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RomanceRe: I Have A UTI, Unitary Tract Infection. Please Help!!! by arthurwillia(m): 10:37pm On Jun 28, 2022
Jloanbroker:
I have a UTI. I've taken a card of ciproflaxin. It's still persist. Which affordable drug can you recommend going on please
Lol I don’t know why you people go buy cipro for anything.. our body is already used to it and we’ve reach pharmacological tolerance..

Best bet is to do a urine mcs then I can prescribe drugs for you m.

Or just buy cefixime 400mg tomorrow, it’s a little expensive but very effective.. make sure you finish the dose even if you stop seeing the nonsense that’s coming out of your pric..

Contact me for more as it evolves
RomanceRe: Why I Did Not Sleep With People's Wives by arthurwillia(m): 10:36pm On Jun 28, 2022
ebubeson:
To be tempted to sleep with someone's wife can come, they may even offer you, but I beg you resist.... Adultery is cheaper than before...I have more than one encounter, but let me share this..

Some years back, I went for something (briefly) in a northern state, and I stayed in a couples house then.. It was quit okay as I was received well into the house.. But what happened? I noticed the couples were not in talking terms, but they talked to me. One night, the man left and did not come back that night...To be real I met a dangerous temptation as me and the wife became "fleshly" close to each other that night, we were talking and the environment was "satanned". She was weak and I was weak, but I held on and never caressed her nor had sex. I had the power to UnCloth her as she was vulnerable. She complained of her hubbies bed performance. Thank God I did not fall. I might have been destroyed today.

No matter how sweet a married woman appears, even if she goes naked, endure it with your life and go away...

This is not the only temptation with a married woman..But thank God for keeping me.
This never happened but continue your preaching sha
TravelRe: Windhoek, Namibia Is Africa's Second Cleanest City by arthurwillia(m): 10:35pm On Jun 28, 2022
FlipModeSquade:
However that side looks,it would still be a thousand times better than Lagos..
Your shithole Lagos is not in the rear for nothing.
And for your information,they are talking about CLEANLINESS not beauty..
Get sense l, is Lagos Nigeria capital?
TravelRe: Windhoek, Namibia Is Africa's Second Cleanest City by arthurwillia(m): 10:34pm On Jun 28, 2022
saintrow1:
Bad belle
The place na Europe?
Sule must it be Europe for it be white dominated.. na white full there simple hence the development
TravelRe: Windhoek, Namibia Is Africa's Second Cleanest City by arthurwillia(m): 9:48pm On Jun 28, 2022
Hope you know say na white people full this Windhoek na why
Nairaland GeneralRe: Help! I'm Too Nice And People Are Taking Advantage Of My Niceness. by arthurwillia(m): 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2022
Travicon:
Hello Nairalanders,
I will try as much as possible to make the write-up short.

I am a 21years old guy at a Russian university with two Nigerian roommates (In the hostel though). We averagely get the same amount of money as an allowance monthly, but mine always finishes first.

I don't spend unnecessarily on myself, and we cook together. I discovered after two months of staying together that they care less about buying things that we generally use in the room. For instance, I always buy food season, detergents, and cooking oil (quite expensive).

I cook most of the time. Anytime I decide not to cook, we always go hungry and I can't cope with that. This has made my cash always run out faster and I can't stop them from eating my food or using the things I buy.

There was a time also I lend the last money with me (100k in naira) to my best friend then in Nigeria because he claimed his dad was sick and promised to repay by month-end. I didn't have anything to take me through the remaining days of the month but I gave it out because he was a close friend. Month-end, I couldn't get money from my sponsor because of some issues. I contacted my guy but he stopped replying to me on WhatsApp. I managed to get 20k but the rest is probably history now.

Whenever people talk about their problems, I always feel for them to the extent of giving out my money even if it's the last cash on me. I have never had a girlfriend, but I don't always have the strength to reject if a girl asks for airtime or money from me (including my mum and sisters though)

I always try to go to any length to see people happy even if it means borrowing money from another person for them. I'm that foolish. Generally, I'm too soft-hearted and nice but I don't know how to solve this problem. Someone advised me I should get a girlfriend who should always be angry with me if I'm being too nice to people and that will help me solve the problem to some extent but I think it won't.

