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Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 4:52pm On Nov 04, 2014
Rich4god:
lol... Kamsified... Tot u said u invited all ur friends...
Am not her friend!! shocked shocked shocked
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 4:30pm On Nov 04, 2014
Kamsified:
Bia Babestell When did a hug between a married couple become non christian huh
shocked shocked shocked
married!!!
cry cry I didn't get invite to the wedding cry
FamilyRe: Does Being A " Good African Wife"= Suffering? by babestell(f): 1:13pm On Nov 04, 2014
Abeg is there a water leaf/ugu chopping machine. And where can I get it.

Also I need advice on brand of washing machine o!....Please help a sister out
PoliticsRe: Negative Effects Of Dangote Cement Price's Reduction by babestell(f): 1:09pm On Nov 04, 2014
Ok this calls for action

There is a probability that the prices will increase after GEJ wins the election, so am thinking can I buy bags of cement and store it or should I mould blocks and keep till am ready to build house. Will the blocks break before 2 years?

Abeg anybody who knows should help me answer.
FamilyRe: Does Being A " Good African Wife"= Suffering? by babestell(f): 9:37am On Nov 04, 2014
cococandy

Please can you get back to the discussion. Your comments are quite interesting to read.
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 7:25am On Nov 04, 2014
Syncan:
If you knew how many people you sent to Ubenedictus profile....
Oops!!!

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 7:24am On Nov 04, 2014
Syncan:
If your gift is prophecy, then use it as your faith suggests; if administration, then use it for administration; if teaching, then use it for teaching. Let the preachers deliver sermons, the almsgivers give freely, the officials be diligent, and those who do works of mercy do them cheerfully.
Let the news casters say news and bring people up to speed. grin grin grin grin

Seriously this verse is very useful, sometimes we spend our energy trying to be like others forgetting that we can make an impact in our own way. Sometimes I wish I could type and talk with the eloquence of some peeps on this thread but I have realized it isn't my talent nor my calling nor my gift. People like me stay in the background fanning the warriors and providing them lucozade boost!!!
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 7:19am On Nov 04, 2014
Syncan:
Lol, cheesy cheesy cheesy. O no n'ulo mara ihe zuru n'ahia. Fake news carrier.
angry
FamilyRe: Does Being A " Good African Wife"= Suffering? by babestell(f): 11:29pm On Nov 03, 2014
For those who have washing machines, can you recommend the brand you are using.

Am kinda confused on which to buy
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 5:49pm On Nov 03, 2014
Mzflexydeeva:
I promise ooo! Will just be a bit off during d day cos of work and also cos my office lacks network but on d average i'm giving up my. Vanishing talent grin so wat did I miss?
syncan and salc are married to each other but they keep denying it because salc wants to keep sowing her wild oats.

striklymi drives like idiot no 1
Kamsified and rich4god are hugging non Christian hug
Italo is seeing visions in church
Ubenedictus wants to be anonymous but doesn't mind putting his picture up as dp. He is alao dodging answering how many kids strik shld have
I have greedy prayer points


what did I forget
FamilyRe: New Couples And How They Destroy Their Kids. by babestell(f): 4:18pm On Nov 02, 2014
Excellent topic OP. Am always fighting my sister on her behaviour to my nephew's teachers.

Spare the rod, spoil the child
FamilyRe: Can I Complain? by babestell(f): 3:56pm On Nov 02, 2014
Sorry about this. Give people an inch and they take a mile. My SIL is very helpful to me and I barely manage not to take advantage of her.

To remedy this depends on her character and your husband's. If she is the troublesome type you may have to tell your husband and get him to agree with your view, so that when you tell her to go with her clothes, she won't make to much fuss. I guess they see you as the stay at home mother who is not doing anything, please try and do away with this idea.

Or ask for a maid or nanny or washer man. The SIL can pay for it as a means of appreciation
Best of luck
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 9:06am On Oct 31, 2014
I speak only for myself
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 6:09pm On Oct 30, 2014
hispinkolo:
babestell,
Pardon me for addressing you and leaving the Op.
I disagree with you. I don't know about you but not all cross gender friendships result in sleeping together or cheating. That is why guys complain about the friend zone.

I work in a male dominated office sha so am very comfortable with them. You have no other choice than to be friendly with them and in the process you discover that you guys share things in common, but those that mean you will start dating them...of course not. Just that you get to know them better. When we go for lunch we all sit and eat and sometimes the gist get personal...some are married, some are not.

