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FamilyRe: Lesson For All Of Us To Learn. by Aquariann:
This is deep. "I'm sorry".. These words can put an end to a war, yet people find them hard to say. Myself inclusive and that's why i try not to say things I'll regret when angry. I'll just walk away.

I remember once in my office premises. I had finished drinking a disposable bottle of Fanta and took an aim at the waste bin like i was making a basketball shot.

I missed the shot as the bottle hit the top and fell on the ground. I was just about to go pick it up when one of my female colleague just said "Yoruba, dirty people"

I asked her was that necessary? And she repeated it that if I wasn't dirty why did I throw the bottle on the ground while the waste bin was open, pretending she didn't see I missed my mark.

Asked her why then did she take a swipe at my tribe rather than just me (honestly I would have just laughed it out if she had said dirty boy or something) and again, she said because we all were dirty.

We got into this heated argument and I threatened to slap her next time she said something like that to me. She lost it at that point and kept shouting it that Yorubas are dirty. I just left the place since it was obvious she was out for trouble.

Back in space, my day had been ruined. I mean I've received some really personal insults in the past and never gave a hoot. So why then did I lose my cool for a comment so silly?. Maybe it was just because I hated all those tribal BS and prejudicial remarks having lived most of my life in different parts of the country and know better than to be petty being tribal when relating with people.

To get my peace back, I just went back to her and apologized for saying I'll slap her because that was what she held on to.

By this time she was calm and she didn't even let me talk, she apologised for insult saying it was unlike her and she went overboard.

The relief I felt in my chest cannot be described. I mean, we both could have handled the situation better.
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye's Termination Letter To Festus Keyamo Seeking P'square Dissolution by Aquariann:
steppins:
The foolish Peter should know that when he's broke, Lola would leave him.
The two brothers can't stand alone. During their short separation last time, they couldn't release any meaningful song.
They were being featured by some artistes who needed the attention their controversy was bringing in.
They should cut down their spending cos hard times are ahead.
Lola would leave him? Same Lola who stood by them and supported them financially when they were still taking night bus and using leggediz benz? Same Lola who introduced them to Adenuga who changed their lives with their first major endorsement?

It didn't matter then that she was older than him. It didn't matter then to their mother and Jude that she was Yoruba. Neither did it matter that Adenuga was Yoruba or Lagos where they found stardom was Yoruba land.

But when he finally decided to marry the loyal woman, Yoruba became an issue.

I don't balme you sha. Like most tribalist, you don't see beyond your noses. But my advice to you is, if you find a lady who stood by, supported and loved your as§ you when you were nobody or still hustling, you'll end up the saddest man on earth if you don't wife her for a stupid reason like tribal difference.
PoliticsRe: Apapa Gridlock: Lagos Govt Bars Further Inflow Of Trucks Into Lagos by Aquariann: 8:31am On Sep 23, 2017
IMO, I think Fashola handled these truck drivers better during his administration.

With the exception of Fuel tankers (classified as essential products) Trucks were generally forbidden from entering or exiting Lagos until 4pm-6am or something like that. I wonder why that law was relaxed.

Today people now drive against traffic (one way) because of the madness going on around Ijora, Apapa, Costain, Orile, Berger axis.

Worthy of note also is the fact that the use of sirens by every Tunde, Dike and Haruna has returned to Lagos roads.
BusinessRe: Meaning Of CEO, MD And Chairman Of A Company by Aquariann: 4:20pm On Sep 19, 2017
Ibukun A. Awosika Chairman First Bank

Nice info Op
RomanceRe: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Aquariann: 11:39am On Sep 19, 2017
CROWNWEALTH019:
Woman take your time undecided
grin
RomanceRe: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Aquariann: 8:33am On Sep 19, 2017
Forgive her.. You can't just throw the 6 years relationship you had with her like that and pretend you never knew yourselves.

But you still have to end the relationship for your sanity. Cheating Boyfriends /Girlfriends always metamorphose into Cheating spouses.
RomanceRe: LADIES!! See What Happens Next The Moment You Agree To Date A Married Man by Aquariann: 10:14am On Sep 17, 2017
Divay22:
The fear of karma doesn't even make me think about it...
I can do other bad stuffs,but a married man his a no-go area for me..
Karma shouldn't even bother you when compared to the realization that you could be scarred for life by the jealous and vengeful spouse. Think of hot water or acid bath. Or the spouse goes diabolical on your case. At worse you're just killed, end off.

