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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Which Is The Toughest Job Aptitude Test U Ve Written. by balaclava: 1:27pm On Mar 27, 2015
Workforce online test for Sales Executive, Nigeria brewery 2015. Especially 3-6 window on Friday. Na die! I dey tell u...
RomanceRe: Girls And Their Leg Bending Posture by balaclava: 1:38pm On Mar 24, 2015
Dts wht i'm talking about

PoliticsRe: Look At What A Police Officer Did To This Guy Because Of Fuel Scarcity by balaclava: 5:10am On Mar 04, 2015
Nigeria police; the supposed protector of human rights are the ones that violate human rights the most. Beat, extort, arrest, kill and violate rights like they are "lefts"
No matter d error of this dude, must he be dragged in such manner.
A man and his wife was battered in Lagos for just saying the Light in d vehicle is okay that the pointed torch is not required, they almost lost their eyes.
A friend was @ a sharwama spot and this people just swarmed on them d next thing was beating, a night in the cell and parting away with about 25k for a supposed free bail for no cause.
When it's time for action, they runaway with cowardly tails between their legs. They say they don't have good guns like their ogas; the armed robbers... Thank God they have and know their ogas sha.
Won o ni fe kirun Lori express, wo ni fe fi ata gigun se tiro.
I so so dislike Nigerian police ehn... and that is with passion.
Though they know not what they do, We still show them Love, our Taxes still get their monthy salary and bonuses.
Bail is not free and Nigerian police is not your friend
#Truth be told
RomanceRe: She Is Madly In Love With Me But She Has A Daughter. Pls Advice by balaclava:
sagaciousblog:
Nairaland frustrating pple's life since 1800BC.. the op asked a simple question and u r here given 12 reasons he shudnt marry d girl...na ur papa go cum marry amhuh all ur senseless 12 facts are based on wat u think and not personal xperience..
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To d Op, if u love her, marry her jor!
I read dz ur comment a while ago bt decided not to respond. The decision to respond now is a personal experience I had yesterday of a Single Mum caught with d ex secretly while keeping another dude at hand for marriage
The dude loved dz woman but was messed up after this meeting. The guy was blinded by love but reality is a miracle worker, He has been healed completely.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 6:33am On Feb 26, 2015
hilaomo:
it is not by power might or strenght...its by GOD that showeth mercy!!!i go scale through this stage no matter what...SAME CONFIDENCE(GOD) I HAD BEFORE RECIEVING MY TEXT TODAY TELLS ME THAT...FOR YOUR INFO I JUST DEY LEARN,STARTED LAST SUNDAY WITH AUTO!WETIN BE YOUR OWN NO GO PASS YOU BY...I FOR YARN YOU 1 STORY BUT NO NEED.
Nice 1 bro!
Grace abounds
I know what u r talking about,
U need not tell me the story.
GOD WILL DO IT
RomanceRe: She Is Madly In Love With Me But She Has A Daughter. Pls Advice by balaclava: 11:56pm On Feb 21, 2015
Justfollowit:
Oh yeah thanks for dissuading the poor guy.

What you failed to consider when you were listing your negatives is that this life is NOTHING, it is very unpredictable, from my own little experience in life, because someone is not your friend, brother or related to you should not dissuade any reasonable human from rendering help and mercy if he is capable.

Because the difference between a stranger and a family member or friend is the bond and the blood you share. Other than that they are still human, that is they are capable of ruining, hating, hurting and disappointing you just like every human out there
With dues respect ma,

Every 1 is entitled 2 their individual opinion.
The guy actually asked for opinions n I gave mine, it's nt a must for him, you or any other person to accept it. Hasn't it even occurred 2 u dt ppl dnt even take advise this days. No matter ur opinion they end up doing what is in their mind wether good or bad.

U said life is NOTHING? I don't dispute dt cos that's ur opinion but haven't u read "is not LIFE greater in quality than food" Matt 6:25/AMP. If the food we attach importance to by eating 2, 3, 4 to 5 times a day is nt as important as life. Then you should know the obvious.

You made it look like i'm not rendering help to the dude, but reverse is actually the case. Go online, you'll read a lot of testimonies from devastated men who attempted relationship with Single Mum. I'm nt saying there r no few cases of success, please note dt. But it's 5 out of hundred.

For the remaining part of what u wrote, I seem not to get it.

Let there b Light!
RomanceRe: She Is Madly In Love With Me But She Has A Daughter. Pls Advice by balaclava: 9:02pm On Feb 21, 2015
7. You will never really be accepted. I have observed time and time again the heartbreak of a step parent as the child gets older. After putting them through school, providing a place to live, food, getting the child all kinds of gifts and honestly really caring about the child. The time comes for a grad or a wedding, the child invites mom and dad to the party; and thanks them for all their love and work. Usually there is not even an acknowledgment of effort.
 
8. You will have no time for errors. A lot of single men get involved with the single mom and her kids when the child is a bit older. Being inexperienced with children becomes a huge burden as the single man has no time to learn parenting skills; and mistakes are not readily forgiven nor forgotten when a kid is 4 compared to 14.
 
