₦airaland Forum

Guess you are dating an Herbalist

And do you know what will happen in 10 years time?
Guess you see yourself as a loser already

Vikkoh:
Who is this unknown idiot?
She is successful while you stay in your Father's Hut to cook with Firewood.
FYI You can't make it like she has.
PEACE!!

It was the government that told the Idiot to put his vehicle on the road or the person recording cant call or alert the necessary authorities?
Always blaming the government for everything

Odugwunwoke:
Jesus Christ

This is so wrong, how can Nigeria Government allow this to happen. Am so disappointed in Nigeria

I dont know much & i dont think i do advise people on marriage but i think begging is where you got it wrong.
Never you beg a woman unless you know you are truely at fault over something magnanimous

pappy2000:
I used to think marriage should be full of bliss. I have begged and begged her. but its all falling on deaf ears

I did hurt some people too and I realized thats just the way life is.
Better to just keep your emotions in check so it wont get trampled on.
You have the nose of Funmi Martins i may be wrong tho

purples25:
thats sad. Well, casing is the best place for a heart cuz most other people are heartless.

Infact it was played with by Steve Curry and Ronaldo but wetin concern me?
After letting her fool herself i collected and put it back inside its casing.

purples25:




stop laffing, im sure yours was used to play basketball and football

They used your heart to play lawn tennis too?

purples25:


this is just so familiar, its funny.

Pls say something else

Thisis2raw:
OK at least he has known the difference between a civilian govt and a military own.
Till tomorrow GEJ is the best president

My point is that dreads is not part of our way of life and that is why people castigate it.
Like they say "when you are in rome behave like the romans''

midnighter:
He is not saying he will not live with it, he is asking why there is a negative attitude towards it in our society

It's easy to tell somebody to go ahead and "live with it" without minding what people will say, what of all the scorn, embarrassment, harassment and lost opportunities that will come of that decision?

My own is that it's not an unreasonable question to ask if it's what's bothering him

My bad that i didnt get to notice it was in the "fashion section"
From your illustration, the OP shoudn't be concerned the way people perceive someone on dreadlocks.
I am just saying "'do want you want to do and live with it"

midnighter:
You can't just reduce all issues to "what has that got to do with the country progressing".

This is a relevant issue to the poster and he opened it in the "fashion section". If someone opens up a debate about a social topic, is that not dialogue and therefore progress?

Must we talk about kainji dam every day?

No.1 Can you marry someone going to a white garment church with dreads?
No.2 Is dreadlocks a Nigerian thing?
No.3 If your teenage child decide to be on dreads will you allow him/her?

Not saying dreads is a bad thing tho but people with dreads are associated with so many bad things in Nigeria
1. Chronic Weed Smokers
2. Internet Fraudster especially the ones with tattoos
3. White garment church member(which some people have phobia for)
4. A Lunatic
5. People that are not responsible cos its going to be hard getting a white collar job on dreads.

The problem with Nigerians is that we dont copy positive things from the western world only thing that is of no value or meaningful importance, if majority of Nigerians have phobia or dislike for people with dreads what has that got to do with the country progressing?
The reason i love Asian is that they dont allow the western way of life interfere with their culture and beliefs, its only here in Africa we allow bullshit.

africandictator:
Hello Nairalanders, I have been searching for reasons why most Nigerians have a phobia and dislike for boys and men with dreadlocks and I can’t find any credible reason.

Their reasons are senseless and baseless, most Nigerians tend to vilify boys and men with dreadlocks because for some people, dreads hairstyle doers can be very terrifying and they are adjudged to be criminals which is not always true.

In this part, I think it is a crime for a man to pursue happiness.. Nigerians have failed to take into consideration the dynamism in fashion because I wondered why the dread hairstyles where not present in the days of our fathers but the Afro hairstyle was appreciated and considered responsible during that era.

Our ethical compass as a nation have been destroyed because in recent times we have seen people under the guise of sheep and heavenly clothing commit grievous crimes.

Nigerian Parents who have lost their youths should allow the current youth to live theirs. fashion is dynamic and dreads are natural and beautiful... In fact dreads are africanlike, because they defined our appearance and blackness during ancient times as they added to our aesthetic value.

