₦airaland Forum

andromida:
People are not as replaceable as we think. If you find her compatible on all levels i say go with her so she has a kid and this may teach you to expand how to love at the end of the day you may not encounter all the complications people are talking about and you may. I don't believe the woman will be all about the kid's happiness she cares about you and will probably do her best to make you happy as well she i am sure will learn how to balance it. Its not going to be easy for her too but with love and faith on both sides i am sure you guys will do just fine.

Thank u, I appreciate ur words of courage

[quote author=bukit05 post=29978067][/quote]bukit05 u did nt comment, u only quoted Nobody, may I ask what ur opinion is of d quote?

[quote author=superman01 post=29986434][/quote]Superman01 may I knw why u quoted Nobody? Wts ur opinion pls

nicerod:
i wsh 2 date a single mum cos i wnt 2 knw hw it feels like takin care of anoda man's baby

Lol... bt it's easier said/written than done
Believe me

All I read is people talking about "the child, the child, the child". Like the child is a 'god' of the relationship.
The child seems to matter more in the union than even the couples n if it b so then something is nt right. Don't the phrase let no man(child) put them asunder matter.

Raymondenyi:
If she's good n comppatible wt u; carry on; n b ready to treat d child like urs..

Can one truely treat what's not yours like it's yours 100%? What's ideal is different from what's real.

nicerod:
She told u y wori?
Get hold of her b4 u lose her,luv matas&b ready 2 bear d child's responsibily Gudluck

Thank u
Will u do same?

delishpot:
With this your idea, nna mehn just leave the babe. You cant cope with her having this mindset and you cant be a good father figure in this young childs life. If you see no reason why a step mother cant treat her step child like her own, why is the idea of treating your wifes child like yours hard?
Abeg, no need to make rub salt in that childs injury. He knows he was abandoned by his dad no need to rub it in. You cant cope, dont marry.

Thank you one more time

It´s a rough guide and you were warned

Mr Nobody, u seems to av disappeared. Bt u really make dz package fear me ooo. I no go lie

ronald4lif:
I see nothing wrong in marrying a single mom, if you love her why not. The only issue is why she kept it away from you for a long time. But maybe if she had open up at the initial stages you both may not have come this far. So I think you should go ahead with whatever future plans you had for her prior to this revelation.

But please if you are not ready to man up and treat her kid(s) like your own and is going to rub it on her face at any slightest argument you may as well let go of her

Thank you.
Is there anything manly about treating kids like my own when they actually aren't mine. Remember, The father who owns the child is nt even manly enough to accept what is his in the first place

unpredictedone:
what a test of love! prove it if you love her.

yes! Op prove it

Test of love? Humnnn...
I really love dz Lady bt I av nothing 2 prove. have u heard of letting some1 go if u truly love them?... dts with d dangers dt may occur if u let them stay.

delishpot:
As a guy, I think you have nothing to worry about sha is the child male or female? As long as you treat the child well, I see no reason why there will be any significant problem.

Treat the child well? I have no experience in that field, but seriously I feel somehow bad anytime she mentions the child. I Jst need to be truthful. Will the child even welcome me.
Nobody's post is revealing a lot.

Before me is a decision 2 marry or not marry a Single mom.

We'v been friends 4 about a yr
She has a child b4 nw.
The child has been with her parent all the while.

What am I likely to encounter if I go ahead?
Will u marry such Lady?

[quote']I don't know y a guy with a brain will take a girls matter so serious that he will even want a girl that has such issues. dude she's just a girl.['/quote]

Abeg help me tell dem boys, turn Mumu weakling @ the feet of women, especially beautiful ones... mehn she's Jst a girl

[quote']on a final note; A man who can look at a woman he has 'feelings' for and say 'go to hell' is a real man. such men r feared and respected by women.[/quote]Well written sir, a living experience, those who av nt attempted it can't relate.

