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Dainy1:
Honestly, I don't understand this. Is this an act of hypocriacy or what truth are they really hiding from us?
They claimed marriage is not important, not for everyone, that you can stay single and be having children outside wedlock, so long as you can take care of them. Yet, they go about talking you down as soon as you're of age and have no wife/husband.

A girlfriend of mine in her late thirties just declared she's getting married and everyone is sharing her up, sending her congratulatory messages as if she has not been existing.

Does marriage really worth that hyping or what's so special about it that civilization is hiding from us?

He that find a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord.

Two are better one!

Ademola47:
Thisday Live

From the picture, the university is in ondo town not okitipupa

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Ephesians 5:5 ESV
For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.


Say no to Fornication, you are playing with hellfire!
Sin might be sweet abnitio but it has a bitter ending. Run!

adamsmith914:
The number one trait of a failure, they will always have a reason to justify their failure to blame someone else, please just answer this one question & I will know you are a serious minded person, how much free money did you state receive from the FAAC last year? Name one project embarked by State Government that has added value to your existence?

There is no question to answer.
The system is choked up and not working..Shikena!
Restructuring is the key!

adamsmith914:
Failure what of the Governor of your state that you voted for & your Local Government Chairman, aren’t they also failures? Failures beget Failures, bunch of failed people looking for whom to blame for their failures, shameless failures, it was President Buhari that made you a Failure, please name one thing your failed State Government & Local Government have done to empower your failed existence?

The way our democracy is structured have given power to the central. Can a state governor like in the USA be independent?
Unfortunately, when a president fails or succeeds, it trickles down the system like that.

The central have a stronghold on the states and local governments

No shame!
The world is messed up
God have mercy
Unfortunate, some people support this heinous act and defending her.. Haba!
Indeed we are in the perilous times.
Accept Jesus Christ before it is too late.

Pulls crowd for the wrong thing...
Femi Adeshina needs help

No mass covid 19 palliatives for all citizenry.
That is bad?

dboY1123:
Hi nairalanders,
The topic is straight forward,that's it.. I have been thinking maybe because I seldomly have sex, or maybe because it's been long I had sex(4years ago) before recent times because then I was in schools..But just finished now.
I think I need to perform better like last longer than 15mins for first round and more for the rest! Worst is, a lady even said I was not good in bed.. The last time, which sounds so annoying.. I want to last longer and stronger now...what are the natural things I could take for more strength and to last longer than finishing fast.

Thanks

Is unfortunate the world is turning upside down. From your story, your are not married . Why not channel your efforts in doing impactful thing in this present day Nigeria?
When you get married , u go have sex and go tire you o.
By the way, sex outside marriage is a sin.

wisemum:
I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.
My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out. He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all. He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker. Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail. He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.

The bible is complete. Train your child in the way he should go, when he is old, he wnt depart from it. Is obvious you have over pampered your son and he is now a spoil brat. You can now see the danger of giving a child unnecessary freedom while growing and not disciplining him when necessary . Doubt if you scold the child while growing and is obvious he doesn't fear and respect his parents. The problem is not with the girlfriend but your son. You need get closer to your son and talk to him to see the reckless life he is living. Your son needs Jesus Christ in his life and you must keep praying for him.

Vulcanheph:
Exactly one month.... I found out that my employer was tricky and probably wasn't gonna pay so I siphoned as much money I could without him knowing and when I completed one month the guy started coming up with excuses of how his money was missing but yet couldn't tell me how the money was missing since my records were intact and complete.

I just quit the job.

That is stealing. God hates it

daviesmania:
Good evening people!
There's this babe I've been seeing in the last eight months. She's so pretty, romantic and above all she's so silly satisfying on bed. But the only problem is that she throws up immediately after sex and this is so annoying. We've tried every strategy to stop it but is not working.
We're thinking of visiting the hospital but I believe I can also get some help here.
The unfortunate thing is that if this doesn't stop, then I might have to walk. Please help us if u can.... But my real question here is, Is this like an illness?

Which help?
Sleeping with a lady you are not married to. Is fornication.

Politicians and their sweet mouth. Shior!

Anyone who says that is a devil incarnate

This guy just dey eat all around...haba

Maybe he diversified the economy in Senate president's dream

Tell that to the gods. Funny and greedy dude.

BnQoyyim:
Believe you me, I will analyze for you without any prejudice. All you need to do is just to answer the following questions.

Who instigated world war I and II?
Who detonated the twin blast in Hiroshima and Nagasaki?
Who killed millions of Jews in the holocaust?
Who killed millions of Aborigines in India?

