₦airaland Forum

Dharniel:
those guys molested you buh they didn't have their way.
to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty but that's not always true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent.
op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful...

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I think loss of self-control is no excuse before the law.

If a girls say no, it's no. Even if already penetrated, if she changes her mind, you must pull out. Difficult but she has the right over her body.

Sure it's a bit confusing for guys to decipher if a girl is playing hard to get or simply honestly saying no. To be on the safe side, err on the side of caution and take it as a no.

I had a young girl once and we did everything except penetration. She just said no. You wonder with all we have done so far, how much difference will sex make? But she obviously thought otherwise. It's her body. She wasn't a virgin. We had dated for about two months.

Another girl just got dumped by her bf. Her gf who liked me so much and had advised her to dump the guy and follow me months earlier.
I liked this girl a lot. Her gf now called me to go help her overcome the split.
We slept in the same bed all nite. Again did everything but no penetration. Being a Caucasian girl, she could have even enjoyed the sex and yet call you olokpa the next day. That will be 7 years minimum in jail. Abeg them nor use sex swear for me.

If people stopped watching Telemundo too much, they won't expect these.

In any case, it's not our culture. How many oyinbo do things our way?

Or are we saying our culture is inferior?

Upon all the "nice guy" gesture, they still have like 50% divorce rate. The men still get kicked out in winter anyhow. It shows that a man needs more than those superficial gestures that are just " the norm", not a sign of greater love.

igahdavid:
Corruption every where in Nigeria
God help us

We pretend that we want government to fight corruption.

How many want our parents/relatives in jail for 21 years for corruption and lose the comfortable family home we live in?

How many want to hand in their degree certificates because they got university admission through bribery or school cert due to magic exam centres?

How many want to give up their well-paying job that they secured via bribery/long leg?

Fact is we all want corruption probed as long as we and our families/friends are not affected. The minute we're affected, it becomes witch hunt or tribalism. It won't work that way.

countsparrow:
My opinion;
Aye olopa ti baje


Translation;
Police life has spoilt

More like "Aye oloriburuku ti baje".
They might just silence the criminal to avoid incrimination.

vivypretty:
mama g of nollywood is an expert in this role.
this is one thing i pray i never do in my life DIVORCE

Amen dear. About 50% of marriages kick the bucket though.

Hmmmmm. Very scammericious woman being. Nonsensicus et ingredientus. See her poofull nyansh

luswitz:
I love this people, at least compared to d Americans, coupled with d fact dat they where our colonial masters.

The same Lugard people that have common wealth that favours only Caucasians? I studied, live and work among them. Only your own hard work and focus get you somewhere. You get nothing for free from them. Nigeria better get its act together instead of hoping on any colonial master or the West for any help.

musicwriter:
Is this the only way Britain is paying for their crimes in Africa?.

All you guys have to do is leave Britain and come over to Africa and invest your monies.

Britain, France, Belgium, Netherlands, Germany, Spain, Portugal, e.t.c invested their loots wisely.

HOW AFRICAN RESOURCES WAS SHARED AMONG EUROPEANS WITHOUT THE PRESENCE OF A SINGE AFRICAN NATION.

1. The Berlin conference 1884-1885 http://www.africason.com/2014/10/berlin-conference-of-1884-1885-to.html

2. The Berlin conference continued http://www.africason.com/2014/10/the-berlin-conference-how-greedy-europe.html

Hmmmmm

kazmanbanjoko:
i know what i am saying. Like one picture i saw like dat. The girl was wearing a cloth with an inscription written at the back of the shirt which says "can you f*ck". Now, tink about dat too. Only dat i dont have the picture but yu may knw abt it.

That girl can be illiterate or never read the inscription for all you know.

kazmanbanjoko:
Wetin the girl sef dey wear wey go make the pastor rape am. Everyday for the rape, oneday for the reason.

You mean a supposed man of God that claims to deliver demons cannot resist the dressing of a 13 year old however provocative it might be?? Haba! Dressing does not in anyway justify rape. You see yummy food by roadside daily, you don' t take from it and runaway. No justification at all.