My future hubby will be allowed to have female friends. If he chooses to be all mushy with them, that is his business. Since I plan to marry someone who is my friend, I won't be bothered by that
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 3:57pm On Oct 30, 2014
cutiesoglam:
U r in a emotional relationship. Leave d married man to. V fun wit his wife not u. Use d tym wit spend it anoda oman's husband to build ur relationship. In case u don't knw ,dman might v feelins 4 u. D fact dt d woman is not talkin doesn't mean she is ok wit it.
You miss the point. The woman isn't saying anything because she knows it is not an emotional relationship. Because she understands her husband and how he behaves. The 2 of them are friends and when he told her, she understood it wasn't something to worry about. If you marry a man you understand and trust, such situations will not bother you because you know your spouse. If your husband/wife is the type that is free with the opposite gender as per gisting and stuff, he will continue to be so after the wedding. it will reduce but not totally go away will you then start jumping to conclusions everytime you see him exchange jokes with a lady...na high blood pressue be that

I also don't understand what you mean by have fun with me. Enjoying the same activities does not mean we have going there together or that we spend time together.
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 7:22pm On Oct 29, 2014
Olorimadam

first off your husband is not cheating. At least not yet. If he were cheating. You wouldn't know because he would hide it totally. You won't even know when he is texting her.

Don't waste your energy over a friendship that may soon die off. Rather channel it to building a friendship and relationship with your husband.
FamilyRe: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by babestell(f): 7:08pm On Oct 29, 2014
carefreewannabe:
Ladies, it is your choice.

Don't listen to men who are unable to clean up the mess in their male dominated, run down, hopeless, backward country but will lament over the issues foreign countries, that do WAAAAAY better, face or actually do not even face.

Don't listen to them. Their way of thinking and dominance has caused enough harm.
True talk.
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 3:46pm On Oct 29, 2014
Syncan:
Yes ooo, we are connected in more ways than one. Reluctant in-law huh, Chai...I thought we don settle tongue
Settle ke!

I have declared war on all those hiding their marital status and trying to deceive us grin grin

Just waiting for October to end.
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:
hmmmmmmmmmmm! Madam cut the time you spend with the married man. You might not have any ill thoughts but if things come sour between him and wife na you go become the rebound bytch he go dey take phuck. Na so e dey begin, "we are really good friends but he didn't tell his wife about me. The wife and I, she knows now, we cool."
Never fear, am not the kind of gal who does married men plus the married man in question is not the type to cheat (yes there are men like that out there). But your point is very valid and noted.
HealthRe: My Last Days. Death, Funeral, Pains, Xraying the Life Of A Ymodulus, A Psycho by babestell(f): 1:53pm On Oct 29, 2014
Seun , Freiburger, r231

Please close this thread and ban the OP. If care is not taken this thread will spew a series of copycats until the point we can't differentiate truth from falsehood. suicide is not a joke and we have a lot of impressionable people on nairaland. There should be a line of morality that should not be crossed. Apparently there are people on NL who can reach him so he is alive

Let this falsehood die
FamilyRe: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 11:30am On Oct 29, 2014
He may not be cheating (yet)

Sometimes it is possible for opposite sexes to form close bonds, that may seem like cheating. what kind of guy is he? Are you guys so close that you talk about everything? That maybe what he has with the other lady. A close friendship

I have a married male colleague who am close to. We go for mass together, enjoy the same activities, laugh at the same jokes, talk about everything. One day I asked him if his wife knew I existed and he said no, apparently he was pulling the same kind of moves your hubby did. eventually he did and the wife confessed that she had heard about me from other people and she didn't say anything because she kinda trusted her husband. madam and I are cool now not friends but we are cool.

For your peace of mind, don't start suspecting or reading meanings into his actions as that is a recipe for high blood pressure, rather work on becoming friends and realize that people will always have secrets, even toddlers have secrets not to talk of adults whose past we cannot verify. Of course this is just me presenting a different angle to the story
FamilyRe: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by babestell(f): 11:11am On Oct 29, 2014
After service I had to option of staying in PHC with my siblings or going to lagos. I moved to Lagos as per job hunt things and my aunty was shocked when I told her that i wasn't going to stay with her...lol..Fortunately I had saved up enough to get a room in one of those private hostels around Unilag area. Fortunately i got a job doing sim card/phoneline registration for Starcomms while I did my job hunt.

