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prechbills1:
she'd only provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage, I'd provide 20.
I don't know why you guys reason this way

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MorolayoVictor:
Who has #2000 that he/she is not using presently? I wanna use it to finish the ritual I have been doing to send Buhari to daura.

Demzlent:
Please I need a good advice from my Christian brothers and sisters

I and my wife are attending a big Church which she loves a lot,she is even the one that made me to be attending the Church. I have a calling which I'm sure of
Then late last year a fellow Christian who is a minister of God called me that we should start a ministry together, I agreed and we started working on.
The ministry is starting today and my wife is insisting that I should not go that if I go she will divorce me. She even called the man we are to start the ministry together and threatened him
Please what should I do? Help me.
Should I go ahead?

Mavrick2012:
thanks so much for this.
Sir, i have sincerely been doing all within my capacity to prove am a changed person, but she still insist have not changed. I can't even understand.
sincerely, have been trying a lot when it comes to listening to her. Though am financially not too healthy, but am trying all i can in taking the family out.thanks sir

Nwaohafia1:
I witnessed a scene in Anglican church in PH. My friend's Chief bridesmaid wore a boob baring gown and the Reverend chased her out of the church premises. The reverend called a girl to come and act as the Chief bridesmaid. And that was how my friend had an unknown person in her wedding pix as bridesmaid.


Why all these nah?

oladayo63:
Juventus, there you have it. Can you, for our sake, take your revenge upon RM? This fixture will be interesting to watch.

Liverpool vs Man City... Lol. EPL teams have been horrible against other sides so far. So, you two can batter each other anyway way you like. Just ensure one of you remain alive But come to think of it, UEFA actually pushed an EPL team to the semis

Barca vs Roma... This is an easy draw for us. We got one of the ladies in the group. See you guys in the semis.

Sevilla vs Bayern... I think UEFA haven't seen enough of Bayern goal galores. Heynkes, can you show Mou how it's done, please?


Interesting ties, I must confess.

ameri9ja:
As much as I want to commend the minister, knowing Africa, this is probably a systemic, wide-spread, accepted practice, probably intended to augment their poor salaries. So singling out these two for what everybody does and is expected to do ... I dont know

deepwater:
Op can you please come to my house tonight ?
I wish I could have you tonight, as in, you need to be whipped with iron belt all night till first light of daybreak.

It is obvious your brain is an app, but sadly you are still using the trial and free version. You better buy your license key to have full functionality of your brain.

I read through you initial thread last month, I can not believe that your girls mom asked you to beg your girl to accept you and you complied only for her to tell u she would accept you as an ASSISTANT boyfriend while she still maintain her main guy and you sheepishly accepted . God of mercy! Because of Kongo? Kongo shining master abi? Come op, you sure say you suck breast complete when you small?

If I be your sister ehn, I go personally treat your ffuucckk Up completely.

How dare you think of harming yourself over a mere woman??

Omo, I suppose they flog you now like this I swear.
Woman rapper like u, na your type dey give ashawo G wagon. Ode, mumu boi

dessz:
wetin consine me, no helpful post in fp

whiteandblack:
This is my first time of keeping a distance relationship. I met this girl and we have been dating like 5 months now. She is a kind of a cool girl, innocent looking and really appears to be a very good wife material. Although we live in the same state, but in different cities [about 400buck transportaion] We do see once in a while ..just a few Sundays...Because of the nature of her. She works mon-sat and stays with her relative. She doesn't have much time to come to my side often as my location is not close to hers. But we have been keeping strong communications via Phone calls & WhatsApp.

She told me she had a bf but due to some complicated issues they are no longer dating but they are just friends [just ordinary friends] which i have overlooked. We haven't had the opportunity to nack ourselves [have intimacy] for now. Not that I'm too dull for that but really need time to get to ourselves well, take things slowly and likely have her as my wife. Honestly, I really like her but not sure if she is innocent as she said and looks.

But my issue now.. I'm beginning to suspect this girl. Most times I will call her outside our usual call time [Unexpected time..my targeted time] and then she always sounds somehow on phone as someone wey dey recieve doggy style... She making some strange mooning sounds/noise and cuts calls those times calming it's network.

She closes from work by 6 and not allowed to out from home anytime from 8pm. So sometimes i will give a surprise call within 6 to 7;30pm. Our normal conversation time is 9pm.

