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Christianity EtcRe: Prayer Warriors Say My Boyfriend Is Not The Husband For Me by Aproko(f): 5:53pm On Jul 03, 2007
PHBABE:
update

the so called destined husband of mine just got married. hmm. . . . i wonder what this means. . . . .
lol grin grin grin it simply means prayer warriors tell you what you want to hear most of the time. so be your own prayer warrior, end of story.
CareerRe: Money Or Fulfilment: Which Do You Prefer? by Aproko(f): 5:01pm On Jul 03, 2007
it depends on your circumstances. if you are from an ok background where you have nothing to worry about then you would be seeking fulfilment, and what you earn may not matter much.

but when you have plenty mouths around you waiting to be fed or projects you want to achieve and you cant, you'd realise you'd find your own fulfilment not from the job, but from your account balance believe me, that is enough fulfilment in this nigeria where things are not so easy. wink
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Last by Aproko(f): 4:54pm On Jul 03, 2007
congrats oh. all the best at access bank.
Jokes EtcRe: Scrabble by Aproko(f): 12:26pm On Jul 03, 2007
Soil
Jokes EtcRe: Shola by Aproko(f): 12:22pm On Jul 03, 2007
lmao ;d ;d ;d
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Ok, That Is It! Where Are The Single Naija Men Of Quality Over 35? by Aproko(f): 12:14pm On Jul 03, 2007
just wondering why a 'man of quality' will be single at 35!! huh huh
RomanceRe: My Workaholic Boyfriend Is Always Working by Aproko(f): 12:09pm On Jul 03, 2007
@ topic,

if you try what trini_girl has said and it doesn't work, then my dear your boyfriend may be slipping away from you.

a guy that is truly in love with you would see that he is hurting you and try to make ammends. he toasted you didn't he? why didn't he realise then that he likes to work?when a guy starts to focus on his job without any apologies, then my dear it means its time for you to move on, cos he certainly has moved ahead of you. sad sad
RomanceRe: Beware Of Girls On Trouser by Aproko(f): 11:45am On Jul 03, 2007
that dude is not a true wafarrian. he is plain drunk. so pardon his stupidity.
RomanceRe: Cohabitation: Will You Do It? by Aproko(f): 11:38am On Jul 03, 2007
VOR:
I truly believe that you never really know someone properly till you live with that person.
so how many people will you live with just so you can know them properly? haven't you realised that you can live with somebody and still not know the person?

personally, cohabitation is a no no. if you cant afford your own place, go stay with a friend and share the rent.
Christianity EtcRe: Born Again Courtships by Aproko(f): 11:21am On Jul 03, 2007
thesilent1:
the keys to any successful relationship are mainly three things; 1. Communication, 2. Sex and 3. Money! (read "communication, sex and money" and it goes into more detail) so i will advice that you discuss everything you want to know PRIOR to "signing on the dotted line"
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@ stimulus,

i hope that answers your question.

@ topic,

personally, i dont read christain books on dating anymore cos i think they are not realistic. i actually read one that said guys could masturbate if they couldn't take it anymore!!! so many books, yet so many pregnant brides in church! so much for obeying the word of the Lord!!!

i have a 'born again' friend who left her equally 'born again' boyfriend because the sex was boring! reality check, if people are having sex, how would you know?is it written on the forehead? my other friend says its the girl that is not pregnant on her wedding day that people would call a virgin!!

i think books on relationships should be written based on todays evolving reality, and that is a lot of unmarried couples are having sex. education should be on the dangers of pre marital sex from a logical point of view. leave the bible out of it. cos many 'christains' are guilty of breaking the ten commandments one way or the other. there is even no "thou shall not fornicate" among the 10 commandments so what are we saying?jesus had no condemnation for the prostitutes, his words "he who is without sin should cast the first stone"

so lets be realistic, there are worse crimes than having premarital sex, and like i said, how would you know if you were not told or spied on them? do you know what "christains" do when they are outside the church walls?

the decision to abstain from sex is a personal one. no use abstaining from sex and rushing to get married just so you can finally have sex!! sex is in the mind. if you choose to abstain, you can. it has nothing with being a christain or a muslim.

