₦airaland Forum

booqee: Liar liar liars! All of you..especially d guys, dey deceive urself dey go. Mtcheww.....

well for me, i have never cheated before and i pray not to.
My ex bf ask me all d time(wen we were still together), and i look at him like.. Huh?? He makes it seem like its normal for girls to do it. Infact he use to say na normal tin,
dat he's never met a faithful girl in dis life, so why would i be an exception. He made me understand most guys or girl would av at least 2boyfriends or girlfriends. Wtf?? And well truly, i've seen wiv my eyes...there's hardly any faithful dude or gal out dere. Probably d only faithful ones are NLers.
Dats wat made me ask..

Faithful girls are hard to come by. But there must be a few I guess that are generally able to keep their sh.it together and avoid cheating.

Yield: M M M, can't you think about anything else besides S E X?

It is true however. The lady need s a good shagging and the dude needs to get laid

This is stupid and pointless. Who is going to agree to cheating? Might as well ask if we have lied or stolen or committed other moral wrongs.

bilms: you are right i think

Just to clarify (in case I am being misread), GEJ does not deserve a 2nd term because he has not done enough to warrant it. He should do the decent thing and bow out at 2015 to gain any respect from me.

bilms: no matter what he does,he wouldnt do what Nigerians can appreciate enough to vote him for the second term.

Or rather he wouldn't do enough to deserve a second term. If he chose to bow out at 2015 I would respect him a great deal. He had his shot, he failed and hence stepped aside for someone else to have a go.

Skii: By then he would be regarded as having tried...at least if the power improvement is sustained...beyond then however, it would be enough, they say do:-) everything in moderation. I would prefer someone else with fresh ideas to come fix something else and go. Nigeria's problem didnt start one day.

Leadership and governance is a lot more complicated than that. What is the point of solving one major problem if you end up creating six more serious problems?

bilms: Goodluck Jonathan himself,Diezani Maduekwe, okonjo Iweala and Sanusi Lamido are the biggest problems in Nigeria today, I believe they are the people who are really making this country ungovernable for Mr President. These guys are behind every horrible policy that this govt is churning out,from eating with 1billion naira, to fuel subsidy removal, increase in tax,new plate number, tariffs on nearly all public utilities and now they are here again with the #5000 single note. Are these people truly Nigerians?

I agree. The 3 of them combined is enough to bring down any economy but they are not alone. He has other problems. The security situation for instance.

I had made amvow that he would be a suitable candidate for 2015 if he could solve the power problem. How times change. It is looking more likely that the power problem will be solved but he has nothing to offer us come 2015. It would be hard to give him my vote.

Tari Enoch: 1. Crude Oil production per day - 2.5million barrels
2. Current Crude Oil Price = $113/barrel
3. Daily Sales = 2.5 x 113 = $282.5 million per day
4. Monthly Sales = $282.5m x 30days = $8.475 billion
5. Yearly Sales = $8.475 billion X 12 = $101.7 billion
6. Naira Equivalent = $101.7 billion X N160 = N16.272 trillion Naira per year.
7. Nigeria's budget for 2012. = N4.5 trillion Naira. WHERE IS THE BALANCE OF N11.772 Trillion Naira. WHERE HAS PRESIDENT JONATHAN KEPT NIGERIA'S
MONEY THAT NIGERIANS ARE DYING. NIGERIANS
VOTED FOR "A BREATH OF FRESH AIR" BUT WHAT WE
ARE GETTING SEEMS WORST THAN THE OLD AIR.

I just do not understand .
So it has taken this long for someone to finally highlight what I have been bangimg on about fpr months. The subsidy saga etc is just a distraction from the real truth. The truth is that something pdd is going on. How can we be in debt and jeed to borrow when we are having maximum crude production and sales as well as high crude prices. Even the subsidy saga is not more than 1.3 trillion... and that is to the marketers they have actually paid .

Somethon fishy is goin on

Tari Enoch: 1. Crude Oil production per day - 2.5million barrels
2. Current Crude Oil Price = $113/barrel
3. Daily Sales = 2.5 x 113 = $282.5 million per day
4. Monthly Sales = $282.5m x 30days = $8.475 billion
5. Yearly Sales = $8.475 billion X 12 = $101.7 billion
6. Naira Equivalent = $101.7 billion X N160 = N16.272 trillion Naira per year.
7. Nigeria's budget for 2012. = N4.5 trillion Naira. WHERE IS THE BALANCE OF N11.772 Trillion Naira. WHERE HAS PRESIDENT JONATHAN KEPT NIGERIA'S
MONEY THAT NIGERIANS ARE DYING. NIGERIANS
VOTED FOR "A BREATH OF FRESH AIR" BUT WHAT WE
ARE GETTING SEEMS WORST THAN THE OLD AIR.

