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dayokanu:
Indians still do the arranged marriage stuff and have a lower divorce than most ethnicities

gomeek:
With regards to sign #7,if there is a possibility that every lady ends up like her mum,then @OP u saying you guys also end up like your dads, and you could be beaters,cheaters, deceitful,greedy,spiteful,abusive. . .like some dads.

skelefish:
Whether dumb/irresponsible, owning to the appellative 'man' already makes him head, which is synonymous with superior.

hensben:
yes!

ikecheff:
Nollywood actress Halima Abubakar bares her tattooed bosoms for her fans.

She posted the pic on her IG page: http://instagram.com/p/x0p4eKEd7Y/?modal=true

skelefish:
Did I exclude any woman? All women are recalcitrant by nature, constantly competing for headship with their superiors(men).

The earlier women realize they are inferior to men, the better for them.

emusmith:
As I type this, I dedicate it to all those who are literally "enduring" their spouse. *tears in my eyes for them*

DISCLAIMER: I do not mean that men aren't also a pain in the neck, but for now I'm specializing on this angle! Don't start to misquote me, abeg!

Marriage is a forever agreement to love and enjoy one another and not to barely manage and endure one another.

It's appalling that is the case of some men. Why? They were blind to little
signs that I'll be listing now.

Some guys are in haste to get married this year, which is good, but WATCH OUT FOR THESE EARLY and TODAY SIGNS that if not heeded to may cost you your peace, joy, dream and above all, your destiny. If your destiny really matters to you at all, you need to read this...
It is the little foxes that eats up the vine....


What Are The Today Signs To Watch Out For To Avoid Regrets Of Tomorrow?

( Remember, some married men are wishing they're still single)


1. Her vocabulary is full of abusive statements.

Guys, don't be blindfolded by her grammar. See beyond that! A woman that will "abuse" the husband tomorrow starts today. You're with her and she "playfully" call her friends over the phone "olosho", "stewpid girl", "F- Word"- Relax, she'll use that on you one day when she's off guard. Unless, you're okay with that, No Problem!



2. Her friends are the "bad" type and she forms the "good" girl before you.


She tells you her friends smokes, drinks and are even lezb but she isn't! Iffa hear! She is or about to be! If her friends are that, she is part of them. Marry her today, tomorrow her friends whom she listens to will set her against you- in critical decisions. Be careful! Friends MAKE or MAR you, they don't leave you the same! Your bae isn't excluded!



3. She hasn't bought you anything "sensible" since dating her.

I don't believe all ladies are stingy. Some are cheerful givers! It is in them. If you are dating a girl who hasn't given anything "sensible" to you, it's not that you want the gift! No! It's that she's not the giving type which may affect her relationship with you and your family later. It's not in the size but in the willingness to doing it.
At least, she should not be selfish- thinking about only herself.



4. She is not enthusiastic about seeing your siblings or parents.


If you have a girl who hasn't bothered to see your siblings or parents, Bro, watch out! If a girl loves you, she would want to see your siblings (experience speaking)- It will be normal!
Ask her what she thinks about in-laws living with you guys...- To see her reaction in her eyes...



5. She has to end every argument.

Ladies talk, I know. But nor be every time you go dey end argument na...I have a colleague like that who flashes green light to me but argues like anything... I don't argue with her... I watch her argue with other colleagues. How can she not know how to guard her tongue even in the presence of one she is crushing on? hmmm



6. She doesn't believe that a woman must necessarily submit to the man.


This topic, feminist don't want to hear. But, I must say it. In the pecking order of authority, the man is above her, even though they're friends. ... He is the Man! If your girl doesn't like to hear this, but keeps saying, we are equal! Haba! Even lioness knows it needs a Lion! They walk side by side but he is on top. Even, you, lady, in your heart, wants him to be the Man o! If she believes otherwise, guy, tread softly!



7. Her mum is a pain in her dad's neck. (It varies)

It varies greatly but an Old Wise man once said, "If you live long enough, you would watch history repeat itself; girls grow up to become just like their mothers, vice versa..."

If her mum nags her dad, there is 75% chance that she will nag you when you marry her, while 85% chance she is currently nagging you right now in that relationship.
If her mum is OROBO, , and she is the first or so, the probability of her becoming like her is 90%.



I'm not a "basher" of ladies, as maligned... I speak the truth.

I stand to be corrected, mind you.

Most of my threads are coined from deep research and experiences from others, books, myself etc.

