₦airaland Forum

Higherthan:
We trust tinubu, it's just a matter of time, a man who understands the true meaning of governance and cries of the people, we all trust him to deliver.

A man loved by all 👋

Loved by all
Why the long security convoy if he’s loved by all ?

Just a matter of time … bubu spent 8 years
Now this one is asking for 3 years of extreme tolerance of poverty from Nigerians

Please don’t be a stup1d man here

According to them “Na money be fine bobo “😂

I don’t pity such guys o . in fact I feel very happy when I hear those kain breakfast sef


Op Yunno a woman can pretend to love you and even show (false ) efforts just to get what she wants

englishmart:
I ensure you invest as much as I invest. I can't be dating myself. If she takes 10 minutes to reply, my next reply will be in 20 minutes. There was a day I dropped a message on WhatsApp and she didn't reply for 2 days, meanwhile her data was on. When she eventually replied, I didn't reply for 4 days. She started noticing I was withdrawing, then she adjusted.
I changed strategy. If I initiate a conversion on Monday, it's your turn on Tuesday or we forget about it. I don't give her shishi and she doesn't ask. I believe she's an adult like me, and she's capable of taking care of herself. How can you break up with someone who is so intent on reciprocity?
She has told me several times that why she cant break up unnecessarily is that she has invested a lot.

Damn you’re exactly like me bro
Keep it up
She takes 10mins to reply you take 20/30 mins sef

I remember doing it to an ex that came back for friendship or whatever she imagined she wanted
I once left a message for her on WhatsApp she replied 2 days later … I took 2 days to reply her back.
Lmao guess who was pissed off ??

Many of them can’t take what they dish out but na out type fit them na 😎

crossbreedwears:
First of all, FRSC don't handle weapons. Secondly, every soldier is trained on physical combant if you're never had a military or visited. The strength of a soldier is equivalent of 5 person that's the reason why most people are scared, not because they handle riffle

So what’s the strength rating of the UGM guys in the east and bandits and BH boys in the north that regularly take soldiers apart 💀

Clownish statement 🤡

While I hate the NPF due to their numerous atrocities and mischief
Make una leave that man make he pick money
He has a family to feed with this unbearable economy
Make una keep Una useless education and work to improve things

It’s better than extorting innocent citizens

Guy 😂 Beans ?? 😂

theamazonguru:
As if China is not a country
As if Indonesia is from another world.
As if South Korea dropped from the space.

Have they always been like this , making progress?
Didn't the turnaround they now experience start with just one leader?

Pele oga smart Don.
Arguing with you is a waste of time.

Very negative minds dede.

Those countries worked hard ..no doubt
But they saw progress while they were working hard .
All we get here is silly , empty promises while we keep going from bad to worse

That’s how buhari did till 8 whole years passed

They made their money … I don’t see this as an actual fight

Yaba market

Increase the amount you give her

Brandiebird:
Her parents packed her into a man’s house and paid him money on top of it. All in the name of pastor?


You people need to stop disgracing Christianity like this.

Did you read all I wrote ?

Very good
Shebi all for clout na

Check in bro

Anny69:
Men don't deserve women. A woman's presence in a man's life is enough for him. We deserve all the gifts and the merriness. Y'all deserve NOTHING!

In reality A woman presence brings confusion, manipulations and nagging 🙃

Then some people will come and give you 10 or 12 reasons not to japa 😁🎄

Mindlog:
Rape or whatever issues should be dropped immediately......You are a RAPE APOLOGIST.

The so called Pastor acknowledged the lady being mentally disordered, took advantage of her vulnerability and you even came up with the angle of consent.....that is a sexual offense because he is aware she is mentally ill which leaves her open to manipulation, intimidation, or deceit and he used his "position" to exploit her, sexually.

Many Psychiatrists have had their medical licenses withdrawn and are cooling off in different prisons for having sex with patients under their care! Mr. Pastor should be picked up by the Lagos State Police command, to have one less predator in the field.

No problem

Fiscus105:
All these people telling you to go to war with the pastor, I guess they will gather money to foot the bill to take care of the girl and his kid when the pastor is servicing jail term!

You see, it not every fight you declare war on, some you overlook, some reconciliation and if the 2 fail you can now go to war.

In this case, I will advise you to call pastor first and make him responsible for the girl and her child, if he agrees to do that, it will benefit the girl and family farrrrrrr more than wen pastor sent to jail. But if the pastor denying,u can go extreme with the pastor.

DID IT ALSO OCCUR TO YOU LIKE THIS, IF NOT PASTOR THAT IMPREGNATED HER, ANY OF RANDOM GUY CAN DO THAT, IN WHICH HE WON'T BE ABLE TO IDENTIFY THE PERSON (u said ur cousin normally run away from home and that she mentally/spiritually not balance)

Hope u know the implications of the 2nd scenario!

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DNA test will reveal … if he denies

Mosetgg:
If you stay in Abuja I will take it up by writing a petition against the pastor for her for free.

If you are not within Abuja, seek the services of a lawyer but if you can’t afford the services of a lawyer go to any recognized Human Right Organization or visit any Ministry of women affairs as suggested above.

No Lagos

Capernum:
Is she into drugs?

No
Never

madridguy:
If the matter happened here in Lagos, don't stress yourself too much, go to Alausa.

