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Oh jeez. What part of 'My friend' didn't you get? And i never said most Nigerian school-goers are not sexually active,i said I'M not sexually active. Wtf? Stop Nl stalking me dude. . Do not twist the facts to fit your theories. Do not see things where there are none. Sometimes,'My friend' really means my friend. I do not get why it's so hard for you to understand that we have different beliefs. There doesn't have to be some profound reason,we just don't have the same beliefs. Finish Nl stalking me and then you'll see that i am completely pro-life;i don't believe in abortion and that was the source of conflict between me and my friend and what she did. Bros,leave me alone!!!

Idowuogbo:
kai u miss abbatoir dem suppose don slutter u for christmas wey pass , accent u sey , shiit your accent stops traffic, mugabe himsef sent d whites packing wiv his , no b lie hiaaaaa am  domesticated fool , overgrown malu , intoxicated gomes tseeew , i no u a joke but i was interested in firing u today oya make  we begin ginger hedddddiot

Idowuogbo's on fire! Oya carry on. . Let's go there.

I thought i said you should not call my name again? How difficult is that? I am childish,militant,rigid,etc etc. Feel free to keep thinking worreva you wanna think. Whatever floats your boat/fries your dodo jare. Let's agree to disagree and end this,biko.

AjanleKoko:
LOL@thread

A boy once asked a girl 'What kinda books do you like to read?' and the girl replied 'Cheque books!'

LOOOl. . Cheque book indeed. . Btw-Your username reminds me of one yoruba song. It sounds something like this: "Ajankolokolo,E shin shin l'ori". It's about hair. . Do you know it?

Bia Tensor,don't call my name again. God knows i have tried to reason with you,but it just aint werking. I have said repeatedly that even though they are HIS RESPONSIBILITIES,i will help out if i am so inclined,and if for some reason he doesn't have,i will gladly help out,but i guess you refused to see that part. If you think i'm cold and calculating,continue thinking it,s'ogbo? Why should i care? It does not remove a cubit from my life-span. Yes,i am militant,i am incorrigible,calculating and anything else you would like to add. Are you happy now? You are free to have your opinion,just as i am free to have mine. That we don't agree does not give you the righ to get personal or insultive. Biko don't call my name again. Let's agree to disagree and let it end there.

dayokanu:
If the guy also gives you emotional support, his time, his energy etc in return Is that not enough?

Whats wrong with you buying him credit, gifts etc

I believe if giving and receiving are equal and opposite. No one would call you a gold digger.

If you are not handicapped or disabled why should you expect another human being to take care of you.

If you claim you love him unconditionally, why should gift or financial support be compulsory?

Aint saying she's a gold digger, but she aint messing with a broke nigga

You have said something VERY reasonable. I don't  believe in one partner doing all the giving. If you'd brought this point out i'd have agreed with you completely,as i'm doing now. To be honest,i don't think i would buy him credit,but i do know i'd buy him gifts. Ties,watches,shoes,games(if he's the gaming type) etc;practical things he can use. I'm not saying he must be the only one buying and buying. And why should i mess with a broke nigga? Who no like beta thing?

I have prior expectations from a partner. So what? Should i just follow any Chike that comes along? I have the right to pick and choose things that i want in a partner,s'ogbo. If you feel expecting a husband to take care of feeding,clothing,housing is too much,well then it's a free world. You're entitled to your opinions. If you think a wife should be paying house rent/feeding her husband when he's capable of doing so,again,you're entitled to your opinions. I shall continue to say this: Feeding,housing and clothing are SOLELY a husband's RESPONSIBILITY. If i choose to contribute,fine. If for some reason he doesn't have,fine. A husband has a RESPONSIBILITY to take care of his family. Nothing you can say will convince me otherwise so let's just agree to disagree here. My throat(sorry fingers) are paining me. I can't shout(sorry type).

Idowuogbo:
uncle dk , she will give him d wickedest slam na
how u dey sha

What does 'wickedest slam' mean? I.d don't come and corrupt me oh. .

dayokanu:
@Atreides,

If a guy is supposed to give you credit, buy you gifts etc, What do you give him in return?