my 2 cents.
Christianity EtcRe: Whats Ur Opinion About White Garment Churches? by Aproko(f): 10:50am On Jul 03, 2007
omoge25:
i know people that attend those white garment / cele churches. My feelings on it is basically its cultic, they misyarn the word of God. There rules or regulations whatever you want to call it are not for the service of God.
you are being judgmental on this one. not all of them are that bad am sure. there must be one or two white garment churches keeping up with the vision of the founder i believe, so lets not be quick to judge.
CelebritiesRe: Wwe Chris Benoit Dead by Aproko(f): 6:03pm On Jul 02, 2007
thats so sad. but why would he kill his wife and son? huh huh sad sad
CelebritiesRe: Enya by Aproko(f): 5:43pm On Jul 02, 2007
her songs have a calming effect on me. listen to her music a lot.
FashionRe: Fashion No No's!! by Aproko(f): 5:31pm On Jul 02, 2007
iice:
LMFAO grin grin I can't get over those ghetto-toes. . .they are truly horrendous!
me too grin grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Access Bank Recruitment Conditions by Aproko(f): 5:09pm On Jul 02, 2007
i think access bank should be anybodys last resort. with those conditions, i can only work there when i have reached breaking point. the good news is, i dont have to get to that point.
RomanceRe: What Should I Do? by Aproko(f): 4:54pm On Jul 02, 2007
@ sallysexy,

think long and hard before you take that leap. give your relationship some time to grow and be certain he feels the same way. dont forget you dont live in nigeria so he can put up his best behaviour for the period you are around. my point is be objective, be absolutely sure before you take that giant step. good luck
RomanceRe: Is My Complexion A Gift Or A Curse? by Aproko(f): 4:37pm On Jul 02, 2007
was wondering when onyex became male huh huh or are you gay?
RomanceRe: So Hurt In Love! by Aproko(f): 4:29pm On Jul 02, 2007
my dear tranquil,

cry as much as you want to, just make sure you dont spend valuable time crying. just let him go. try to take it a day at a time, focus on yourself, go shopping or do whatever makes you happy. get thru the 1st day, and the next, and the next.take your time before going into another relationship, and remember a relationship is not a do or die affair. when the right one comes, all the pain will become history.
RomanceRe: My Friend Is Pregnant For Me! by Aproko(f): 4:10pm On Jul 02, 2007
@ jazzyphizzle,

i repeat, stay with your girlfriend!!!

your pregnant 'friend' is the angel you don't know and should not know. she is a good person right now because your grass seems green enough, you'd regret marrying her when trying times come.

how come you cant see that she got pregnant on purpose just so she can reap where she did not sow? take care of your child (if the child is yours) BUT DO NOT MARRY HER.
Christianity EtcRe: What Seek Ye?(the Grail Message-vol 1) by Aproko(f): 2:27pm On Jul 02, 2007
otuwe:
@onyex

if uve really read the Message, you should have known better than to start this thread.

and whats with the pictures? are u trying to advertise the Grail Message or what? and yet you say u aint envagelising.

i would advise u desists from this because it has grave spiritual implications ok because you're binding yourself to everybody who reads this and if someone takes the wrong conceptions uve stated as truth, u cud become eathbound.

word!


be careful about the type of actions u take
Christianity EtcRe: Your God Is A Liar by Aproko(f): 10:55am On Jul 02, 2007
MIZIEYA:
[color=#770077][b]my home girl? That's somewhat presumptuous on your part.
why aint i your home girl? cry embarassed cry

MIZIEYA:
[color=#770077][b]my home girl? That's somewhat presumptuous on your part.

Hmmm Post grad huh- please - you have got to be kidding me. That's like a con artist telling me that she is not a 419er whilst trying to make me feel guilty for not giving them cash, via western union, or, and this is my favourite: invitation to the UK or America - or sponsorship to save imagined orphans.
i'm not kidding you.

MIZIEYA:
[color=#770077][b]
I've clearly more than indulged you by answering in detail your questions-
i guess i must have missed the post where you told me how a person that never existed can tell a lie huh huh my bad, probably due to my low IQ.

MIZIEYA:
[color=#770077][b]my home girl? That's somewhat presumptuous on your part.

