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Lol why not both
Ogbeni run both of them you will survive

DarkCaesar:
OAU bus stop and Infront of OAU bookshop, she was a pastor’s daughter and she was naughty…….she loved every moment of it and walking her back to her hostel with her hand in my shirt to hold my dick and my hand across her neck to grab her boobs was our lovely ritual everytime we had an outdoor sex. #school was indeed fun

Which dude for oau bookshop? That
Place wey atm Dey before?
Hmm bus stop wey security people Dey sleeep

He is in ghost mode

POSmecrhant:
Lol. I don't like using car unclean. My car will stay dirty for days if I'm not using it. But I must wash it when driving out. My car neatness always expose how dirty his car is around my car. This could triggered this childish behavior. Lol

Lol car neatness
He probably drives the car out everyday
Doesn’t have time to wash
But you take car out once in two weeks and boom you are washing washing
Washerman
He might just be joking but it’s the truth
No Dey wash car anyhow

Gaggii:
Please house,

What can I do, if I no cum sleep no dey come

Have cum to the extent of having short of blood.

Please what are the things I can do to make fall asleep at nights

Try listening to therapeutic music
Just google sleep songs
Use headset
And you’ll zoom off

POSmecrhant:
I have this new neighbor that packed in last three months, that talk to people anyhow. But he feels it's a normal conversation.

Over the weekend I was cleaning my house and my car, only for him to tell me I clean my car too much. And was saying other nasty things and was laughing thinking is a normal thing.

There's no single day that i will wash my car that this guy will not say this to me, how I valued my car more than my life.

Normally, this guy can not look me with straight face and be telling me this kind of nonsense if I didn't create this kind of familiarity with him in the first place.

How can i avoid this guy in a matured manner so that he won't even decode I'm avoiding him?

Lol why you sef go Dey clean car wey you no Carry comot.. I believe that’s why he said you value the car too much

VictorUSA:
My cousin sister is living with us...she came of recent.Sometimes she expose parts of her breasts or laps and comes to me in a sexual way.

She sits on my lap and always deny that we're biologically related.

I tried all I could to avoid her but she's always on my neck.

Comot body joor
Come at you in a sexual way, as if you sef no get sexual intentions
You are coming to Nairaland for what
You no sabi Say no baa

missimelda01:
I would really appreciate matured responses.

I believe personal growth is intentional and when there's no effort, there's little or no improvement.
How do you deal with a partner who's less interested in taking practical steps to grow? (Steps like reading books on personal growth, listening to podcasts, and attending church)

Where is it written that, books make one grow, the people who wrote the book, are they the best people out there? Didn't they make mistake before getting it right? I'm not a fan of reading books for personal growth, it's nonsense to me

Danibonk:
My guy is into this shit

why are you gay

Rubyjade:
:ouna no wan dey responsible again

You no sabi book
Being responsible = getting married in your book?
Being responsible is relative, if He gets the child and cater for the child whilst with his mother, what’s that? Una go just Dey drink for Nairaland

Kobojunkie:
Really?

He should find person to Impregnate and if the person finds him unworthy as a mate and decides to carry her child go meet another man, then what will OP do in that case? Finish up the job left unfinished?

Haha
My brother
I wasn’t explicit
What I meant was he should find a surrogate and give her belle.. pay her and then give his mother the pikin since she’s so desperate for grandchild

Elmagnifico3000:
Please house I need your honest advise

So my issue is this for about 6years plus been single due to lots of heartbreaks.
I dated a girl for 3 years, gave her my everything, was ready to take everything to next level that was when I realized I have been played all this while, for 3 goods years.
I got depressed almost committed suicide, but mom love and friends didn't let me at same time I vow never to date nor trust any lady again till I ex this life.

Now the issue is last year my mom has been on my Case about grandchild since am second born only Son got an elder sis and a nephew from her.
Please good people how do I change my present predicament, how do I start all over again after 6years. Have lost all my cool � manly skill as refered to womanizing as this case may portray.

I really need your scrutiny and Insults at this time in my life, good advise will go a long way.

