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Always looking for someone or something to blame for being a hoe

Salah is a better footballer than osihmen overall
But osihmen had a trophy last season while Liverpool didn’t

JoeEeL:
"She" is a man who has been employed by nairaland to make controversial statements that in turn generate quotes like yours to build more traffic to keep making nairaland rank higher in engagement on Google search engine optimisation.

That is why you see most of "her" comments are usually amongst the first 5 for easy visibility, hardly ever at the bottom of the first page, or on 2nd or 3rd page.

"She" is likely an alternate moniker of a mod.

Nigerians, make una wise up na. Na why una politicians like dey use una catch cruise.

I can believe you
She could still be a lady employed by them too
From the way some of the ladies here call on the yeye admins to ban someone and the admins do it very quickly is what make me believe you

Kingzjayzee:
I hear say she no dey do men. Na hear I hear oo 😁

Naso them Dey talk
But for back if them nor Dey do men them nor go see food chop or get money for data to come here and rant nonsense

Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

I feel sorry for any foolish man that decides to date you tbh

Show us the other parts
Lagos wey dirty don spoil finish

Why you tire na ?
You nor be feminist again ?

MrCork:
Ilitrasy is a desease.i cant imagine my white London friends seeing then...coz here in pekam London, if waiter see u eating rice in a restorant wit a spooon,they will walk u out & ban u..we use fork....but for some reason in nigeria * africa.,homebase guys use spooon...& some times they use ther hand to eat rice or chickens in a restorant especially
In from of a fine female (ilitrasy)
...is this normal behaviours for homebase guys?(no ooofencse)

Professor please It’s ILLITERACY Not ilitrasy

jsp0:
it been a fuckin 1 year of dating and it excuse over excuses

What is hard in visiting a guy u claimed u dating, i remembered my ex, she visit every night, it reached a time im even dodging her


We agreed she visiting today but she failed

i cant continue this nonsense, i just called her now that she shouldn't call me again and she responded HA!, i just cut the call

just glad and not pained cos i don't over invested, just little 2k 1k few times a month

the girl is not even fine sef, ugly monkey

Hope im in the right track, guys

You dated her for About 1 year you didn’t know she’s ugly
Stop being pained bro good thing you didn’t invest too much financially
But let it slide … nor even reason her matter forever
Doesn’t mean you should be enemies tho

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

I’m facing this same prob
Especially due to the bolded And the fickle nature of women .

Lemme sit down IncAse any reasonable advice comes in

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it [b][/b]really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

I’m facing this same prob
Especially due to the bolded Amd the fickle nature of women .

Lemme sit down IncAse any reasonable advice comes in

A very dumb post

Fountainofyouth:
Abi this one is high ni, I should not talk about harassment of ladies ontop wetin? You want to compare harassment to leeches that you guys keep enabling by giving them money and paying their bills? Get heavenly sense, it's free

And to the other nonsense you spew, so there are no leeches abroad? Nigerian girls are all leeches? No Nigerian female has ever shared bills before ? You are attracting leeches yet complaining, if you want ladies that can share date bills, your mouth dey pain you to ask? Or you think abroad ladies automatically share bills without both of you discussing ab initio how the bills will be paid?

You people will keep following same band wagon to vomit same trash every time, you refuse to reason and think for yourselves, so shameful.

All these nor concern me
But I’ll love proof of the bolded sha

Scientists:
I don over tell Her that I won't condone but yet she no the hear word. Bugging my life up and down. My Landlady (village sister) even noticed say I no d treat her right and adviced Her to stay away from this Igbo man (Me) . I don't know why she is just misbehaving shamelessly. I am AS genotype just like Her. I've made it clear that I no d marry yet she is hopeful. She is going to 25 years now yet no sense

You’re wasting your time , finance and resources on her
She’s just looking for food and accommodation without working

Stop coming here to ease your anger and frustration
Man up and do the needful by telling her you won’t condone her irresponsible behaviors anymore

OR
Bring another girl home while she’s home 🙃

Been single for more than 2 years now
I’m loving it
I’m slightly younger than you just that I’ve dated. ( but only for companionship not s3x but it’s still a waste of time )
It can be a bit lonely sometimes tho but it’s a worthy sacrifice compared to dating these bandits

Yeah
I reply occasionally and I keep it very causal which pisses them off fortunately for me

You’re a supporting striker
You’re not good enough to be a main striker

So since you’re foolish enough to keep sitting on the bench instead of going to another club continue sitting

ObviaSere:
I use to smoke. Weed doesn’t give a deeper voice.

