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Private people using public police. That's just an eyesore

Congrats Sir/Madam.

Please do not send me the ebook, send me the snails instead.

EgunMogaji:
Because I've ranted about this three years ago and beaten black and blue by Brabus, Spyder880, KolaShangOne, and AbdulWastecx (to some extent).

Building in Nigeria remains a warfare.

Allow me to agree with you. The way "some" contractors puff out there chests these days eehn, everyone is a professional.

Some that "learned" work will be providing a quotation like someone with Ph.D in Civil engineering and 20 years experience.

The one that drives me nut was back when dollar was exchanged at 512#. I bought a bag of cement for N2500, 16mm rod for N3,900 now dollar is in the N300's , the prices of materials have gone up.

This still got me shaking in my shoes, what kind of economics is that? I bet Adam Smith will be perplexed as well.

Omo see Gbege

Phyno stole my song

Soil test engr why don't you open up your own thread

See his face pretending to have read the bill. .. Smh

Her make up tho..

Did I spot skin bleaching

Democracy day ke

NuclearWinter:
Melania Trump is 47

While the shameless slut to the left is 64 and she still no one respect herself

Nah nah nah... Lets be a bit classy in the name calling.

Please, I carry the god of Napoleon Bonaparte beg you.

Maybe Trump was trying to grab him by the..

See as the French first lady look like maid

Smh

The big one please

NCAN Ibadan branch reporting for duty

Wow

Emerald557:
You mean they are allegations
What will I gain by false allegations?
That he forces himself on me sexually is allegation?
That he is violent and beats me at any given opportunity is allegation?
That I pay my bills and my kids bills is allegation?
That he won't hear that am pregnant but jumps on me for sex like a hungry lion that have seen a goat to devour is allegation?
Please oga park well

Why don't you go to your parents house and chill for a while??

Please don't let this man cause more damages to your emotions than he already have done.

Don't just fold your hands and watch. Leave for a while at least you will have peace of mind in your parents house. Your kids do not deserve to see you in pain all the time.

I wish you Live in the U.S, I would point you to the right direction.

But my dear, PLEASE do not fold your hands. PLEASE!!!

Matured convo, very professional..

But Man U for life tho

Congratulations!!!!

Signed,

NCAN Aba Branch.

Emerald557:
While we were dating no s*x
Mistreating me To him it is his normal life. He does not see it as mistreatment. He is the man. Imagine a man who doesn't have a hobby. My hubby doesn't have a hobby. I am his hobby, sex with me is his hobby.

My dear, I am pained by your situation. Nothing hurts more than a broken heart from the same person that professed love to you.

Here's a few question to ponder, you don't have to reply the answers here.

1. Why did you marry your hubby? What quality does he have that attracted him to you?

2. Why do you think your hubby married you?

The reason for those questions is to reexamine how you got here, was there any tell tell sign that was ignored?

You know sometimes we human get infactuated by love, and get married for the wrong reasons.

oh he is tall, dark, full of muscle and got a decent job.. Ok he's got my attention. Or from a guy's view,

Dang, see that bôobs, see that nyash, I go fûck am tire.( seeing the lady as a séx tôy rather than a wife that would help him start a home, raise kids and build a happy home.)

If people enter into marriage with these views , since they marriage mostly for the wrong reason, few years down the line the marriage will burst.

I had a friend that married this girl because she was fair, tall and of course pretty. When we hang out , you know friends and all, he says what the girl does... We tried to tell him, bro shine your eyes.. He usually jokes, once they get married he will use his dìck to reset her brain. Well they are no longer married today, the marriage didn't even last 1 year.

The reason for my long epistle is for you to see if you could think back and identify when his attitude towards you changed, if he really loved you or just because he wants your body.

And also for other readers to learn from other's mistake and make sure they marry for the right reasons, remember no body is perfect but you need to identify there flaws to know how to help them fix it.

Finally, how's your parents/family doing? Financially okay? Could they take care of you and your kids for a while?
When I lived in onitsha, this guy that lives opposite our house beats the wife mercilessly, the girl dont have anywhere to run to, parents are poor, lives in the village. So because the guy found himself renting half shop at ogbo efere and lives in a one bedroom inside a 3 bedroom flat he feels he is DANGOTE.

Also, do you have any source of income? Do you have a job? Self employed?

Sorry for my boring response, I have 4 sisters and 2 of them are married, wo betide any man that will lay there hands on my sisters like the pictures i see online, hmm. Hmmm. It pains me when I read stories like that.

Take care my dear.

Cheers!

Emerald557:
as for domestic violence I have reported him to the police. But as for rape, who do I tell? They will say he has paid bride price... I have never enjoyed love making. It has always been s*x, s*x and more s*x

Was your husband like this when you too were dating

Have you had a chat with him lately about why he is mistreating you, like did you do sth wrong? Is there sth you were supposed to be doing that you are not doing, you know stuffs like that?

NCAN south west chapter.

wirinet:
As i always say what goes around comes around. When you, your family or your people experience any tragedy, you think you will get any sympathy from other Nigerians. Even foreigners are appalled by your lack of empathy by making fun of innocent girls.

Who's is making fun of the girls I just asked a question.

Haba

I am just wondering if these are actually chibok girls that were "allegedly" kidnapped years ago.

See as there body fresh, who sow those clothes give them?

The girls looks well fed and well taken care of, well atleast going by the pictures.

NCAN mood activated

UJs:
Still available

What's the asking price?

I think i will sue Seun for $ 1 trillion just because

27. Badgers14 ( Nairalander 198? - ) $ 900bn