Abugab:
CAN has to act fast in stopping the emergence of new churches and verify the existing ones.
Why do we now have thieves, serial rapists, pedophiles, liars, scammers, cultists and occultic people parading themselves as pastors and clerics?
This trend of evil activities by pastors and clerics must have to stop by fire by thunder before they tarnish the image of Christianity

We often jokingly say end times things but this is fulfilling the prophesy. Right now 9ja Christiandom can chose to do nothing and bask in their current popularity. The same way European Christiandom abused power and engaged in too much worldly things and all manner of excesses. That became their undoing. Europeans simply walked out of church when their living conditions were improved by science and technology. We are heading in the same direction.

Cool

tommysparks:
That is good very good. Let the police wipe out all ritualist, but the only devils that will fight this move are our so called lawyers, they will start dragging police to court for extrajudicial killing and Nigerians will support anything against the police. So this move is dead on arrival. Who is disputing me?

When America refuse to send police weapons now, we will blame them. Biko, does a police commissioner has the right to order such, in a case where there's no immediate danger to persons? Can't ritualistic be taken to court? When next the kill an innocent citizen, they can label him ritualist. Or when seen with a monkey's head, the trigger happy police can just shoot first.

kulobyno:
Five minutes of rompy sex has bought a career academician an accommodation in prison. Now he is to pay a whooping 250k for bail excluding the legal bill by his attorney and the disrepute as well as the fact that his job would most likely be on the line.

250k could have given him a steady supply of campus girls if he chooses to live a loose life.

250k could have repackaged his wife and made her more sex appealing. Now he is to pay the money with pains and without thanks.

Goons thinking with their dick from time immemorial

I don't know why they grant bail for rape cases. This is a very serious crime. Completely unacceptable, barbaric in fact. Murder, rape, kidnap, child molestation and armed robbery should not get bail.

nerodenero:
Even if BRF is allegedly corrupt, just like many of PMB's friends are alleged to have been, it then goes to show that part of the looted funds were used in electioneering campaign which eventually brought GMB to Aso Rock. Though there is the saying that 'he who comes to equity must come with clean hands' but in this case, some of the alleged corrupt leaders are the men PMB trust to fulfill his desired change for Nigeria.

Let's not deceive ourselves, it would be very difficult to have a Nigerian that has served in government that is totally free from corruption, the only difference is that these atrocities varies or the amount looted differs from individual to another. As the saying goes, 'it is very easy for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a Nigerian polithiefcian to be free from sharp-practices .

PMB has some hard decisions to make.

Has an impossible task. Harping his policy on anti-corruption is popular but how do you achieve that with Ali baba and the 40 thieves around you?

kulobyno:
Something is really wrong. More psychiatric homes should be set up in every local Govt. More goons are loosing their minds in a rapid rate

Mental health issues during pregnancy and post-natal are rather common. But govt doesn't care, as long as Osho Baba has his Iara, no cause for alarm.

herhderk:
Oh my gosh, this man is a very good man o
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hmmm

All those gas flaring will sure have consequences.

Bats are mammals so such an appearance is not surprising.

But if such was found in Benin, many would say na winch we thunder fire miss way.

Fearcom:
No.

It was your 'NO VACANCY' chants and 'TRANSFORMATION' chants that made the North n SW angry. So next time if you want better results, change the musik.

Which ruling party says there's vacancy, please come and take it? Since when is it wrong for a govt to have a motto or mantra?

Actually, I wanted GEJ to lose. Simply because I feared for his life. He was surrounded my many ethnic bigots working against him from within. They are now gradually confessing. The North in particular were ready to regain presidency by any means, even if Sambo should become President. And as usual use the SW to tag along.

Do SW people not understand why Awo (a foremost AFrican visionary) won't do business with the North, inspite of attraction of power at the centre? Simply among others, because they weren't (and still aren't progressive enough). When he did with Gowon, it was to preserve Nigeria as one country.

In any case, North & SW now have a chance to do what they couldn't do for 50 years of ruling Nigeria. Then suddenly blaming 50 years of ineptitude on GEJ's 5 years plus laced with landmines, was pure mischief.

Time is ticking. You can only blame the last govt so much and peddle propaganda.
Time is ticking. Tick tock.