Truth is, there are people whose spouse are cheating on them but they never went an inch near married men/women when they were single themselves.
RomanceRe: LADIES!! See What Happens Next The Moment You Agree To Date A Married Man by Aquariann: 10:00am On Sep 17, 2017
Applies to men and Boys who also sleep with married women.

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Proverbs 6:32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself.

Proverbs 6:23 For this command is a lamp, this teaching is a light, and correction and instruction are the way to life, 24 keeping you from your neighbor’s wife, from the smooth talk of a wayward woman.

25 Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes. 26 For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life.

27 Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned? 28 Can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scorched? 29 So is he who sleeps with another man’s wife; no one who touches her will go unpunished.

34 For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge. 35 He will not accept any compensation, he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.

Proverbs 2:16-19 Wisdom will save you from the immoral woman, from the seductive words of the promiscuous woman. 17 She has abandoned her husband and ignores the covenant she made before God. 18 Entering her house leads to death; it is the road to the grave. 19 The man who visits her is doomed. He will never reach the paths of life.
Car TalkRe: China To Ban Sale Of Fossil Fuel Cars In Electric Vehicle Push by Aquariann: 7:36am On Sep 10, 2017
Wahala dey o..
Christianity EtcRe: Man Accuses Rev Father Edeh Of Locking Him Up After Asking For His Wages. Photos by Aquariann: 2:06pm On Sep 08, 2017
BiafranBushBoy:
Is it not father Edeh again?

No be my Alma Matter? angry ?? They did worse to us as students, Talk less of a common worker!!

Father Edeh...!!!! I will still be back for you angry

Stupid school
G-Unit
RomanceRe: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Aquariann: 11:01pm On Sep 07, 2017
PrecisionFx:
Pls answer the question n leave matter for mathias.
Mention me when you're ready for an intelligent discussion otherwise, enjoy your night rest.
RomanceRe: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Aquariann: 6:01pm On Sep 07, 2017
PrecisionFx:
Don't join in with it own Epistle, just explain this :

pls explain how he will fund 2 cheap meals a day, monthly transport n monthly house rent for 2 of them with 35k.
Let's start with you telling us where you live.
RomanceRe: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Aquariann: 11:38am On Sep 07, 2017
7Alexander:
God bless you for this, I'm from Nnewi in Anambra, which isn't even a village. But one of my kinsmen just finished a 4bedroom apartment, 3 of the rooms are ensuite. Yes, he didn't have to buy land, as he inherited one.

Do you know his job? Okada plus other menial jobs. Another interesting fact is that it took him a little over one year to complete this building, in fact they moved in this February. I went home last week only to see that he have added two blocks of shop in front of the building.

City dwellers do not really understand that cost of living isn't same everywhere
Oga mi, I'm telling you the truth o. The guys are usually so determined that you begin to ask yourself some hard questions.

Usually, they'll save and buy say five bags of cement. Anywhere it takes them, they'll stop and save again. If they have small money, they'll buy one bundle of zinc and keep. Small small, house done set.

Then when "we" earning thousands in the city finally visit, shame go dey catch person.

The irony of it all is that even with their (little) achievement, comfort and peace of mind, most of them would want to leave for the city because they believe it would be better over there.

You begin to ask yourself why southerners are still in the north despite the insecurities. It's simply because the general cost of living is unbelievably low.
RomanceRe: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Aquariann: 5:25pm On Sep 06, 2017
From my time on Nairaland, I think the issue with most Nairalanders is that most of them are city dwelling. i.e they are mostly found in (or live in) Lagos, Ogun, Abuja, PH, Benin, Asaba, Owerri, Calabar etc.

The general cost of living in these places always affects their perspectives and sense of judgement about life in Nigeria generally.

For example, because N1000 can't cook a decent pot of soup in Lagos, Abj, or Ph, no one elsewhere in Nigeria should/can claim to have made a decent pot of soup with 1k.

So with this mindset above, a man earning say 100k a month in Lagos and is still struggling to make ends meet, rent, fees etc would never believe an okada rider in a small town like say Obudu, has built a decent 3 bedroom flat.

