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Offense no 1 = she's an after 1
Offense no 2 = so out of all the ways to make money out there .. she choose prostitution


I just dey pity some men like you ... if your parents were alive ( sorry to say ) will they be allow you to marry someone like her

Do you think she will stop sleeping around after marriage??

Kai oga

Britishcoins:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.


Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

@ the bolded ... clap for yourself sir
😂😂😂

mayor02:
Taking the redpill does not mean you should start hating ladies and seeing every lady as a LovePeddler and ingrate

I am very shocked at Nairaland redpillers, you guys are mostly single cry babies and women haters. You can’t even maintain a relationship because you are actually a simp that is why you are forming redpiller so you can hide in hate and you don’t even understand what it is all about

I am a redpiller myself.
Taking the redpill mean putting yourself first and your future first before a girlfriend.
It mean loving yourself so much that if a lady is faking love, you will already know from 100miles away and breakup immediately.
It mean being THE MAN in a relationship, a person that comes into the room and the lady is happy to have him and not the other way round

Taking the redpill is accepting that you want to invest more money and effort in your future than in a girlfriend, and this will even make any lady fall in love quickly with you. Ladies can sense an ambitious man and they will stick with him no matter his broke state, rules and regulations.

Taking the redpill is dressing well and looking neat instead begging for a relationship and bashing any lady that reject you

Taking a redpill is improving on your finance. The ladies know a man that is working on his finance and they will stay with him. That is why some broke guys still have beautiful girlfriends that you can only dream of.

Stop all this hate, that is not the Redpill theory !!

I agree with everything you said.... Except the BOLDED
Redpill isn't truly about hating /disrespecting every woman

You didn't get it bro
Redpill isn't about disrespecting women but ALWAYS being cautious of them

AyemafugeILAJE:
Well that's overboard for an average guy with average income

No o ... it's not overboard
Since you want to be giving her monthly money like a salary
Is being in a relationship a form of employment ?
Better build yourself and don't make a woman a priority in your life . Spend that stipend on your mum and watch as she'll bless you and your doors will open up rather than giving it to one hungry parasite

Giving gifts or offering financial assistance in a relationship is ok but it shouldn't be under forceful conditions. It should be totally voluntary . The day wey you no go get money to give her now watch as she go insult you and it will be your fault because you have made her feel entitled

Wise up oga

Pay her salary .. like 80k or month and she'll never leave you

EagleEyes306:
I have stated my own spec and described myself in the post. You can ask other questions apart from money related questions.

Based on my previous experience, I don't think I will share my networth or present earning with a lady until I am married to her. I am comfortable paying my bills.

Leave that hungry criminal called Goodlady
She's one of the liabilities we have here on this platform .

She isn't linking you to anyone but her hungry parasitic self

Kokorokomaster1:
So as it's like this now what should I do, should I forced her to have sex with me and face the consequences

Prison says hiiii👋👋👋

I agree with the first comment on this post

I don't support fornication ... but relationship isn't about money . Gifts can come in when you wish to give but it's not under pressure or demand

And you're here crying and asking foolish questions

Goodlady:
Relationship is about chemistry.
However, not all men say must be believed else one ll br duped emotionally.


See why you ll never get a gf Cos only garri fill up your brain

😂😂😂 science student . He's saying the truth
I know how many ladies my guys don bed with common noodles and yorghurt

I've dated thrice ... I've dated a lady for 1 year 11 months. Na me choose to avoid dating
Getting a woman is one of the cheapest things in Nigeria now . If I want I go get today today , Even if na you 😏😂 so your point nor valid

StrongAlphMale:
The simp post just dey vex everybody since morning

I no gree read am sef

Na colos you carry ?
I've smoked everything except crack

Na Colorado dey shake me well well ..

Say no to drugs .. nothing dey there bro

Say no to peace comrade

Hunger , laziness
Goodlady is a proper example

Say no to fornication sha

EagleEyes306:
Na wah. A lot of people have been telling me it is impossible or close to impossible but I will keep my fingers crossed for now and see what happens.

Close to impossible is right lol
Don't settle for less tho especially in the most important aspects

Drug addiction is something else mehn . Make I nor write my own

Jesus is the ONLY way

EagleEyes306:
My guy this is what I am looking for. I am a pretty good material myself .

If you're right about this .. then I think you're right to go for what you want..

I won't settle for less either after keeping myself for so long

But tbh the chances of getting that in this country is close to impossible especially the Hardworking and serious Christian part

Goodlady come and try ya luck and stop being an evening newspaper

Stop fornication you nor gree

After 4 years I the uni look at your write up??

Better man up and play the fatherly role

All this epistle because of women??

Lmao

You'll never walk alone 🧘‍♂️

ruggedtimi:
LB VP candidate too far....Ask them the
name of the current vice president of Nigeria. On I.G, I rarely see my female naija friends as mutual followers in educative pages like nat geo, NASA, CNN, etc. But once u go insta blog, Tonto dike and other celebrities..u go see all my female friends as mutual followers. At the end, they end up watching only skits and twerk video everyday

This one is a fact bro

Novemberaura:
She said to my face that I have a small dick

That no matter how much I try I can never satisfy her.

After making her scream during sex for 3months straight. Indicating that she was only faking it the whole time she moaned during copulation

I just started feeling inadequate cuz it made me question my gender

Stop fornication

Goodlooking women have many Bad behaviors( talking from multiple experiences)..

One reason I said I'm going to try an average looking girl if ever I decide to this relationship crap again.. make I see the difference

Because we use British English here in Nigeria na

What's election expenses in the first place .. is he INEC ??

True
Well I blame it on poverty and laziness ..


Example :- Goodlady the poor evening newspaper

Upcoming ENP

Damn we have enough ENPs already na

This one just dey say stuff to feel rugged
From the video even if he had a gun wouldn't have saved him from the way he died

Baba no want pressure.. he's like me

Just that he should be working towards setting up one or two stuff to earn money ( for himself not for any girlfriend tho )

Na una type dey push guys into fraud or illegal ways to make money

Foolish & shameless uniform men