I'm not from a rich family, not even from an average family. I'm even from a polygamous home so I know what it means to have suffered as a Nigerian. I was on the street and I guess that's what is making me this weak emotionally. I'm a simp all-around in my life and relationship with people. People are always cheating on me, taking advantage of who I am.

I NEED genuine HELP, please.
If it’s your nature just continue
Me I no nice oo and I don’t help abeg
Make all of Una gerrout
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by arthurwillia(m): 9:37pm On Jun 28, 2022
Please those who collected yellow fever card, how did you do it? Should I go a day to my flight
EducationRe: Hello, Does Anyone Know How To Prolong The High From Weed? by arthurwillia(m): 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2022
Photocopy the weed and smoke
RomanceRe: Should I Sleepy With This Married Woman by arthurwillia(m): 2:51pm On Jun 28, 2022
b0rn2fuck:
I knew a married woman in my area, she approached me and seek support for her birthday, which I eventually gave her 15k but not all at ago, it was instalment. After that she kept disturbing for money, excuses that her husband job not going well, she lack foods, her son wasn't feeling well, totally vomited another close to 10k which she later claimed we should be dating. I was like. How could I date someone I knew for long because I have utmost respect for her. Until she invited me to hotel which I claimed I was busy work during week days. She called me in Sunday again ,I feel uncomfortable about this and had to give her excuse, then she said if I can't make it this time, I should forget everything between us. Indeed I was excited because of her demands and nothing between us. Truly I notice she stopped calling then I was not bothered until one day, we met on road side again. She then send an apology, I said she did nothing wrong. I never talk finish when she said "find me something" na that time I know say this woman no get shame. I told her I'm not with anything yet and immediately she said should I give you my account number, I said no worry, I will call her. She said didn't have my number anymore that she deleted it after I turn her down the last time. I said she shouldn't worry, I will call her myself. Immediately I left there ,I deleted her entire number but since then. I have been avoiding her shop which is like 5 street away from my home and I have been dodging her

Her shop is the shortcut to petrol station and I have always been taking a long road, we are fighting because she want me to be fucking her but I don't because I had mistakenly Bleep one married woman before whom claimed she was a single mother ,but I discovered after fucking her. I rather go brothel than do this but I am not free in my area and don't want her to be looking me with bad eyes
Mtchew fake story
RomanceRe: My Mum Wahala Is Getting Too Much by arthurwillia(m): 4:30pm On Jun 27, 2022
Scamupdates:
your topic says more about you. wink hope you have sold off the laptop. dont die of hunger grin
lol you even remind me sef, make I go upload the pics.. e say na don’t die of hunger.. Nairaland Virgin..
RomanceRe: Am I Doing The Right Thing Or Should I Stop Doing It ? by arthurwillia(m): 4:27pm On Jun 27, 2022
Kimiso:
I have an elder sister going to lagos state university but she graduated last month with a bachelor degree in marketing right now she is pregnant and unable to work in any organization,but anytime i make deals and make profit from it I always dash her an amount even though its not much,but i felt am doing too much for her so she wont be taking me for granted

I think I should stop giving her everytime i made profit or I should continue

Note:her husband is also doing the best for her even though its not well impressive
Sister fam, family is every thing if na all these useless girls now eh en but abeg help your sister if she’s good to you
EducationRe: 250k Job In Nigeria Or M. Sc In Canada by arthurwillia(m): 4:26pm On Jun 27, 2022
starz100:
A friend needed advice whether to continue jejely with his 250k government job here in Nigeria or M. Sc in Canada. Your comments will be highly appreciated as he is in a dilemma
Lol depends na, how much you get? If you can find your way to Canada take it na. Or work small and then fund it later
RomanceRe: Update On The Girl That Claimed She Got Pregnant For Me by arthurwillia(m): 4:24pm On Jun 27, 2022
Koporke:
So after much talk yesterday night, she later agreed to go to the hospital with me today. I told her i will call her around 12pm today. Time reach na, i called mama, mama phone is conveniently switched off at that time as a werey when i be i don vo hospital go make enquiries, they told me the lab is open today na i match go her place. All of a sudden i received a call from her, i told her I'm at the front of her gate, she now told me she travelled, i come dey para say sheybi we had an arrangement. I turned and started leaving and she came outside and called me. Oya dress up let's go to the hospital, mama say i was being rude so she cannot follow me to the hospital again. Na i call her sister and told her everything that is going on. Na to lock up
Lol things dey occur sha
RomanceRe: Please How Do I End This Relationship by arthurwillia(m): 4:14pm On Jun 27, 2022
Onyi22:
Na Mumu dy date Nigerian Man because they are all Useless
Including your kinsmen, all the Nigerian men in your family lol
RomanceRe: Please How Do I End This Relationship by arthurwillia(m): 4:13pm On Jun 27, 2022
ObidientFC:
Okay, so last year I started dating this lady. My goal was to keep it going and wed her.
However, I stopped being interested in her a short time after we began dating.

