go to hospital for regular check up.
But prepare your mind when is going to give birth, she will need hepatitis B immunoglobulin to prevent the infection from getting to your baby and is a very expensive drugs.
My sis was once diagnosed with hepatitis( but I can't ascertain if it is hepatitis B) we treated her, when she was to get married, she tested negative to hepatitis B. Just continue the treatment and continuing praying, there is nothing God cannot do.

Ephemeralbeing:
Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.

Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.

Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.

I got married at 26.

Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.

6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.

But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)

Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.

I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.

Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.

Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?

Why would she change her passwords?

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?
Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?

Am I just feeling insecure or something?

Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.

My guy, you can see the handwriting on the wall. She is up to sth, my advise to you is to be calm and gather evidence. Be patient one day you will know her password then use Whatscan to hack her WhatsApp, though this is not advisable because you might see sth that will cause you both emotional and psychological trauma nevertheless no matter what happen, pls do not leave your marriage.

harmless011:
Numerous opportunities abound on how one can leverage the power of the internet to make money online legitimately.
Though because of geographic location and other factors some of this opportunities are not open to us as Nigerians.

Last three months at the peak of the lock-down out of idleness i begin to research on ways to make money online, i was surprise at the massive opportunities.
I started out with prolific and i was making between $10 to $20 a week, though it was not much but it really motivate me to keep digging.

Last month i stumble on an opportunity that allows me make money by taking photos with my phone.
I always thought making money with photos is reserved for professional photographers, i later realized i was so so wrong.
Right now am making between $65 to $80 dollars weekly by uploading everyday photos that i took with my phone camera.

I am hopeful i will be hitting $100 and above weekly in the coming weeks.
On average i do upload between 15 to 50 photos weekly and the funny thing is the photos are not professionally edited.
Just everyday photos of things found in the neighborhood, even local food recipes.

I want to share this opportunity to nairalanders who are genuinely looking for how to make money online.
I will only send the information to first 50 people that contact me as i have many online classes to attend to.

To get the information just send me an email to opinionnetworks01@gmail(.)com and i will respond to you.
Once i respond to the first 50 people i may not be able to reply others because of numerous engagement.

The only way to make money online is by taking action.

I have sent you a message

Seerade029:
Covid 19 is real.
but we might not have up to 17k tho.

but it is real, you can't know 17k people nah out of over 190M people

We are under reporting covid-19 in Nigeria, we have just conducted 94k tests while South Africa has done more than a million tests..As we speak now, there are over 100000 cases in Nigeria.

God bless you, this is very nice.

Following

This is maybe genital herpes. pls visit hospital.

The number of coronavirus cases reported worldwide has exceeded 5 million, around two and a half months after the World Health Organisation (WHO) declared the virus a pandemic.

Nearly a third – or 1,551,853 – of those cases are reported in the US, making it by far the hardest-hit country globally. More than 93,000 people in the US have died from the virus.

The numbers come from the Johns Hopkins University tracker, which has been tallying cases since early in the outbreak.

The figure is for the all-time number of cases. Of those 5 million, at least 1.9 million have recovered and 328,000 have died.

On Wednesday, around 100,000 new cases were added to the tracker globally, pushing the count over five million.

WHO Director-General Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus said that Wednesday’s was the largest one-day increase so far, NBC reported.

It’s around five weeks since the number of cases reported globally hit 2 million on April 15.

The true number of cases will inevitably be higher, as tests can only capture a proportion of total infections. Some nations and territories are also suspected of under-reporting.

The much-criticised US response to the outbreak stands in stark contrast to countries that quickly took drastic action to control the virus, such as South Korea.

President Trump has largely left it to individual states to decide what lockdown measures to take, which in many cases have been minimal.

Despite the rising numbers in the US overall, several states are beginning to lift restrictions, according to The Wall Street Journal.

Although the total global number of cases has continued to rise steadily since March, the pace is uneven. While outbreaks have declined considerably in Germany and Italy, cases in countries such as Brazil and Saudi Arabia are still reaching a peak.

Several countries – including China, where the virus first appeared – have reported a large drop in cases, but reimposed partial lockdowns after outbreaks began to reappear.

This article was originally published by Business Insider.
https://banixforum.com/2020/05/22/global-covid-19-cases-just-passed-5-million-almost-a-third-of-them-are-in-the-us/

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