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dayokanu: The woman trespassed which is a misdemeanor. A fine and restraining order at the maximum,

A man beat a woman causing her serious bodily harm, Thats assault, battery with the intention to kill and possibly attempted murder.

He is looking at 5-10yrs

honeric01: I think that family is screwed up, if a younger bro can beat an elder sister, then that family is SCREWED all over.

maasoap: If this man doesn't go to jail, it is because they are all family members. You assault a woman publicly, physical assault for that! There was no even physical contact between the two women. To the men out there, if you have to beat up another woman because of your wife, let it be a woman from your family; Otherwise, you might have to spend few months behind bars. Do you people even know what is likely to happen if you foolishly assault a military or high ranking police officer's wife?

coogar: i pledged an allegiance to provide and protect my wife till my pulse stops on the church's altar and no irresponsible sister of mine would threaten/insult/harass my wife while i sit back. what kind of man would i be then? some violence are very very necessary and this man is within his rights to put down any individual invading his territory.

Idowuogbo: ^And she shows up to spoil everything.

Sweetlemon: The "bed guy" I have been talking about here has invited me to spend a weekend at his family house (with his folks)
Lord!
I'm so excited!
And I'm so scared! One minute I'm on top of the world, the next my tommy churns.
What if they are snobs? What if I do or say the wrong things?
What kind of clothes should I even take along with me?
Oh well, at the end I guess I'll just have to settle for being confident in myself.

Sweetlemon: Ok. This is how it all went.
I arrived there Friday evening. Was welcomed by grandparents, parents, and siblings with smiling faces but questions dancing in their eyes.
Dinner was served and everyone from grandpa to the last born had questions for me. E remain small I for piss for pant. I answered the questions truthfully and to the best of my knowledge.
By Saturday, his sisters were complimenting my fashion sense and asking for tips!
Had a woman-woman talk with grandma and mama. They said they were relieved they could see that I loved their boy (thanks to those who advised me to show my feelings for him) then had some other private discussions.
Spent the rest of the evening on a couch with him till 2am then we went to our separate bedrooms. (whatever you guys are thinking we did, remove sex from ya minds! But I don’t know how much longer I will keep saying that o!)
Went with the family to church Sunday morning. Then grandma and mama asked me to prepare Afang soup to add to the dishes for the family reunion that evening. Then his cousins, aunties, and uncles started trooping in……….and so did my sister, brother and cousins! Before I knew what was happening, he held my hands and in the presence of all, with the most beautiful piece of jewelry I have ever seen, explained why he wanted to settle with me and asked if he could buy the bed from my dad. I could only nod my head, just regained my speech this morning.
Our parents should be negotiating on the price of the bed and when the bed can be bought soon.

Sweetlemon: To all my ladies out there, you can get even better if you do these;
1. Develop yourself: The gospel truth is that the kind of person you are determines the kind of men you attract. If you want to attract correct guys, make yourself appealing to them by doing the ff;
A. acquire some measure of independence. This cannot be over-emphasized. Even if you don't have a job yet, look for small business to do. Any decent business at all.
B. Don't ever ask him for stuffs. If he's the caring type, he will spend on you on his own. Give him like 4 months to start get comfortable enough to start giving you stuff. If he doesn't, watch him closer for signs of stinginess. If he is, then I think you will be better off without him.
C. Work on your self esteem. My dear sisters, a woman without self esteem is as good as dead. Trust me. Don't ever throw yourself at a man till you are sure he's willing to catch you. Love youself.
D. Work on your inter-personal skills. Learn how to relate with people. Learn social etiquettes and graces.
E. Be true to youself. Most correct guys can see right through pretence. If you are angry, show it, if you are sad, show it, if your are hungry, show it, e.t.c the key is just to know how to express yourself in a respectable way. Most ladies really need to get rid of pretence. The reason why most guys date their gfs for 2-3 yrs before proposing is because they ve not seen much of her true self. So they need more time to figure out if they can marry her or not. Showing your true xter (and being consistent) hastens their decision. (I v known my fiance for only 5 months)
F. Be natural. Let him see you sometimes without make-up, artificial nails, hair (even if you think you are not pretty without them) the importance of this is to make him appreciate you the way you are. A man feels more comfy with a woman who is not afraid of showing her true self/looks. It makes him feel safe enough to open up to you.

2. Get a life!:
A. Go out, enjoy yourselves, meet people, all kinds of people.
B. Find a hobby, go gyming, anything relaxing and soothing.
C. If you are student, study hard and make sure you get good grades. If you are a graduate, get a job or start a business. Even if it's only 5K you have, you can do something with it.
D. Be proud. Of your accomplishments.

3. Take good care of yourself!!!!!
Men will forever be physical beings. First impressions will always count and your looks will give it a big boost.
Every woman has something beautiful about her, it could be her eyes, lips, skin, shape, legs, whatever God has blessed you with. look for yours and exploit it to the fullest with the right clothes, hair styles, and make up shades to compliment them.
WATCH YOUR WAIST LINE!

Pls note that these tips should be applied even after you are married. Else you'll have yourself to blame when he starts getting bored.
Cheers!

mascot87: BABE come nao

coogar: except you are prince - there's something very wrong with the last game. prince is not a professor of english - how can he generate such score within 2 mins? haba! even ogugua88 that is wole soyinka's niece cannot muster such effort......i say lets investigate prince....

DAvIt0: I try small

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Droid phone. That's what it looks like anyway. Plus he took pictures before the other players were finished.[/size]

mascot87: I've got 3 boss I must confess ow11,maleeq & febsledge
while aringarosa, easymo, malcolmeter & probably BABE, xenophobia are mine hahaha

mascot87: I've got 3 boss I must confess ow11,maleeq & febsledge
while aringarosa, easymo, malcolmeter & probably BABE, xenophobia are mine hahaha