I don't think i'd use the phrase 'in return'. . It suggests that i'm giving things with the goal of getting something back. Let's just say we'd give each other things simultaneously. I would expect him to give me said things,but i wouldn't really ask. It shouldn't be a case of me pushing him to give but rather it should be because he's giving from his heart. If he loves me then it wouldn't be a chore. In like manner,i would give him emotional support,my time,my energy etc. I wouldn't give him said things because i'm expecting credit or worreva,i'd give him out of my heart. If you truly love someone,then giving won't be a chore,it would be a privilege. Being generous financially((and in other ways) to whichever extent you are able to will come naturally.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=585913.msg7550089#msg7550089 date=1295282605]Atreides, Atreides, Atreides
How many times did I call your name. So dis wat u do behind my back eh?
stranger or watever u call ursef b very carful o! I dey vex o! n na bullet dey settle am o!
As for all dem haters get this at 17 Atreides is miles ahead of u n if u can't b proud of such a young lady shame on u.
U obviously didn't read her posts thru all u see is rich husband n u can't rest. I suggest u do so n slowly too.
@Mrs.Chima
God bless your soul for your earlier post. U made the gud head lady count go up luv.[/quote]Reed you know it's not like that naa. . P.s-Have i told you what a sweetheart you are? *Why is there no kiss smiley on Nl?* I woulda given my dah-ling Reed a little sumn sumn for being such a sweetie. .

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=585913.msg7550109#msg7550109 date=1295282762][color=#0055bb]^^ wtf you talkin bout? who is hating on Atreides? Shes one of the nicest chicas on here!

@kool It's Martin Luther King Day here, and everything is closed! I'm bored as heck and I saw Stranger LOL, I knew he'd hide

but seriously, I'm gonne get back on topic. . .

give me a minute to scan. . .

[/color][/quote]Lool. . He's nah talking bout you guys. . My Reed isn't like that. There were a couple of haters a few pages back. .

Loool. . Okay then. . @MDS,don't worry-i'll work on him. Woman power naa. . @I.d,i have arranged sombori for you oh. .

@fstranger,lemme ask this question before i tell you my decision. . Do you loff me? Do you truly,truly,loff me,forsaking all others(MDS,I.D etc)?

@MDS,whose cheek? A cheek that belongs to me. . See how all of you are following this(my) guy. . Lef him alone oh!

fstranger1:
HAHAHAHAha

@ATREIDES: You can see this Yoruba girl wanting to snatch me from you.

If you can drop your 'igboboy' requirement, I might just go with you to Benin and we could have a lavish Bini marriage in Nebin, away from the prying eyes of my Yoruba sisters like idowuodgbo

What say you?

Hmmmn. . I'm thinking seriously. . But something happened yesterday oh. . Banky W sent his people to my father's house yesterday. They told my dad that they've seen a flower they want to pluck. . So i'm confused now. . Banky W or fstranger?

slyfoxxjoe:
ok so u want rich husband abi?

And what is wrong with that? You want me to say i want poor husband,shey? @I.D,me i don't know for them oh. .

fstranger1:
Dont mind them jare.

I am still working on the 'rich igboboy under 30 thingie'  

I am also going to make sure it comes with a PA for you. I think you neeed someone to help you browse/navigate NL and abuse all these agbayas

Be patients with me.  

Lool. . How can you work on being igbo and under 30? It's either you are or you aren't. . Anyways if you fiiine enough i guess you could lure me away from them igbo bruthas. . P.s-Are you Yoruba? Double P.s-leave the agbayas alone jhor. . They want me to be paying house-rent when my husband is alive,working,and able to do so. . Shior.  . And you know i'll always be patient with you. . I'll wait for you till the sun is no more. .

slyfoxxjoe:
^^^ dont mind the lazy oaf. if u love money so much then why doesnt she work for it? Atreides my dear pls dont consider my words insults but advice for your future! the honey moon period in a marriage lasts for a maximum of 3 yrs and then the realities of life hit u! when a man starts with his wahala the last thing u want is to be subjected to it becuz u are over dependent on him, trust me its not a nice feeling. make a carrer for urself and any man would be forced to respect u! trust me it is respect and not love the holds a relationship together!

I don't want your advice ni. If you wanted to advice me you coulda done it without being rude and i woulda listened. I've tried really hard not to be insultive and i don't see why others cannot do the same thing. And for the record,i NEVER said i was gonna be a house-wife/careerless.

