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Dantepet3000:
Distance kept her miles away from her husband for months, she used to be a friend back in the university days. Have always been attracted to her coz she is dangerously beautiful. We hooked up in the town she hustles. Was aware she was married.Am Single. Controlled our Body contact at first but after weeks we grew fund of each other. We found ourselves alone in the apartment before u know it I started touching her, she did not stop me, I went further to UnCloth her, yet she did not say a word I kissed her thighs but on going further, we both asked ourselves, are we doing the right thing? The guilt staired at us before we started the main thing and immediately we stopped. No penetration.
The question proper now is "did we commit adultery? If yes, does repentance involve confessing to the husband apart from confessing to God?

Nedfed:
We both live in the same estate, her husband worked with a private company in Abeokuta while we live in Ikeja
For the past 3 days now she as being bringing me food cos she no am a bachelor and she do come to my apartment at times to play cheese and ludo.
The way she dress must time shows what she want and it also seems am having an affection towards her also.
Shud I go ahead?
Kindly advice

FreeSpirited:
Not anyone of course, she must be desirable and attractive enough for me. You can't force or extract loyalty from any human, much less for women. Humans free agent with ability to change and decide how they are lead their lives per time

skywalker240:
Wow, she must have been a great choper of a large numbers of igbo dicks to have come to this stupid conclusion.

trevormide:
I urgently need advice to rescue my elder sister from the torture that she is receiving from her husband.

My elder sister is still young. She is 24. She is just 1 year older than me. Growing up, we have always watched each other backs. She got married about 2-3 years ago. The man is in his late 30s. Almost 40 years. She now lives in Port Harcourt with the husband. I had an interview in PH this week and my sister asked me to stay with them. I arrived on Wednesday. Everywhere was peaceful. Or so it seemed. I slept on Wednesday, woke on Thursday morning. That morning, the man was walking up and down with only white pant as if he did not know that there was a visitor in the house. The thing in his pant was like they put 4 fufu inside the pant. The thing was just excess. I ignored the man's stupidity and went for my interview. I came back in the evening and my sister and her 2 years old son were home. The husband did not come back till 9pm. When he came to greet me, he had alcohol all over his breath.

Later that night, I was awoken by screaming. I quickly got out from my room. My sister was screaming ah ah ah ah uh uh uh ah ah ah uhhhhh ahhhhh. The man was just fxcking her anyhow. Their door was locked. I went back to my room. I could not sleep. The screaming continued for almost 1 hour. When everywhere became quite I tried to sleep but sleep did not come until about 4am.

After sleeping for a short time, I was awoken again by another round of screams. I checked my time. It was around 5.30am. My sister was screaming again. She screamed till about 6am. I was angry. I felt sorry for her. I said I will talk to her once she comes out from the room and check her face for bruises.

When she came out later, I saw her in the kitchen, she was just laughing and playing like mumu. I asked her if she's fine, she said yes. I kept quiet so as not to rush into hasty conclusion.

Last night again was worse. I was hearing kpa kpa kpa kpa, the stupid guy was slamming her and she was going ah ah ah uh uh uh like 3 times last night.

I am leaving today. I have made up my mind that I will talk to our family about it. She needs help. She needs to be rescued from the torture she is facing almost daily.

Anyone with mature advice on how to rescue my sister can guide me. I am open to suggestions. Thanks

luminouz:
Did u read at all?
Or the fact that she actively fvcks other men is lost on u?
Which suitors did she turn away then?

justmenoni:



Ftc for the second time since 2011, would have been three if not for the ban on travel section


All those jubilating after been Ftc, do you all get paid or what Orisirisi

T3ndrils:
Niqq... the moment the girl cheated on the guy, she lost every reason to vex... would you have allowed him to marry a slut, or would you even like to marry one?... i think not dude. She should have comported herself based on the fact that she ll soon become someone's wife.. but the b!tch didn't..

Leilah:
what would you do/how would you feel if your wife drinks alcoholic drinks??

tommyken:
Yes I did....

Jokerman:
1 cheating = 1000 forgiveness

Jokerman:
Sorry I'm a Christian. Can't sleep with another man's sweat

GrabHisBalls:
She lacks wisdom. Why fix your wedding on the same day your masters exam is to take place? I am sure she didn't read for the exam and will go there looking for who to copy from.

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear. I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.
Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.
My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.
My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.
Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

masternoble:
I have thought about all these. But how should i end the relationship peacefully without hurting her emotionally, because she was emotionally down before we started dating and I was the one that brightened her mood. Even all my attempts to call it quit so far, she still don't want to give up on me.

Jokerman:
Most female bankers are cheats

Jokerman:
I know it's a huge decision... But when death comes calling, it doesn't care about considerations o... And the partner goes and heals through... Same can be said for divorce... Cheating is the worst thing ever just after death

UAE123:
The lawyers that are representing Atiku at the election petition tribunal should be ashamed of themselves for not getting their facts right before pursuing the server issues

bendike:
If they were married women and you knowingly slept with them, my brother I am sorry to say you have taken a loan to be paid some day. The vicious circle continues. Even if you marry a nun she will be bleeped by another man. It's strange but jut khama.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?