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[quote author=BloomingDale post=128064555]No, we really don’t need each other. [/quote

Adam would have been better of without eve then
because your gender brought pain and suffering to the would, so I concor with what u said.

BloomingDale:
Men are the ones that are scared of growing old lonely, hence they project their fear on women. Check all the researches that has pbeen done.

both gender needs eachother that's the fact but na you go gas pick your own poison.

whatsoever you pick pls don't complain later... note know body I repeat know body can change anybody because the person your trying to change is grown and programed in a certain way.

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

my sister check yourself and swear that you yourself no get your own for body.

celebrity don talk now una muscle 💪 don stand.

if u feel your better off without a man aunty dey your dey and grow old lonely, because someone said this and that so u feel is like that every where because one yeyebrity say so.

old age should be respected and not an excuse to become a nuisance.

in his own time he did worst and promised to make Abacha regime ungovernable, high jacked several radio stations, organised lots and lots of protest but now every youth has suddenly become baboon and monkey 🙊.

useless youths will still support this without reason.

Oga why u dey show us your hustle
why not stay back home if u think the hustle over there is stressful and doesn't pay better.

Oga u went there to work so WORK make we hear word abeg.

BBC facts holds know water since the said man of God is know more, since they knew he can't defend himself why bring it up now, why not when he was alive.

thesame BBC that came out to say the election was free and fear because of their own stupid selfish interest.

abeg make them go rest useless News station.

Looks alot like Tombrown.

MY GOD, PLS WHO ELECTED THIS MAN BIKO.

this country is blessed but coursed with useless leaders and childish elders.

just imagine.

ImoleNaija:
Thanks for the words of wisdom.

Can you recommend such books to me? I have belief that Holy spirit could comfort me.

not really books pasay but few articles here and there.
try using Google you will come across alot of it.

the best encouragement u can ever get is the one you give yourself, I was in this situation sometime ago but with all the pity and encouragement from every corner omo non worked but the moment I said to myself enough is enough that was when i asked Holy spirit to take control.

I red books online on how to get out of depression through holy spirit, omo can u believe it that the first day I started reading this books online that was the end of depression.

know this and know peace.

him no trust him juju
that means his customers ain't safe.

I laugh 😂 in Spanish and Zimbabwean Language...

pls don't blame anyone for what number they pick
they only did that base on the kind of Oga they have presently.

na u no why u pick watin u pick so enjoy your pick.

distraction tactics.

been a widower and a single parent is not a joke, stressful, depressing and sometimes frustrating this year has been very challenging' but I did alot I never new I could do or achieve which am grateful to God for.

my kids are fine and healthy know reason to rush them to the hospital but not an easy journey at all, both financially, emotionally and physically.

All thanks to God and people who stood by me.

this is a family problem so not for public debate
I don't understand why he's bringing it up in public
if u want to run away from your family 👪 Oga run nah how una matter concern us abeg.

JealousCobra:
Her second chance to your house after the appeasing with he goat according to you might be your head she will decapitate with hammer. 🤔🤔😎

my brother she most sign affidavit
if any of my body part miss she most restore am.

as the husband after she's done breaking it I will send her packing and give a good strict rules to the parent that the only reason I can accept her back is when she buys that same flat screen mount it back on the wall then buy a good and well fed male he goat 🐐 to appease me then she will promise never to try it again and if she does it again she will be gone and gone for good right in presence if her own family.

The God's has spoken.

I pity the next generation of APC because they will be the once to pay for the sins of there fathers.

their names and actions are been noted, enjoy the moment while it last.

Magnoliaa:
Can yall even stop with this faux-gotcha you think you're having? Ki lo n se gbogbo yin?



So one man, JUST ONE MAN out of thousands that is doing housework to the point of turning his ONE wife off is now the reason why y'all are saying you can never satisfy women?


Meanwhile I can bring you countless of stories of women who appreciated their men putting in equal or greater amount of time into housework.


Infact, I said I didn't know what to comment because this is an EXCEPTION I've never come across before.

Men need no excuse before they're being insensitive lazy bodies to their partners, and guys never needed any justification for not satisfying their wives. The fact is a greater number of women DO appreciate their husbands being hands-on and taking care of household chores.


Instead of you people to focus on the individual case that this is, and to try to address how an 'overindulgence' in housework can lead to a loss of intimacy between couples, you're choosing to call women out. Like being "housework-holic" is no different from being a workaholic, and the former can easily affect relationships just as much as the latter.

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if u don't know this you better know now.

doing too much for a women or lady is bad.

be too caring they will complain that your soft
be too nice they will say that guy is too weak
help them with chores they will say your not a man
be good in bad they will say your a beast
be bad in bed they will f..k your friend
spend on them without control they will call you mugu
compliment them with sweet words they will run away from you that you most be a player.

the list is endless.

women are strange being
you can only kill yourself if you want to really satisfy them.

if he also walks away from mess like you do that means your home will be a dump site.

join him doing the chores if possible start waking up earlier than he does, let him know you've resumed your wifely duty.

am sure u know exactly what to do unless you just don't want too.

Entprys:
It is within their jurisdiction, hence, justified.

You must be solidly MAD, they are carrying out nonsense in the middle of the night in female hostel and you need is justified.

Firstly marriage Is not for everyone
if your truly the picky type trust me you might end up not getting anyone because I have aunt who's story is similar to yours now she's single without kids 55 plus yrs know one to call her own except we the cousins nephew and others.

If your looking for the perfect men look inward first, are you also the perfect woman for that man, someone you only met when he has grown to an adult you expect him to be perfect immediately u guys met in few months.

with all I red I noticed alot of red flag 🚩 in your attitude.

1, you lack communication skills
2, you don't listen before judging
3, you don't give room for explanation
4, pride is written all over you
5, your full of yourself
6, your also a cheat
7, your upbringing is not the issue but you are the problem
8, your looking for fault and not partner
9, your confused about what you truly want
10, you need some repair not the guys you met.

Slaveman343:
Many, the problem is do you like intelligent women? Because no be wetin guys dey look

yes intelligent 🧠 women ain't an easy catch but been around them is always interesting and never a dull moment.

Bro she doesn't have anything to say neither is anything wrong with her, the simple truth is when a woman puts up such attitude it means she found someone else and my advice is cut all contact with her, make her feel less important and move on to something more important and productive, even if she calls or chat you take time before responding better still don't even respond only then you will be valued.

the moment you keep calling and texting then you are heading for Doom trust me she will show you the other side of HELL FIRE.

wow I love this
wish you success
wish you greatness
wish you more ideas
wish you greater and more elevation.

please if you've got more ideas or advice for startup do well to share.

how many women can comfortably carrier an intelligent conversation for only 20mins.

this is the dumbest have ever heard or seen
how can you be sending an undercover agent to somewhere and your announcing it.

Chai.

this country is something else.

I can't laugh abeg.

pachigo001:
she get frustrated sometimes and she will ask me why I don’t get upset and I will smile and ignore her

that's her weakness so use it wisely because the moment you fall for the scam that relationship is over...

pachigo001:
Hello nairaland my girlfriend will always ask me why I don’t get upset when she try to upset me because I always ignore her when she comes with her manipulation and it borders her.is her behavior a red flag

Bro trust me your doing a good job because the moment u give in to the manipulation that's the end of your peace of mind.

your attitude is actually why she keeps craving for u if you love yourself continue what your doing don't ever I mean don't ever give in.

have actually met a girl that told me exactly what you wrote.

omo i japa.