oga pass the test first nau? lol. but really, i know someone that works there and i hear its a good place to be. its a small organization so you'd learn as much as you want because you'd be in constant contact with the experienced hands.

i hear the pay is okay as well, plus the staff welfare is really good.

again, all the best.

its test of reasoning basically. you'd want to be familiar with your quatitative reasoning & shapes. 60 questions in 40minutes. negative marking.

all the best.

jascon1:

i have three older brothers. the first is 38, the second is 35 and the third is 32 and i am the youngest at 27. my uncle was never married and has no kids. he is older then my father though. i also have cousins who are also single. they say they are senior bachelors for me. life has taken em too far.they are in their 40ies. people have talked till they ran outa saliva. but my brother at 32 has been married for seven years and has just 2 kids. the other 2 of em say that marriage is expensive in nigeria. though, the first was in a relationhip in which he was jilted by this imo state girl, who almost recked his pocket. after investing in her so much. they need a girl that can support the family.they want to make money to care for their family [if they have]. and the money they have been making since decades have not yet bought a house. at 27, i am scared and i feel like getting married. i dnt want to live a life where i would date my ex-girlfriends daughter. i want a family and kids. sometimes i wonder if this is a cause on us or what. is it just mentality or spiritual? well, just incase there are some women out there who are single and working. they need comfortable n tough women. pls let me no so i can link you up. i no deep down in them that they want to get married and have a family but they simply fear financial trauma from the wedding costs to babies and family matters. but they are nice. well, if there are single ladies who are working and comfortable . pls reply to jimmydanno@yahoo.com. i will link y'all up. and who knows, everything is in the link.

one of your brothers was married at 25, i dont see any curse there.

if your brothers are not married yet, its simply because they haven't bother to tamper with the standards they have set for themselves as per what the women they want to be with should be/look like, my guess is that those standards may be unrealistic. also, they may be scared of being poor or loosing everything they've worked for so the natural instinct is to look for a woman that wont bug them down with responsibilities and reckless spending.

love doctor,

thanx for answering my question. but i have another one,

is it possible for a guy to claim to love a girl and not call her? maybe he calls once in 2 weeks, especially if they are in a distance rel. mind you, he doesnt send money neither does he chat online often,

Love doctor,

can you please explain why men leave the relationship and then want to come back? should their come-back attempt be encouraged?

thx

hello people,

please if you are a lawyer with about 8-10 years post call, or you know one please direct CV to aproko.com@gmail.com. i'll appreciate if i can get responses asap. please note that its a financial institution.

thanks y'all.

amefi:

EXODUS 14:14

so what about the gospel of love? where does that leave us?
some people have gone on to become 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives, surely they started by dating a married man ,

formebyme:

Question is -why in the heck are all these married men still looking for single girls to prey on, it absolutely disgusts me when married men hit on me(and trust me alot of them do!!),why cant they just stick to their wives and leave em girls alone,
sluts!!!

i still wonder why "God" chose to deal with only Fadeke, meanwhile the husband was equally as guilty. where is his own slow and painful death?

that is the reason why the men will not stop looking for single girls to prey on, there is no punishment for them!

I think asking a son to run errands is totally different from business discussions or opinions. Its better to let the wife know if as a parent you need your son to do something for you. It will help avoid future wahala.

I think Fadeke went too far, but I'm yet to understand the part of God killing her slowly and painfully. Does God really work that way?

@ Solar,

its a pity the air at hitv is gloomy and we are sympathetic to you guys plight, not really because we thought hitv was da bomb, but because it was Nigerian. even when you guys were showing absolute bull s***t and collecting N6k in return, people still patronized. all you guys had to do was deliver quality, which you failed to do.

go back to the drawing board and find where you failed and fix things. no nigerian bank will give u a bank guarantee of $75m, absolutely non. you bit more than you could chew, now deal with it.

i do not like multichoice, but to be fair, hitv hasnt even come close.

OP,

Are you saying you walked out of the branch without asking to see the manager, head of operations or even your account officer? All you had to do was ask to see any of these people and explain why you don't want their 'extra' services on that particular account!

then again, there are 23 other banks, banking is easier than you think.

MRbrownJAY:

you should believe your FEELINGS and nothing else. dont judge men because of what you read in magazines or NL but because of what you guts feeling tells you.

yeah, i agree with you here. when it comes to relationships, indeed there are no set rules. those 7 surprising signs could mean anything, depending on the person involved.

highland:

I have credit experience but not up to 3 years becos i currently work with any investment company here in abuja as a credit tofficer/facilitator, so if ican apply let me know here . I also have professional qualification in Debt recovery practice

If you have about 2 years, that should pass.

teskyg:

oga,your email is wrong.i have made several attempts to send without any success.

please try again sir, its aproko.com@gmail.com.

thank you.

I could only send one CV because his experience was a match and he works in an investment company in ikoyi (you know who you are because you were contacted yesterday).

So please I will gladly extend the deadline till the end of the week, so that other people can get the chance as well. Please remember I'm looking for CREDIT experience, not customer service or legal experience, its 3-6years experience please.

Thanks for your response so far.

^^^^ all the 'please' in the post does not spell courtesy to you? I'm sorry if it sounds arrogant and unprofessional to you. But please, dont think everybody on this forum is some jobless person with access to the internet. You cant just assume it sounds like a scammers just because it didnt come out the way you wanted.

ok, post rephrased:

P.S - Today is the deadline.

