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FOOTSOLDIER2:
Nairalanders, please one of my male friends urgently needs your piece of advice.

I have a friend that is currently staying with me, I've observed over and over any time I invite different babes to my house that this guy is always being too caring and bringing up unnecessary gists with my babes, thereby diverting their attention away from me.

What exactly could this mean? Has or does anyone else have this kind of friends? How do you deal with them since you are only trying to be diplomatic enough with them, hence the attitude is so annoying and simping ontop your own babe oh.

Please I will appreciate a lot and eager to learn from the masters. Thanks.


Nlfpmod, Mynd44, lalasticlala, seun. Please help my friend

Lol you have problem

Congrats

xuzier:
I work from 8am-8pm, Monday to Saturday. My pay is 12k. I teach students how to operate computers and do some other cafe jobs. As a result of the teaching I have even lost my voice too. And I have also be coding with my phone. The thing is I've foodstuffs that can keep me healthy for months also 60k in my account I want to use and buy a laptop and start coding but this job is not giving me chance to learn coding effectively. And it seems my future depends on programming. Please what should I do?? Should I quit this job get a Laptop maybe do freelancing writing to support myself get a better Laptop later but continuing the job also considering the pain I'm going through. Should I continue or stop this job.

Mehn this sounds like daylight robbery man.. I can’t say quit the job because I don’t have job to give you o but man if you have a plan quit the job.

I quit my job paying me 60k last year January to face what o wanted most in life . I had a side job that gave me 10k a week then so I continued with that till I got what I wanted in July last year.

So if you want to quit your job have a plan of exit, don’t quit and sleep at home o my gee

lol rest

Aluma32:
Nairalanders, I'm new and need genuine advise here. I married my wife for over 7 years and she hasn't been able to conceive. After many medical trials like IVF and operations no positive result. She had suggested we go for a surrogate mother and has even brought a young girl of about 22 years to do that for us. My concern which I told her is that the little baby will need constant feeding in the surrogate mother's womb and so I will from time to time bleep the girl to feed my unborn child which my wife refuse. What should I do? Or I should leave my unborn baby to starve in that girl's womb? The baby may end up lacking certain traits if not well fed. Please advise and no insult please.

Lol Dey play

ednut1:
If you are not looking like this or close to this as a black man. With a good job or business you cannot get the elite white women. Na single mothers, divorcee, druggies, fatties, jobless white women you go get

This is apt the four white woman wey I don lash for here include fatty, married woman but unhappy, single mothers
To score the fresh one you go work hard o

Wealthbrain22:
I’m so keen on going overseas for two main reasons.
One, I’m really desperate to check that off my bucket list of things to do before I leave this world, because life’s such a short and precious gift and only a fool will take it for granted and not try to explore every beautiful thing that it has to offer.

The second reason is because I really want to see if white people will find me attractive.

My entire life has been me considered or treated as an attractive person. At first I thought it was my local environment that caused it that if I moved to the highbrow neighborhoods of Nigeria like Abuja or Lagos island people will not notice my existence but I was shocked that even girls I thought would slap me if I approached them where smiling at me, I was now beyond convinced I was attractive to people.

Now I’m curious, if I was in London or New York will those high class elite girls still smile at me?

Well , for those of you folks living overseas , do white people admire you people or are they truly racist and no matter how good you look as a black person they would see you only as a “monkey”

Lol I’m in uk and trust me they don’t give a damnnn about you.. English girls no send anybody except they just fancy black. The chances of scoring a white beautiful girl as a black guy is very low.. you can get the fat miserable ones sha

So what do you want exactly

MansoryMX:
Are you a doctor or pharmacist?

Dr

Which country you dey

chigator2:
Davido acquaintances have been dieing mysteriously all these years. It is certainly odd and rather abnormal. He is also a known cultist, a proud one.

How sure are we that his coven/cult/demon didn't demand his beloved son this time around just before his 30th birthday (21/11/2022).

He had to hurriedly reconcile with the mom, brought her home so he could have access to the boy and do the needful.

This world is not ordinary. Power is a small room that has it's perks. Many people, go various lengths to enter and remain in that room.

Nonsense here where I stay families dey get mental issue with cerebral palsy, they don’t attribute to spiritual shii but na us

Dickson178:
I'm speechless right now, someone should help me on what to do on this

Plunge into lake or kainji dam

ZiiVentures:
Ok. Did you read where I said it was my late dad's voice?

Our house then was a bungalow and we were the only family living there. Lest I forget, my mother my other siblings were at the village as at then preparing for the burial and settling some landed disputes with our uncles.

Anyway, no need for long story to convince you. Just believe what you want.

Make I no remember hurtful past abeg.

lol na so

zeuss:
It is Hausa language written in Arabic characters.....MUMU

lol enjoy suspension

ZiiVentures:
You guys doubt alot!

When my father died, before his burial, my elder bro and I were in the parlor searching for some documents suddenly we heard his voice (it was faintly) from his room. He called my brother, joe...joe...joe (3x).

