₦airaland Forum

DrDauda:
Am a gynaecologist

I am or I'm... Dem no teach you with English for Med school?

Abee79:
Toh, good luck with all that
* In my experience, when it comes to marriage it is better to seek and submit to God's will. Insisting on your criteria might get you into trouble

Proverbs 18:22: He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.

God doesn't give you a wife. You look for her. And when you find her (someone you're compatible with), you obtain favour from God

montezz:
Why u con take am personal like dis? Are you the man?

I'm not the man. And you don't have to be angry over his choice just because you're fat and probably short too. There're lots of men to go round sweetheart

Abee79:
See the kain criteria he is setting sef:
- Lawyer or Law student
- Very tall
- Both parents must be Catholic & Uhrobo by tribe
- between 20 & 28 years
- God fearing

* Na wa o! See conditions

Lawyer or Law student: Perhaps a career/profession he admires and respects and have always wanted to marry from the field. Personally if I have my way, I would marry a nurse or a medical doctor. Thanks to my mom, I've never been admitted in the hospital. What I'm trying to say is he has a reason.

Very tall: He might be short for a man and wouldn't want his kids that way. Personally I'm tall even as a guy, but I despise short ladies. With reason though, one being I'm yet to see one who isn't unnecessarily aggressive or always feels you're talking down on her or trying to intimidate her (during an argument) because of her height. Again, his choice

Both parents must be Catholic & Uhrobo by tribe: Religious and Cultural synergy. His choice. While I personally do not admire ladies from my tribe (several reasons for that), I wouldn't get married outside the Catholic church.

20 & 28 years : I wouldn't settle with a lady older than me. A very close female friend of mine, with just a few months on me is always quick to remind me we ain't mates whenever we have normal friend issues.

God fearing: Though clichéd, everyone desires a peaceful home. And the presence/love/fear of God in your lives is the first step in achieving a lovely marriage

montezz:
Very tall or tall lmao! The man is a clown. Dollyjoy come and see o.

For stating "HIS" preference? Seriously?

I bet you have a preference for "YOUR TYPE" of man, and if all things should go your way, you wouldn't settle for just any man.

Lets learn to be civil by respecting people's choices please.

I wonder why it's not ok for a man to reject a short or fat girl, but becomes very ok for a (short or fat) lady to look out for a tall, muscular and athletic looking man.

NL1960:
Gbam. The question i have even asked people that say this is if they stay with the kid all throughout the school session in a day school. You can only have a minute-by-minute monitoring of your kid only if you are a 24-hour stay-at-home mom or dad. Even at that, don't you go to the market and leave them at home?.

Even before stepping foot in a boarding house, I was already trained to wake up and begin my day by 5am. The only difference was the voice of a prefect "barking" or the sound of a bell did the waking up.

If there was any training I got while being a boarding student that I didn't get at home, it was simply how to survive without my parents. Visiting days were even privileges for me all through. Yet the fear/love of my family's name made sure I never went off course. I had been trained already from home. Boarding school only made me tougher.

This discussion should have been "Mixed or Singles sex boarding house, which is better?". Because in all honesty, boarding schools have far greater advantages than your regular day school.

favoured234:
Day school, I need to watch them closely
But if for some reasons they have to attend boarding school, I will make them attend catholic schools, I think I can trust those boarding school a little more than the others cos they have zero tolerance for misbehaviors .

Yes I was a boarding student..

You'll only end up heartbroken.

And why is almost everyone before me saying "No one would raise my children for me?"

My teachers never raised me. My parents (especially my mother) did even though I attended a boarding house.

Sending your kids to boarding houses is different from abdicating your parental responsibilities.

SambisaKing:
Hello genies in the house, I am or I'm about getting a domain name for my site but I am or I'm still thinking which is more preferable to choose and the benefits attached therein. It's or It is a media site based in Lagos, it also has a blogpage. Thanks for your suggestions.

In giving my suggestion, I'll say you go with "yourmedianameng.com".

While the "ng" would give an impression of it being of Nigerian origin, you'll still have the ".com" to show it's contents are for the global audience.

May God bless all the struggling youths out there.

989900:
Why would anyone have a problem with this kind gesture to a grieving family?
Have you ever been bereaved before?
BTW, the son is a qualified lawyer called to the bar about a year or 2 ago.

I'm wondering why too. The surprising point to even note is the fact that he wasn't automatically employed by his dad into his ministry.

For those talking about fallen soldiers kids, even recently the army awarded scholarship to them. It's not as though such arrangement were previously not in place, its just fellow Nigerians shortchanging them.

PS: The dude might not even need the employment since his late dad's chambers is in existence or,might have something better doing for himself.

Sometimes its allowed for us to do away with our sense of political correctness and show human empathy. This dude just lost both parents and a younger brother for crying out loud. Except perhaps mountain of fire members, no sane human mind wishes an enemy that fate

BaddieKay:
Fixing that road in memory of the man and all those who lost their lives there should've been the best option but all the Govt thinks of is Money Money Money(it can fix all things)

You guys keep talking about fixing that road, fixing that road... Abuja-Kaduna expressway is one of the best in the country.

I remember during late Gen Azazi's funeral mass, the officiating bishop said if the East-west road were to be in good shape, Azazi (and Yakowa) probably would not have used the helicopter.

In his addressing speech, former president Jonathan made a comment that statistics from the FRSC showed that, there were more fatal accidents on good road in Nigeria than bad roads.

Truth is, Nigerians are speed freaks on good roads. You need to travel through that road to understand what I'm saying. If you think 140kmp is too fast for a car, then be prepared to see drivers on this route doing 180-200 comfortably, no joke.

We need to change our attitude on highways

bigneorapz:
wow! U're lucky bro please give me her No

080NUMBER

bigneorapz:
it seems u've come across this same situation before..so how was his ass?

Nah... I do with the lights on and I'm free to insert my fingers

Maybe she's a He after all... Like you've been shagging a guy

SunehriLasgidi:
I'm crashing your parteeee!

There'll be none to crash.. Just me and my cake alone

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