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MzMayD:Not for everyone. I once harboured a friend's gf with more height, more lepa and finer hourglass figure than this. I walked in to the house and met her many times sleeping with covercloth/wrapper beside her, only g-string like undie & bra on. Right in the parlour. How can I come into the house and she's not woken? I began to sense plan work. Already I took her as a sister. Nothing would change that. I would just spread her wrapper over her. Something always told me she wasn't really sleeping at all. ![]() Like most men, I spoil for woman matter but I'm very principled. Certain boundaries should NEVER be crossed. Never. If she was some random girl who was unattached, story would be different of course. ![]() |
Old pic by the way. What if the wife has a far better rear view than this? In reality, she's your sister now. I go just cough. If na Ibadan girl she go just turn round and say "Bwoda, ekaaro sir". ![]() |
freemon50:Akon may soon have oil wells. Using a local front of course. ![]() |
KinkyAngela:If GMB has enough neurons left to think thoroughly, he would chose BRF. That Amaechi of a guy can be a driver to Aisha. |
In 9ja, we abuse power anyhow. The boss at work, headteacher, principal, NEPA official, civil servants, lecturer, bank manager, anyone with an iota of power over others. The police & army have the power of force backed by the state/nation. They abuse that authority vested in them on our behalf. In a nutshell, the police reflect the kind of people we generally are: power abusers. |
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Women like to keep secret. Their mind deep gan. Most girls in 9ja set up are disvirgined way too young. It can be by one randy "uncle" or another respected figure in the neighbourhood. The circumstances are usually not pretty. It's even traumatic for some. Some are disvirgined by a boyfriend. But either way, the age and circumstance would diminish the decent and big girl image most babes like to project. We should protect our daughters from randy guys ready to deflower even 10 year olds. |
Well, any attempt to comment on women issues as we men see & experience them is seen as bashing women. Feminazis take it as men saying they are perfect. But there are pertinent questions. I have female friends I love dearly. They actually cannot find "decent" men as they claim. However, when we discuss, the decent men almost have to have angelic qualities to qualify. Of course in addition to affluence otherwise understated as " a comfortable guy". I drill it into their heads that such men don't exist. That yours truly doesn't even meet 50% of those criteria. And yet you girls consider me a good husband material. That I was taken NOT because I'm great, but by someone who saw potential & was ready to grow and progress with me. They say they don't want to settle for less. I have this friend in her mid 30s now. Her wish list for a man is out of this world. As pretty and sweet as she is, I have told her the truth. She cannot reciprocate a guy with those qualities in a million years. She has been impatient, unreasonabe and arrogant towards her last bf. He has now quietly withdrawn. She's missing an opportunity in my opinion. Now she's chasing another guy that doesn't appear interested in her. Another self-induced heartache ahead. Already, she's getting quite depressed about things easily. Parents now asking when she will marry and have kids. Regrets about abortions and others now surfacing. Now, with such emotional baggage & wish list, the chances of a serious guy staying with her are not great. I have even backtracked from introducing a good friend to her. Until she sorts herself out and face reality. |
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@OP, Find out the following: (1) Is she still in love with you? (2) Any life-changing event/trauma like rape that you're not aware of? (3) Is she suffering from depression? In addition to loss of libido, has she little appetite or eats too much lately, disinterested in things she normally enjoys, feels guilty for whatever reason, has she problems sleeping or wakes up too early in the morning for no reason, etc? These may help you suspect depression and if so, seek help for mental health for her. If all these are negative, seek help with a sexologist together, who can help you both rediscover enjoyable sex again. Obviously, you are not happy with how things are now. If it continues for much longer, your marriage may not survive it. |
Our friend the poster doesn't think we are worth giving quotation to openly. People have to be wary of those who cannot disclose basic information. It's not only suspicious, it's also unprofessional. I have dealt with some here on NL before. |
