Umbrateeth04:
idiot why not practice with a man....mugu

Lol. I rememeber back then in Uni, I had to cope with four girls in a room for almost a semester when I had issues with accomodation. Mehn, that was an experience.

25th August

bjtinz:


Beyond a doubt. Her education is a monumental waste.

A foul-mouthed, crass, uncultured, mannerless useless beech.

And you just called her these many names. Now you see that your self-righteousness has come to judgement: to think that this is the same reason she's being criticised and judged. The question now is: how cultured are you by calling an uncultured woman a biitch? No 'vawulence' intended; just my quiet observation.

Peacecore:
especially among us, Africans.

Yeah. But I think it's more of a universal thing; I mean the double standard.

Peacecore:
Though she should've allow the dead to rest in peace but it's her personal opinion. Those Nigerians condemning her are doing that based on inferiority complex. When Trump called our president lifeless, no American asked for his resignation as people in Nigeria are asking for prof's sack. Nigerians even celebrated it as if we won world cup. Africa wake up day don break.

As much as I am indiffernt about this Uju Anya saga, I think that you have oil in your head.
You see ehn? Sometimes the world balance; sometimes e no balance.

erad:
What sort of nonsense question is this?

It's only natural for a shirt that is not tucked in to roll up while walking, even for a guy.

Sometimes you lift it up to sit down and don't bother taking it back down when you stand up.

Sometimes they want to have easier access to their pockets to take and return their phone or money or key easily.

My point is, it is a very harmless unintentional phenomenon.
Why make a big deal out of it?

I think that's a lie. I've also noticed what OP said and have asked the same question.

gambojimeta:
Why did she make such a venomous and virulent post on social media. Whats wrong with these people...

I am not justifying her, but it's easy to condemn and criticise people until you are found in their shoes. By then your self-acclaimed virtures must have come to judgment. Well, you might want to read the comment above you.

AmazingELixir:


Reading the comments of virtually everyone that had penned down post here, simply establishes that most people on this platform don't read before they jump in to comment.

The incarcerated lawyer's interview is eye opening and very revealing...I encourage you all to read through all the thread.

Nigeria needs help in all facets of her national life and particularly a radical overhaul of her criminal justice system.

It's true many didn't read the post to the end but saying "virtually everyone" is an overstatement. Some people during their scollarship days learnt how to read long, boring epistles. For me, the whole write-up was an educative piece.

Pells:
Do you expect to be pampered in the jungle??
Be a man and don't come outside crying out like a sissy bìtçh
Men nowadays are becoming very weak
To be a man ain't easy,,,
Don't be a püssy nigga

I have a 99.9% presumption that you did not read the post to the end. Learn how not to be a lazy Nigerian youth who is lethagic always in reading but swift to comment just for the purpose of gathering likes.

saintneo:
The woman did the right thing. It is better for her career.

Good thing for the guy, he has additional year to continue pursuing the woman without mixing business with pleasure.

Una no go kill pesin wit laugh for here.

LMFAO. WOW! Op, thanks very much for this post. You just added a year to my fucking life; I thought I've lost it. Was in one of the most confused states of my life and thinking of the next course of action take. In order to ease some mental strain I decided to visit 9raland for recreation. Lo and behold: what a funny post. You have made my day. What a naughty fellow. Lol. Let me read it again.

MODIFIED:

ALRIGHR! ALRIGHR! ALRIGHR!

I'M BACK
(Clears throat) The guy was a big time fool for doing wrong thing at the wrong time. You dey ask your supervisor out: how una wan take keep face dey do project? At least he should have held on to his feelings until after the project before pulling the trigger.

GregoryPeterson:
scam.
Don't be deceived bro

The rate at which your likes preach the gospel of deception when it comes to spiritual things, I'm begining to think most you who talk down on spiritual things are on assignment just to decieve people. Once someone shares a spiritual experience here, you guys call him/her a lier, trying your best to negate his/her story. I know a Jehovah's Witness guy who never believed anything spiritual until he met a dwaff demon on his way to examine a patient at past 12 am. His second experience was when he tried to treat a possessed patient. Keep wallowing in ignorance or decieving others as if you are a man without a spirit and soul. Life is spiriual whether you believe it or not. Even the whites you guys idolize know this. The only diffence between us is that Africa is too spiritually dark and diabolic.

