@OP, I must sincerely applaud you for being wise and strong enough not to allow the act to extend into sex.

However, you kissed her.

FLEE fornication.. I'm certain deep within you, you had the feeling from the moment the lady asked you to change hotels to hers that something was up. At the point where she came into your room, I'm also sure you knew within you that she had a plan.

I dare not blame you for kissing her, after all she came on you and many men would have had sex without her, however I strongly believe that you could have avoided this situation from the beginning by not putting yourself in the position where she could force a kiss on you. Play the scenes again in your mind beginning from the conversation in the bus, I'm sure you'll see how you could have avoided this all together if you are honest with yourself.

I think you should tell your wife the whole truth. It will unburden you, and put a 'leash' on you.

You are a great and faithful man.. I pray God continues to bless you and your wife.

celeb4reallife:
I think the problem is that most men don't really know what they need. They're too consious of the fact that many said ladies are after money.

funny... but you can't blame men... cos indeed dating a lady will cost him so much money. The tendency to load the said boyfriend with all of her life's problems is always there... so why won't a guy be conscious ?

ubunja:
that's how girls move. That's the best you'll get. Girls choose you. You respond.

When they form it's because your opening lines disappointed. She thought you were Alpha and you openned like a Simp.

Depends on the lady... A sex material or wife material. I don't have to always be the best actor with the best line, perfect hairstyle, everyday, every time.. I'm going to rather be myself, and if she's mine, she'll respect and appreciate that.

ubunja:
lmfao.
It's everywhere. It's just that guys don't go for the girls who really love them but force themselves on girls that never really love them. When a girl loves you she puts effort. She never sits on her hands.
It's sad but most guys will die never knowing the love of a girl that is pure and self-generated.

you've said the truth.
coming from my past relationships till my current one, I've seen that when a woman loves her guy, all the talk of alpha or beta male won't exist. she will bring 'herself' into the relationship, and as the guy you'll know it's not just you doing all the work.


Anyway, I know now that there's a difference between how you treat ladies who are only sex materials and how you treat ladies who are wife materials.

AntiBrutus:


Well, the young man told you the truth, you should appreciate that. When he looks at you, he doesn't feel that rush. He doesn't struggle to suppress erèctions.


You might appeal to a man's eyes, his intellect, but not his loins. I don't know which is more important to them, but somehow they always tilt to the one who has all or the later.

so much sense...

Nigg3369:

Infinix note 5 battery is 4000mah same as s4 and you seem to not have read my comment s4 is 6gb ram higher processor and higher mega pixels and and a higher screen resolution and it has the current Android version 9.0 while note 5 uses 8.0 even the body of the phone is better

Dude, please don't talk about what you aren't sure of..
Infinix note 5 has a more powerful processor MTK P23 against P22. It runs on stock android with android one support, so regular updates are coming. You can always pay more to get more ram and storage. So all-round, its a much better phone than the S4.

Savage29:
Was robbed on Tuesday, so I need an android phone... I'm sceptical about buying an infinix S4 or note5. Please house which is better?

my honest view in order of function and money for value

1. Xaiomi note 7

2. Infinix note 5

3. Infinix S4

Go for the xaiomi note 7, and if you can't get that, then the infinix note 5

Until we understand that bringing up a children in stable homes is important to the growth of a society, until we understand family values and respect for fellow humans........

realmindz:


Can't you just pray for Boko Haram to end?
And why must one even pray to God to help stop Boko haram
Why must you pray to God to give you journey mercies..? If you have the power to stop accidents on the road, I'm sure u won't wait for your son to beg you before u help him stop an accident. You will do it either he prays to you or not...

So prayer is useless, the world works with facts and logic... If an atheist, Muslim, ogun worshipper, Buddhist etc jump from a storey building, they will all obey the law of gravity irrespective of their beliefs... That's how the world works.

God did not create puppets nor did He create dummies. If someone has decided to pick up arms to kill others, how's that Gods fault? If someone has decides to speed beyond limits and looses control and crashes, you come to blame God? If we were puppets without thinking faculties and without a sense for wrong or right, then that would have been a different discussion, cos then our decisions will not be within our control.

So everyone who DECIDES to follow Christ, Obey His words and obey and laws of the country, will of course suffer some degree of persecution from those who have refused to obey Christ. It's expected, and it doesn't mean God doesn't exist, nor does it mean God is silent about their condition. On the contrary, He's a merciful, hoping that those who go against Him will look at the examples of His children they have persecuted and perhaps turn a new leaf and be saved.

So you know, it's a beautiful thing for a child of God to die, cos eternal rest, where the troubles of earth cease to be awaits such one.. and that's the hope of all Christians. ETERNAL REST ON HEAVEN.

realmindz:


And people are over there shouting thank you Jesus... The same Jesus that gave no Fucck about the others perishing.
One irony of life is that, same people shouting thank you Jesus today, Jesus won't save them in times of tragedy and some other lucky people will see their situation and shout thank you Jesus too.

Jesus saves. He has been saving people from destruction right from the days He began His ministry, and even until today.. He saves people from SIN and HELL. Cos the troubles of this earth are nothing compared to the glory of heaven. If only everyone on earth accepts Him, then peace will reign and suffering, starvation etc caused by unrest will cease.. Until then, the Saints in war torn areas will keep having hope that God will one day deliver them, and if they leave the earth before that day comes, then they have a glorious place in Heaven where they will have eternal rest.

And that is the hope of all Christians. ETERNAL REST.

Start doing WATER FASTS .. Visit YouTube to learn more.. You'll thank me later

NwaAmaikpe:


May this union be blessed of the Lord.

Unfortunately, that prayer CANNOT be answered

madone:
No good girl no good guys all we have now are fvck mates.. ...i have stopped loving now it's a problem for me coz its has become part of me to fvck them and let them go. Mind you I used to be a good man. I still want to be one but it's hard

Remain tin ti ni, for me to also give up and turn crazy... But thank God I didn't cross that line...

I hope you'll become a good man once again o.. Before you "let go" of your wife to be due to this problem..

Queenrabella:

A man who makes a honest living. Has good morals and values and understands how to love and appreciate a good woman.

Sis, they abound aplenty... In your church, on your street, at your work place, etc.. Unless you've been looking in the wrong places, or what you want doesn't correlate with your actions.

My advice is ready the book:
Rules of the game by Neil Strauss
Follow the rules and guidelines closely.. You'd be glad you did