I just do not understand .

So it has taken this long for someone to finally highlight what I have been bangimg on about for months. The subsidy saga etc is just a distraction from the real truth. The truth is that something odd is going on. How can we be in debt and need to borrow when we are having maximum crude production and sales as well as high crude prices. Even the subsidy saga is not more than 1.3 trillion... and that is to the marketers they have actually paid .

Something fishy is goin on

JallowBah: Thats what I said; attraction at first sight.
He felt the same way when he saw me; Oh, there she is.
No rush in love or anything, just a matter of things falling into place.

And thanks to those commenting

I agree. It was lust at first sight

At least it all worked out well

dukila: Pls What is d difference between catholic and Anglican?

Catholic faith is known as the Roman Catholic Church and are a major denomination of Christianity centred around the early Roman Church.

The Anglican Faith is the Church of England, a protestant church that separated from the Catholic faith during the protestant reformation roughly AD 1534.

Both denominations are similar in the style of service and to some degree dress code etc of the Laity, Clergy, religious leaders etc but the 2 denominations are very different in regards to doctrine.

Either way, the Anglican faith is nearly as different to other protestant denominations.

JallowBah: Lust at first sight is there.. And interest to find out more.

Me and my husband was looking at each other for almost two months without even talking to each other. Just looking, smiling, paying attention.
The first time he came to talk to me, he was with a friend. I was sitting down and reading, and felt someone look at me, so I looked up.
The first thing that hit my head when I looked at him was "There HE is." It felt absolutely right; there he was, my man. Before we even talked.

But it has to be mutual..

A lovely story however it wasnt love at first sight because you had 2 months to become familiar with each other.... through looks and glances.

chiboy1928: Nairaland advise me ma girlfriend, told me that before she would. Belive dat am serious about our relationship dat,I have to buy her an engagement ring,and also propose to her in front of her mother by telling her mother that am going to marry her,before she will get to belive dat am serious with our relationship.so guys wat do u people suggest,I tink she is trying to hook. Me am confused!!!

Do you want to marry her? If NO then better end it quickly.

If yes then what is the delay in such actions? Do you feel the timing is not right? If not just propose to her and make the commitment.

loucrux: Some people sha.. God help them. Well,if your babe dey obsessed with her ex ehn,just show a sign and u will get compared to him or her as the case may be

That might not be such a bad thing. Maybe her ex was her ideal man but with some flaws. You are the same ideal man byt with less flaws. You would have to be similar to the ex. The key is to understand how she sees her ex. If she sees himas a positive influence then you are ok. If negative then you are in trouble

HBD girl

k2039: Test your motive,are you sure your primary motive in a relationship is not sex,because if it is you will definately get tired and bored once you get what you want, since thats all you want.(thats my hypothesis)

You probably love the chase because you dont have what you want(sex),once you get what you want ofcourse,why wont you look for another challenge(another girl)
NOTE;this is only my hpothesis,it doesnt mean it's true,because I dont know your motive for going into a relationship,but I can assure you that if it is sex,then my hypothesis is 90% correct

He can stay in the relationship and have sex if it is only sex he is after. Unless of course she starts holding back. I dont think he likes these chicks so quickly loses interest.

immortallity: its not like i'm a playboy or anything but i've found out that whenever i get into a relationship with any babe, after sometime when she is like so into me, i just get tired and bored of the girl.
I like the challenging part of toasting, trying to know and impress each other but immediately the relationship starts going, i get tired and cant wait to end it. Sometimes i wont even call her for a week while she keeps calling everyday (why cant they take a bleeping clue! ) and as soon as it ends i will start allover the same cycle with another babe again.
What could be wrong? Does the fault lie with me or the girls?

Nothing wrong with you. You just haven't met a girl you really like. When you do, things will be very different

slimyem: yeah..
That should definitely be included..except that some of the points actually take care of that...
If your partner is your focus,stdy and muses,then his/her intimate need wouldn't be an issue!

I sure hope so. Sex these days seems to go neglected.