Idowuogbo:
^hehehe fire woman u 4 join fire brigade o hehe

Egbon mi,Ekasan oh. S'owa alright? Awon omo kekere nko?

It is you(if you're a chick) and your generation(if you're not) that will marry into slavery! If you'd said i might marry into slavery,i wouldn't even have replied. But definitely? Please do not provoke me. And if you want to laugh,you have my permission-laugh away! I don't want a poor man! If for some reason,our situation changes for the worse,then we'll adapt,but i do not and i will not say i must go for a poor man before i can truly love him. If expecting my husband to take care of his family makes me naive,then by all means,i'm naive. Whether we're in 1950 or 2011,a husband's responsibilities are his responsibilities,and they will forever remain his responsibilities.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=586232.msg7546210#msg7546210 date=1295230676]I would describe myself as nice but I've neva had any problem wit ladies so am gonna make this up as stereotyping besides iice said it theres a difference btw go-getting n procrastination n neither is preconditioned on your disposition.
@Atreides
Which badboy b dat?! Make I catch am na Whiskey (D rabid 1) go bite e yansh finish![/quote]Looool. . Reed,there's no badboy oh. . I was only speaking hypothetically. . Erm how is Whiskey? Please give him a big,juicy bone with love from me

koolchicco:
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Oh I see, Well it is what it is! *runs and hide b4 Lord arrives back. . .*

Come back,my Fione igbo loff. . Uncle Reed isn't here yet. . *whispers* let's arrange where we'll meet. .

Lol. . But bad boys are sooo much fun! Nice guys are boring. . Don't worry,i hear ya. In fact,not only will i not look at bad boys,i will not look at any boy at all-except the ones you bring for me. .

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=587162.msg7549144#msg7549144 date=1295273970][color=#0055bb] @Mobo climb on top of a speeding car and ride it down a cliff  [/color][/quote]Seconded! Here's another bright idea: Mobo dah-ling,why don't you tie a very big stone/anchor/worreva to your waist and jump into a river? There'll be one less i.diot in the world to worry about. .

I want to remain positive though. I don't know for a fact that she got an abortion. She might have truly gone to visit an aunt,and until she tells me otherwise,then that's what i'll believe.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=585913.msg7549033#msg7549033 date=1295272680]@Atreides
U for let am go read by e self b4 e tink say na u go steal im bible change am[/quote]Loool. . Steal im bible? I didna want to get all preachy,but as he was talking bout God i figured we should check out what God says about the matter.[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=585913.msg7549040#msg7549040 date=1295272749][color=#0055bb] LOL@ These idi0ts getting salty because Atreides called THEM OUT!!!! Yep, keep exposing yourselves vos negros!!!!! [/color][/quote]Lol. . I'm still wondering what they'll say in reply. . [quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=585913.msg7548949#msg7548949 date=1295271538]FACT: Guys who claim women are gold diggers are usually BROKE (no oofeinse) [/quote]Qed. . No more,no less.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=585913.msg7548949#msg7548949 date=1295271538]FACT: Guys who claim women are gold diggers are usually BROKE (no oofeinse) [/quote]Don't mind them broke-ass nigga.s tryna rope a sistah into suffering. . . . P.s-Corky is this really you? Where have you been all these days?

@Reed,i was about to quote the same scripture when he started talkin bout God but i decided not to. "But if any provide not for his own,and specially for those of his own house,he hath denied the faith,and is worse than an infidel"-Kjv.

Carlosein:
thanks.

back to topic: is it likely your friend went for an abortion without letting you know?

I want to say no,it's not likely,but i can't. If she was going to get an abortion,she knows i wouldn't approve.

Lol. . Okay,okay,no more derailing. . Wishing you both a safe delivery and healthy babies-boy or girl! . . Back to thread. .

Twins! That's serious trouble oh! Trust me,i know. . And twin boys? Kai. . You want Mrs. Carlos to suffer,shey? . . Why not a girl?

So let me get this straight-having many friends on fb means a girl's loose? Just when you think he can't get any dumber,he reaches new levels of idiocy.

I'm waiting with bated breath . . Guess you are too. . Do u want a boy or a girl?