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@Carlos,i trust you. . She's out of the area for now so i guess we'll discuss it when she comes back. P.s-How be? How soon is the baby coming?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=587085.msg7546873#msg7546873 date=1295248142]CHILE GO TO BED DAMN![/quote]How did you know she's awake?

@tensor,did you just ask what praying has to do with faith in God? Seriously? Anyway let's not turn this into a religious debate.

Lol. . I hear ya. I'm not looking for a guy who'll fly me all around the world in his private jet(although if that guy shows up i wouldn't turn him away. . ). I don't want to be extremely rich,i wanna be comfortable. And if he has a normal/decent job,then he won't have any problems taking care of the basics. As long as the money is there,his responsibilities are his responsibilities. Maybe it's a Nigerian thing,but usually/ideally,the husband bears the brunt of financial expenses. He is to take care of his family for as long as he is able to. If some reason,there's no money,then i can step in.

Gud morning ma! Bawo?. . I don't want a poor man who's poor because he chooses to be. I don't want some lazy ass N.F.A(no future ambition) in my life. I want a man with vision,with drive,a man who'll want to provide and take care of me to the best of his abilities. I want to be comfortable,and that makes me a gold-digger? Mscheww. . [quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=585913.msg7546601#msg7546601 date=1295242083]I am just keeping it real. I can't stand a man that don't work. I am not talking about he must be a doctor or lawyer. I don't want them mofos. They work too much, but a man working a decent job with decent hours and can come home by the time the children out of school. I like those kind of guys. I am not looking, but I am just saying that what I was attracted to.

I am not into riches and glam. I am not caught up like that because I know the grass isn't green on the other side but I like being comfortable.

My husband know to work and if he have to work at WAL-MART then that fine but he don't have to at this time and I PRAY THAT HE NEVER HAVE TO. Amen.[/quote]Amin! Amin!! Amin!!! L'oruko Jesu! . . How is Mr. Chima?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=585913.msg7546178#msg7546178 date=1295229522]If he ain't got no money then I ain't got no time for him.[/quote]Mama Chike welcome! . @Reed,being Edo's still really cool. And why does tensor get personal when people don't agree with him? I refused to say that i believed in the soulmate principle,and he said i'd been burned. You refused to believe in the soulmate principle,and he questioned your faith in God. I see a pattern here. @tensor,the soulmate principle isn't divine,dude. Do you even know how it came about? Lemme see. . Greek mythology! I could tell you the story,if you like. And please don't call me silly! I've been trying not to be insultive so kindly do the same,kay? That i do not have the same beliefs you do and you cannot convince me otherwise does not make me silly.

Idowuogbo:
no am aba made , tseewww
its not fair oo ,  
instead of u to offer classes u attacking me  bcus u are japenese made , make God judge dis sha

Eyaah. . Koyo. . Pele. . Ma binu. I will teach you the Bini wella-ly,s'ogbo? If i teach you Bini,then you will teach me Yoruba. Deal?

Idowuogbo:
i cant read nor write jorr , no involve me
u embrassing me  

You are a fake Bini girl. . Obviedo ne setin z'edo. That means Bini person that cannot speak Bini. . You're a fake Bini girl-made in China version. .

@Reed my Dune reading love,OMG,you're Bini? That's soo cool! Vbo hie e? Domo no wain. . Please help me tell them. So taking care of his family is no longer the husband's responsibility? Shior. .

Atreides:
This is the third time i'm viewing this topic,and i still don't understand what the OP's saying.

Switbitch:

If you laugh too much your teeth will fall out oh. .

Really? Lemme test you. . Vbo hie e,temwen?

@Tensor,the whole Edward/Bella/Jacob thing was just an example. And please,i NEVER said a soulmate is just someone you meet and fall in love with. Secondly,a soulmate is ONE person out of the billions of people who shares a twin soul with you,is the ONE and ONLY other half of you,'the one',your 'one true love',blah blah blah.That's what i don't believe in.

Idowuogbo:
i gbadun pass u sha , btwn u b bini gal
kai u do anyhow , u see anyhow no wonder we relate o

Bini and Yoruba always relate wella. . P.s-I don't do anyhow oh-i'm a good gal!

Dude i will keep saying the same thing; Feeding,housing and clothing are SOLELY his responsibility for as long as he is able to do so. If i want to contribute out of the goodness of my heart,then that's different. If for some reason he doesn't have,then that's different as well. As long as he is head of the house,it is his RESPONSIBILITY to take care of his family. Even the Bible says that. So if you're trying to get me to agree that taking care of his family is not the responsibility of a husband,then you can stop now,because you're not gonna change my mind.