Guy, stop worshipping the son of man called Jesus.
Jesus does all what man does.
Your bibles even derogatorily said that he died with two thieves, what a useless way of the death of the so-called god.
On request, I can give you a thousand fallacies and errors in your bibles.

Keep on with your analysis and digging facts around looking for loopholes on the Bible. The real fact is simple. Jesus Christ is the prince of peace all other peace are counterfeit.

Go to the northern part of Nigeria and see what boko Haram are doing there. Are bokoharam Christians?
Have u asked yourself this question, why is Muslim and violence like Siamese twins?
Better embrace Jesus Christ cos is the way and true peace emanates from Him. Peace!

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

Pls moderators help push this to front page for more views and replies.

You are playing with fire!
See yourself, in love with a married woman? Is that love or lust?
Better go for deliverance cos the spirit of lust has occupied your mind.
Such an absurdity!
Give your life to Jesus Christ bro and don't let lust finish your destiny. Jesus loves you.

[quote author=BnQoyyim post=104854845][/quote]Just quoting out of context..shior

Have you seen any nation in the world where Christians are causing havoc and chia's under than Muslims? Leave the Bible verses u quoted alone and think for yourself that the your so called religion (Muslim) is not a religion of peace rather than throwing tantrums.

Better give your life to Jesus Christ and renounce this your religion enmeshed with violence all the time. Jesus remains the way truth and life

Doraty1:
https://www.thecable.ng/masari-i-have-no-joy-governing-katsina-the-insecurity-is-alarming

Why not resign.
You are there collecting security vote oo

sojiboy:
PRIVATE CEMETERY: BURY YOUR HEAD IN SHAME, EKITI APC TELLS PDP



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=5109119752438764&id=100000223680706

As we talk now , Medical doctors are on strike in Ekiti State. Shame on APC

Metrix147:
Source: https://abntv.com.ng/2021/07/my-menstrual-flow-gushed-out-as-he-had-his-way-gradually-dying-while-he-strangled-me-abia-rape-victim-narrates/

The lady is greedy.

Mokason288:
I was expecting him to disappear

Shows he is not a coward . Only a coward will do that.

MrBrownJay1:
put free wifi and free internet in libraries (with special clause to use it) and see how Nigerian youth will suddenly get interest again...lol!

with the advance in technology (mobile phone/computer/internet), the majority dont need to go into a library any longer.....so just like video rental, Library biz is outdated.

I differ on your submission
The advancement in technology has not in any way diminish the role of the library. is unfortunate government attitude to establishment and maintenance of libraries across the nation is poor. Go to developed countries in the world you will know library is not outdated. Library remains the intellectual memory of any society

MrMacinterchi1:
Same way I'm not surprised with your response. Righteous and Justice is what is required. The holy Spirit can fall on anyone or use anyone so far they are cleared in righteous and Justice - Peter was a witness to that.

The point is this:
Someone who claimed that he believes in Jesus but not righteous and fair in their dealings with others is only but deceiving themselves.

You can present your Christian message to others without sounding Fanatical.

Nobody is sounding fanatical
Truth is a bitter pill to swallow
Jesus is the way, truth and life

Seems Bubu is disconnected from the citizenry. People are ' over disappointed' already.
Electing him was a monumental mistake. I just hope we don't make the mistake of electing his kind in 2023.

#The phase will surely pass#

MrMacinterchi1:
You are one of the problem this guy you quoted is talking about. Try to be tolerant. It will do you a lot of good.

Am not surprised about your post
The truth is Jesus is the way, truth and life.

habymi:
To whom cares to read

Allow people practice their religion. We are all still unsure who the unbeliever is. A Muslim thinks a Christian is an unbeliever, a Christain thinks a Muslim is an unbeliever, the oga kpatakpata of them all is the traditionalist. A traditionalist believes both Christians and Muslims are going to hell even though a traditionalist doesn't necessarily believe in hell

Sometimes, put religion aside and practice pure and unconditional love. Love is all we need

Do we really have true love?
The true love I know is in Christ Jesus and you can practice true love when you are in Christ Jesus.
Jesus Christ is the way truth and life . Accept Him cos tommorow maybe too late.

Joh 3:18 He that believeth on him (Jesus Christ) is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

Lies! It shows the president is disconnected from the masses.

Roman7:
He attends four square. And he is a deacon

Thanks for the info

Femi Adeshina should take not cos I heard he is a Pastor in Deeper Life Church