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Goodlady:
Leave me o

Albertone:
She probably offended that dude and he moved on without letting her know.

If my fiancee cheats, I'll act like I did not know. But on the wedding day, I won't show up.
No matter the amount I spent nor the families and guest around. She must to cry aje!

unqombothi:
How many NGOs do you know? I bet many. How many are helping pregnant women who found themselves abandoned by their partner? I bet none. That's why.

Drella:
Yeah we're similar.
I've been like this since childhood and I've never had an issue. But now, seeing how my mates are living life, I feel left behind in life.

Heck I don't even know how to make friends.

BlackisBuT:
So I left the house very early morning today thinking that I will be able to withdraw. Unlucky to me I spent 6hours + only to withdraw 10k From the counter.my question ,What is Nigeria as a nation turning into🤔😤😓

tensazangetsu20:
None of my business but I am just wondering how the other gender thinks o cause I have had such cases in my family but in the extended part of it.

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

tensazangetsu20:
This one doesn't even do yahoo. Like he has no skill at all, no education nothing no handwork.

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

Dreamcatcher01:
I really don’t know the name in English but am certain it’s sweetie,I think I got it from my roommate because he got all those boils on is dick and he always scratch his dick also but since I notice it have stop sleeping on the bed I was just surprised when I started scratching my dick also and then the boils start appearing one after the other,it’s really so annoying the more I scratch the sweetness,plz the ivermectin is it a tablet if so how will I be using it

Gerrard59:
White and Asian men oo

This braggadocio by black men claiming to be alfa meils dey always burst my head.

Ficklemind:
I really don’t know how to stop thinking, not even for a second my mind is always faraway please help I’m slipping away....

I’m a woman of 27years, lonely, don’t have a relationship, not financially ok , don’t have any skills even though I just graduated waiting for mobilization and I planned to acquire one while in service.

I never actually thought about life much till I graduated, I gained admission when I was 20years and I actually thought I still have much time to achieve a lot of things in life . It was now I realized how much time I had wasted in not paying much attention to my life even when I know that it never too late.

My financial life has been basically sponsored by me Incase you are wondering how I get funds to live by. Last year, I got a casual job , did a thrift business though not something big but I was able to saveup and was able to live on that even now I still have something I can depend on without asking from anybody by living within my limit.

My relationship life has been ok too, I left my last relationship early last year and that was the last time I got laid. It has not been easy to abstain but with determination here I’m going months without it. I must say I’m lonely, I crave to love and be loved yet I don’t want to get into any relationship now because I don’t want to fall into unsafe hands and having unnecessary sex.

I feel like a failure like I don’t have purpose for my life, I crave for intimacy but even if I get someone who likes me or wants to settle down with me I’m not sure I’m ready for that now because I’m not financially stable yet.

Is there something wrong with me or I’m just over reacting?

pocohantas:
E shock you ba? You don’t care and you are telling me to go find job. Say what you do na. Some of you are still trying to find your bearing, but will come online to waste your meaningful time. You think every lady is like the one you are knacking? C’mon getaut of my sight.

aestake:
They believe it should be them that get the 20% of men in that category. 80% of women is chasing 10% of men calling it love.

pocohantas:
I have a job. I work as a BizOps Strategist with a London based firm. Care to share what you do?

He cherishes me and adds more to the one I earn. No be you go teach me game. Bring your sister for pink pills, lest history repeats it self in your family!

pocohantas:
A same man knows what he wants from a woman. The problem is when you Npower boys assume you know the hearts of men with money. You don’t know what it is to have a provider male. Your mum was the main provider. So relax and allow we that are with provider men, tell you what they want.

A sensible provider male doesn’t see you as a liability because you are not giving him all your money. Nah! He knows his duty and you should know yours. When you get to that level, I would be looking forward to reading your comments.

Bye!🙌🏻

pocohantas:
Oh well, liabilities get the rich men. I am not the one that would marry a man I am 4x richer than only to pretend he is the main provider. I am not that foolish. He brings home the bulk bacon and I serve us.

siofra:
No, hunnay.

The same way you see a woman as inferior, dearest, is the same way a white man sees you as inferior to him.

pocohantas:
No, he bought it and I am cruising it. That is how it should be.

CRY!

pocohantas:
Pray for grace my dear. Pray it for your female family members. It is a woman like them that is married to Mark Zuckerberg. It is not hookup, it is being with a man who understands his role and allows you bask in your womanness.

Trekking under hot sun and drinking fanyogo doesn’t mean it is true love. True love dey enter Benz and PJ too. True love goes to the Maldives. No, they are not the same. Pray for Grace!

pocohantas:
Lol. Your sister enter N50 okada go meet her bf, you say na true love. I enter plane, you say hookup. Dude, understand that all humans are not equal. There are men and there are MEN.

pocohantas:
He wants you to beg him.
“Please marry us. Don’t hate women”

Eweyyy! The men that are making this Nigeria sweet for us would send alert next week. Wetin babes dey use this one do? If e like, make e cut im pr***k give rottweiler.

siofra:
White men, not black men, dear.

SenatePresdo:
I have never seen a man, who's up to 30 years saying he doesn't think he can marry.
It's mostly teenagers and boys in their 20s that says such.