@Tensor,'why the emphasis on material things?' Again,you're mixing it up. This thread is not about my general expectations. If it were,being patient,God-fearing,funny etc would be at the top of my list. This is about my financial expectations which is why i didn't mention other things. I cannot just follow any Chike that comes around;i have a right to decide what i'd want in a guy. Being God-fearing,patient,funny,sensitive etc are there. Being financially stable is there too,and it's not gonna change.

@I.D,Oo gbadun. .

You're still not getting what i understand a soulmate to be. Take for example,Edward and Bella. They're soulmates,no? But he is not the only guy she fell in love with-she loved with Jacob,and in a normal world,she'd have ended up with Jacob and she would've had a perfectly good life with him. Me,i don't believe in soulmates. I don't believe that there is only ONE person that is specially meant for you. I believe that you can fall in love with more than one person at different times,in different proportions maybe but still pretty much the same. There are too many people out there for me to be unable to truly love more than one person.

@fstranger,I'm proudly Bini.

Noo. . I'm not Igbo. . But i looove Igbo boys. . Kai. . Fine boys no pimples. Igbo bois are fwesh eye-candy!!! @I.D please define 'clinical' oh. .

silami:
I am sure you heard the word JAMB from your oldest(not your immediate one)  brother. I f not how can you, being in primary 5 know JAMB question, busy body.

'Being in THE primary 5'. And he says i don't know stuff.

Idowuogbo:
atreides u is a salaro i swear u give me jokes

I aim to please. . . Bawo ni ara yi/aiye e?

fstranger1:
Anyway, i am just like Banky, but smarter than banky!


If you want Igbo, why Banky?

Banky's own is because of his voice. . Although the igbo part is optional. I usually crush on Igbo boys but if you're fiiine i could make do. . Are you fiiine?

This bobo is very funny oh. . Which 'cynicism' am i expressing? Because i don't believe there's only one person i can love then means i am not a virgin? How does not believing in the soulmate principle equal being cynical/burned? Try and get what i understand a soulmate to be before you talk,aight? I didn't say i don't believe in love(now that would be cynical),i said i don't believe there's only one person i can truly love. And expecting the head of the house to take care of the house equals being cynical/burned? How did you arrive at that conclusion? Ko ye mi oh. Bros your suspicions are wrong-my legs have been zipped since i came into this world. I've not been burned-i've not even gone near fire sef . . No,i am not sexually active. If you like,believe,if not,don't believe. Whatever fries your dodo jare.

Don't bring in that soulmate matter abeg. Who is a soulmate? Isn't a soulmate your one true love,the one person you're meant to be with? I don't believe in soulmates and that means i don't believe there's one particular person that i'm meant/destined to spend the rest of my life with. I don't believe that it's only one specific person that i can truly love. I believe that i can fall in love more than once and settle down with whoever's best for me,not waiting for some imaginary 'soulmate'. What has that got to do with me thinking that a marriage is simply a trade by barter? In this thread i wasn't talking about the general qualities i want in a mate but the financial expectations i would have. If expecting my husband to take care of me and whatever children we have makes me a gold-digger,then by all means,i'm one.

fstranger1:
Anyway, I got in touch with Banky. he said you are too young

But, I can take you on. . . what say you?

Too young? *sob sob*. . But why naa? Love has no age. . As for your own, Well. . Are you tall,dark,handsome,RICH ,igbo(this one is optional but it wouldn't hurt),a good speaker,generous,ripped,under 30?

fstranger1:
This is not serious my guy

She is just messing around

No biggie

Why you spoil show naa? Nah im not messing around oh! Except about the Banky W part.

Abeg oh. I NEVER said i'd date a guy MAINLY for the material things he'll give me.

@OP,Jamb question. Oh wait,you're prolly not old enough to take Jamb anyway.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=586859.msg7544592#msg7544592 date=1295207755][color=#0055bb]DECAPITATED? or depicted?   [/color][/quote]Lol. . No it depends on the 'context'. Apparently,decapitated works too. .

Lwkmd @ context. . Hehehe. . I can't laff.

Oh me? I don't need to have an English degree to know what decapitated means.

pinky17:
Naija women are decapitated as witches, always visiting voodoo doctors to harm their men, mischevious, will marry a rich man even if he has a wife,

Am i the only one who saw 'decapitated'?