₦airaland Forum

Truckpusher:
I guess you didn't read what I wrote properly . If my sister decides to put up erotic pictures in a public space then whatever she gets is well deserved . You're the hypocrite who fashioned himself as a defender of women only to resort to insulting the same womenfolk by mentioning my sister. I guess you've not heard that he comes to equity must come with clean hands. Yeye dey smell .

Women ! behold your defender who couldn't even waste time to bash another woman to get back at me.

defender of women gini? Some of you are so mentally shortsighted, that everything boils down to gender or tribal wars. If a person thinks you messed up, then he is a 'defender of the enemy'.

Stupidity is stupidity, regardless of who is guilty of it or who is on the receiving end. It's wrong to post a person's pics without consent and then act like some sex-starved retard painting them sex-workers. Even if a lady goes naked on social, it doesn't mean she wants to sleep with you (payment or not). But then you wouldn't understand, since you have no taste yourself.

That someone somewhere is sleeping with her means what exactly? That every other guy should come sleep with her too? Get sense na.

I'm not sorry about mentioning your sister. I see you took it as an insult... That's nice. The ones you guys call sluts whether directly or by implication, are people's sisters too.

Truckpusher:
What is this one saying ? You took erotic pictures and put them online and you don't want people to express what and how they feel ? You guys are being over sensitive these days over nothing - It might shock you that the same girl isn't even worth a dime compared to those amount iamJ rated her. One idiot dey one corner dey shine that thing with no thank you sef !! If you pose like a prostitute even the street dogs can self-service off if they feel like , it's their basic human right to react if provoked.

yeah. One idiot is likely fücking your sister too. Does that mean it's okay for some random guy to post her pics without her permission and talk about fücking her for a fee? Does it also mean anyone can pay and fück her?

If those questions get you upset, you are a fücking hypocrite.

Guys really have to stop this nonsense objectification of women. I know some ladies want to be termed sluts and all, but you can't go around posting people's pics and asking stupid questions like this.

At least, if you don't respect women as humans worthy of dignity, respect your dick. It doesn't have to wander into every hole you see.

"My view is that any serving President foolish enough to lay his head on a coin should know he is inciting people to take it off; the head I mean."

BornnAgainChild:
Ok...so how about 10 things a female should achieve

the female version has been overflogged already.

She's not beautiful. I don't see the relationship between beauty and pharmacy anyway.

I don't blame either of them. It's the sheeple that believe these con-artists have anything to do with God, that I blame.

That explains the bleaching. Insecurity wee nor kee some pipo sha.

As for me and my mini-me, we love dark skin.

Your brother's babe na Ferrari while your own na 'tortoise car'

Definitely A. That ass plus that complexion... mad combo.

PastorAIO:
If god is so in the habit of changing his mind then how can we be sure that he can't change his mind on any of the other promises in the bible.

good question. His standards do not change. However, whether or not a person would be punished or rewarded depends on the individual. If he changes either for good or bad, God responds accordingly.

That's what changes, his response to our attitude changes when our attitude changes. His standards however, never change. Same with his promises.

If he says wicked people would face so and so punishment, what can change is who and who falls into the 'wicked' category. If at his set time, there are still wicked people, they would surely face the punishment. Else, if they all repent, then there would no longer be any wicked person and so no one gets punished.

joceey:
Religion is very deep beyond our human imagination especially Christianity.......Just because a prophecy given by a prophet didn't come to pass that does not mean it failed......let look at the of King Hezekiah...in Isa 38:1 In those days Hezekiah became terminally ill. The prophet Isaiah son of Amoz came and said to him, "This is what the LORD says: 'Put your affairs in order, for you are about to die; you will not recover.'. Take note in the verse 2-5 He prayed and GOD change his case..... if prophet Isaiah was in our time people we say he was fake........

abeg, make we hear word. It was the same Isaiah that God used to tell Hezekiah that some years would be added to his life, and that he should choose the sign he wants as proof.

Bottom line is, if God told you that event A would happen and then he changes his mind, he would also tell you before the new one happens.

Even Jonah wasn't taken unawares by God's change of heart over Nineveh. Unlike them, a certain prophet quickly deleted his prophecy from his Facebook page, then put it back later when her realised he had no hiding place and cooked up a tale to save face.

You have no excuse for your false prophets.

swiz123:
The basic reason for sex should be to procreate. All other reasons are secondary and to some extent not religious. There was a man in the Bible tho I've forgotten his name, he had sex with his brother's widow and poured his semen on the floor.God killed him. That should be enough reason to show that sex shouldn't be all about fun.

it wasn't the act that got Onan killed. It was the motive. He inherited his brother's wife and was supposed to raise offspring for the dead brother (as was the custom). He however chose to play smart; having sex with the woman, but slyly avoiding getting her pregnant because he 'knew the offspring would not be his'.