I wasn't ready for sex at that hour. I first sought to establish friendships. She came to my house on a Saturday, and the following week on a Tuesday, she declared out loud that we were going to have sex. I was stunned. We had sex the following day, yea it was enjoyable, but my emotions for her faded off.
Somethings I don't like about her. She talks Alot, loves sex (omoh I don tire), she doenst really relate at the same level with me. Kind of different cognition.
But above all, she is a sweet girl that cares for me . Very trustworthy and can do anything to make me happy. She always want to be around me and hide nothing from me including her phone (Though I don't even go dia self)
But truth is I am not catching all these feelings she is sending my way anymore . I don't see her in my long time plan. I have tried to stay and see if I can finally develope that feelings for her, but it is not working .
I have voiced it out to her and try to make her understand that relationship isn't my thing now, but babe ain't taking it.
I have tried leaving the relationship, but there is an issue .
She is been sick for some time now. (Ulcer) .Whenever she is around me, she doenst complain of any sickness, but once she get to her family house, sickness starts .
I have waited for her to get healed so I can walk away. Last month, I decided to end it. After like one week, she called and started complaining how I left her when she needed me and how she has resorted to taking anti depressants. She is still sick and it pains me that she is going through this sickness because she is a good girl. I invited her over so I can keep her company.
She came with so much drugs . The moment we started talking , I could see how happy and fine she felt. She ended up staying in my house for two days and it was all sex and sex . She went back and the sickness got worst.
She has called that she want to come over and stay as she feel better around me . I have tuned her down with some excuses .
Her birthday is next week and she has told me she is coming, I have given her another excuse.
Honestly I am tired . I am not finding this whole thing interesting and want to end it but at the same time, this sickness is the issue .
How do I handle this
Let me end it for you; give me her number and I’ll text her to stop disturbing you that you’ve impregnated a lady
Then lemme continue with her

Na girl wey go finish you Una Dey find
RomanceRe: I Just Had Sleep Paralysis by arthurwillia(m): 4:11pm On Jun 27, 2022
Lot of good experiences on this thread not by crying blood
RomanceRe: My Mum Wahala Is Getting Too Much by arthurwillia(m): 4:03pm On Jun 27, 2022
Scamupdates:
not ment to type that,but just to make readers know it not because of money an avoiding a relationship
Shut up no Dey lie for here
RomanceRe: How 2 Girls Sexually Harass Me In Pool Party by arthurwillia(m): 4:01pm On Jun 27, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Last week saturday night at my friends birthday party, i reconnected with my ex and some girls i used to know.
I have been trying to kpansh one of those girls but she has been rejecting me.
At the party i bumped into 3 of them and my ex.
On the scale of 1- 10 my ex is an 8
When the girl saw me chatting up with my ex, she went and meet her and soon they moved to her table with her other friends and started gisting and laughing.

Me i jejely go where men dem dey we smoke dey pop dey dorime.

All of a sudden, that girl wey i been try kpansh we no gree, after she meet my hot ex, the girl come dey trip for me. I was at balcony smoking when she entered and we chatted a bit then one thing lead to the other we kissed.
As in passionate tongue kissing for over 5 mins
Then her other friend caught us and came in to call the girl. Once that one left her 2nd bestie just close door and said she heard im a great kisser and she want to see if its true.
I kissed her tongue kissing then the first chick came in balcony again, but this time she acted as if nothing happened.
When the 2nd girl left, the first girl turned to me and said i should never ever try that nonesense again. That why should i kiss her friend immediately after kissing her. That it is disrespect to her Then she proceed to kiss me again before leaving to get her bolt taxi
Later saw her and her 2nd bestie having little argument about what happened as they entered taxi

Next day i call my ex if she know those girls before, she said she only know one if them but they all vibes along thst night
I Found out she told them that i am a great kisser. Which made those girls trying to kiss me when they were tipsy.