Seconded

It’s deep

Na mistake 😂🤣 abi na scope
Once you recharge 😂🤣otilor

They couldn’t handle an ordinary slash on the hand

If na to watch BBN Their head Dey sharp for that side

Well they can continue to k1ll each other .. the world will be a better place with less farm tools

Chai …See una future wives

Sleekfingers:
That 2 -3 months is too much o.
When my wife and I have issues, I will just go to one of my short let apartment, stay there for a couple of days or a week or two.....depending on the issue. But keep reaching out to my children.
She will be sending all kinda pleading messages, calling and telling my children to beg on her behalf and so on.

Ok since you mentioned kids
But if no kids then it’s not too much
And once I find out she’s cheating it’s an automatic ticket to the court for a divorce

Sleekfingers:
Start avoiding her like plague.

1. In the morning, greet her, go to work.
2. After work, hang around at a bar, eat out and enter the house, shower and go to bed.
3. Weekends, if you have kids, play with them, afterwards go out and come back at night. Make sure you have eaten outside.
4. Don't eat her food. But don't stop giving her money and paying the bills
5. Don't attempt to have any intimacy with her. Try and be sleeping in the sitting room.
6. No matter what she says, don't answer, this is kinda hard though.

Nobody go tell her. Before she go ask you, say wetin she do, or tell your family or her family about what's going on.
Anytime, my wife start her madness, I just ignore her.

Seconded

Or just get a short-let apartment for like 2 months or 3 months and disappear
Leave your sim at home and notify important people you’re away for the meantime .. na she go use her mouth cast her doings

Kala

mbaise1000:
The verse you quoted said that the man will be commiting adultry if he will marry again after he has excersiced his right to divorce his wife and it said that whoever marrys that divorced woman is also commiting adultery, can you explain Why?

You made it seem like divorce was condemned in the Bible
There is nothing like forgiveness abeg when she give you HIV na him your eye go clear

Had an aunt who got married to a promiscuous husband
The man got hiv , infected his wife and 2 kids
They all died off … the last remaining child was a boy luckily he didn’t get the disease . He’s an orphan now simply because of this kain FORGIVENESS .

Following
I’ve been working and progressing with mine sha

jeromestarks:
I just started feeling angry. Unprovoked. Untouched. Just like that.

I couldn't find the cause of the rage. Nothing to pin point as the reason for my anger. I am just angry.

Who has ever experienced such feeling?


Could it be that someone is angry with me somewhere that's why I am angry too?
Can someone else's feeling link to yours spiritually or telepathically?

Mood swings ig

Happens to me frequently

mbaise1000:
I don't think you read my comment or at least you didn't understand it, you need to comprehend before responding,
Was there any place in my comment that I supported what she did?
you can still try again, BTW, claiming to be a Christian doesn't make you a Christian, judging from your comment, you are not a Christian because every Christian will have the capacity to forgive, no matter the gravity of the offense, that's why I said you are not a Christian, and if you had read or understood my comment, you would have also seen where I said that Jesus said that law is not for everyone but for THOSE who can keep it, apparently, you are not among THOSE, so you don't expect everyone to be like you, it's impossible, that law is for the children of God not for those that just claim to be the children of God.
How about you put your pride aside and ask God to show you what been born again mean?

Pastor calm down 😎

citygarden:
I always say to people that all this bandit, boko haram are not muslim. They are just a political tools and monsters set up by the politicians. They only use Islam as a cover up to commit their atrocity so that some clerics will not quickly condemned them. But later they will now come after the religion they use as cover up. 90% of them don't pray, don't know ordinary fathia. They are bad boys of the North that are just into drugs, land grabbing, bandit, etc.

🤡🤡🤡
Hamas is not Muslim too
Bin laden wasn’t Muslim too

Abisolababe:
I was able to make about 11500 yesterday hawking with the wheelbarrow

It might be too stressful for you
Get an umbrella space

Good luck