6. Because In Islam, the quaran permits wife beating: Qur'an 4:34, Qur'an 38:41-44.

7. In Christianity, because the man is spiritually ignorant of d fact that he is beating himself, he and his wife is one flesh. Mark 10:8

englishmart:
[b]any of the comments you want to quote separately, just type

Wow!
Thanks 4 d education.
I appreciate.

englishmart:
God knows I will laugh at her and shout it loud "see blood stain on your clothe o... Pig




Have you stayed close to a lady that received PM? If not, how did you know they sighed on receiving it?



Tosyne. Lol I don't agree with you on this o.
First of all most guys will not be so daft as to offering to pay for what a strange lady buys from a mall. And even if such offers come through, only 2% of ladies will say NO!



I've removed all those ladies on my bbm and Facebook contact who don't reply my msgs.



I won't even be kind enough to ask if she's interested in any drink

englishmart,
Pls I need education.
How did u copy selected portions of d post and still pass comments on and between each one of them separately.
Your guidelines will be appreciated.
Thank you.

Ajibo111:
Balaclava,,,,even a fool by your name ,knows that you know nothing,,,#you have to take lessons on sentence construction and use of paragraph#dump head,,,,,,,,,who knows when you stop smoking expired local gin.

Ajibo111,
1. Sorry u got angry despite asking Man U fans not to.
2. If u dnt knw d meaning of Balaclava, simply check ur dictionary or take further English lesson beyond sentence construction n use of paragraphs. Ajibo111 mks little meaning to me, can't find it in a dictionary.
3. U need nt be abusive, if little things bother u dz much then u don't need to create a thread or comment on one.
4. Gin can't b smoked. Kindly get educated.

Whatever...
Ajibo111... Don't be angry after reading this, u need to take lessons on sentence construction and use of paragraphs.

Sex without consent is Rape

Bootybuttchic:
hmmmmnn so its now u knw gej is a human being........but when that pastor was praying for gej and his gangs and said God shld punish corrupt leaders,and they refused to not answer amen",and his aid came out and said its not presidential to say too much amen.......he wasnt human ba,he was a goat .......

I see no correlation with ur comment n my post. I c none @ all. Probably u misunderstood my drift

God is invisible, We honour God as a symbol of humility and submission when we kneel to pray, Wether directly by ourself or when prayed for by higher anointed authorities of God. Leaders in the Bible did it.

Though GEJ is a leader, he is still a human being, a pack of living sand, I dnt see him kneeling b4 Pst Adeboye, I c him kneeling b4 d President of president. Jehovah.

GEJ is a christian he can choose to kneel down.

Buhari is nt a Christian, I dnt expect him 2 kneel down.

Funeral Services Co. Thanks Smokers

Agbotoluwa:
Can someone help me with office address of CNSSL in ibadan and ilorin?

Km 4, International Media Center, Royal F.M Building, Oke-Odo, Tanke, Ilorin.

I am nt sure they av an Ibadan office. Kindly visit www.cnssl.net or www.cnsslccl.net

gratiaeo:
Awo betrayed the Igbos to please his slave masters, who later turned the heat on him. Northerner leaders’ve given prominent Yoruba men an overdose of humiliation that will last them a life time despite using them to fight the civil war.


Did Awo die a fulfilled man? NO ……the Hausa Fulani whose interest he severed during the civil war sent him to grave. Jakande was used by IBB to rope Awo into treasonable felony …Awo later committed suicide.

Did Abiola die a fulfilled man NO , his paddy paddy IBB messed him up big time, and he was later imprisoned, chained, tortured and later poisoned to death. Some top military officers watched his Compromizing Video with Kudurat while he was in prison, what a shame!!!. Northern military officers make mockery of his heavenly feeling groans. liking it to that of a sex starved ape, that is the height of humiliation, the Compromizing Video was circulated among Hausa officers and few Igbos. Abiola’s sex heavenly feeling groans was/is still a butt of joke on Yorubas. Kudurat was later slaughtered like a sallah ram.