9. You may think it ends, but it never does. I know many men whose single mom wife promised them a completely different life after junior turned 18 or so. At the beginning of the relationship it looked like just a few years and then total privacy and freedom. but it never does.
 
10. You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren etc. As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice.
 
11. The legalities can kill you. There have been numerous cases where a man has divorced or left a single mom and then found himself liable financially for her child. Although not the father he will be responsible for child payments, extra fees and most certainly university far after they are 18 check the laws out, it´s a raw deal. Couple that with some alimony and child abuse claims you get the whole effect of being a divorced and homeless dad with not one child of your own.
 
12. In the end women have asked for their freedom to make their own choices now for decades. I would advise all single men to let single moms make their choice of having a child by themselves and then live with it. Don´t involve yourself with these women under any circumstances. It can be in many ways, the death of a man.
 
Well it´s a rough guide and you were warned
RomanceRe: She Is Madly In Love With Me But She Has A Daughter. Pls Advice by balaclava: 9:01pm On Feb 21, 2015
Here is a short list of problems you may encounter but not limited to these

1. Being a "partner" means you get to pay for half- if not more: I have seen men putting money away for college for a kid that´s not his. Buying ridiculous amounts of brand name clothes, expensive homes etc all in an effort to be in a so-called "family".
 
2. The Family you just got into is by invitation only: In being a step- parent you are not the basic unit. The mother and child together are the basic unit. No matter what is said or mentioned before marriage, you will never come before her child. You will always be in a family and relationship where you come second, maybe third.
 
3. No matter what you think her ex is going to be there forever: In just about every case the child´s father does not seem to be in the picture during the dating and courtship stage but seems to suddenly show up after. Just about every time you will be dragged into the endless bickering and fights they have and you will not be liked by him "its only natural remember"
 
4. Her kid will most likely not like you very much. Let´s face it you´re sleeping with their mom and most of the time the child will see you as a roadblock to his parents getting back together. Most likely the mom has made you the giver of discipline in the relationship, being the man and all which results in the kid hating you.
 
5. All that time you had together with your new love will end after marriage. The number one job of a single mom is simply to be a mom. She is not a party girl, hiker, camper, biker, clubber etc. Just be prepared for a frontal assault on your time and money after marriage. You will find your weekdays taken up with homework, PTA meetings, suppers at home, and early bed times. Weekends will be the time for the child´s extra-curricular activities and other activities
 
6. You will wonder what happened to all your money. Most men involved with a single mom report that their money seems to dry up. Children are expensive and expensive like most men have no idea. Between school supplies, clothing, vast amounts of food, babysitters if you ever want to go out, medications, fees, sports, supplies, toys and such; well, there will be little left.
RomanceRe: She Is Madly In Love With Me But She Has A Daughter. Pls Advice by balaclava: 9:00pm On Feb 21, 2015
For me, it's a NO! And I'm going 2 give the cold hard facts to you comprehensively.

Contrary to popular media-myth I have yet to meet a single mom who was career driven, carefree, balanced, happy; doing it all type gal as often portrayed in most media outlets. The reality I have seen over the years is usually a stressed out, overworked, debt stricken woman who really had no idea children cost so much in time, effort and money. Their careers are on hold as they need to balance their child with sickness, school activities etc versus moving up whatever career ladder they are on. Most single moms are raising their children with help of an extended family member (usually their mom), a bevy of friends and other single moms they find in support groups. It is usually not a pretty picture at all.

Somewhere along the way, usually quite quickly they come up with the idea that they need a "partner" to help them in their new enterprise of having a child and the sooner they can get one the better. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner.

One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated that single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc they seem to be ideal mates.

No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.
RomanceRe: 8 Signs Of A Husband Material by balaclava: 2:30pm On Feb 19, 2015
Husband materials are mostly Ankara and they come with 12 yards. 6 for them the other 6 for u. They always av u in mind.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 9:13pm On Feb 13, 2015
Rich4god:
Those guys driving white hilus distributing drinks... The are the sales executive. Met with one of them last week, said the job is cool, kinda stressful depending on your location. Though he said that they are still on training so their target for now is 40 crates per day... Thats 200 crates per week. You got to knw the nook and cranny of your location to be really successful.
Na so the thing dey go?
Na wa oo. Na him dem wan finish person with "Na Die" question for 3-6pm windows?
Workforce... una really mean am
Work na by force
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 9:05pm On Feb 13, 2015
Elmaximilliano:
You go dey sell beer grin
I don laff die.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 9:00pm On Feb 13, 2015
naira0:
U actually had time to screenshot? Mayb u wrote as a spectator. Lol
No hard feelings o
Ko si ogbon to le da, Ko si iwa to le hu, Ko si ona to le lo, to le fi te aye lorun o.
Ready;
No wisdom, no action, and way of man can really make him appreciated by humans.