It may not be the same context as the topic as my aunt is not my parent but so peeps would feel that since I had an aunt I should have stayed with her as she is my closest parent figure around.
But while in the hostel I noticed that there were a lot of different versions of hostels/apartments offering accommodations like that to ladies. Consider it a face me i face you for only ladies, and most of these ladies had their parents living in Lagos as well.

Part of the reason could be that most naija parents are "control freaks" (not meant derogatively). They actually do not know when to start treating their kids as adults and giving them adult space and usually they are more controlling of the females (for good reason).

Based on my experience, I would say move out when you are financially capable of maintaining your own accomodation (or get a roomate). but if you are moving to another city, you may need to get used to the idea fast
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 10:41am On Oct 29, 2014
God bless us all
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 5:49pm On Oct 28, 2014
titoetal:
Daalu kwa Nne.

If I said yes or no, then I have not given a true answer to your query cos I didn't catch The Work you meant.
However, it's best to say am not though you saw it displays.

Nodu nma Ada Igbo.
By The Work I mean Opus Dei.
Ok cool
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 3:10pm On Oct 28, 2014
striktlymi:
The fourth second, fifth second etc passed by and this first idi*t was very much alive and there was no accident. As the first idi*t approached the gate, the security guard said: "you are lucky".
Thank God for your life...But how did it end? The trailer stopped or you moved faster?
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 3:09pm On Oct 28, 2014
titoetal:
Dear, our Lord said ask! ask!! You do not receive because you've not asked in His name...

I place your petitions before the Tabernacle of the most high God and say, let His will be done in your life through Christ Jesus - Amen.
Rejoice and be glad child of God.
Thanks sir

You remind me of my reluctant in-law Syncan.....Are you a memeber of The Work by any chance
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 9:30am On Oct 28, 2014
SalC:
You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours. Ps 128:2
Today we are praying for babestell
May our prayers for you today find favour in the sight of God through Christ our Lord.
Good morning brethren and do have a favour filled day ahead smiley
My PRAYER INTENTIONS are as follows

1) i want to take over the world and be so great that people will hang a picture of me in the stars and tell their children " I want you to grow up and be like babestell"

2) 99% of the wisdom of Solomon

3) Forgiveness of sins

4) I want to have a hot shape and be so beautiful, people will ...........

5) Healing spiritual, physical, financial and mental

6) Is it okay to pray openly for a very wealthy, catholic spouse who will worship the ground i walk on

I showed my friend my prayer points and she said its very selfish. but hey today is my day....Am allowed to be selfish!!
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 5:08pm On Oct 27, 2014
italo:
I think I have this regret that she was there in my parish all the time and we weren't really friends...just acquaintances, then I got meet an amazing Catholic girl on nairaland, who now lives in PH, only to find out, she had been next to me for years.

Forgive me...I tend to be very soft...in certain matters.
This is so romantic. Am blushing here
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 4:10pm On Oct 27, 2014
italo:
Babestell, don't mind all these story mongers.

Something happened on Youth Harvest day, two Sundays ago.

I spotted someone in ACSHL polo shirt with "babestell" at the back. You need to see how my eyes lit up and my heart beat faster.

All I thought about was to walk up to you, tap you from behind, shine my 32 teeth and spend a good number of seconds in your warm embrace (and you know you've got what can make a brother wanna rest in that hug)....

Then I walked closer, only to find that it wasn't you wearing the shirt.

Why did you play that trick on me? angry

*all of una wey spread mat...make una dey observe siesta go o.
italo:
Please oh. You people should not read more meaning than necessary into all I said.
Don't we all have people that we have tremendous affection for...who may or may not be a 'lover' or spouse?
I think many people are just scared to use words that make us feel weak for someone else.
Sweetie
Awwwwwwwww.....big hugs

https://www.nairaland.com/916588/typical-bride-price-list-some#10615697

So that this doesn't become story for the gods...peruse that link and contact me offline for directions to my father's house.
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 4:02pm On Oct 27, 2014
Emmmmm
Kamsified help me!!!!
Christianity EtcRe: A Thread For Catholics by babestell(f): 10:42am On Oct 27, 2014
Ubenedictus:
*cough* *couggh*
Sorry
Please take a sip of the Lourdes water I am hoarding grin

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