Hmmm Post grad huh- please - you have got to be kidding me. That's like a con artist telling me that she is not a 419er whilst trying to make me feel guilty for not giving them cash, via western union, or, and this is my favourite: invitation to the UK or America - or sponsorship to save imagined orphans.

I've clearly more than indulged you by answering in detail your questions- if however you dislike my answers- then that's something you're going to have to live with. After all being stuck on stupid seems to be The Game for people with your low IQ. It is quite clear that - to all intents and purposes that a 'Higher Mentality' is simply nonexistent as demonstrated by you and a few others. So many Sheep- so little time,

It's not so much that I take delight in dishing out pain or indeed insults - Oh who am I kidding?
finally!!! you agree with me on something!! smiley smiley

MIZIEYA:
[color=#770077][b]
It may seem to you and The Readers that I come across as a hateful, pompous, spoilt brat and thoroughly annoying person who thinks he is a know it all: I am.
on the contrary, you come across as someone just trying to make sense out of life, only you want people to see things the way you do, and that can't happen all of the time.
Christianity EtcRe: What Seek Ye?(the Grail Message-vol 1) by Aproko(f): 10:40am On Jul 02, 2007
@ onyex,

girl, what i'm trying to tell you is simple, do not give that topic your own interpretation cos you are not passing across the right message.

onyex:
Aproko,
i feel u dnt want to understand because since uve read the book,there is a part of you that is not convinced,if not all and you.Read the topic again from the grail message and you will see what im talking about.
again girl, you are wrong. as you can see from stimulus's highlighted post, you are giving that lecture your own interpretation which is not convincing, that is the reason nobody on this thread can understand you.
Christianity EtcRe: Your God Is A Liar by Aproko(f): 8:47pm On Jun 29, 2007
ok mizeya,

i havent named any scholars, thats because i assume you are as intelligent as you want us to believe, so that means you already know the arguments for and against the existence of jesus, so this 'retard' here does not need to give you a list.

as for my lack of formal education, i have been through 2 formal institutions at graduate and post graduate level, so saying i have no formal education does make you a liar.

and yes mr. intelligent, we stupid ones still dont have your answer to the question on what makes jesus a liar when he didn't even exist.

my IQ is fine, perhaps i need to copy and paste other peoples opinions like you do to prove it.

any more insults for your home girl? you seem to take delight in insults. huh
Christianity EtcRe: Your God Is A Liar by Aproko(f): 2:53pm On Jun 29, 2007
MIZIEYA:

Way tooooooo easy.

<winks>
yeah bro, you've wat tooooooooo easily avoided answering the question. so jesus did not exist though almost all historians and bilical scholars have refuted this theory, how be it that someone who barely existed is a liar? he never existed, of course it follows that he would not have come in contact with any body, talk less of speaking to anybody or writing a book, so how can a never existent person be a liar?

i dare ask again, what is your yardstick?

and yes your mum is right, only this time a stupid conclusion is getting very sane replies!
Christianity EtcRe: Islamic Scholar Promotes Adult Breastfeeding. Update: He has Been Suspended by Aproko(f): 2:31pm On Jun 29, 2007
@ nossycheek

LMAO grin grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy grin grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy
RomanceRe: This Guy (married) Won't Leave Me Alone! by Aproko(f): 11:59am On Jun 29, 2007
@ poster,

i was so sure you were female because of the subject, and was actually surprised when i saw 'bent' somewhere in the post.

what is happening to you may may not be an every day occurence in nigeria, but it does happen. you know the kind of country you live in, so stuff like recording his conversation and saving his text messages at the end of the day may just be an exercise in futility.

as a lawyer, am not aware of any law that protects a male marketer or worker from being harrased by a client, not even your boss!! and my dear, who says he bought that sim card from the gsm office when it is sold all over the traffic? my point is that the sim card he sends you messages with may never be traced to him.

again dont think your boss may understand your plight, all he understands is that you have a good customer who should be treated right and it may just be the word of the customer against yours, hes rich you say when money talks, bulls**** walks, so my dear telling your boss may simply mean telling him you dont like your job!!!