Should i sue those 2 girls for Sexual Harassment
Lol you just Dey lie anyhow
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Cross Dresser Successfully Removes His Manh00d, Shows Off His Vagina... by arthurwillia(m): 3:58pm On Jun 27, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Good one from that person..I admire the courage.. there are many others who have done this but are scared of the hateful homophobes around the world..
Mtchew it’s a crime to be homophobe? Like I can’t hTe something and be happy.. you lot are just so funny.. I’m agoraphobic, homophobic but it’s a crime to be homophobic.. I hate it and don’t bring that shii near me.. nothing concern me and homo
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 1:13pm On Jun 27, 2022
jonahhh:
Sabinus… free toto full everywhere if you still dey pay for Olosho then na you no sabi as e dey go at all, na 10 kobo olosho go collect? Dey deceive yurself. No Nigerian babe wey no go bill you one way or the other. You’ll understand my point when you get to that stage.
Lol e say na when you get to that stage.. stage wey I don leave you comot
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 10:34pm On Jun 26, 2022
ashewoboy:
Lori iro. The girl is a teenager. You are in your twentiescheesy.
Lol teenager rest baba
CareerRe: Is ICAN As It Is Now Overrated by arthurwillia(m): 10:32pm On Jun 26, 2022
QuinModah:
Lol! Is it KPMG?
no Deloitte
CareerRe: Is ICAN As It Is Now Overrated by arthurwillia(m): 4:17pm On Jun 26, 2022
I think so.. because even my junior brother at 22 is snow a chartered accountant but he works for the big 4 already even people that are not chartered were picked so it’s overrated abeg
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:11pm On Jun 26, 2022
helinues:
Sometimes, ladies don't just want to spend their money.

You no get female sisters wey go sometimes ask you for money for ridiculous things. I will be like, are you telling you don't have money to get this except you ask me
You no lie sha..
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:10pm On Jun 26, 2022
Rickmann:
Don't be carried away by their show off bro, it's just for the trend..
Nigerian girls are hungry girls ..
Gbam truth
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:10pm On Jun 26, 2022
Autobot05:
Na so I sit down for house early this year for my school apartment. My small phone just ring as I pick it up na so I hear “ I’m at the store transfer money to buy ice cream for me “ Omo I weak
She was an ex but we were just friends after I left her and that was the same reason I left her



Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️
Hahaha the truth and the life my brother
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:09pm On Jun 26, 2022
Prettygirl200:
I no understand all this boys in men's body, shey u just stated that u didn't buy for her, why are u now disturbing our peace? Pls rest!!!!
Who be this one!! Why so riled up? If the thing pain you then go and take it up with your father and mother.. billing association of weyreys lol
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:08pm On Jun 26, 2022
ashewoboy:
What is your age?
Old enough to know what’s right and wrong.. I go senior you as you Dey, no cap
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:08pm On Jun 26, 2022
jonahhh:
You no fit see girl wey no go bill you for Nigeria , even t so called responsible ones that are working Will still find a way to bill you. Na masturbation marathon you dey so if you no wan buy babes lunch every once in awhile. When no be say na 100k she wan use chop lunch untop your head
Na wetin you no sabi be That, na lunch e Go Start from, Next thing na buy me phone.. next thing na rent.. you no sabi as e Dey go.. you think ladies just go ahead And bill once.

And I no fit masturbate when Olosho dey there. Pay and go
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:06pm On Jun 26, 2022
placeofallure:
I have never done this. This thing is about upbringing. With which mouth will I use to say this? My mother was very intentional about contentment. Instead of asking, I'll go home to soak my garri. You may even offer and I'd decline if we're not close enough.
Chai come let’s date na
RomanceRe: Will You Date A Lady Like This? Your Opinion by arthurwillia(op): 4:06pm On Jun 26, 2022
Juliearth:
What you cannot tolerate in a relationship should not be initiated from the get go. This is why I always tell people not to woo a lady using gifts. When you do that to a woman, you offset the desire in her to bill you further. Only a few women know how to put this desire in check.


This, nontheless, is not a good enough reason to ditch the relationship. Let her know your stance on things like that and her actions after that would guide on whether to continue or abort mission.

Consider this the foundation of your relationship, so set it aright.
So much sense in this.. better to talk it out than ditch the relationship.. you get sense wow

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