Enjoy your reading

Cheers.

gladpresh:
WELCOME TO THE 21ST CENTURY!!!
*Our Phones ~ Wireless
*Cooking ~ Fireless
*Cars ~ Keyless
*Food ~ Fatless
*Tyres ~ Tubeless *Tools ~ Cordless
*Dress ~ Sleeveless
*Youth ~ Jobless
*Leaders ~ Shameless
*Relationships ~ Meaningless
*Attitude ~ Careless *Wives ~ Fearless
*Babies ~ Fatherless
*Feelings ~ Heartless
*Education ~ Valueless
*Children ~ Mannerless
PARLIAMENT ~ CLUELESS Everything is
becoming LESS but
still our hopes are ~ Endless.

shawnfamous:
Why do girls show a little or big part of their breast? I don't know o!

Why do they get upset when they catch us looking at it? Ko ye mi o

Someone like me!I love bosoms so much that when I see one I can barely look away..I can pay any girl any certain amount of money she wants just to focus my focal lens on her boobs! I stared at my friends bosoms and they don't seem to enjoy it, I stared at my girlfriend's mother breast of which I was pretending 2 read what was written in her cloth, and I was caught

But now those faces on them didn't really look good,ever since then I always force my self 2 look up, at times they even still catch me starring at them and they adjust! Abeg shey na me say mk dem open am? So what do girls really feel when they catch us staring at their bosom? I really need ur opinion esp. the girls! And boys to are allowed!

rasojie:
I've been following up this gal for sometime. Came back home for the xmas holidays, and things started getting real. We did hang out yesterday and she has agreed to visit me @ home anytime this week. Now the problem is , she told me her Dad is a native doctor.

According to her, she does not like what her father is in to and she is not a part of it. But deep inside me, I'm afraid. I come from a strong christian family and my mind is telling me this is the unequal yoke talked about in the Bible.

She's fun and adventurous and sex might happen. I don't want to miss that tho. Any advice or experiences?

anumide:
the interesting thing is: an 'intelligent' man would have ignored even my very first comment. But u were desperate to prove a point. Sweetheart, u re more dumb than u think. #100 says u still fight with your sisters in order to take your share of the meat. It is people like u Jesus sent me to earth to minister to. Oya come collect hug

iamrealdeji:
Will have? Don't blow my phone pls

iamrealdeji:
Will have? Don't blow my phone pls

iamrealdeji:
You're one of those I categorized as the dumb folk,its not your fault though

iamrealdeji:
That's what I'm saying,all these girls dissing me without reading what I said properly,guys would rather have mixed feelings because guys are generally smarter,really smart guys would understand me,averagely intelligent guys wouldn't really understand and either keep mute or ask me to explain better,dumb guys would diss me,i said girls are not this smart which means they're not as smart as boys,and that's just how it is,its reality,it has nothing to do with dissing or downgrading women,the percentage of male Nobel laureates are more than women Nobel laureates,the percentage of male great scientists and researchers is more than women,the percentage of male inventors is more than female inventors,the percentage of guys that understand my statement is more than girls that understand my statement

iamrealdeji:
exactly,women ain't always this smart

apolonius:
What an unimpressive attempt to be right than acknowledge the flaws of your arguments.

If it is so right for you to push me to repeat points I have made so clearly,why is it wrong for you to repeat the status of your virginity?

My position has been clear in all my points that I do believe in test driving wholly and without apologies.

I have also been clear in saying that those who are inclemently saying they don't believe in test driving before marriage but who have acknowledged that they have test driven are hypocrites. Why champion a position that your life evidently discredits?

More than anything else,I have littered my points with an advice to those who say they don't believe in it that they always will run into serious challenges as the crowd of men who will be interested in them romantically and seriously happy to marry them will insist on test driving. And this insistence does not mean that they don't love them or are not serious about them. Are these elementary points so unclear to a mind so determined to champion a position than understand alternative views?

yorke1:

Is that supposed to scare me?

Never in your life mention my momma for whatsoever reason(s). I get so emotional in that aspect. Don't let me look for you and hurt you.

yorke1:
lovely couple. Marriage is meant for matured minds menh. When small minds messed marriage up when they started getting involved in it creating fear here and there for the unmarried ones.

God bless their union and put all the bad belle people to shame.

One more thing before i forget, GEJ till 2019! Haters should kill POMO this yuletide period.

MizMyColi:




Follow your heart.

Almeida:
The genesis!! Am I the only one seeing this?? All was good, but you suddenly became insecure. Why??. You invaded his privacy severally, he warned you. You didn't listen. This tale is one sided. Sorry to say, but you have to come clean if you sincerely want unbiased views and comments on you situation.

bensowe:
My type of girl