They'll ask you was it built with sticks? But just like the Op stated, they only made use of mud blocks and cement to hold the blocks together and for pillars as the case may be. By the time the house is plastered and painted, you'll never know it wasn't built with cement blocks.

Same way if you tell them one can buy a half bag of potatoes for less than 1k in a town/village in Benue, they'll argue just because they can't in the City.

My point is, people earning way less than the op are doing just fine.

All I can say is "Nairalanders, please travel and see".
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: .. by Aquariann: 7:47am On Sep 06, 2017
mrblessed:
Closed. Bad market. Since you claim to be in the US, why not seek your so-called professionals who are Nigerians there. Thanks.
What has she been doing or you simply didn't comprehend her request?

Meanwhile, Op, I dey greet o. You might want to consider other black "professionals" over there because our Naija brothers no get una time.

Make man pikin no wake up one day see say him no get house again because Naija wife don use her "professional" status pursue am from him life investment through divorce.

Anyways, my cousin did same. When no Naija bro was in the horizon coming, (since that was what she wanted like you) she hooked up with a "professional" from Uganda. They've been together fifteen years and counting with four kids.

Time no dey o. June-September
SportsRe: Bus Conveying Ifeanyi Uba Players Involved In An Accident,Players Injured.Photos by Aquariann: 4:31pm On Sep 01, 2017
Tapout:
Not necessarily something like these, but atlest close to....
Kwankwaso tried for Kano pillars.

SportsRe: Bus Conveying Ifeanyi Uba Players Involved In An Accident,Players Injured.Photos by Aquariann: 4:25pm On Sep 01, 2017
See how wide and good road is, yet terrible Nigerian drivers will find a way to have head-on collisions.
RomanceRe: Birthday Sex, Had It With Several Boyfriends’ (photo) by Aquariann: 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2017
See this one.... She probably works in a brothel and the boyfriends being inferred are simply her regular clients
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 11:16pm On Aug 28, 2017
Obi1kenobi:
Pointing out monopolistic practises is not an accusation against Dangote. It's more an indictment of the Federal Government. You also seem to have an extreme view of what monopoly is. I'm no economist but I'd hazard a guess what we were taught in our secondary school textbooks is the simplistic definition. It doesn't just mean a singular party totally controlling the market, but a dominant player who uses predatory practises and uses their considerable leverage to erect barriers to competitors. You can study the legal case of the US government against Microsoft in '98 where Microsoft, whose Windows operating systems powered 9 in 10 PCs in the world, was accused of monopolistic, exploitative practices. This hardly means Microsoft were the only software vendor in the whole of the USA.

Dangote's refinery project in sheer scale would certainly eclipse all the competition: probably all the competition combined. This gives him a lot of leverage if he chooses to be exploitative. If he chooses to sell refined fuel at 150 naira per litre, there would be no credible competition with sufficient output and supply across the nation to force him to crash his price.
You sir, I'm afraid, just have issue with this guy. So Dangote shouldn't build a big refinery because he doesn't want to swallow other people?

In a Tiv man's voice I shout: "Wonder"

Didn't they all bid according to their capacities? Mehn, I'm just speechless. Can't believe you're hating on the man for dreaming big.
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 9:58pm On Aug 28, 2017
Obi1kenobi:
I think his refinery is a brilliant vision if it doesn't become another instrument of exploitation like we saw with cement. Cement price more than doubled after the import ban and despite the massive profits of the cement cartel, they've done nothing significant to crash the price. Our local cement is one of the most expensive in the world. Dangote's refinery project has been making the same kind of noise about how price will come down, but considering the monopoly he will have (his refinery will single-handedly cover Nigerian demand and we'll become a net exporter of refined crude), he'll be able to dictate market price and continue earning his massive profits with government compliance. Just read this funny article and the understandable fears:
http://newsrescue.com/dangote-refinery-nigerians-will-pay-double-for-petroleum/
Bro, just accept you don't like the man.

http:/www.nairaland.com/3001766/dpr-issues-21-licences-new

https://www.nairaland.com/2558252/buhari-approves-65-licences-private

Dangote wasn't the only one who won bids for setting up private refineries. This monopoly y'all keep shouting is becoming annoying because the facts are there to be verified but y'all wouldn't even bother to try and confirm.