Shenokan was humiliated out of office like a street tout after just 80 days in office.
Diya, Adisa, Olaruwaju was humiliated and thrown out of office like an
The list is endless Bola Ige and others

Do you even know the meaning of a "Fulfilled life"? If u do, u won't av dragged it in2 dz discourse.
Hw many Men in d whole world can boast of living such life? Believe me no Nigerian Politician has lived a fulfilled life. It may sound unbelievable though.
What about u historian, have u?
Think about it!

Darlene1:
And you think you're making sense with all these name callings??. What Vedd said is true and infact, you are a vagrant example of such people who incite people with unguarded utterances. If your mother has trained you well or at least had an opportunity of a Secondary School education, instead of being sent on the street to sell fake goods, you would have learnt enough to know that you don't stereotype a whole ethnic just to make a point of voting for jonathan. I have respect for Igbos for their creativity and hardwork but such statements like yours is enough case for me to despise you more.

Thank you for that Knowledgeable reply.
Now we know who is "Ignorant".
Salute!

A spiritual rebirth doesn't means d death of sexual urges, in fact any individual who doesn't av sexual urges needs special prayers

Sexual urges is very gd, Infact sexual urges was created by God who made d human body. I did nt c d Bible speaking against it.

Sexual urge though need 2 b controlled to avoid it's excesses leading to "allowed" sexual/immoral thoughts, Lust, Fornication, Adultery etc

But I kip under my body, n bring it into Subjection 1Cor 9:27a

He that hath no control over his own spirit is like a city dt is broken down and without a wall. Prov 25:28

A "Redeemed" should not visit a Runs gal 4 d following major reasons:
1 It's a Sin against God. Gen 39:9
2 it's a Sin againt his body. 1Cor 6:18
3 A miserable future life: Prov 6:26
4 Such will miss Eternity in heaven. 1Cor 6:9

Minor reasons may include guilt, STD/STI, emotional distress, low self esteem, depression, Divorce, Wasteful Spending etc

With personal experience, i'v got 2 knw dt days or weeks when my PERSONAL prayer n bible study life are below optimum, MY SEXUAL URGES BECOMES OPTIMUM, the flesh have more control, and once I power up these 2 aspects d sexual urges dies away.
I DNT DO ANYTHING 2 CONTROL THE URGE ON MY OWN. It's Jst giving in to more of God thru Prayer n Study. 4 me excess Sexual urges is a result of my deficient prayer n study life. Ur friend could aslo check or experiment with this.

He will succeed IJN

SegunFlames:
who cares?



- *in Adedayo516's voice*

Abi o....

Me can fit giv u 6 harmful effect of doing just anything. 6 harmful effects of drinking, saying 'who cares', eating, sleeping, reading, playing, cooking, working, dating... d list goes on

Abeg mk we dey live life dey go jeje

6 harmful effect of living life jeje... dt 1 sef dey.

Aigbofa:
Why is the body still intact on the ground? Perhaps another bomber attacked the procession.

Very brilliant observation.
Tot I was d only 1 dt saw dt.
Another Bomber actually carried out d deed.

Brother,

Dz kinda relationship does nt end well. 1 or 2 of u guys will surely get hurt @ last. She'll later stick 2 one of u n dt 1 may nt b u.

Don't even think on it, bt if u wnt 2, write down d positive things n d negative things bout d relationship (past, present n future), believe me, the negative will outweigh d positive.

What of the future, can u trust dz kinda gal with ur future marital plans. Will u b at peace when she travels or u travel?

To me i'll say u should respect urself n break up. if u dnt do it despite she now knows u are aware of her hidden sexlife... u r up 4 more ridicule. A total life of disrespect!

Break up d relationship, it's actually "getting rid of bad rubbish". u might get hurt in d beginning, Depending on hw much u'v invested in d relation, but time heals almost everything... u'll wanna thank me later cos dts wts honourable.

Despite our comments n advices, I know u'll end up doing wts on ur own mind.

Goodluck..... .... ..... .... .....Ebele Jonathan