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Career / Re: Personal Savings Culture Amongst Youth - Inputs Required by Aproko(f): 9:53am On May 28, 2010 |
^^^^^^^ do you mean married with kids and no source of income? or rather no source of steady income? |
Career / Re: Lawyers In The House. by Aproko(f): 5:45pm On May 27, 2010 |
^^^^^^^^^^ why are you limiting yourself to those areas? any particular reason? |
Career / Re: Personal Savings Culture Amongst Youth - Inputs Required by Aproko(f): 5:40pm On May 27, 2010 |
leighcon: you should add tithe, offering, gifts/donations (some you just cant avoid like office contributions during birthdays, weddings), the occassional family/friend you send recharge card or money. Really saving takes a lot of discipline and the ability to delay gratification. but i've discovered some home truths about savings 1. save for a purpose, otherwise you may see it as loose cash and dip into it. 2. dont bother keeping up with the Joneses, cos they honestly do not care about you. the people who care about you understand where you are comming from and will never judge you by appearance alone. 3. dont carry more than you need. it will help reduce the temptation to spend. 4. begin with the end in mind and never underestimate the power of compound interest. 5. above all, condition your mind, its all in the mind |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Lady Looking For Some Friends Within Lekki And Ajah Axis by Aproko(f): 5:17pm On May 26, 2010 |
onyiilady: i can see you have a good business sense though. will send you a mail. i come to ikota often, especially in search of jeans!! i hope you can help me there. |
Politics / Re: Fire Razes Ibori's House In Victoria Island, Lagos - Breaking News. by Aproko(f): 2:53pm On May 25, 2010 |
@ OP, how come you were the only one that saw his burnt car? this your alliance with Onanefe, you go soon tell us o, but really, if one benz burns why should i really care when he can replace it with all that he has amassed? at least no one was in the benz. |
Career / Re: Average Salary For A Lawyer In A Law Firm In Nigeria by Aproko(f): 10:11am On May 25, 2010 |
if you are connected, then you will be in the firms that pay about 150k plus profit share at the end of the year. if not, its tough. |
Family / Re: I Love Her But Should I Break Up With Her? by Aproko(f): 8:57am On May 25, 2010 |
Isabella89: then let her go get a job for Christ sake!! in 2 years she has contributed absolutely nothing to the guys growth and development! what am i saying, she hasnt even contributed to her own growth and development! @ OP, what role has this girl played in your life other than to milk you dry? let her earn some money and see if its easy spending it all to feed people sitting in an air conditioned hall. has she ever tried taking care of your mother? afterall, she has time on her hands. i bet she doesnt even visit to know how your mother is doing; and here you are asking us what to do? you think when you empty your savings on the wedding and car and go home to drink garri, you think she will not finish you with insults? you better smell the coffe brew and get out of this torture you call love. and if you dont, i can bet your small ass will open another thread here asking how to leave his marriage. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Pls I Need Matchmakers by Aproko(f): 9:54am On May 20, 2010 |
how do we contact you oooo, i have this catholic friend i have been trying to hook up. that gal needs to step out more, always in church and work |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Mature Lady Proffessionals, Lets Talk by Aproko(f): 9:38am On May 20, 2010 |
ok , i know a lot of decent girls that need to get out more and meet people, the issue is meeting people they can blend with. na wa |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Aproko(f): 1:50pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu, you just spoke my mind, @ OP, Please give him all the space he needs because your writing anything won't turn the situation around, at least not the way you are expecting. please let him be, as much as you can, try not to contact him at least for a while and in the interim, please do stuff that you love, meet new people whatever, just make sure you're occupied. if he really likes you, it wont take him long before he realizes. take care dearie |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Mature Lady Proffessionals, Lets Talk by Aproko(f): 8:09am On May 19, 2010 |
Your mind made up yet? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Decent Lady, Who Is Ready To Settle Down (jokers Pls. Stay Away) by Aproko(f): 8:06am On May 19, 2010 |