My brother looked at me and asked whether I heard his name, I said yes of course.

We went to the room but couldn't see anyone.

We returned to the parlor and after some time, the voice started calling my brother again.

Omo na so me and my brother jejely scamper for safety.

We were teens then.

Lol abeg bro I no fit laugh joe joe joe and after that what? Person dey corner dey whine Una lol

zeuss:
Therefore hausa is the only language in NIGERIA worthy to be on the currency also represented the the islamic language of worship......thus u see nothing wrong with muslim muslim ticket.
This will end soon.

Arabic na hausa lol get sense bro

Elderly man no Dey lie lol the biggest lie wey I don hear today
Make all of Una get out
Nobody don ever see him own brother Abi father wey die
Na Person dead body Una Dey see. If you move madt here I go give you your size

cedricksly:
bro relax, he is telling the truth, I have a personal experience which I can't share here in public coz some persons might see it and Recognize it.. In summary it was of a person who we buried that was a relative in 2008 and in 2019 a lady came to his family house to claim he is married to the same person, that they married in 2010and have 3 kids together of which she brought, we all were in doubt, until she brought out their marriage catalogue photo album, she said they were coming together that he showed them the family house and told them to ask of his mother by the name xyz and told them he was going to see an old friend around the corner who he heard was sick, that he will meet them in the house...... Lo and behold the shirt he was buried with was the exact same shirt the wife showed on her phone that this same man with the wife and the 3 kids took a picture with that morning before leaving the state they where staying.... Infact till today the woman is still waiting for her husband even after she was showed where he was buried..... This tin didn't happen in nollywood, the man in question was my first Cousin

lol your first cousin na so

Kobojunkie:
DNA test those children abeg!

wetin be this wetin be this lol abeg guy I no fit laugh

Darevofpeace:
I lost an Uncle in 1999 in an accident.

It was a Sunday morning accident around 4am.
He was the only person that died.

He was rushing from the party to attend church service as a Sunday school teacher by 8am.

8 people testified at his burial that they saw him.

His Landlady said he came to greet her 3 times within 15mins not knowing it was a goodbye greetings.

It was when she got to Church she heard he died in a car accident around 4am.

He went to his Sunday school class to wait for his students.

But they had been merged with other class since they heard that he won't be around.

This is not hearsay,I was already 13yrs old in 1999.

I don't argue on topics like this

this is not hearsay but it’s actually hearsay na baba. No be landlady tell Una. Una See am

Smazlexander:
what he actually saw is an apparition the guy just wanted him to ask about him nothing more...let me tell you my own experience i was around 10 or 9 that year and there was this bros who was very friendly to me and my friends then anytime he passes by he would joke with us and sometimes play monkey post with us, so this very day we were playing soccer has usual when we saw bros in so much of a hurry past us we greeted,he did not answer he just rushed inside his compound few minutes later we heard screams from the compound and we rushed there only to hear that the same person that passed us few minutes ago died in an accident yesterday,what shocked people was he told his pregnant wife about the contribution he was due to collect the next day and who owned him before telling her he wanted to use the toilet,the woman went to give

You were 10/9 ok

Lol this story sweet sha your own akudaya no even comot for the hostel go another place. She still dey live for there dey climb stairs, your own Akudaya no Dey disappear you need help my gee lol

GoodIsGod:
Don't mind these kids who want to sound smart while displaying foolishness

Many are so dumb that they say because they have never experienced something that means that thing doesn't exist.
The same way they say God doesn't exist because they can't see Him, touch Him or Hear him.
They dont believe their parents too because to them, their parents are foools believing such stories or even claiming they experienced such.

My story: Super Real!

It's long but I will try to make it as short as possible because I am not in the mood to type.
It's the foolishness these guys are displaying that is making me tell this just to tell them that what the OP saw was real. Not that alone, to tell the atheists that the spiritual exists and there is a God in heaven. His name is Jehovah.