Then when I called her at our normal time..she will sound well just normal without such strange sounds. I have recorded those 2 sections ..listen to them again again and no longer find it funny. suspicious

This has happened like 3-4times. I'm really suspecting this lady. But don't really know how I can track her down on this shit. Although I have confronted her on this yet. I just want to be very sure first.

For me, I have been keeping myself for a very long time now...not that I never had intimacy b4 but had stopped all that stuff for long now so I can settle down with someone special. But will not ever allow someone take me as a fool.

At this time of my life now,, I don't really playing games or allows someone playing games with me. It's time to have my own new home now.

I don't want to conclude that she is cheating on me but I don't want someone playing games with me..becos I hate shit.

Guy, So I want to know how I can track this lady that claimed she loves me and find out if she is cheating on me or not?

This is somehow distance relationship but not that much distance to me..I can go that area any time I want.

I just want to know ways I can test, track and proof that this girl is not cheating on me? I want to make sure this lady is innocent as she claims.

Guys, please I want your honest and mature advice here.

vanemo:
No, that's not the case. I am 100% sure she isn't cheating on me and would never contemplate doing such.
If she didn't cheat on me when I was down financially and some men were hitting on her, she would not do that now.

waxxydude:
I don't even know who to blame in this girl condition. Whether her parents, the society, the guy wey first shaq am whether he mishandle the girl head, or i should blame the quality of brain given to her at creation.

Who should i blame?

TRUEPATRIOTLOVE:
Which pdf did you open it with?

dungas30:
ITS BEEN SAID THAT EXAMS WILL COMMENCE 4/07/17. BUT HAVE THEY RELEASE NEW EXAM TABLE? TO VERIFY COURSES DATE

bigcp:
this man....u never still learn ur lesson?. ..u de allow d girl to blackmail u emotionally...just as we told u earlier...no worry a cheater hardly change....she'll be very careful next time...afterall she knows ur MUMU BUTTON....u r just too soft....women will keep playing u until u r ready to grow some balls....
this is d red flag ppl are always talking abt...na d red flag u de ignore now so (i hope u don't regret it in d nearest future...i think she's likely 2 change after wedding) ...i believe d reason she delayed sex with her side bf...because she be virgin...like say she no be virgin she 4 don 4k d guy taya....body no be firewood....how would u be dating a girl without sex...2moro after wedding..wen u discovered she ain't dat innocent virgin u perceived her to be...(maybe her hole 2 wide n deep)..by den e go don late small...because ppl will start askin u if u married her 4 her virginity or for love....
be wise....SHE JUST BLACKMAILED U EMOTIONALLY...LIKE WE TOLD U EARLIER ON....and u ignorantly fell for it just as i projected...well, its ur life...no one can live it 4 u...
well i wish u all d best...

WackyJ1:
I love the maturity that the OP has used to handle the situation.
Your way has been a great evangelism.

A lot of us have been in that situation before.
My last relationship was like this except that she confessed to me that she cheated a year later. And all that could come to my mind was how she smelt different when she came back from what she did the next day. It was 24 hours later and of course she had had her bath, but I guess that was the way the universe was telling me what was up.

I trust that you will know to keep your eyes peeled around her.
She might also be suffering from some spiritual manipulations. If you don't want to give up on her. Make sure that she gets more involved with Church activities and God. So that God will be in her...

schumastic:
I won't say much but just few things. i can relate to this and i will say how mine ended.

she came back crying n became suicidal, i was scared Cus if anything goes wrong, i will be held responsible but i tell you, i wish i looked beyond the tears n deceit cus after i forgave her n gave her a second chance, she continued from where she stopped but this time around, with someone different.

all am saying is this
the same way the devil deceived eve, that' how her friends n male guys will continue to deceive her and the same way adam fell for Eve's gimmick is the same way you will fall, if you close your eyes to the words written on the wall.

star4ever:
Never assume a negative attitude or behavior will change when you get married to a partner.

From what you have written, she is cheating on you. Please quit the relationship and save yourself from dying early. An adulterous woman is dangerous. Forget love and open your eyes wide enough to see clearly.

It is better to have a failed courtship than to get hooked into a marriage filled with heartaches.

sisisioge:
Awwww...so sorry to hear. When one's heart has been entrusted to another, one has no choice than to keep begging him/her not to treat one badly. You may never be able to move past this though...Pele.

ColonelDrake:
Here you have the reason. A girl you're not having sex with has no emotional attachment with you. A girl you haven't had sex with will hardly commit to a relationship because she believes she has nothing to lose. If I dated a lady without sex, then 1 Naira won't drop from my pocket either..