TRIXIA:
I partially disagree with you sir. I speak authoritatively. You are talking from an educated, idealist situation/theory Sir. Lmaooo sir you never see anything some like myself have seen. Things dey bros.... No banter

yeah yeah... Many people have also authoritatively claimed to be Jesus Christ over the years.

The very fact that they spoke authoritatively means they were truly Jesus Christ.

Una go just dey dish out super story for NL.

All the faces you see in your dreams belong to people you've seen at some point in your waking reality. Same with names, they are words or even names you've heard or read before.

Those are for the main persons in dreams. The others are usually faceless and nameless people. You know it was a person, but that's all. You really can't see new faces in dreams.

Dreams are usually based on your desires and fears, even the subconscious ones. So you probably have been thinking about meeting someone new lately, or maybe about a random girl hitting on you.

bjhaid:
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//oya mynd44 rate the event

var is so es5

ivolt:
He did so by subtly promoting a superior tribe who can do what others can't
even though every Nigerian tribe is guilty of overt and covert tribalism.

Because he mentioned igbos? If that is why, you totally missed the context. Which other tribe in Nigeria has ever fought for their collective interest like the igbos did? They lost, but they tried.

I hope you know he is Esan and not Igbo? The esans are from Edo state and have nothing to do with igbos. Still he thinks they are worthy of note, while condemning the tribalism-riddled environment he grew up in. For me, that kind of honesty is refreshing. Before you draw conclusions, I am not igbo either, and like him I am disgusted by the narrow-minded hate the black man has for other blacks.

How someone can read this post and see tribalism in it baffles me. A tribalist thinks HIS OWN tribe is better than others. How can you not know that?

okonja:
Bro, at some points, @Cacawa2 is right and to be candid, it's not until you dress forming baddoh before you are known as a techie. Jes be yourself .............Speak freely and not forming british accent, dress like a Naija and not America wannabe

People really can be this petty? So you guys can SEE British accent in the posted pics?

Why is it Nigerians hate on themselves this much? You say just be yourself, but in the same breath, you condemn the way they choose to be themselves. Smh.

How do Nigerians dress? Are you wearing your traditional attire right now?

Wow... There's hope *sniff sniff*

HelenBee:
I don't like when people say God doesn't judge our dressing and blah blah blah. For crying out Loud,this is a Church! If she were a banker I'm so sure she can't dress this way to work but if she does to church,people will start saying, God judges the heart only. Don't you know she can be a stumbling block to others with her dressing? Let's not mix our freedom with immodesty.

you guys are sounding like the pharisees that Jesus condemned all the time.

The lady chose a time when the church would be almost empty, probably because she believes God would hear her there. She didn't have the guts to go to the front or to stand or look up. If people are really going to heaven, some of these 'sinners' would enter ahead of many self-righteous hypocrites.

domido:
You say they do not exist?
Hehe!! Guy.okay oo. Mermaid don't exist? Dragons never existed?
Thank God you said fact, and facts are not always true.

facts are not always true?

Time to leave Nairaland mehn

Humans are a fuckedd up race

KillerFrost:
Die hard Messi fan

OurMine are a Saudi arabian group of hackers who go about proving internet security is overhyped..

They've also hacked CNN's facebook account, Zuckerberg's Twitter account, among others

They did same thing to Barca's official pages announcing the arrival of di Maria... Does that mean theyre also a die hard fan of di Maria??..

Silly reporters everywhere

bros, the matter tire me. Common sense, some people don't have. Still they take it upon themselves to be the ones spreading info.

ivolt:
Mtchew.
The man was railing against disunity while at the same time exposing his tribalistic mindset.
Core tribalist are actually better than this two-faced "human rights" fighter.

how did he expose his tribalist mindset?

Cacawa2:
wtf is that

It's rubbish...a gathering of yahoo boys, internet trolls, comedy clowns and hackers

The people there are drop-outs who couldn't be bothered studying mathematics at Uni level

You can easily spot them with their very lazy afro-hairstyle and body-hug t-shirts plus face-cap.

We know a real tech-guru when we see one, not some alaba touts. Check them out in the U.S, wearing serious glasses, formally dressed, smartly dresses, focused graduates.

Even worse is the presenter you called "Neo" who has got a full hoodie on, he is indoors and it's neither raining nor freezing...american wannabe.

See them forming fake accent as if they learnt British accent online

please keep quiet, you bitter soul. Always hating on what you aren't a part of.