I was doing my HND.
I hate living in the hostel because of shared toilet issues. So, I opted to live in the boys quarters within the campus where only four rooms shared a toilet.
My course mate lived in the BQ too. He had a girlfriend BIMPE (not real name) who used to visit with a friend of hers. They both lived in the girls hostel. Bimpe's friend was a gentle quiet girl who liked me. I am a jovial person and she and her friend always said I was funny. They loved to laugh.
One day, on a weekend, I went home to my parents to get stuffs. I came back on Sunday Evening to hear the news that Bimpe's friend passed away. I entered my room, locked the door and cried. Infact the ladies who told me about her demise were shocked to realize I cried. Although I lied when they asked from behind the door if I was crying. I said No
Since that day, I stopped going to their hostel. I didn't want anything that would remind me of the lady's demise. But I had a girlfriend I was still trying to woo on the first floor of that girls hostel. I had stopped going to her room since I was not visiting the girls hostel.
We used to meet in the campus and she used to accuse me of not coming to her room anymore. I would promise I would come and not still go.
This day I told her tonight I will come and I meant it.
When the hour of visiting came, I think it used to be 6pm then. I left for my girlfriend's room.
At the girls hostel, immediately you enter through the Porter's lodge you will face the dead girl's room directly but at several meters away. So, when I entered the hall, I saw the room door half opened. You won't need to reach the room before getting to the stairs so, I rushed to climb the stairs. It was in the 90s there was no GSM. I got to the room of my friend and met it locked. She used to have a small jotter on her door for visitors so I left just "I was here- my name" immediately I turned back because I didn't want to spend much time in the hostel. I dashed to the long staircase to descend I had taken like four to five steps down and in the middle of the staircase, and Gbam! from the base of the stairs the dead girl was climbing up. Live! She intentionally was looking down and could not look at me in the face. She covered her face with her arm as she climbed. Funny enough and so strange, no one was climbing the stairs with us at that time. My mouth was left agape all through as I watched her climb and I stayed glued on the spot.
I could not run down and could not run up. She had her face covered still as she climbed and walked past infront of me like that. She was someone I knew so well. So I know what I saw. And can a normal person climbing a long staircase cover her face? What for!
Immediately she got up the stairs and negotiated the turning, I ran after her to see which room she would enter.
Rooms were far to the stairs so she should still be walking if she was going to enter any of the rooms. When I ran up, she vanished.
I was left dumbfounded in shock. It took me a while to get composed after the incident and I had to do special prayer that night before I slept because I was scared.

It was not easy typing this. So pls manage the typos and grammatical errors if there is any.

The whites that taught you science believe in ghosts too. They are not foools. Ghosts exists!

I've got two mind blowing first hand experiences by my friends it happened to. This thing happens.

Lol he disappeared haha he no even run Omo weyrey. You Dey hallucinate my gee

Onetenth:
I have never believed in reincarnation but my eyes did saw one yesterday

Here's the story:

Year 2020, I think around may according to his parents because I can't recollect, this neighbor of ours and close friend to my sibling was into cultism.
There's was a cult clash at ikorodu that year and he lost his life, I wasn't told I was there life when police released his corpse to his parents and I was even part of those who digged the grave he was buried. Two years ago oo..


Now, this is year 2022, I saw this boy at orile, he wanted to board the bus I was in with my girlfriend. Immediately we both saw each other I wanted to scream but I couldn't I don't know how. But everyone in the bus saw my reaction, this boy disappeared on that spot.

This isn't a made up story, if there's any nairalander at orile bustop around that time will testify to this.

Omo! I still can't believe what I saw, I cried till I got home, my girlfriend was shocked and speechless as well. How did he do that? How did he disappear in midst of people? Why is he not dead? There's obviously something spiritual about this that I'm not told.

His mom has been hospitalized since we got home and I explained everything that happened. He was her only child. This is so disheartening and scary as well

11thGoldTREE:
It's been a while I last heard about him only to meet one of our friends after jumat today.
He told me a loan company Easy Buy threatened him with all sort of messages. And to his contact.
He mentioned how the guy kept borrowing from one loan company to offset another loan company.

When he was fraustrated about life and confide in few people. He committed suicide

I think this is the time to stop all these Chinese loan companies. Let's be honest with ourselves Nigerians are being held by the throat by these loan companies. When they didn't exist, there was no rampant suicide rate in Nigeria.

These same companies are all owned by the same people. XCROSS, Jumia app, Easy-buy, Palm Credit, Palm Pay .
Some are even pre-install apps on on all these android phones and synchronize people's data automatically.

The Federal Government and NCC should please look into this.
These Chinese people with their phones should not be able to take peoples data willfully even apart from their loan app should not blackmail Nigerians and giving them loans they might be able to afford to pay back.

You just Dey type lubbish
If you no fit pay back loan why take the loan?

8stargeneral:
please bro,I couldn't email u..my Email get problem,can I add u on WhatsApp.

no I don give you my mail. Reach me if you can

8stargeneral:
please hopefully to come UK soon,hw life over there..which skills done can learn to get work there easily

Life is good no complaint
I don’t know of any skills cause with no skills here sef you go see job for warehouse but I’m a medical practitioner
But you fit learn all these handijobs sha

Bahrainguy:
No it’s wasn’t me I fly with Ethiopia as at that time, many people came to Bahrain.

I’m not driving yet because they regard our drivers license in Nigeria as waste so I’m considering starting my application for driver license here soon. Which usually cost 220BD like 418k in conversion to naira.

Thank you God will be with us all

Amen my guy

Very insightful Bahrainguy
When I was going to uk in July I met one guy going to Bahraini. The Egypt airline. I’ve not spoken to him in a while.
jah be with you
Do you drive there or what?

Why don’t we see this typ of news on tv
So painful

At 20 you should not be mad at yourself for not figuring it out na. At 25 sef I was still struggling
Don’t let social media frenzy kill you o.. just have a process. Everything na process
The only mistake you’ll be doing is if you don’t have anything doing now like school or learning something that is worthwhile
If you are just hanging around and waiting for manna
You go tey there oo
At 20 what you need is a process that will pave way for you later. I rest my case