A certain Capt Emmanuel Iheanacho, also won a bid amd plans to build his own refinery also in Lagos

http://thenationonlineng.net/ex-minister-to-build-refinery-in-lagos/

Ogun state plans one too

https://www.nairaland.com/3377590/ogun-signs-agreement-build-refinery

Lagos and Akwa Ibom (partnering with AGIP) also won bids for modular refineries and are also planning theirs.

But rather than question why the rest haven't started work despite winning bids, you'll hate on a serious Dangote who has since started his own. Accusing him of a monopoly that exists only in your imaginations.
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 6:25pm On Aug 28, 2017
Obi1kenobi:
Read this article on Dangote:
http://saharareporters.com/2016/03/25/dangote-paradox-moses-e-ochonu

I respect his acumen as a businessman, but we don't have to pretend Dangote is some kind of Warren Buffett or Larry Ellison. He's more like Nigeria's Abramovich: an oligarch primarily empowered by a crony-capitalist government rather than his enterprise and vision. The Cement industry (which accounts for almost 80% of his turnover) in particular is where the government wrecked Dangote's competitors to facilitate his rapid ascent: especially under Obasanjo.

He's also incredibly ruthless and his impact on the cement consumer market has made the notion of local content in cement production worthless. We might as well be importing cement at cheaper rates if we're going to get ripped off by Dangote and his cartel. Is it any wonder that his cement company made a ridiculous 201b naira profit from a company revenue of 386b in 2013 for example. Yet, prices have remained high, depressing the construction industry. Which government regulatory framework could possibly stop a man who is well entrenched in the corridors of power?
First question, can you name three cement factories the FG wrecked in other to facilitate Dangote's rapid ascent?

Meanwhile BCC (Benue cement) was owned by the Benue state government and was already moribund before he took over. At least I lived in Benue around this time. So are you going to blame him for Benue State's failures? Besides, it was wasn't a complete take over as the state government still retained their shares and Dangote's got the FG's 35% stake. Benue state still had about 43 million shares (Which ironically, the state government under Suswam wanted to sell).

Second question, is Dangote the only cement manufacturer in Nigeria?

Third question, is Dangote cement the most expensive in the market?
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 4:00pm On Aug 28, 2017
freshest4live:
Thank you Jarry, most Nigerian Billionaires don't think out of the box, maybe due to the quick oil money available.
As in eh... That's why so many unoccupied estates line up the streets of Abuja and places like Lekki and Oniru in Lagos. These are the only things they can invest "their monies" in.
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 3:43pm On Aug 28, 2017
freshest4live:
What they fail to ask themselves is this... if Dangote have only been successful via monopoly then why did he fail with noodles in Nigeria, and why does he fear the telecommunication sector because he has little knowledge of it compared to other top players
Typical African (or is it Nigerian) victim mentality. It's easier to blame your succeeding/successful neighbour for your failures than try to copy his tried and tasted working template. Or seek the right counsel.

Dangote doesn't just follow the crowd. Everyone in the oil sector was using the easy route of importing. He chose to best route which is to refine locally. Everyone once imported cement, he chose to manufacture.

He now plans now to set up a private university focused on technology research or something like that.

This is a niche I've always wondered why no one wanted to invest in. i.e rather than just follow the band wagon setting up conventional universities with everyday courses, someone should invest in Specialist university.

What I had in mind was even a university of say (strictly) medicine, medical science and drug(including cancer) research sort off. Just think of the huge profits from educational and medical tourism both from Nigerians and foreigners. Nigerians wouldn't have to visit india or John Hopkins
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 2:50pm On Aug 28, 2017
freshest4live:
Those wailers would never stop, Dangote is also successful in about 18 African countries and is the biggest business conglomerate in AFRICA, can MONOPOLY alone take one that far
Yes o.. The DPR issued about 25 licences to individuals who said they could/would set up private refineries in the country. But as at today, only Dangote is building his own refinery. Mind you, 21 of those licences are for modular refineries (i.e not up to Dangote's size, with just 10,000pbd as their refining capacity)

Others, perhaps are waiting for when the FG would auction Ph, Warri and KD refineries so they can bid. Meanwhile these same people Have started shouting he has the monopoly of building a refinery.
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 2:07pm On Aug 28, 2017
Ijaya123:
Same way he used northern connections to bend policies of other African countries he has investments in? I sense jealousy and hatred as the foundation of your grudges. Unfortunately, no one can help you here.
Exactly. These people keep shouting monopoly here and there, but has the government stopped anyone from venturing into cement production?

