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arcahmad:
l am sorry bros. It is against the rule of this profession to share plan of ur client to another person but u can get a cheaper plan of house of ur choice from me, thanks

My Oga. Are you still running your free architectural drawing bonaza?

I acquired a 50 x 100 pieces of land looking to build a low budget bungalow with a pent house. 3 bedroom flat downstairs and 2 bedrooms flat upstairs.

arcahmad:
l am sorry bros. It is against the rule of this profession to share plan of ur client to another person but u can get a cheaper plan of house of ur choice from me, thanks

I understand. I thought it was a prototype.

From the body movement( watch how he crossed his arms in defense). I knew he was guilt as charged.

VicMadich88:
Evry relationship hs its ups & downs..and every1 in the relationship hv their pro's & cons...she isn't a saint in tht sense, bt she's a good girl. I cnt bring her to SA bcz she dsnt wnt to relocate...Keep me in ur prayers bro's..tht she changes her mind and we try work it out.

The temptation here is too high, there's lots of beautiful, intelligent, humble & God fearing woman ths side...an the more shs nt wit me...the more I get weak.

My brother, not to blow my trumpet here but I 've seen a lot in this life me and you dey.

My previous response was some of the scenarios that happened and i witnessed. But let's be honest here, the problem you are having is what you just stated on your last paragraph.

Long distance relationship is not ideal. Allow me to share my personal experience, got married filed for my wife to relocate to U.S, after first interview her case was placed on administrative processing that lasted six months.

During the six months, it was like they unveiled all the beautiful women in the U.S and sent them my way, I was just imagining where were all these women all this while. Let's have some adult talks here, sometimes i will be imagining what they look like, you know stuffs like that. My brother I was shocked, when i go to party , all i am seeing is nya$h everywhere . I had so many thoughts.

But true story, every since she moved in with me, It seems like they packaged all those beautiful women and locked them up somewhere, I find it difficult to admire other women and unlike before that i had those thoughts on my head.

I hope i didn't bore you with my story, I could go on and on but the truth of the matter is long distance is affecting your relationship.

Back then, at a work dinner people come with thier significant othera, smooching and stuffs and i will just feel like crap... I hate to admit this but lots of things that we had issues on then still happens now and everyone just overlook it.

So my brother find a way to gather your family together, talk her into moving to SA and find out reasons why she can't or you relocate to 9ja, if you can't then why and you know sort things out between you and your wife.

Take care my brother.

arcahmad:
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Do you mind sharing the floor plan? Like how many rooms, living rooms etc?

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

My guy before you utter those words to her.. Think about your life. Did you promise anyone marriage before? How was your sex life in SA, SA women can do jazz pass 9ja people sef, Zimbabwe's and all.

I am not saying that this will be the cause oo.. Just that from Experience, story i heard before from a friend.

Since you are not in love with your wife anymore, are you falling for another person? When did this start? You chop iyabasera.

I am not trying to funny and you don't have to reply me but sometimes we need to take a little step back and reexamine our lives.

It could be also your ditched another dude and married you. Things they happen my guy.

I was deeply touched when you mentioned your wife's good character and all and women with those qualities are hard to find these days..

Cheers man!

Former VC be like.....

doriakhi:
@badgers14. I'm waiting till Friday next week 19th it will be 60 days then I will email lagos for update. My wife emailed them twice last month they told her my case is currently undergoing administrative processing that they will contact beneficiary when it completed. The same answer they gave her twice.

Ok.. I feel your pain tho.

It's all good.

doriakhi:
I pray God help me in this and quicken it for me it really frustrating how my case has gone all this years. I have had enough patient many people won't have such patient even some people if their the one who have schengen visa they will just forget this usa wahala but never did still on it going to Europe and coming back.

It's all good my man.

Have you tried emailing LagosIV@ state.gov for an update?

doriakhi:
@badgers14 was it the first interview they gave ur wife the contact sheet and placed her on AP then invited her for second interview?

Yes, after the first interview, they gave her the contact sheet. After 6 months, they called her back for the second interview.

doriakhi:
@Badgers14 thanks man for the encouragement my only worry is my wife frustration been a long time coming. I have done my best I leave the rest to God I pray it come sooner.... mine I don't know what they are looking for no one has be contacted no home visit or work! after they contacted u did they conduct another interview again or they just asked you to submit your passport ?

I was actually the petitioner.

After their review they called my wife for another interview.

What's her gain now

doriakhi:
thanks very much badgers14. I track my case on that website it's always showing READY. that what it has be showing ever since my case was reopen for second interview. Last updated was April 25, 2017 I noticed they updated my case 4 times now since after My interview march 21, 2017 I don't even know what going on and how long this will take I have been waiting for this visa a long time my wife filed since June 25, 2013 till now. First time interview my case was sent back to USCIS to review and it took almost 2 years and 8 months before my case was reaffirmed with so much evidence we provided after a long time waiting it was sent to lagos to process the visa. It took them 5 months to give me second interview on march 21, 2017 after the interview Now I'm given contact sheet and placed on administrative processing. I feel so bad and waited all this years my wife is frustrated I'm frustrated by this long wait and review upon review. My marriage is legit the only thing is there is a huge age different despite the age different I have been with my wife since 2010 7 years now. I have traveled to 12 Europe countries between June 2016 last year Till now. I'm not sure the consular even went through my passport to see my schengen visas and travel history's.

