₦airaland Forum

Venica:
blonde is the name given to some kind of hair though to the color . but sometimes people (especially the whites) do address or call a lady according to the color of her hair. here is a typical Nigerian example "meet the blackie with the darkest skin" thanks.

please who understands what this lady just wrote?

She's a redhead, not blonde. I don't think it's up to 6ft though, unless she's more than 7ft tall.

Kod3007:
I applied to andela last year, I failed the home study curriculum assessment
i don't think it really aligns with my plans at it takes a commitment of 2 years
an internship only looks like the most reasonable thing to do
Thanks though

alright... It's cool you know what you want.

You are right! It took me more than 3 months, 4 factory resets and a ruined sdcard to realise it was that stupid app all along.

Problem was, the moment I reset, I'd gradually start updating my apps... And a few weeks later we are back to square one.

Hypocrisy and misplaced priorities would not let African countries progress.

If you hadn't streamlined it to internship, I would have seconded the motion raised by the sister above, about applying to Andela. With them, how fast you can learn is more important than what you already know.

But then, they offer FELLOWSHIP for software developers and not INTERNSHIP, and commitment is a big deal.

As if anyone called him Jesus when he was on earth. You think Jesus is the original name don't you? Ignorant little fanatic.

Inexcusable behaviour. Any child that can handle a pair of scissors and cut paper so skillfully cannot be too small to have a clue as to the value of money.

Not only would she get some spanking, no more treats for her for a while. For the next month or two, any time she says daddy buy me this, I'd remind her that I would have but she has already destroyed the money.

unilagfreshboy:
Good evening guys to those Who are familiar with Andela's recruitment , I have no knowledge of javascript yet but I'm good with html css python.

Can i make it through bootcamp without javascript.

without Javascript? not likely. The bootcamp language has been JS for some time now.

You don't need to be an expert though. Just be a fast learner.

bella01:
This is incredible.. Most guys can't even do this
This explains one adage I use to know 'what a man can do, a woman can do even better'.

nice logic. Most (not all) guys can't do it, but since one woman can (never mind how many men can), women can do it better. I wonder how that even made any sense to you. No wonder they say women are illogical.

Lol. Em, let's just say Nigeria hasn't gone fully digital yet. We don't even have something as important as a national citizen database because we don't see the use. Na wikipedia page we go come dey update for people?

Well said! Exactly what what I was telling someone while arguing why I think it is silly to want to start the new year by being physically present in church. The calendar is a human invention, and there's nothing magical about the day that is chosen as the starting point.

The only reason Jan 1 is the first day of the new year is because a fellow human woke up and said that's how the calendar should be. The Jewish calendar starts around the period that is late March in the Gregorian calendar, and I think the Hijiri calendar starts around July.

Very informative.

veraiyke:
Check ya own dictionary. Moaning has only one meaning in sexual act and that is enjoyment. Nothing anyone says here captures what really happened. Only the man and woman know best the scenario that played out.

so pain doesn't exist in sexual act? The dictionary talks of sexual pleasure as one of the possibilities reasons why one would moan, along with pain. You expect to see sexual pain before you know that ladies could feel pain during sex.

Typical clueless Naija man. No wonder ladies complain that their men dive in before they are wet and ready.

1stCitizen:
Fvcking cvnt face. Where you there?Only the man was there. Stupid dickjaw ran to check the meaning of moan without consideration for the context of application.Rotten product of a failed system.So in your sorry little world the husband cannot distinguish between pleasurable soft sounds and pain. Pea size brain asswipe.

I am sure you will reach orgasm before they touch you when your turn comes.

Being there doesn't mean shyte. So because he said so, means it's true. Many men grind away on their wives thinking they are studs simply because of their interpretation of the sounds they hear. If men could easily distinguish between pleasure and pain, we wouldn't have perpetually unsatisfied wives secretly getting it elsewhere.

He could also have exaggerated or even lied to save face. He was powerless before the robbers, stripped of his manly dignity. The next best thing for lesser men, is to try to regain power by oppressing someone weaker; to shift the blame to the woman who had to take in strange dicks by force while her husband watched unharmed.

It's very convenient, isn't it? Pin his humiliation on the 'funny sounds' she was making. Yeah, we all know that if she wasn't moaning, he would have overpowered the robbers and beaten them up.

1stCitizen:
62 idiots so far have liked this comment. Obviously you do not know that rape is a traumatic experience and moaning is not in the equation for any victim. She is sick and needs HELP.

moaning isn't restricted to pleasure only, you dummy. It could be a result of pain or suffering. Check a friend's dictionary since you don't seem to have one.

The ignorant husband heard sounds and, just like you, concluded it means pleasure. Poor men and their low self-esteem. If he had money, they may not have touched his wife. But of course he had to blame someone else for his inability to protect his own wife.

Benita27:
A Jelly fish that's the exact replica of a vagina. Aren't you disrespecting women by posting this on here?.

how is posting a photo of shellfish disrespecting women? You people play the victim too much.

How many did she steal? If it's one or two, or a little above, it's hunger. They should have had mercy and even given her extra. But if those are rice bags meant to pack the corn in large quantity, she's a thief. They are wrong to beat her up though.