Please allow the brother cast his net o, you dont know the big fish he might catch |
Religion / Re: Pastors Are Bias & Discriminate When It Comes To Giving by Aproko(f): 5:14pm On May 07, 2010 |
manmustwac: me sef i'm disappointed, but most of all, I'm disappointed that you even give the issue more thought than it deserves. the pastor doesnt bless you, God does. who says all those that have givenoffering and tithes get blessed when the Pastor prays for them? my dear, you better think again. |
Romance / Re: Part 2 :My Boyfriend Is An Atheist. I Love Him But My Family& Friends Hate Him by Aproko(f): 10:29am On May 07, 2010 |
Labake, From reading Funaya's post, it was obvious that you always wanted him for yourself and you were just waiting for the chance to pounce and good for you the chance has come. so you have no apologies and no sympathy right? thats good for you at least you are not ashamed to say that you are greatly enjoying another persons misery. but look how fast Funaya dumped Fantasia, you think one day it wont be your turn? you think you will never make a mistake right? you believe Funaya will always need comfort abi? you think at the back of his mind Funaya will never wonder wether he judged Fantasia too harshly? you think he will never think of her? am sure you know you must be joking to think all that. what sort of christain are you anyway? you are no different from Pastor Isaac. Because what you have done to her is enough to send her to the hospital. Now you dont want to speak with her again, I hope Fantasia is smart enough to leave you two alone, because she deserves better than a 'friend' like you and a boyfriend that has the hots for her 'friend'. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Guy Stored My Number With Bitch by Aproko(f): 5:00pm On May 05, 2010 |
lol , when will people learn to leave their partners phones alone you probably found what you were scrolling for , |
Romance / Re: What Should I Do by Aproko(f): 3:37pm On May 05, 2010 |
@ OP, depends on how much you can take. if you are in for the fun of it, who cares about the other woman? but if you want a relationship that could blossom into something more, you better ask the guy to choose. if he chooses you fine, if not, please move on. but the way i see it, the guy will end up marrying none of you!!! |
Career / Re: Zenith Banks Refuses To Pay Members Of Staff Profit Sharing by Aproko(f): 12:35pm On May 05, 2010 |
@ OP, you need to know wether there are criterias to be met before being paid profit share and what those criterias are. if banks were declaring losses and huge dip in profits, it is unlikely that they will want to share from the loss position or erroded profit. i'm not saying its a good thing, but you should know from the day you decide to work in a bank (some banks are worse than some though) not everything you are promised will be given to you just like that. have you ever tried dividing your gross by 12? does it come close to anything you take home? (exlude tax and pfa) so profit share is icing on the cake given with the mood of management. forget that it is in your offer letter, it is not your right. at least, so we have come to learn. |
Romance / Re: My Nigeria Girl Friend Called Me A Chameleon, Now Am Going To P.I.M.P My Ride by Aproko(f): 11:38am On Apr 30, 2010 |
then maybe you should forget about girls for now and focus on your job. because this problem will occur over and over until you realise that you need to find a balance. thats what life is about - BALANCE. |
Romance / Re: Should I Get Rid Of Her,she Is Trying To Affect My Future Negatively? by Aproko(f): 11:34am On Apr 30, 2010 |
so you prefer the one that gave you disease? just tell her you were with a jehovah witness and you suspect you have contacted a disease and she will leave you gladly. i suspect you are the one trying to affect her future negatively. please get a grip my guy. |
Romance / Re: My Nigeria Girl Friend Called Me A Chameleon, Now Am Going To P.I.M.P My Ride by Aproko(f): 11:22am On Apr 30, 2010 |
Ahhh, I see , I actually read your post (even though it was a bit difficult to understand) and I think before you go pimping your ride, you must understand plenty things: 1. a laptop for 'video calling you anytime' is not a substitute for you. 2. staying at sheraton or some hotel and being glued to your laptop is no way to get to know somebody. you dont even know what she is like outside of that hotel environment. 3. you give her 2,000 euros monthly and she buys credit with it and calls you, yet you dont pick! whats to say the next ride you love-vendor wont call you a Chameleon? maybe she may say "big chameleon" this time. lol my dear, life is more than staying at sheraton glued to your laptop and sending 2,000 euros through western union. these days girls want more than that. they want sacrifice, commitment. those are things that your 2,000 euros and sheraton hotel cannot buy or make up for. |