You need not have hard feelings. Rock don't need 2 b hard, they are already hard.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Got This? Workforce Nigeria Brewery by balaclava: 8:43pm On Feb 12, 2015
chachazzy:
Omo!!! The test no be beans oo, e hard die! Chai!!
Ahahahahahahahahahaha

Na God sure pass
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 8:37pm On Feb 12, 2015
unofficial:
how was ithuh? na critical reasoning full my own,,,just 3maths questions, i wish i had more maths
Mathematician!
Wa Shere. Na u b d nxt Sales executive NBPLC. U go sabi calculate money
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Got This? Workforce Nigeria Brewery by balaclava: 2:44pm On Feb 12, 2015
This is the summary of the test:
A total of 20 questions for 20 minutes.
A long passage designed to waste ur time. The questions were designed in a way dt u willl need to re-read d passage.
Some synonyms and antonyms, few analogies, numerical n logical reasonings.

#Testimonies
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Free Workforce Past Question And Answer by balaclava: 2:43pm On Feb 12, 2015
This is the summary of the test:
A total of 20 questions for 20 minutes.
A long passage designed to waste ur time. The questions were designed in a way dt u willl need to re-read d passage.
Some synonyms and antonyms, few analogies, numerical n logical reasonings.

#Testimonies
PoliticsRe: Did Pastor Adeboye Intentionally Did This To Jonathan? by balaclava: 9:28pm On Feb 11, 2015
kestolove95:
Why kneelin down for human like u?..is he God?...
Because we r not all anointing mate.
Because we r not all power mate.
Beacuse we r not all grace mate.
Because we r not all age mates
Dts Y pupils all stand n greet when teachers come in to class.
Dts y a sergent stands and salute a General.
Dts y other Boko harams cover their face n kip quiet when Shekau is making a video.
Dts y u prostrate/kneel 4 ur father and elders.

All dz despite they are humans like they r.

tongue
PoliticsRe: Did Pastor Adeboye Intentionally Did This To Jonathan? by balaclava: 8:03pm On Feb 11, 2015
This is a serious matter o, whichever way u look @ it, the left hand is never positive spiritually. Sincerely. There is something unusual about this. Could Jonathan be Saul?

Good observation OP. Dts if there is no credits to photoshop
FamilyRe: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by balaclava: 7:48pm On Feb 11, 2015
This is when couples know what the pastor really meant when he said "For better for worse". Theory is now practical!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Free Workforce Past Question And Answer by balaclava: 2:51pm On Feb 11, 2015
[quote author=tope24 post=30632584][/quote]Seen,

Thanx, God go meet ur needs too.

See u @ d topmost top

#SkyskrapperMode
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Free Workforce Past Question And Answer by balaclava: 2:40pm On Feb 11, 2015
tope24

Abeg help send to oluwasolo@gmail.com

God bless
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Free Workforce Past Question And Answer by balaclava: 1:46pm On Feb 11, 2015
Ultimate54
Abeg abeg abeg, help send to this oluwasolo@gmail.com
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 10:11am On Feb 11, 2015
Busbar:
I pray God will favour us all in jesus name
Yea and Amen

Bt next time "Jesus" in Capital letter, abeg
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 7:29am On Feb 11, 2015
chukux2:
Stop panicking and go and read your normal gmat/shl. It'll be mainly verbal reasoning, quantitative reasoning, abstract reasoning and maybe just a little of current affairs and sales questions. Check my profile and click "Send E-Mail Message To chukux2" and I'll immediately forward you a soft copy of GMAT 2008. Good luck!
Boss, abeg u, na oluwasolo@gmail.com be me own o. E go better 4 u
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Sales Executive Recruitment 2015 by balaclava: 7:26am On Feb 11, 2015
POPSDADMA:
Pls I need d workforce past questions.
tundepopoola@gmail.com
Tunde Oluwaseun Popoola?
RomanceRe: Is This Girl A Scam Or Really A Born Again? by balaclava: 10:19am On Feb 04, 2015
nedu2000:
You never know gals,I've had a brief r/ship with a gal who read her bible after pre-marital sex
Lol,
Knew a girl that does it while fasting, before or after reading morning devotions n her bible sef.
I weak mahn
CelebritiesRe: OMG! Captured Jordanian Pilot Burnt Alive In A Cage By ISIS See Pics by balaclava: 10:08am On Feb 04, 2015
laykorn:
Hehehhe. Yeah, muslims killed him.
Just ask yourself why your muslim neighbour hasn't put you in your dog cage, and burn you and take a footage. Use your senses!

Ayamlaykorn
Na babalawo kill am?
Na christian kill am?
Answer this mahn.
As a matter of fact with event to back it up, northern muslims are always nursing death opportunities against their neighbours from other religion(keferi), once the opportunity comes they without hesitation lead pack of "Allah akbar" chanting demon possesed muslims to slaughter their neighbour who they were gisting with a day before.

I just can't but wonder.

#Fact #Truth #Original #You Know
PoliticsRe: Politician Beheaded And Cooked For Committing Adultery (graphic Photo) by balaclava:
asadike:
Dis is terrible! The anger of a jealous husband has no limit
32But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself.
33 Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away.
34 For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury,and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.
35 He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.
Proverbs 6:32-35
RomanceRe: 10 Reasons Women Stick With Men That Beat Them... No 9 Will shock You! by balaclava: 8:46am On Jan 22, 2015
No!

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