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Nigerians pretend to hate corruption and corrupt politicians, but in actual fact, what we hate is not being beneficiaries of it.

In sane climes, people hire bodyguards or private security outfits. But for here, na fully armed, fierce looking Police officers. Are they that jobless? Who assigned this level of national security to this guy and why? Is his life threatened? Is he holding any highly sensitive public office? This country sef! I like the guy though, but this show with police no necessary.

Starzo:
The only difference bw Trump and other politicians is that he says what he actually thinks
The others hide what to actually think with "political correctness"
Trumyis a straight shooter
I hate pretence

Its not about pretence, but being sensible and responsible. As a leader, you're also a role model, and you just don't say whatever you like. Imagine calling a fellow Head of State "lifeless", and the African continent a "shithole". Do you gasp the far reaching implication of a person as influential as POTUS making these and other reckless statements?

Stephenomozzy:
6. If you are very certain that you want to marry the person, do not tell them about any hurtful remark your parents made about your partner , whether in the past, present or future.


Your partner will likely never forget it and will treat them accordingly.. Later on

Very true. But for the 5 points op listed, I'd rather love to be in the know.

1. Size. I don't find 'non-slim' girls attractive.
2. Charisma. I love girls with high self esteem (thats irrespective of social, academic, financial or any other status).
3. If we are to take it to the next level, I look at compatibility. I try to see if we('ll) well complement each other. This is very important. I know my weaknesses and strengths, and we'll never go for someone weak in my areas of weakness.
4. Finally, I ask myself if I'll love to have kids that'll looks like her.

Justiceibeikenn:
Is it that you've not seen all the Democrats have done to Trump?..if you are the one you won't take it...Americans know this and that's why they are voting Trump... Democrats and the media have really done bad to him...they deserve no respect from him

Tell me one world leader that spews trash the way Trump does

Starzo:
And dimentia Biden is??

Is there anyone, gender, nation or race that Trump hasn't made a reckless, false and derogatory remark about? Yeah, I agree his economic and domestic policies are paying-off within, but the office of POTUS calls for one with a high sense of dignity, diplomacy and depth. But unfortunately, these qualities are nowhere to be found in Trump.

ignis:
This guy is not a full blooded Nigerian.
He looks too fresh to be a Nigerian.

That's simply because he is from Uyo, Akwa Ibom state.

Trump is definitely not the kind of president a nation as great as America deserves. I'm happy that this debate has further proved this. I personally dislike his choice of words. Presidents just shouldn't talk the way he does.

EmekaA125:
Change the We to I. Thanks

Is "I" the only pronoun vexed by this unwarranted killings?

I most times thank people whenever I successfully carryout ANY transactional act with them. Its not about necessity, but personal principle. Doing this wouldn't cheapen or derank anyone.

Zizer17:
Let her Tegretol 200cr (carbamazepin) every evening..and she will be fine

You shouldn't have done this. Did you carry out any diagnosis before offering this prescription? Do you know if the patient has any pre-existing medical condition(s) that might lead to serious complications on usage of your prescribed drug? OP, don't buy or use any drug until you've seen a medical doctor, preferably, a Neurologist.

NeoWanZaeed:
Seizure ain't same as epilepsy o

A seizure is a single occurrence. That is, the abnormal electrical discharge in the brain that results to the involuntary muscle twitching and/or other effects. While Epilepsy is a medical condition characterized by two or more seizures.

bluefilm:
Believe me, I tried so hard not to laugh after reading this your story.

Its not a laughing matter. Just thank God that you don't have a dear one that suffers from this condition.

Chef2000:
Please doctors in the house is there a cure for nocturnal epilepsy?

I have a pretty girl, we started dating 8 months ago, this girl is everything I need in a woman, she is neat, cooks well and humble, so perfect to my taste but she is epileptic.

I have been inviting her to my house for over 5months for her to sleep over in my apartment but she keeps refusing, telling me she has a problem then I later promised her whatever the problem is that I wouldn't abadon her.

She finally came on friday, we ate together and later in the night at 22:38 she started having epilepsy and after about 45mins she woke up and started crying, she told me she has been suffering from epilepsy since Feb 2019 but she hasn't been to the hospital due to financial issues.

So please can we find drug for nocturnal epilepsy, it happens to her only at night like 30 to 35mins in her sleep.

Those seizures are simply as a result of her brain reacting to some allergic conditions. There are drugs that suppress these triggers, but they're a little expensive, and she might have be on them for sometime. Epilepsy doesn't have a medically known cure. It can only be managed or taken away by God. The latter has healed at least 2 people I know of.

However, let her watch herself so closely. There could be somethings which she does or likes doing that might be triggering the seizures. Did she ever have an accident or incident where something hard hit her head? Is there a family history of Epilepsy in her family? Has she been on any drug/medication prior to the onset of these epileptic attacks? And how old is she? Answer this and we'll take it from there.

The powers that be are not with him nor his course. Challenging Obaseki's victory will amount to a pure academic exercise.

Grateful02:
you and who? You are alone abeg

Don't say that broe. This country needs gallant men like you to help out in the fight against those terrorists. Isn't Naija worth taking a bullet for?

moneyissweet:
Abeg come lead us there .Na you go dey front we go dey your back

You can always count on me. Are you good to go?

AreaFada2:
Which dear country? Has the country even been really peaceful? When army were not overthrowing themselves, politicians were looting and oppressing.

