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Kamsified: married!!! |
Abeg is there a water leaf/ugu chopping machine. And where can I get it. Also I need advice on brand of washing machine o!....Please help a sister out |
Ok this calls for action There is a probability that the prices will increase after GEJ wins the election, so am thinking can I buy bags of cement and store it or should I mould blocks and keep till am ready to build house. Will the blocks break before 2 years? Abeg anybody who knows should help me answer. |
cococandy Please can you get back to the discussion. Your comments are quite interesting to read. |
Syncan:Let the news casters say news and bring people up to speed. ![]() Seriously this verse is very useful, sometimes we spend our energy trying to be like others forgetting that we can make an impact in our own way. Sometimes I wish I could type and talk with the eloquence of some peeps on this thread but I have realized it isn't my talent nor my calling nor my gift. People like me stay in the background fanning the warriors and providing them lucozade boost!!! |
Syncan: ![]() |
For those who have washing machines, can you recommend the brand you are using. Am kinda confused on which to buy |
Mzflexydeeva:syncan and salc are married to each other but they keep denying it because salc wants to keep sowing her wild oats. striklymi drives like idiot no 1 Kamsified and rich4god are hugging non Christian hug Italo is seeing visions in church Ubenedictus wants to be anonymous but doesn't mind putting his picture up as dp. He is alao dodging answering how many kids strik shld have I have greedy prayer points what did I forget |
Excellent topic OP. Am always fighting my sister on her behaviour to my nephew's teachers. Spare the rod, spoil the child |
Sorry about this. Give people an inch and they take a mile. My SIL is very helpful to me and I barely manage not to take advantage of her. To remedy this depends on her character and your husband's. If she is the troublesome type you may have to tell your husband and get him to agree with your view, so that when you tell her to go with her clothes, she won't make to much fuss. I guess they see you as the stay at home mother who is not doing anything, please try and do away with this idea. Or ask for a maid or nanny or washer man. The SIL can pay for it as a means of appreciation Best of luck |
I speak only for myself |
hispinkolo:I disagree with you. I don't know about you but not all cross gender friendships result in sleeping together or cheating. That is why guys complain about the friend zone. I work in a male dominated office sha so am very comfortable with them. You have no other choice than to be friendly with them and in the process you discover that you guys share things in common, but those that mean you will start dating them...of course not. Just that you get to know them better. When we go for lunch we all sit and eat and sometimes the gist get personal...some are married, some are not. My future hubby will be allowed to have female friends. If he chooses to be all mushy with them, that is his business. Since I plan to marry someone who is my friend, I won't be bothered by that |
cutiesoglam:You miss the point. The woman isn't saying anything because she knows it is not an emotional relationship. Because she understands her husband and how he behaves. The 2 of them are friends and when he told her, she understood it wasn't something to worry about. If you marry a man you understand and trust, such situations will not bother you because you know your spouse. If your husband/wife is the type that is free with the opposite gender as per gisting and stuff, he will continue to be so after the wedding. it will reduce but not totally go away will you then start jumping to conclusions everytime you see him exchange jokes with a lady...na high blood pressue be that I also don't understand what you mean by have fun with me. Enjoying the same activities does not mean we have going there together or that we spend time together. |
Olorimadam first off your husband is not cheating. At least not yet. If he were cheating. You wouldn't know because he would hide it totally. You won't even know when he is texting her. Don't waste your energy over a friendship that may soon die off. Rather channel it to building a friendship and relationship with your husband. |
carefreewannabe:True talk. |
Syncan:Settle ke! I have declared war on all those hiding their marital status and trying to deceive us ![]() Just waiting for October to end. |
kandiikane:Never fear, am not the kind of gal who does married men plus the married man in question is not the type to cheat (yes there are men like that out there). But your point is very valid and noted. |
Seun , Freiburger, r231 Please close this thread and ban the OP. If care is not taken this thread will spew a series of copycats until the point we can't differentiate truth from falsehood. suicide is not a joke and we have a lot of impressionable people on nairaland. There should be a line of morality that should not be crossed. Apparently there are people on NL who can reach him so he is alive Let this falsehood die |
He may not be cheating (yet) Sometimes it is possible for opposite sexes to form close bonds, that may seem like cheating. what kind of guy is he? Are you guys so close that you talk about everything? That maybe what he has with the other lady. A close friendship I have a married male colleague who am close to. We go for mass together, enjoy the same activities, laugh at the same jokes, talk about everything. One day I asked him if his wife knew I existed and he said no, apparently he was pulling the same kind of moves your hubby did. eventually he did and the wife confessed that she had heard about me from other people and she didn't say anything because she kinda trusted her husband. madam and I are cool now not friends but we are cool. For your peace of mind, don't start suspecting or reading meanings into his actions as that is a recipe for high blood pressure, rather work on becoming friends and realize that people will always have secrets, even toddlers have secrets not to talk of adults whose past we cannot verify. Of course this is just me presenting a different angle to the story |
After service I had to option of staying in PHC with my siblings or going to lagos. I moved to Lagos as per job hunt things and my aunty was shocked when I told her that i wasn't going to stay with her...lol..Fortunately I had saved up enough to get a room in one of those private hostels around Unilag area. Fortunately i got a job doing sim card/phoneline registration for Starcomms while I did my job hunt. It may not be the same context as the topic as my aunt is not my parent but so peeps would feel that since I had an aunt I should have stayed with her as she is my closest parent figure around. But while in the hostel I noticed that there were a lot of different versions of hostels/apartments offering accommodations like that to ladies. Consider it a face me i face you for only ladies, and most of these ladies had their parents living in Lagos as well. Part of the reason could be that most naija parents are "control freaks" (not meant derogatively). They actually do not know when to start treating their kids as adults and giving them adult space and usually they are more controlling of the females (for good reason). Based on my experience, I would say move out when you are financially capable of maintaining your own accomodation (or get a roomate). but if you are moving to another city, you may need to get used to the idea fast |
God bless us all |
titoetal:By The Work I mean Opus Dei. Ok cool |
striktlymi:Thank God for your life...But how did it end? The trailer stopped or you moved faster? |
titoetal:Thanks sir You remind me of my reluctant in-law Syncan.....Are you a memeber of The Work by any chance |
SalC:My PRAYER INTENTIONS are as follows 1) i want to take over the world and be so great that people will hang a picture of me in the stars and tell their children " I want you to grow up and be like babestell" 2) 99% of the wisdom of Solomon 3) Forgiveness of sins 4) I want to have a hot shape and be so beautiful, people will ........... 5) Healing spiritual, physical, financial and mental 6) Is it okay to pray openly for a very wealthy, catholic spouse who will worship the ground i walk on I showed my friend my prayer points and she said its very selfish. but hey today is my day....Am allowed to be selfish!! |
italo:This is so romantic. Am blushing here |
italo: italo:Sweetie Awwwwwwwww.....big hugs https://www.nairaland.com/916588/typical-bride-price-list-some#10615697 So that this doesn't become story for the gods...peruse that link and contact me offline for directions to my father's house. |
Emmmmm Kamsified help me!!!! |