Nairalanders! let us begin to accept people with dreadlocks and see them as civil and normal citizens.. stop the stereotyping..

Spiritual aspect apart, which doctor diagnosed her of malaria?
She only assumed that its malaria, alot of illness have synonymous symptoms.

Freemanbobble:
Shut up spiritual man

We all believe in mysticism, spiritism and diabolism in this part of the world
Always go for check up regularly
Africans are a disgrace
And Nigerians are cursed

Go back and revise your economics textbook, especially the Demand & Supply topic, after assimilating well, come back and change the rubbish you wrote.
People with knowledge knows border closure is a good development.

kingadex:
You Need Wisdom, Do you know how much they are selling ordinary tiger head battery now? If you want to buy our local vegetable, they will tell you border is closed manage it as it is.... Masses are suffering from the closure of border

Stop feeling yourself I just dont have the time to reply you

NtoAkwaIbom:
says who?
what promoted you to 8nsult me in the first place...
you throw a stone at me, and i will shoot a nuke at you..

we stay cool as long as no one throws anything at the other...when i go dirty i take the clothes n gloves out and go bare knuckles and i draw blood... so if u wont go the distant then dont draw first blood...

my signature is meant as a caveat emptor, so u dont complain later n cry fowl.. u ask for it, you get all of it.

I know you dont have home training so i will pass

NtoAkwaIbom:
ur callinn ur dadd a nuisance..
ur momm and dadd r both nuisance and even inflicted a greater nuisance on mankind by coupling togeda to birth a dumbbb and imbecilic nuisance of your grade..

Go and sleep

Nuisance

NtoAkwaIbom:
you know the best thing in putting out a wrong fire?
its a wet blanket, you trow it over a fire and it stems it from spreading to other things...

And what has been your contribution to the continent? Only come online to complain, you know what they call your type? Wet blanket.

NtoAkwaIbom:
Sufficing we keep on paying foreign companies to build our roads and rails, build our ports... export geavy duty vehicle to us to use in the manufacturing processes here.... we will continue to be a developing nation that will never reach its potential...
to be fully self reliant, we need to develop technologically and scientufically to really be able to talk of hoping to develop...
all the engines in all the cars in nigeria are all imported, forget that innoson talks...
india was the poverty central in the world until it began puting in some technological time, now it can send rockets to the moon, and exports most of tge Keke we have today..

China, Russia, and the west exploit africans on always exporting tech and the manpower to enforce it, our own is to go abd beg people to come and do things for us... ours is really a lazy and shitty country or should i say lazy and shitty continent?

It's just an anxiety disorder and it could happen to anyone after a traumatic experience.
Stop making everything religious

darol4real:
Deliverance is the way out

Then you shouldnt talk about Nigeria if it isnt your country, dont poke nose into our affairs.
Go get a bricklaying job at the mexican border wall site.

gypsey:
Which my own country? You think i was born in Nigeria? what a wrong conclusion..


Nigeria is still a shithole.



And oh! I like Trump.

What i will like to tell you is stop cursing your own country?
Trump that said that to yours will never say that to his, even if some Americans dont like him.

gypsey:
Thank you! Anything else reasonable you would like to Add?

I dislike when derogatory terms are used on the country...like saying shithole cos an american said it(majority are still slaves) and even if the police took her, does that mean it was an arrest? Do you know maybe they were trying to save her from unforeseen attacks by fellow students.
You people always feel you are smarter than the people in the system, yet they are in the system and you guys are not.

bbstarr:
Try to get your facts right before using derogatory words on a fellow human being. The lady was arrested today by policemen.

You are the dumb one, where did you read she was arrested by the police? Your brain is the shithole

gypsey:
Mermaid my butt, And the dumb Nigerian police felt the need to Arrest a so called mermaid.






Nigeria is a shithole.

Now i see why any reasonable right-thinking focused guy will want to end up with a garbage.
Spits....

Fountainofyouth:
Struggling to succeed in life has nothing to do with dating, didn't mean to be harsh though.

So guys living there arent humans or lady dating them are hermaphrodites?
May God forgive you.
Later you will come online & give us sermon about how one guy is using your heart to play snake and ladder.
Rubbish

Fountainofyouth:
Why would a lady date a guy living in a face me I face you?