Yes Lagos

Jeon:
You did lose your promiscuous worthless life over stupid bet,if we were closer . You think everyone is as useless as you?.
Heading 23,without sleeping with anyone.

You made my dayyyyyyyyyyy😁😂

Good morning and merry Christmas

I have this distant cousin ( Mid 20’s) and we are quite close. From my perspective She kinda suffers from a mental disorder or illness rather but y’all know African parents and their mentality na. Her parents believed it’s a spiritual thing . This cousin of mine often run away from home.

The last time she ran away from home, she copied a pastor's Number from a TV advert when watching TV at home and ran to his house when her parents tracked her down to his house through his ( the pastor’s) help too. After meeting her parents He said she should stay at his place for a while so he can tackle her case specially . Her parents often send money to the pastor during those times. After a while She suddenly packed her bag and ran back to her parents house Without any explanation and the pastor kept calling her mother frequently to bring her over that he wasn’t done with the deliverance or whatever. ( the pastor is a married man btw and stays with his wife but I don’t know if they have kids )
Fast forward to last month the parents of my cousin found out she was pregnant. After multiple interrogations She finally confessed that the pastor Raped her ( while she was at his place ) and threatened to kill her if she tells anybody
She never told anyone even after she came back to her parents house until they found out she’s pregnant. The pastor isn’t aware he is still calling for them to send her back but her mother isn’t picking his calls

I’m lost because I was so close to her. she even babysat me as a toddler and even taught me Before I was old enough to go to school and we have been close since like forever … now I even stopped speaking to her because I feel so bad she opened the door for all this mess by running from home and not telling anyone at the right time .. I’m just trying to manage my emotions because I’m short tempered and can act irrationally when Angered

What can I do in this case ? What legal steps can be taken ?

Good morning and merry Christmas

I have this distant cousin ( Mid 20’s) and we are quite close. From my perspective She kinda suffers from a mental disorder or illness rather but y’all know African parents and their mentality na. Her parents believed it’s a spiritual thing . This cousin of mine often run away from home.

The last time she ran away from home, she copied a pastor's Number from a TV advert when watching TV at home and ran to his house when her parents tracked her down to his house through his ( the pastor’s) help too. After meeting her parents He said she should stay at his place for a while so he can tackle her case specially . Her parents often send money to the pastor during those times. After a while She suddenly packed her bag and ran back to her parents house Without any explanation and the pastor kept calling her mother frequently to bring her over that he wasn’t done with the deliverance or whatever. ( the pastor is a married man btw and stays with his wife but I don’t know if they have kids )
Fast forward to last month the parents of my cousin found out she was pregnant. After multiple interrogations She finally confessed that the pastor Raped her ( while she was at his place ) and threatened to kill her if she tells anybody
She never told anyone even after she came back to her parents house until they found out she’s pregnant. The pastor isn’t aware he is still calling for them to send her back but her mother isn’t picking his calls

I’m lost because I was so close to her. she even babysat me as a toddler and even taught me Before I was old enough to go to school and we have been close since like forever … now I even stopped speaking to her because I feel so bad she opened the door for all this mess by running from home and not telling anyone at the right time .. I’m just trying to manage my emotions because I’m short tempered and can act irrationally when Angered

What can I do in this case ? What legal steps can be taken ?

kooyanbliss:
I know i will be labelled as a woman beater now which i bitterly regret but i still had no choice than to beat her as she wont let me be. The method i’ve developed over the years to avoid beating women is to leave their site whenever they provoke or hit you but this girl wanted to keep me on her site and still provoking me more by hitting, slapping and locking my clothes. I warned her before it got to this point she just decided to turn a deaf ear to me and proved stubborn and daring. Now she is going around labelling me as a woman beater to people without telling them what prompted my action against her. I am not proud that i did this but i had to do it nevertheless to save myself from being hurt. I still got bruises of where she hit me on my body and the slaps still resound once in a while i couldn’t continue taking the pain 😔

Forget what people will say
People will always talk
If you didn’t defend yourself from such abuse they’ll still label you a weak man

Just send her away maybe for a while

You for don Ghost her already sef from the first time she hit you

Tales by moonlight

The innocent guy is about to get traumatized

Bintabisiriyu2:
Why? you think he can't afford 2,000 naira or noodles and egg to spread a girls legs?

This vawlence is rated 18+

DGimmick:
At age 25
girlfriends; 0
kisses ; 0
sex; 0
hugs; 0

it's not that am not attractive, infact girls even make advances at me but what can I say, I think I'm the worst introvert on earth

Don’t mind those calling you a liar
I believe you because we are similar

age 2# ( I’m slightly younger than you )
girlfriends; 0
kisses ; 1 ( from a random girl who really likes me and wanted us so bad )
sex; 0
hugs; lol I dunno

I don’t think it’s an issued sha unless you think it is . Women are cheap so nor reason am like you’re an incel. After all with all the STDs flying around these days being chaste is still a cool lifestyle. I just like to lead them on for a while then snub/ghost them and go my way 😁( they’ll hate you for that sha )
It’s something I enjoy doing sha

ukaface:
Na girl wey no wan forget her ex na
Why will I want to accommodate the thoughts of my ex in my brain, I can’t even remember his name or what he looks like

Na every night I Dey curse and swear for am

You claim to have forgotten him but still remember to swear for him every night

Clown 🤡

Trash