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gasparpisciotta:
Am :ohow dare you mention my nameaka Vs Njidekka

Leverage2021:
This Lola na good woman after all

See wetin introverts dey suffer, they judged her just because she is very private with her life and husband

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

CsRockefeller:
Hmmmmm. Bad guys seems to be winning.

We good guys get nothing, even when we put our all for the other party. I know many ladies who were feeling fly in school but are today very single and searching, one was telling me over the weekend that she hopes to find love this December, she's tired.

It's well. Let's all carry our cross. I'm carrying mine without wining about it.

Wick3:
People always use this introversion as an excuse to be rude and have an attitude. I am also an introvert (core one at that) but I always try to compromise.

First of all after going through her post and other comments, I think she's a narcissist and from what's she's making us believe, I'll say the husband is quite immature. So I don't see this working out between them.

But you guys should stop blaming your shitty attitude on introversion.

For example, i hate small talks and I don't like talking on phone, but whenever someone calls me, I already set it in such a way that if I busy your call you will get a "please text me" SMS. But some won't even pick your calls, won't even return them or text you and be claiming introvert. Yet same person will be quick to call you on phone if he or she needs an assistance.

I hardly relate with people, even family, but somehow they know i got their back. You might even be a very quiet person but your body language will make them like you even when you don't speak to them.

People should learn to stop being selfish.

Havilaah1:
Thanks, I'll keep trying
Now that i know they already said something like this, me making serious move to flow with them will look like I'm pretending because they said it.

Havilaah1:
Starting all over again will not be an easy task, we'll both be losing friendship and relationship at the same time.
I'm so weak right now.

advanceDNA:
Beyond her??
You are wrong... the man has not asked for what’s beyond her...She’s not autistic neither is she antisocial otherwise she won’t have a boyfriend in the first place....

JONNYSPUTE:
.....What I mean by making amend is for her to make some sacrifice just for the love both of them shared.

Or do you want her to forget about the guy?