Fiscus105:
You guys are now frustrated that people dnt read ur redpilers lamentation thread again, you decided to come where you think moderators can move ur lamentation to front page.

What I want to say, people said it already, it's as a result of going mad and not missogyny as you projected it, before you know you will enter market.

Ordinarily as one ageing, his reasoning is supposed to be of a mature one, irrespective of gender, since such person will soon become family man or woman with kids.

.....but if u think at ur age, u started developing hatred for certain gender, which is part and parcel of society and gender you cannot do without, surely it's a case of madness rather than emotion.

Prolificlife:
Hello Lively Stones Family,

I need your advise. I have been married to my husband for six year, we have a five year old daughter. My husband has a baby mama that has two girls for him. The girls are ten and eight years old. He told me he did not want to marry his baby mama cos she was a runs girl, he had caught her severally with different men, he had to take a DNA tests on his children to make sure they are truly his children.

When we got married, my husband told me that his baby mama took the girls away and said he will never see his children again. For over six years, we never heard anything from this woman until she suddenly appeared last December, on Christmas day. When the bell rang, my husband’s younger brother who was in the sitting room, was the one that opened the door…he came to tell me and my husband.

We were both shocked to see her and the girls and one boy. My husband was so overjoyed to see his daughters. I welcomed them in and gave them food to eat. The children were also happy to meet my daughter, their half sister. We all just thought the boy with them was the woman’s son from maybe another man she was with. It was after eating, that my husband’s babymama said that the boy is my husband’s son.

According to her, she found out she was pregnant after she left him but she was so upset that she vowed not to tell him about his son. And true to talk, the boy looked so much like my husband. My husband was so happy…he hugged the boy several times. I was happy for my husband but also sad that my husband’s first son is coming from the baby mama. I reminded my husband that he has to do DNA too for the boy to make sure the boy is his…my husband agreed.

This woman and her children stayed till evening. When I asked when are they leaving, the woman said they are staying the night. And that, she wants the children to start living with their father cos things are difficult for her. She cannot cope with taking care of them anymore. I was shocked….like, the children can stay but not her…she said she has no where to stay and no money for hotel. So, my husband gave her money to go to a hotel. The children stayed with us.

That night, I asked my husband how am I supposed to look after this woman’s 3 children plus mine. My husband said we will manage cos he cannot reject his children. The next day, my husband spoke to his baby mama on the phone. This woman said she wants to be close to her children. She wants to relocate back to Lagos mainland cos she lives on the island…so she can be close to the children. I said ok.

After the DNA test that proved the boy is my husband’s son…things are normal now. The 3 children are living with us,…they have started school. They are play with my children. Last Friday, their mother came to visit them on Friday evening. I asked her why she didn’t come in the morning on Saturday cos Friday evening that she came was already late, around 7.30pm. She said traffic held her.

This woman stayed until it was almost 10.30pm..I had to ask when is she leaving…she said she wants to spend the night with her children in her childrens room. Ha…I said no way…I asked her to leave…she refused….I looked at my husband….my husband asked her to leave…she was like, why am I so wicked….that she has raised this children by herself for six years and now I want to keep her away from her children.

I told her she can come back the next day, take her children to spend the weekend with her and bring them back on Sunday evening. She started saying I am heartless…she only just wants to spend the night in her childrens room…because she was crying…my husband said ok,..she can spend the night with the kids. That night, I refused to speak to my husband cos I felt he betrayed me. This woman spent the entire night, the next day in our house and when it was almost 4pm….I asked her to leave….she laughed an evil laugh….

The next thing she said is….you are being jealous right….that your husband’s ex is back…and if you keep acting like this…I will take him back from you…hes mine first and will always be mine first. She left around 4.30pm. All through that weekend, I was unhappy and angry at my husband for allowing his ex back into our lives. Clearly, she has an agenda..to get him back.

On Wednesday, my husband said…the children’s mother said he should bring the children to her place over the weekend since I dont want to see her. I said ok…So, after school yesterday….my hubby took the children to drop them in their mom’s place. My people …do you know my husband did not return home yesterday…even till this morning…as am writing you…hes not back from the Island…from his ex house where he went to drop his children yesterday evening.

The only text my husband sent last night around 11pm was that, there was alot of traffic and so he will be staying back on the island…to come back in the morning. I asked him where will he spend the night…maybe in a hotel….he said I should not ask him…that he is a grown man and he can take care of himself…my God….last night…I could not sleep…all I kept thinking was my husband was with the ex…and maybe having s3x with her.

I am boiling with anger and frustration….waiting for my husband to return…almost 10am this morning…he’s still not back…his no is switched off. My mind is running wild….I have been crying too…I know I cant control myself when he comes back but I also feel if I am not careful…I may loose my husband and drive him into the arms of this witch. This woman looks like a seductress…with her big breasts and bum….swinging it everywhere….no wonder why men can’t keep away from her.

Please I need my husband away from her…how do I handle this matter,….I feel like I am already loosing this battle before the war even started. I need advise quickly….

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Sheistoopretty:
Ur turn for what? what will I not see on Nairaland

broke boys claiming rubbish online