It's people who show a modicum of decency and loyalty to 9ja like Zulum they want to get rid of.

They should better carve out a country for Boko. After all Dan Fodio came 200 years ago with violence to overthrow Hausa kingdoms for not being good enough Muslims.

We are shying away from the reality on ground. Doing same thing and failing since 1960 is not loyalty or bravery. But insanity.

The elite long missed the chance to stabilize and develop the country. The masses will just suffer as we sleepwalk to implosion. Yes. it's unpalatable but we cannot pretend anymore. Sticky plaster won't work. Not only in Nigeria. See Ambazonia in Cameroon, Western Togoland in Ghana and others.

And the way forward is?

6digitscomrade:
u don’t need men u just need mfm sticker on ur motorcycle then head towards the forest ...

Oh really! My bike is ready, just get the stickers and I'll hit the road. Those mofos has biting more than they can chew.

lomprico:
Buhari and buratai attack Gov zulum again.

This is a very sensitive security matter. Desist from making careless statements you can't substantiate.

Heffalump:
They might succeed in killing this man if care isn't taken

They're showing force and playing mind games. Warning the military to stay off "their territory", at the same time trying to instil fear in their mind and that of the civilian population. The military really needs to step up now, else, the gains so far recorded might be eroded.

This is heartbreaking and totally unacceptable. These MFs have crossed the red line and have to be taught a bitter lesson. We need to storm the North East and liberate our dear country. Who is going with me?

Vardy scoring a hat-trick against City was simply phenomenal. The entire Leicester squad was clinical tonight. Pep really needs to bolster his squad, else, dem fit no smell top 4 dis season.

ThatIgboBoy:
That's her orientation oo

That I should look at her as if she is not working.
Thst her sister not working does not supports her husband.
Told her that's a different case. That's understandable and moreover tla wise husband would look for a way to help her get a job or start a business. The sisters husband just opened this paga business for her.
She said no way. That I should see her as not doing anything. That her money is hers. How many times does a man buy a shoe in a year? That her own is to take care of such things for herself and I the man should take care of the family. That if she starts adding to the family it will make me become relaxed and lazy.
Moreover I am not asking her to pay major Bills. Just minor things she can contribute to the house on her own volition. I am not apportioning responsibilities to her.

Never request a lady to commit financially into a relationship. However, whether or not she does, will go a long way to tell you how committed she is to that course.

A woman that loves you will ALWAYS be happy to give and always support your course.

How/why do they know of our moves/plans but we don't know of theirs? Why are military operations usually more successful in the South but difficult and protracted in the north? Why are the insurgents usually better armed and sophisticated than our troops, despite the billions sunk into this fight? These are just a few of the questions that are begging for answers.

ThatIgboBoy:
Hello fam
I need your in put on this topic.
There is a lady I want to get married to. But we keep having one particular problem.
We both work. But she is of the opinion that her money belongs to her and she might decide to help out or not.
I am of the opinion that as a couple we have to work things out together. I dont expect her to pay any bill for me but to help out as a help mate. She flatly refused that her money is her money and she might decide to help or not. And that I should not have it in mind that she might help me. That the role of the man as the head of the house is to take care of everything.
I dont know if my perception is wrong here. I need experienced married folks to advice me.

Well, morally and tactically, she is right. Her money belongs to her, and yours to you all. As a guy/man, his should be your reasoning. But it becomes a little worrisome if thats her orientation, regarding her incomes. Its always better to have a partner that reasons otherwise. What will be your fate if your source of income suffers setbacks?

Its always preferable, safer and sweeter to have a relationship where duties and responsibilities are not apportioned.

MrsRighteousness:
I can't be God and I will never

I know this is beyond the scope of Christianity, but the truth is: Sins are not washed away by mere believing in anything or confessing them. Christ said what a man soweth so she he reap. In science, its put as: For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. The only waiver/exception to this is that Sins can only be worked-off, but not forgiven as preached in Christianity. However, this must be merited.

MrsRighteousness:
Don't turn your back on God. One day you will meet Him face to face. Turn around and seek Jesus Christ, before it will be too late. Believe in Him, and you will receive forgiveness for all your sins and have peace with God!

where will you spend your eternity??

Mr. A is an armed robber. Goes to rob Mr. B (the only breadwinner of the family) where he rapes his wife, carts away their valuables and finally guns him down. Thus, throwing that family into serious trauma and hopelessness.

Few days later, Mr. A is shot, and with his last breathe, suddenly believes in Christ and confesses his sins, then seeks forgiveness from God before he finally dies.

If you were God, will you forgive Mr. A and wash away his sins?

Be smart. Learn from other's experience(s). Never record or accept anyone record any intimate time you share with them/someone. If you have any already delete them all.

I don't blame the guy for calling off the wedding. I'll almost do same.

Men who play God always get humiliated and humbled when God shows up. I believe he has learnt one or two. And like he said, no matter what happens life goes on. No regrets!

Great2017:
In other words, you are not sure of your claims.

Generally, electioneering process may not be perfect globally but ours is a complete mockery of what it ought to have been.

This trend is a big shame.

Even the mighty US alleged that its election result was highly compromised by Russia. Thats their peculiar challenge, we have ours. So we shouldn't write-off our electoral process. We'll get it right. At least INEC has significantly improved with the conduct of the Edo election.