Do you know anyone who is recently on administrative processing and how long they took to get off this AP?

I feel your pain man. I have been there and i survived it, mine took 6 months tho.

I know someone that his took 1 week. So it depends on what they are looking at.

But relax they will contact you when they are done.

I wasn't too worried because my marriage was bonafide, i didn't have to worry about a thing. I was not even sure they contacted anyone on the contact list because none of them told me. So they might be looking at different things.

Also send an email to lagosIV@ state.gov and ask them for an update.

segzy14:
That is 450sqm.

Thank you sir

arcahmad:
yes, l will contact u all on ur respective whatsapp no to know more about what u want in ur designs

Question for you sir if you don't mind.

For a piece of land 50x100, are you able to tell me how big the land is in sqm?

This is the way it should be, decent and respectful.

Congrats my guy.

All the best!!!

Wow shots fired

Name Checkers Association Aba Branch reporting for duty

Wow this one tire me oo

doriakhi:
Please I need Help and to know what is going on I was given a contact sheet after I attended my reaffirm immigrant visa case for second interview, the lady consular asked me so many questions she told me she didn't care about my evidence after push them back to me and she asked me a lots of questions and she had problem with me on a particular question when did I propose to my wife also my wife is older than me at the end she gave me a contact sheet to fill and send back to them which I filled sent back that very day it 9 days away from 60 days I haven't heard anything from them no body was contacted among the list I provided. No body has visited my working place or home. I'm very worried my wife wrote them twice as the petitioner they kept telling her I'm undergoing administrative processing. It's frustrating and don't know the thought is killing me every day checking my email every day no contact no phone call from US embassy. Please I need help what do I do ? Daniel

As long as your marriage is legit, there's nothing to worry about.

They will contact you as soon as they are done. You can also check your case status at www.ceac.state.gov.

Cheers man

Trapnews:
Donald Duke has been the most handsome ex-governor in Nigeria, why won't the kids make sense

I thought "they" said Oshimole was the most handsome ex governor

Dude should go and sit down.

Why is he upset

So all the people standing up to snap are all coping my pose

Subkid:
Though am very far from getting married, but my girlfriend told me today that someone ask her hand in marriage, i fainted when i heard the news. She has been pleading me not to change my mind from her that she loves very much which she do though i do love her too. She even go far to tell me how she wish she was under 20 girl, But my people am very weak my emotion cant stand this, please how can i handle dis situation.

She just told you to get ya $hit together.

Basically saying, if you are not ready to settle down, she is ready to move on.

One advise though, remember it's rare to come by good women these days.. Check ya sef if you could take her home but please don't hold her to a stand still if you can't.

Cheers!!!

Name checkers

Congrats to them

It "could" be possible.. Why?

Remember Amaechi did not specify the distance to be covered.

Also, if they are usuing government equipment and Engineeers. Then the cost would drastically be reduced.

johnson232:
Even if the project money is on hand, one can only complete the building carcass & roofing in a month. Extra one to two weeks would be required to complete the finishes.

I will like to disagree with you Sir.

I completed a 4 bedroom bungalow all ensuite from foundation to turn key (with ties, doors, windows) in 30 days.

The project started Nov 1 and ended Nov 30.

(But before Nov 1, I already purchased all the materials in the BOQ.)

We should clap for her abi

nnamdi1998:
You're living because of them

Says who

No dey talk nonsense

Skyfornia:
It's very obvious the Stephanie of a girl is a scammer....It's written over her.

Don't judge a book by the cover.

The truth is we might never know the truth what happened between baba Sule and Stephanie.

I leave that up to God.

bebe2:
This is getting annoying , how come each time a person is asking for directions on how to travel abroad most pple in diaspora will be discouraging the person.

If it's dat terrible why are u still there?

You enjoy the benefits of living in an organised society, knowing fully well that naija is a difficult place to live.

Are u scared of the competition the new immigrants will bring?

Nigerians in diaspora , what exactly are u afraid off??

My sister abeg calm down. I am happy for you that you Live Abroad and wish well for our folks back home.

BUT, I wouldn't want to count myself in as one of those that discourages potential travellers. I just tell them the truth and again, the truth hurts.

Most of the people that fire all those questions to "abroadians" want to run away from Nigeria and go and "hussle". Many don't mind walking or hiding in a cargo plane.

My dear, reason this, how many of those potential travellers have their green card or blue card handy?

I myself didn't immigrate in a cunny cunny way and am not sure how the people that came thru that way survive the ordeal, no one will never ever tell you the true story.

So Crucify me if i am wrong my dear, but i do tell them "pomp and plain" . Travelling outside Nigeria is not too difficult, Surviving outside Nigeria is.

If someone have the right document, they dont usually bother anyone but the ones that wants to fly out by all means could blow off your whatsapp.

While i understand there plights in Nigeria, I have also seen with my "2 naked eyes" the plights illegal immigrants go through in the U.S and my sister, i am not sure which one is safer. Again with Trump and his unknown never straightforward agenda , his administration is even deporting people protected by DACA.

Lastly, I do not discourage them, but i tell them truth. If they still want to come, bless their heart but I don't know how i can help them if they dont have the right documents.

Cheers!