Hi,

If you work in a financial institution and you have between 3-6 years experience in credit, please send your cv to aproko.com@gmail.com.

P.S - I wont check my mail after tomorrow evening, so please get to it.

Thanks.

Ask yourself the question: 5 years from now, which ofthem would i chose?

no my guy, it cant be love. you just another of them guys shes stringing along. move on with your life, she aint for u.

oyb:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=492758;sa=showPosts

among other incoherent ramblings

just need to know how this fabricated gist made front page who regulates these stuff sef?

^^^^^^^^ you dont get it Poster, no one here is jealous of your decision to marry a pure water seller/hawker, she may be doing that for any number of reasons, so the fact that she sells pure water isnt exactly the point.

the point is that because you had an issue with one doesnt necessarily mean all are like that. and it is possible that your chosing a pure water seller like you described her, is a way of stamping your 'superiority' which you were not able to achieve in your previous relationship.

your post portrayed the girl as ordinary --- pure water seller/hawker, and that is the reason for the comments. do you think she cant be anything else? have you considered that her latching on to you is a means to an end for her? do you by chance imagine that because she hawks pure water she doesnt have a set out plan?

dont for any moment underestimate anything you have no control over, in this case your pure water hawkers brain. you dont know where she put it and you dont know what it contains. let her get what she wants from you and see if she wont become successful and boring! you think you know too much!!

i know that most of the discount houses are owned by some banks, so as per that your money is safe. i know kakawa is majorly owned by 1st bank, then GTB, and they try to maintain their high standards. i know that FSDH posted profit in the dec 2009 FY, so dont worry, nobody will run away with your money.

you can check their websites for any other info.

I'm just wondering why the OP beat his gal twice!!!! how provoked was he that he could not just walk out the door instead of throwing punches ,

^^^^^^^ sometimes people dont have the patience to edit.


@ sagamite et all,

there's no need to take things too far. its true the poster asked for the average, but its up to him to find the average from the various comments. its true some law firms pay as good, but those law firms are really few and not all over the country and very difficult to get into.

^^^^^^^^^ more like is the girl a liability? why will any parent want to 'dash' out their daughter because of euros if the daughter is an asset to herself and to them?

@ 4evayoung,

How are you doing?

jamestab:

first, give the one that love's you a chance, by doing so, you will see the good aspects of him.
for the one who is not loving you right, gradually draw away from him, he does not deserve you,
and with time you will get to love and appreciate the one who loves you, its reciprocal,
finally, there is no need being with a guy who gives you butterflies, yet you give him none and he puts
you on your toes, you think better when the man loves you more than you do him,
i wish you all the best, and may you survive this in the best of ways.

On Point!!

ITgurlie:

@ omega25red I'm not dating two guys the second guy I'm not even dating he just believes I'm the one.

The truth is I don't see myself spending the rest of my life with the second guy cos we're not compatible in a lot of ways. The guy I love is not fully showing it, deep down I feel he loves me cos their is a heart connection. I believe he is the one guess he needs time to pop the question,

my dear, we like to deceive ourselves. you feel he loves you simply because that is what you want to believe. when a guy likes a girl, he doesnt bother hiding it (thats how come you know that the other guy you are not attracted to likes you). i think you should smell the coffee and go with the one that loves you more. YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO BE SECOND BEST MY DEAR, YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO.

@ Nellaluv,

How e wan take know now? is he suppose to hear a still small voice? when Tiger Woods saw Ellen, did he just know?? (look how that turned out!)

@ Violent,

Drop dead gorgeous, adventurous, IQ of 180?? i guess thats why your bank account is still bursting at the seams!

@ Ujujoan,

I use to think that guys are confused, but now i'm not so sure. believe me a guy knows what he wants when he sees it or when he relates with it. the question is, how does he know??

@ all,
Nice responses so far. still expecting some more.

thanks

I saw the movie Notorious about a year ago and the reason as to why Notorious BIG chose to marry Faith Evans over Lil Kim still eludes me. He seemed to be having fun with Lil Kim, even encouraging her career and personal growth, and then he sets eyes on Faith, and that was it!

Bringing the issue close to home, a male colleague told me he was looking for a wife as he wanted to break up with his girlfriend, lets call her Bella. Bella is beautiful and vivacious, and they seemed at least on the surface to be perfect for each other.

My question is, what qualities can men spot from miles apart that makes them see one woman as potential wife and the other merely as girlfriend? and even if they cant spot it from miles apart, what is it that a man sees, that makes him decide that he wants a woman to be by his side for the rest of his life??

@ Topic,

me sef i wan know ooo. but jokes apart, i noticed that a lot of guys assume upon meeting a successful woman that she may not be submissive even before getting to know her.

@ Dustydee,

the problem you are facing is the major thing holding you back and that is fear and lack of confidence. you lack confidence in your ability to deliver on a job (which you call lack of experience), yet you dont want to accept entry level or trainee position. my dear, if you gather all the certificates in this world and dont have the confidence to sell yourself, then you would have been better off spending that money shopping or just generally having fun.

nobody will employ you if you cannot defend your certificates. my advice to you is simple - if you cannot learn where you are or havent learnt a thing, then please there is nothing wrong in accepting a trainee position, if that will build up your confidence and thereafter, you move to something better. dont waste your money on certificates when your person lacks development. focus on gaining the confidence that you need first of all, and everything else will follow.

Yemi Adeola - my learned friend and GMD of Sterling Bank. i'm reminded that you can go only as far as you want to.