Moheat:
Hanananiya is a very powerful General. He is the Chairman of Ex-General forum and one time Nigeria high commission to UK under GMB. He masterminded the smuggling of 53 suit cases into Nigeria under GMB. He is somewhat untouchable.

So that same Hanniya who co-ordinated Umaru Dikko's kidnap under GMB, when he was HC in London.

Well, GMB will save him anytime. You can bet your last farthing on it.

7lives:
According to him, “Most of the issues bedeviling this country bother on morals-dishonesty, stealing of government money and forms of such inhuman activities. If there are morals, issues of corruption would be a thing of the past. Your morality is your personality. Therefore, persons of high moral decadence are not right to lead us. He should honourably resign,” the former lawmaker said.


Sad but true

So using lies and propaganda to compaign to win election is not morally questionable?

Anyway, masturbating masturbators speak from all corners of their mouth and every other possible orifice.

IsraeliAIRFORCE:
Were you the one that supplied the equipment and ammunitions used to recover the 22 LGAs previously lost to Bokoharam?

What do you understand by the expression "NEVER AGAIN"?

Those equipment and ammunitions plus soldiers welfare were responsible for boosting our soldiers moral and confidence which paid off by serial successful combats.

Why bother arguing with masturbating masturbators?

They can never see any good in another person apart from the Western Germany god.

Anyone who doesn't wish his neighbour well can hardly hope for good things.

While they are busy point index finger at GEJ and his government, four fingers are pointing at them. Na so life dey.
Meanwhile their god is running a sole administrator government and their senators spend more time, energy & resources fighting and betraying each other, filing papers in court and futile peace missions. What a masturbators' change.

misspicy:
1)any man who cant provide for his family loses his respect

2)any man who beat his woman loses the respect she have for him

3)Any man who cheats on his spouse and gets caught loses every atom of respect

4)any man who dares raise his voice at me.....is gone out of my life

And what do you offer in return? As long as you don't do the above too, fair enough.

So if a man loses his job temporarily and you become sole breadwinner, your man is in soup?

Actually, a man should avoid depending on a woman for any reason. Because the same woman you laboured to finance her studies and provided for, for many years, the moment you rely on her economically, you will suffer. Most women anyway, a small minority are different.

cold:
Sad..really sad. But few questions though. How is it possible for a grown kid like the one in the pic can just take all that torture without putting up some defense? Secondly,how do we know the woman in the subsequent pic committed the act? There's no way of telling. We need to verify from other sources.

After much threat & maltreatment, people do lose self-esteem, self-confidence and become emasculated to the point of becoming fearful and over obedient.

There needs to be an emergency declared on sexual crimes. Nationwide.
It's getting too much. Our kids are not safe. Neighbours, teachers, pastors, fellow students, landlord, lecturers, boss of domestic servant, cultists, Fulani herdsmen are all molesting women and children.

Haba! Which way?

GSM and free megabytes has made all kind of depraved porn accessible to even teenagers and some cannot control their urges.
We cannot go on like this.

Wetin dey happen sef?

Na so.

North n SW want Buhari, so he can do no wrong. Watching in 7D.

bushdoc9919:
Kegel's exercises, manuals(Nigerians do not like to read), and healthy diet....would have solved this issue.

Nigeria also needs a lot of therapists.

May be the man sef nor care about her honeypot, e don turn sour pot for him.
The man sef nor bother turn up for court. Since 4 years, another person dey shine the Congo since.

ronald4lif:
Good question. Why exterminate the poor animal when it can be trapped alive? The rate at which animals are killed by humans ehh. Like our lives are more precious than theirs.

Endangered animals being killed anyhow. We are very far behind East African countries in conservation. Oil has really messed us up. If we needed wildlife tourism to make hard currency, sense for dey all these our coconut heads

barcanista:
I know that some Sai Buharists will be quick to abuse Jonathan.

All those masturbating masturbators you mean. Sure.

RickRichards:
Another instance of rape. Surely this is one case too many.

Sadly very common. Only good that the girl is close enough to her parents to reveal it. Most girls bottle it up and suffer the trauma for life. Rape is still taken as a cavalier offence. This has to change. Alone being a person in a position of authority makes it punishable even if consensual, which it is not even. Na wa o.