ocelot2006:Nor mind them. APC propaganda. Rubbish last govt and take credit for all the work of GEJ now bearing fruits. |
mencade5:She mentioned illicit affairs up there dude. |
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Shymm3x:Bro, have you lived in Russia, Romania, Fiji, Pakistan, Jamaica, Finnland and all the other hundreds of countries? No I should guess. I have had my fair share of agro with Nigerians, both male & female. A Nigerian lady I only just helped when making applications to the authorities claimed I was dad of her child when some social workers "opened eye for her". I took my time to fill applications and interpret for her in a non-English speaking country many years back. Some have borrowed thousands of pounds that resulted in quarrels and I never got the money back. The question is, did they behave that way because they were Nigerians? I don't think so. After all the term Nigeria is a misnomer. It only exists on paper. You're actually Hausa-Fulani, Igbo, Yoruba, Tiv, Edo, Ijaw, Kanuri, Mumuye, Somyev, Berom etc. My analysis shows that in diaspora, it's hard to know people's social background at first. Anyone can claim anything. But later I realised that social background is very important in the way people behave. Also the values people grew up with. People I once trusted, had actually stolen money from their master or sold uncle's house or did some other jigbiti thing to pay their way to diaspora. Now someone with such a moral state, how will he/she be an upright person whether at home or abroad?? Social background is not same as economic background here by the way. |
teasel:Wow! One woman can have so much anger inside her. Pele. It is well. If you doubt my assertions I challenge you to come and I will get you to meet some of those professionals. But I doubt like you are interested in the truth, but just to vent anger and frustration. I don't post things I cannot substantiate just because it's an anonymous forum. Never. Nigerian reputation has been ruined by many people. Politicians, yahoo boys, 419, prostitutes, the police, Boko Haram, etc. If you claim only men did it, the men were raised by father & mother. The girls that behave themselves anyhow were also raised by both. If you are any good in Maths, what percentage of Nigerians do you think are criminals? If Nigeria had even 10% of its population as criminals, how would life be like? Much worse I should believe. How many of your male relatives and friends are criminals? Start your estimation from there. Start a thread to discuss how men are worse than women. With evidence & personal experiences, not unproven prejudicial stuff. In Nigeria, corruption is practised by men and women. It's our biggest long term problem. Both men and women need introspection. Both. You must be new to Feminazism. Ndo. Good luck. |
coolestrogue:Obj doesn't like anyone else in the limelight, especially any Southerner. Nobody should ever get any praise for anything except him. His uncharitable nature shows a certain complex despite his outside bravado. He tacitly duped Awo, lambasted MKO before election & death, only for him to benefit from MKO's death later. OBJ get wahala sha. |
You wonder if Boko could have achieved more with a charm offensive than violence. In a country where using tire and petrol to burn petty thieves, lynch mob and much violence is justified to settle scores, Boko's ideas of Sharia might be more acceptable than we like to believe. |
teasel:So you just come here to insult all 9ja men. Tell me, is your dad a Nigerian? All countries have criminals, rapist-killers are common here in the West. What he did is condemnable but no need to copycat Western bias against Africans. Some of the best Surgeons I know across UK are Nigerians. You never see it in the newspapers except on rare occasions that one or two have to attend a GMC hearing. |
deltateam:Very true my friend. But someone had to do it. We probably need over 2000% capacity increase to even scratch the surface of psychiatric cases in 9ja. We need far more professionals, not less. |
No confirmation yet. So na beer parlour talk so far. |
iyomomo:Iyomomo congrats! As for the pigs, have you found out what the problem is? |
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Obaiyski:Na Bible say "Fear North". ![]() |
plaetton:At the risk of being labelled atheist, I have in recent years questioned religion as practised by Africans now. As a guy born into Christianity I'm concerned about the way religion has displaced reason at a time we seriously need it for social and scientific advancement. We are far behind other societies that function on logic and reason. We go to those places to live, ask for help and spend holiday. Yet we refuse to examine our own ways to see where we got it wrong. |
Epic rides. |
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