You want to give your mother a grandchild
Go and find person to Impregnate
Don’t marry because of pressure
You have to be intentional about shii things like this

Unclesmart12:
Some days ago a lady posted about being torn between her ex and her new boyfriend. Here's the link
https://www.nairaland.com/7021168/im-torn-ex-new-boyfriend#110871298
I happen to be the new guy in question, I even recommended posting the issue on Nairaland so neutrals could advice her since she won't let me rest because of the issue. She couldn't read past page two of the thread cos nairalanders were giving it to her hot hot.

My own issue is I can no longer cope with her confusion, she clearly doesn't want to let the other guy go. She's been sending me recordings of her calls with the guy where the guy has being begging her like his life depends on it. I sincerely wish I can contact the guy so we can be running her together on a low but it's obvious he will snitch on me cos he's obviously obsessed with the girl.

Most of the calls has been about the guy talking about his accomplishments and how he will get her heaven and earth even though the girl admitted to having sex with another guy. He's been peppering her with credit alerts all these while and even promised to get her a bigger phone while the one she's using now which he actually bought is just few months old. For me I see those money talks as a challenge to make my own money.

I have more serious things to do with my life than compete for a lady that doesn't know what she wants. She wants to keep the guy for the financial benefits and also wants to keep me for the romantic benefits or whatever.

I have been trying to ghost her but I've come to realize that I actually like her a lot so its not easy. How can I do this effectively?? For some days now we not really been on the best of terms, she blanks me at any slightest provocation and if I don't call she will just lockup.

How do I swing the balance and dump her in a way that will hurt her?? She always brags that she's never met a guy that will make her beg cos she always has plenty options and can easily replace anyone that misbehaves.

Lol make you and mamiter Dey wine una self
When una ready una go talk true

house10s2:
when she says

ur money is our money
my money is my money.


wat ur response

According to fela
Run oo

Lol na serious mental disorder dey worry this girl
Serious one
I don’t believe this shii
Not saying it’s a lie
I just don’t believe in nonsense like this

Milesbillions:
Had some urgent situations which needed my attention that I attended to.

Hmm ok
I pray Gelp comes for you o

Salliet:
They are.

It’s well o

Milesbillions:
Boss, it is not easy as u are saying it.

Boss I get but there are plenty ways to avoid unnecessary spendings
Your traveling to your home town was fir what?

Milesbillions:
Saving allawee was very hard for me as I fully depended on it, no other source of income....was even paying for my accomodation and the rest from there.
The little I saved, I channelled them in crypto and now bitcoin is going up and down...lol

Also served in state that was very far from my state of origin....70% of the allawee always finishes on travelling.

Why are you traveling to State of origin? What’s you people problem
Can’t you stay in one place for a year?
The state of origin you Traveller to? Is that not where you are back now?
Why did you pay for house during service? Even if you will pay for house it should be like 1k house per month or 1500..
Mehn you people need to understand money management sha
Now no much savings

Are they not expensive?

Preshieben:
Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

The only way is date a girl

Offpoint1:
The problem still falls back to parental irresponsibility.
It takes badly raise children to engage in sexual activities at such age.... Check their families history.

Very true anyway

Na lie

If the fair guy is actually Ba some dem Go rush am

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men

lol
What will you say about an 18 year old who got pregnant for a 19 year old in my street, is it because of the irresponsible guy or lady

KokobySandra:
So I open a thread to share my truth. Something that a lot might be dealing with and also living in denier, I got comment with backlash, I got mail from guys asking me to be their girlfriend. It’s funny how you guys have turn this forums. Loads of kids in adult body here. I shared an honest story and all I got was insult. Someone even call me a slut( ashawo) seriously Nairaland has lost her value and I do not regret leaving for this long. Goodbye please.

Lol abeg Sandra rest
You are as confused as you we all on Nairaland
No need to form holier Dan thou..
You already stated you want a picture perfect guy
And this present guy isn’t it
Then tell him and move on to someone else
What else do you want? That’s if your story dey true sha

Lol fake