No one said they are all elite developers in there. In fact, the majority may not be developers at all, but just people who are interested in the future of technology (enthusiasts, if you like). They are there making their mark on the Nigerian software dev scene trying to raise tech awareness amongst the Nigerian youth, but you are in your hut kissing your mirror and hating on them.

It's sad how ignorant you are, yet how eager you are to advertise it. You think all developers in Silicon Valley (arguably the world headquarters of software development) go about 'formally dressed' in suit and ties?

There's no big deal about wearing a hoodie indoors. Some people want the AC on, but hate having cold ears.

Deeypeey:
causes a stir...not stare

as in eh... I thought someone would say this in the first three comments. To think it's on front page, 'stare' and all.

Thank you jare.

HisSexcellency:

Nice development, he should also upgrade the helipad in daura to an international airport. And then get Julius Berger to construct an artificial seaport in daura by channelling water from the Atlantic Ocean right from lagos to katsina.
He has to develop his home town, if he doesn't then who will

that's the biggest problem I had with GEJ. Mr Nice Guy did more in the North and forgot his people.

dacovajnr:
The day wey this thing do me ehn .Atm no gree dispense..i vex carry Okada dey go house as I reach halfway na e I get alert of 10k debited!! Nibo!!Nazo I shout "Okada turn back,my money don dey pour for atm floor!!!" as I reach I cum ask "abeg who pack my money" dem just dey look me like say I don mad. Na later dem come Crédit my account

lol. Guy you funny.

Kondomatic:
This topic is about a woman, that's why she's my focus. Secondly a man who cannot provide for his family is failing in his primary responsibility.
You see? We all need food but it is a man that's mandated to provide for the family.

You're the one getting back to my point without knowing. If she is keen to learn then she would have learned cooking a long time ago.
Like I have said already, the real problem isn't her inability to cook but why she failed to learn?

A lazy cook and a bad cook are worlds apart and should not be compared.

Cooking is very important, you need healthy meal, your children needs it too.

But the real problem isn't her bad food itself but why she failed to learn, it speaks a volume about her and I don't think any good, kind, loving a loyal woman who is really ready to work on herself will wait until marriage before learning simple things like cooking.


Let's assume she's 25, so she has spent her 25years on earth eating other people's meal without learning how to make even one?

This means she never helped anybody in the kitchen, her mom or whoever she grew up with.

read the opening post again. This thread is a covert celebration of gluttony. African men don't play with their stomachs but they cannot cook, and they must rely on a woman before they can eat good meals. That's nonsense.

The reason why is most persons frown at the thought that their woman would not be able to cook is because they worship their stomachs. They feel that is why women exist, to cook for them and bear children. Again, that is nonsense.

If you agree that the real problem is not in the inability to cook but the reason why, then you agree with my first post. The cooking itself is not as important as attitudes that influence our abilities.

The reason why a man can grow up to the point of marriage without knowing how to cook, is the same reason why a woman can grow up and not know how to cook.

Kondomatic:
Bro.


Calm down, nobody is saying that cooking is the only thing that is important in a woman but don't miss out minor details in anything.


One of the important thing an African woman, especially Nigerian teaches her daughter is how to cook, reason being that they consider it the shortest route to a man's heart.

Now look at this way.

What did a woman in her thirties who doesn't know how to use the kitchen spent her childhood days doing?

Why didn't she learn how to cook from her parents or whoever raised her up?

Two reasons or maybe three.

She was over pampered by her mom(red signal)
She was stubborn and resufed to learn (red signal)

I can't figure out the third reason.

Now the final question, assuming she's a graduate, how did she feed in school?



The problem isn't her inability to cook but the reason she failed to learn something as simple as cooking.
Something we all need to survive.

if we all need cooking skills to survive, how come it is only women that have failed if they don't know how to cook? Also how come she hasn't died since we all need cooking skills to survive and she can't cook?

You are still getting back to my point in the end. There are things more important than how good a woman is before the cooking pot; things so important that they can influence everything else. For example one's attitude towards work and learning.

There are women who are good cooks but are lazy or would want to use denial of food (and sex) as a weapon. So yes, she can cook... How does that make her better than the one who isn't as good a cook but is very loving, loyal, respectful, and willing to work on herself?

I prefer to focus on the more important things.

As for me, my wife's culinary skills would be only important because of the kids, and maybe for visitors. I am not a glutton and I don't need a woman before I can eat a good meal.

I sure am not marrying a lady just cos she can cook. Any foool can cook if they invest time into learning. There are more important things to look out for in relationships.

Nice idea and all, but the download link is dead. Would have loved to check it out.

I like that you aren't doing this for material gain.