You will have to go to heaven to get that

Rukkydelta:
I want to have all

I want a rich cute guy that is funny and romantic

And who told you them that they own the land?
All natural entities land(with the resources in it), water bodies etcs are govt controlled.
So if they like they should frustrate the efforts of the govt in creating infrastructures that will easy access to that region and enhance jobs creation, growth & development, you are taking about collecting little change that will end up in the hands of ogogoro sellers.
Through Nairaland I have now realized the average Nigerian Intelligence quotient.
Ibo people just like shooting themselves in the foot.
Nonsense

mrvitalis:
Lol u expect Igbo man to give u his land for free ?

Which government takes peoples land without compensation ?

That might be their only land ...we don't have luxury of land like west or north

Who ever told buhari and APC that threats moves an Igbo man is lying to him .,...the more u threaten n intimidate the more determine the Igbo man become .

If u can't compensate the land owners leave the bridge

Its Tema and Alimosho Local Govt

Just30:
Lagos should be comparing itself with Tema

Be deceiving yourself,you should be comparing Ghana to Lagos not Nigeria.

psychologygh:
****

When Ghana locked just 400 Nigerian shops in a town in Kumasi alone,your government and trade unions were organizing protest at the ECOWAS office crying xenophobia and free trade buh you're here shouting Giant of Africa because you have unilaterally closed your borders to starve yourselves to death. GUTA had always hated you since Kwame Nkrumah and you have foolishly gave them a chance to eliminate you from Ghana. For your information millions of Nigerians live in Ghana and do trade of imports and exports. GUTA was the one who locked all your shops in Kumasi. Now tell me,Ghana exports goods worth just 80 million dollars to Nigeria for a country who exports 17 billion dollars worth of goods outside, less than 0.5% goes to Nigeria buh Nigeria exports goods worth 303 million dollars to Ghana in a year.If Ghana bans your goods,tell me who loses more.The minister is just a diplomat who knows how ugly it will be if Ghana retaliates so she's going diplomatic first to tell you to comply ECOWAS protocols .Warning to your country if you refuse her diplomatic settlement. Ghana never needs Nigeria.

Your Omega Beam is so on point

Darkseid:
For the many years that I've been using online media, I've noticed that most ladies are not interested in intelligent conversations; speaking from my own experience. Most prefer small talks and naughty conversations, and I'm usually not interested in that so I do end things pretty fast.
Asking most females intelligent questions makes them bored and they usually don't have anything to ask in return so the conversation tends to be like an interview.
You see, a conversation is meant to be a two way thing, if I ask how your day went, you reply with details and then ask me about mine, then from the details we both gave, more topics would spring out, but if I ask how your day went and you tell me "fine", it puts a stop to everything.
I don't use Facebook, Twitter etc and I only manage to open my whatsapp few times a day and one thing I do now to both guys and ladies is if I ask you a question, you reply with one closed ended word, I won't send another message ever.
PS - that's just me and my experiences, not generalising

Pain who?
If you are actually intelligent you will know its a typo error.
Guess Im talking with a toddler
Now Bleep off Pipsqueak

adecz:
E pain am!!


"... . more what your generations...."


See fake English from a half educated
arbokki on social media.

You are free to comment on
shoe shining or maiguard affairs,
not on national or regional socioeconomic
& political matters.

Kuturu!!

Sorry Sir i didnt know you work in the intelligence community.
Dont let your hatred destroy your soul.
The only thing people like you always result to is insult cos you have nothing meaniful in that mucus you call brain.
The half educated Aboki has achieved more what your generations can ever think of in your miserable existence.
Nonsense.

adecz:
Can you even make sense of
what you have written?

Must you comment & expose your
ignorance?

So you think BH & Fulani kidnappers
use the official border crossings or
that they are based abroad?

It is animals like you that believe BH
has been "technically defeated"./

A half educated aboki coming to
comment on international trade & regional
economic / security policies.

Never use your leprous, kuturu fingers
to quote me again.... Wawa, munafiki

Most likely those guys were doing illegal activities i.e cyber theft, gun running, oil theft....etc

uboma:
The reason for the deporting them was not stated.