so what do you do?
1.you stay calm. pretend hes joking about his fantasy with you so any time he brings it up, you laugh and tease him.
2.never be alone with him, make sure there is someone you can confide in at your office that will be there with you or deal with him sometimes on your behalf.
3.when he calls you and starts talking trash instead of business, common bro you are in naija, whatever happened to the lie "network problems", "hello, hello, cant hear you"?
4.tell him your phone has problems, and if he gets you another one, please take it gladly.
5.never go on a date with him, if you have to, go with your crew of friends.
6.by the time this goes on for a while, he'll get frustrated and the advances would reduce.

you must remember to stay calm. remember he may be rich, but there are richer people that will buy your services from you. take care and please keep us posted.
RomanceRe: What Should I Do? by Aproko(f): 11:32am On Jun 29, 2007
@ poster,

you would be shocked that the 'niger ladyand her family' have better things to do than chase you and your future husband around nigeria with over 140m people!!!

your problem shouldn't be whether some girl will chase you around, your problem should be whether that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. you've spoken to him on phone and have seen him only 3 times, you didn't even say if you have met any of his friends or family member, what does he really does for a living, what is in that closet of his e.t.c.!!

i may be old fashioned but i dare say, 3 visits and numerous phone calls is not enough reason to believe he is the person for you. good luck pal.
Christianity EtcRe: Atheist Christian: by Aproko(f): 11:15am On Jun 29, 2007
okay KAG, maybe UNSURE is the right word.

but I still think CONFUSED is also appropriate, cos you go to church, perhaps you even enjoy sunday services or whatever day of the week they hold and then somehow you feel the pastor in front of you is not saying everything, something in his gospel just doesnt strike any chord in you, perhaps this is because there is no God anywhere. the bible seems contradictory, yet so many seem to have found peace and happiness in these words of the bible perhaps they are pretending or just plain lazy? so you are confused or perhaps unsure as to how something that doesnt seem to make any sense can make so much sense!!!!huh at least to some people

on the fence with amicable people on both sides?? hey in every 12, there must be a judas, so how amicable do you think the multitude of people on both sides can be? cheesy grin
Christianity EtcRe: Christianity: Not A Religion? by Aproko(f): 10:51am On Jun 29, 2007
KAG:
That means, using your line of reasoning, that Zorostrianism, Manichaeism and Buddhism aren't religions either. Strange.
what is strange to me is how religion came into existence and why it has become what it is today!
Christianity EtcRe: Islamic Scholar Promotes Adult Breastfeeding. Update: He has Been Suspended by Aproko(f): 10:46am On Jun 29, 2007
suckle a man just to stop him from lusting after you? undecided undecided

how many men will a woman suckle in her lifetime? suckle in the market, at work, the visitor, the neigbours cos those that lust after women are everywhere huh huh

and what will the husband be doing while the luster is being suckledhuh

and what if after suckling, he still lusts after the woman, will he suckle till he can suckle no morehuh huh

this world is getting stranger by the day
Christianity EtcRe: What Seek Ye?(the Grail Message-vol 1) by Aproko(f): 10:26am On Jun 29, 2007
@ onyex,

as a matter of fact, i know where you are drifting to, but somehow, you are not coasting as smoothly as i was expecting. i just want you to be clearer in your post, so that you can get the message across. reading through your post has only made me confused. i would like your post to reflect the your subject 'what seek ye'.

the lecture 'what seek ye' is so comprehensive and clear, but somehow, your post isn't. thats just all am saying.
Christianity EtcRe: 666 Are We This Close? by Aproko(f): 6:51pm On Jun 28, 2007
thesilent1:
oh gosh, i was unfortunately told about most of this stuff when i was just GOING to sec school! lol all the chick publications and jesuit books from the late 80s!

some times i wish i did not know some of this stuff. that way, you can just concentrate on what you know and not risk confusion.

oh well, seperate fish from bone is what i say.
anyway the RCC to me is just the RCC, it was just strange to think that it may be anything else.

michelin89:
We have passed it.

The 6th of June 2006

that can be written

06/06/'06

read also as 666!

cheesy
aha, a microscopic inkling as to what the number of a man may be (but is that not the "number of a calender"?) wink grin wink

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