There's abundance of limestone everywhere you turn to in Nigeria, yet these folks would rather import finished cement from Asia (branding it their names) than set up factory, which is better in the long run for the economy.

Only God knows what the price of cement would have been if importation wasn't banned with this dollar wahala.

Talking about monopoly, I can name the following cement manufacturers in Nigeria other than Dangote
1. Bua cement (Edo state)
2. Sokoto cement (Northern Nigeria cement company)
3. Unicem (Akampka, Cross River, more expensive than Dangote and predominant/preferred in the South-East)
4. Gwana Cement (Bauchi state)
5. Lafarge cement (Ogun state)
So with these other players, how has dangote monopolised cement production in Nigeria?

Dangote tried his hands in Noodles production but failed. Thanks to Indomie's aggressive marketing strategies, Dangote was forced to sell Dangote noodles to Indomie because they couldn't keep up. But if Dangote had succeeded, these same folks would be shouting monopoly, rather than blame indomie for their failures
BusinessRe: 4 Lessons Entrepreneurs Should Learn From Dangote’s Bloomberg Interview by Aquariann: 1:26pm On Aug 28, 2017
stillseth:
you've said it all brother...and he had a very strong government backing/connection so they monopolized everything for him...majorly the cement sector...dangote controls cement price
Can you prove it that Dangote is the only cement manufacturer in Nigeria?
HealthRe: Rhesus Factor Incompatibility, One Of The Causes Of Miscarriage by Aquariann: 6:47pm On Aug 27, 2017
ChelseaDr:
With due respect Sir, this is not correct.
Corrected myself in my subsequent post..
HealthRe: Rhesus Factor Incompatibility, One Of The Causes Of Miscarriage by Aquariann: 6:32pm On Aug 27, 2017
eyinjuege:
There's a reason we have rhogam injections for rhesus negative women.
Whether after a first miscarriage/abortion, bleeding while pregnant/ or even after delivery, you give rhogam.
In this day and age, the emphasis shouldn't be on rhesus affecting the choice of a life partner, but on letting all rh negative women know about the ehogam injections and when to have it
Firstly, everyone has to know their blood group.
Scratches head.. I forgot this otpion.
HealthRe: Rhesus Factor Incompatibility, One Of The Causes Of Miscarriage by Aquariann: 6:30pm On Aug 27, 2017
In addition, as a Rh- girl, please never think of an abortion if you happen to get pregnant out of wedlock. You'll never have a child again. (Caveat: Unless you find a Rh- man to marry).

And if and when you do keep the pregnancy (this include Rh- married women), a CS is the best (or rather only) option if you intend to have other kids in the future.

Mehn, I love Biochemistry
CelebritiesRe: Between Frank Edoho And Twitter User Who Called Him A Wife Beater by Aquariann: 1:04pm On Aug 26, 2017
logica:
Aha. And even you are "thinking like a Nigerian", my friend. Surely, subscribing to GoTV does not necessarily mean you are broke. Not everybody is fond of throwing money away.

The irony of it all was the fact that the troll was the oversabi, but typical of an oversabi accuses others of his malady.
Lol.. Boss mi.
CelebritiesRe: Between Frank Edoho And Twitter User Who Called Him A Wife Beater by Aquariann: 12:50pm On Aug 26, 2017
pressplay411:
Lol yea he played the rich man card and got the streetz treatment.
My point exactly. Calling people broke shouldn't be a first line of defence.
CelebritiesRe: Between Frank Edoho And Twitter User Who Called Him A Wife Beater by Aquariann: 12:41pm On Aug 26, 2017
LastMumu:
How did Frank fire the first shot? The troll started it by calling Frank an oversabi. Of course Frank is a celebrity so it's easy for you guys to ignore the first diss.
logica:
What does "Nigerians are their oversabi" mean to you? I guess it is a compliment.
Well, since I wouldn't want to assume what Frank's response would have been, I'm forced to agree with you guys the guy would have stated his opinion without the "Over sabi line"

My grouse like the guy I quoted was in referencing the fact that Nigerian celebrities at the slightest online debate or squabble, resort to calling everyone broke. It's like an ingrained punchline.

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