I wonder why people like jungle justice in this country. We are too savage.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
That's humans for you. They don't even understand the kind of psychological trauma that woman is going thru after having been raped by strangers I front of someone who should have protected her and best thing he did was to discharge her. This could lead so suicide. A time when the man should have been the one comforting her, he's the one chastising her. He should have told her to stop Moaning since he was present there.
I swear if I'm the woman, I will kill that man before I kill myself.

don't mind them. Whatever sound she made is now worse than the fact that her husband and protector disappointed her and LET strangers sleep with her. To hide his shame, he blames her for it and people are agreeing with him. I'm tired of the way the average Nigerian reasons, I swear.

veraiyke:
I really don't understand. First its been established its a rape. Rape comes with so much trauma. The sight of a man unable to do nothing but stand watch his wife rape is also a trauma let's not forget that. Rape cases as we know it is forceful and the victim out of bad feelings and hurt following what she's been subjected to fights until she can fight no more and just lie there while she is ravished. In such robbery case fighting is not even a case as the woman can't fight on gun point but she cries in pain and shame of her state. Now the crux of th issue is she was "moaning" which everyone will agree point to enjoyment of the act. The question in the mind of the husband is how come the wife was enjoying it. Whether it was true that she was actually moaning or just a fabrication the man brought up as an escape route to his own trauma of being handicapped to save his wife. We can call it a coward move but its also a trauma he could be passing through. And if actually the wife was moaning it calls for more concern and could leave the man in more confusion and trauma. In between I don't support the sacrifice part in any way. If they can find a way to support themselves that would be fine though. But its not easy on any of them and that's the truth.

I hope you know that someone could moan out of pain or suffering. You guys seem to think that any sound a woman makes during sex means she's enjoying it.

The only thing certain about the whole ish is that she was raped and she made some sounds. Whether it was because the was enjoying it (as the husband implied) or because of pain or shame, can only be verified by the woman. The man should stop playing 'god the reader of minds', when he was too powerless to stop the rape.

If men were such masterful decoders of moaning sounds by women, we wouldn't have so many sexually frustrated wives everywhere.

muzeze77:
lots of stupid people on naira land. Pray it never happens to you. What are u going to do? Attack people with guns. It's best that they go their separate ways

slowpoke, no one said he should attack armed men. But why are you guys implying the woman did wrong by not risking hers? Do you realise that she could have gotten shot if she screamed or resisted?

So you don't think the man should risk his life, but you think she should risk hers by fighting back. Now that she didn't, she should be crucified for it. Someone gets raped and you guys are approving of a stupid dehumanising ritual like she committed a taboo. All of you blaming the woman are just stupid backwards lots like the husband.

Yes, I said so.

hedonistic:
Put yourself in the man's shoes. Confronted with three or four ARMED robbers, wielding guns, while you have no weapon. How would you react? Fight them unarmed? And when you're shot dead, they would still rape her anyway, and then what?

then he should accept that he let his woman down and failed as a leader and protector, instead of making the woman a scape goat over some stupid moaning claim. He is just cowardly transferring aggression to the wrong person. Was he expecting her to resist armed men that her husband wouldn't dare challenge?

What the woman needs right now is understanding and support, not this degrading treatment as if the rape was her fault.

As if he wouldn't get an erection if a female robber gave him a bj. He is a foolish man.

I stopped reading at number 2 - "Anything love disguise them..."

What in Moses' beard does that even mean?

Your wife got raped in your presence while your lame cuckold ass watched, and now you are taking out your humiliation on the woman. Shame.

ijustdey:
“Now I have dedicated my service to God, If I see husband, fine, If i don’t see glory be to God” Azubuike said.

I no fit laugh

neutrotoba:
I've always said it.

Feminists don't want equality, they want superiority

those hypocrites have never wanted equality. For them, an act is only wrong when a woman is on the receiving end. That's why we hear terms like "violence against women", as if violence of any sort is okay.

I don't pity the guy in the video though. Whoever is stupid enough to get into a fight should be ready to get beaten, regardless of gender. That's the aim of a fight, beat or be beaten.

Nonsense. Not every word is an acronym.

BuhariNaWah:
Adultery plus murder.

What a pastor

reminds me of David - a man after God's heart.

It's a stupid thing to fight over a cheating wife though. I'd never descend that low. See how he lost his life now.

Hmmm... Sexybbstar are you for real? I don't know any girl that would say such stuff about fellow girls even if it's the truth. I'm impressed by such objective reasoning.

Looks like there is more to you than your looks.

Lol. Fantasies hardly ever come true, and it could lead to disappointment if one isn't flexible enough to make do with reality.

Anyway, that second girl is hottttttttt!

Tahrah:
So what if she didn't wear bra?Did she go topless?As for the people above me,are you trying to justify sexual harrasment?

sexual harassment is an umbrella term that females sometimes misuse. What exactly did the guy do? Do you know? It must have been sexual harassment because she said so. Good thing her boss is even female.

Ladies don't want to abide by dress codes or other simple rules because no one should tell them what to do, yet they feel marginalised when they aren't given top positions.

Why are you guys worshipping a criminal like this? Every news outlet and gossip blog struggling to use the most flattering adjectives to describe him. Even the police is treating him like a celebrity. I don't understand my fellow Nigerians sha.