Romance / Re: Why Can't A Successful Black Woman Find A Man?' by Aproko(f): 11:11am On Apr 30, 2010 |
me i just dey answer question oh. dem say why dem no dey find man? that was my thinking really, no one on nairaland to blame for that dont worry. |
Romance / Re: My Nigeria Girl Friend Called Me A Chameleon, Now Am Going To P.I.M.P My Ride by Aproko(f): 11:09am On Apr 30, 2010 |
odiaero: Err , the "P.I.M.P My Ride" part. what does that have to do with the girl calling you a chameleon? abi is it not the programme on MTV about giving cars more effizy? |
Romance / Re: Why Can't A Successful Black Woman Find A Man?' by Aproko(f): 10:28am On Apr 30, 2010 |
pro01: why not reduce this your statistics? i see a lot of women around me that have achieved a lot of financial success simply because they started working at an early age and have risen to managerial positions in their organizations. I think the issue with the working black woman is that they focus on getting jobs and paying the bills, and after that focus on gaining all sorts of independence. by the time they think they are ready for marriage, they have reached a certain age and by then they have acquired such high tastes that it becomes a bit difficult to start with a man from a particular level, he has to be at par or higher and a guy at managerial level or higher is probably married so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Romance / Re: Your Advice Is Kindly Needed by Aproko(f): 10:12am On Apr 29, 2010 |
Marry the one that loves you more. and from your post, it ain't the UK based guy. all d best |
Romance / Re: Can one still find a wife material Back home?Are there still decent girls? by Aproko(f): 10:14am On Apr 28, 2010 |
check your mail again bro. |
Romance / Re: Can I Trust Her? by Aproko(f): 10:06am On Apr 28, 2010 |
@ OP, i think you should ask her if she has a boyfriend and how she feels about him (with your fake ID). that way you will know whats on her mind before you start going bunkers. but for you to have bothered trying to play this kind catch me if you can game, then it means the fundamental ingredient i.e. trust was missing in the first place or simply not enough. |
Romance / Re: Can one still find a wife material Back home?Are there still decent girls? by Aproko(f): 9:25am On Apr 28, 2010 |
i sent you a mail yest. check ur box. and yes I am single and so are my friends, |
Romance / Re: How Do I Break Up Wit Her by Aproko(f): 8:08am On Apr 28, 2010 |
hopo99: Says who? have you forgotten they work together? all she has to see is that the brother has potential and she will stick like a glue, besides don't forget other people in the organization haven't approached her because they think she is highly spiritual. she is happy that someone has finally approached her and at the back of her mind, she thinks she can change him with her 'goodness'. @ OP, well, you don enter!!! lol. the only thing i can say is that you should forget about the virginity and spirituality issue, try and get to know her. if that her goodness is not a camouflage for her insecurities, you will find that you just may get to like her. please keep us posted i beg |
Romance / Re: I Cant Bear This, Pls Help Me by Aproko(f): 3:04pm On Apr 27, 2010 |
@ OP, you drank rat poison because of woman?? I mean seriously? haba, i been think say warri no dey carry last but this your own pass last! but really, free the babe & move on. take it each day at a time. nobody deserves to be treated like trash just because they are in love! that girl is not for you, end of story |
Romance / Re: Can one still find a wife material Back home?Are there still decent girls? by Aproko(f): 2:39pm On Apr 27, 2010 |
cuteromntc: lol , well, i have friends, plenty sef with wife material written all over them. i'll recommend if he is serious really. |
Religion / Re: The Grail Message by Aproko(f): 2:31pm On Apr 27, 2010 |
Tobiatoo: please learn to communicate properly so you can be understood! How can someone go somewhere to read a book, didn't go back there and yet fall in trouble with the people so much so they disgraced him & tried to kill him?? where did they find him to disgrace him & try to kill him? why did he fall in trouble? Please my dear, speak only that which you have knowledge of, it will help you in all your endeavours. 1 Like |
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