Secondly:
Beheading in front of a church?

Looks more like what cultists will do.

He was not a cultist of any sort; he was a responsible man. He sold ice cream a few years ago. Most people knew him. Probably yahoo tins kuz that's what these yahoo ritualists have been up to lately.

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H0711:


Unfortunately he can't afford to take the child anywhere. his younger sister has refused to come and help and I can't do it too. Being a single mother is not a death sentence I rather leave than carrying a burden which I didn't agreed for.first of all he didn't tell me anything about the child and her condition and why would I have to stay and suffer taking care of her including my own baby who will be born in 2 months time. If another woman would be happy to come and take care of the child is not my problem I wish her all the best.

It's clear that your mind is made up and I understand, but my only advice is: take a break and wait for him to figure out a way but don't you quit your marriage. That is not and will never be the solution, it will only compound things in the future.

Christie06:




Some people are just unreasonable. Not that it is difficult to think.

The ability to give every situation a benefit of doubt even when the signs speak otherwise, is one of the characteristics of a right-thinking man.

ekene247:


Making sense.
She posted it here to shame the men and get her ego increased. She didn't know she also passed another message about herself to the right thinking members of Nairaland.

You see am? Another person with sense.

Christie06:
I see nothing wrong in sending messages to your or anyone's mail. Isn't that one of the reasons you added your mail account? Some could actually need an information from you. Needless to post that here, you could have ignored.

Please where did you buy this sense? You speak wisely.

TOPIC: FOOLISHNESS

WHAT IS FOOLISHNESS?

Foolishness is an office... A person who occupies the office of foolishness is called a fool...

HOW DO I STOP BEING A FOOL?

ANSWER:

KEEP OCCUPYING THE OFFICE OF A FOOL

You want to be told what to? Never, I will never tell you. That very thing in your mind, do it because that's what you will end up doing. Yes, we know. But I guarantee you that after a rough journey through the hard way, you will never remain the same. Like me, you must have learnt by force, so that in a few years time you'd be here advicing young folks, (as in such thing) and the endless chain continues. Hahahahaha!

Nonexisting1:
The problems you listed from number 1 to number 5 are all red flags and you are still in the relationship? Wisdom is seriously chasing you but it seems you have always been running faster away from it. Enjoy your simping in peace, God forbid I interrupt it.

SECONDED

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, I am. And what does that mean? It means that if you cross my path, you won't finish telling the story. Be warned.

You might want to check your email.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, I am. And what does that mean? It means that if you cross my path, you won't finish telling the story. Be warned.

(Chuckles) Yeah, I get that.

A peace offering: I sent you a PM. Please can you attend to it if you don't mind?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I was not wrong after all, you and your friend are ignoramuses. I don't even know what the essence of this thread is since you and your randy oloko 10 naira friend both know what to do after all and that is even if the story here is real.

We spend it as a hobby indeed. Bunch of low lives.

Since you know you can cater for the mother and child, why bother us with your bunkum?

Wow! Are you really this rough with words, I mean, offline? I will understand if it's just for the... Otherwise, you just need to take it easy. No offence please. Just asking.

Kingkum:
You see what i was saying? i'm only deaf and not dumb, i can talk very well.

OK, Sorry about that. My bad.

siofra:
He's weird.

No, he's not. He has a unique way of life. In fact, I would to be like him in many ways except being deaf and dumb.

VeryWickedMan:
She'll die in her sleep one day in your crib and you will go to jail for murder

OP You dey hear am?

Ifailed22:
CC apiski

You are welcome.

Ifailed22:
Good evening

And please, I havn't seen the picture but I think that you should not bother posting it anymore; whoever will help will help regardless.
And lest I forget, based on my previous comment: I have stopped listening to the old biblical stories of Abraham, Isaac Sarah, Elijah and all the rest, not because they are not true but because I believe that their era has passed, I am the one present now. So if God is God, then let him be God through me; if He lives then let him live through me; if He's merciful then let him have mercy on me. So as much as I want to live, I know that I didn't create myself, for "it is not given to man that walketh to order his steps:" it's a state of rest. Have this mindset in a surrendered state, void of any fear and doubt and you'll know peace.
Hope you understand? Know God and KNOW him for YOURSELF. This is my little token for you. It shall be well with you.